My friend is prettier than me but shy.She is easy and I am not like that. I like our guy friend and she stole him from me. Same thing with our other guy friend. I met this guy and she went off to make out with his friend then came and stole the guy i was talking to..
1. What should I do?
2. how can I meet a guy with out her being there as in where are good places to go alone and meet guys?
3. How can i not be 2nd best with guys?My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
This is something that frequently happens. It is sad to say that your friend is an asshole, and you should stop being friends with her right away. You say she is ';easy'; but being easy is not good. Because guys just want to have sex with easy girls, and no strings attached. So the question is, do you want a guy who just wants you for sex? Or a serious relationship?
I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I really think that you should stop being with your friend, if she steals guys from you. That is a very backstabbing thing to do, and she won't stop unless you try to be upfront about it. So basically, just be yourself. You don't have to be second best but I guarentee that your friend will keep on doing this so please talk to her!My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
You need to step up and take control, quit being the push over. I mean how is your SHY friend beating you to the punch? She may be ';prettier'; but that usually doesn't win it for most guys, you have to show interest. As far as those guys getting back with their exes, oh well, not your fault and it happens very often. If you like a guy, go for it before you're at the end of the line.
firstly, get a new friend
secondly, just be yourself and you'll find a guy that likes you for you, one that won't see you as '2nd best'...i know it might seem like it's taking a while, but wouldn't a real nice guy be worth the wait?
and seriously, ditch the friend, cuz she ain't really being a friend by doing what she's doing...i know, i've been there
The important thing is that you recognize how this girl is not truly being your friend. You need to break away from someone who is willing to step all over you to get who she wants.
A real friend, wouldn't even LOOK at your love interest.
They cannot be stolen unless they want to be so it's not all her fault. For whatever reason they seem to like her better. When you find someone you like and he cannot be ';stolen'; then there is your man.
When they see her for the flirt she really is, you'll be number 1.
The simple answer is......don't hang out with your friend so much. Be an individual sometimes. Let your friend do what she does and she will eventually get smutted out by so many guys that she will be branded for life. Your problem sounds like you let your ';shy'; friend dominate you. And besides, she can't ';steal'; any guy from you. If he runs to her then he was never your guy. These are guys you like but haven't actually gotten together with. So they are still free to do what they please. Just get away from this girl and continue to meet people in places you feel comfortable.
Your best friend seems to think you both are in competition for the guys. Have you tried talking to her, letting her know how you feel about this? Is she even aware she's viewing you as a rival for all the guys' affections?
I think the best thing to do to get guys interested in you, be yourself. Anyways, all the guys she ';stole'; probably weren't worth it anyways, it sounds like all they want is a piece of a$$ and she's available and easy for it.
Don't worry, one day soon you'll come across a guy that is into you only, and no amount of flirting by your best friend will make him change his mind that he wants YOU over her.
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