Guys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?

he just told me yesterday that he likes me. he told me a couple days ago that we should just be friends but then he told me that he just wasn't sure. we flirt alot and hug and text all teh time. i know that he could be the perfect bf for me. how do i kinda help him ask me out?


how do i bring it upGuys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
how about you ask him out....Guys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
well it seems like he really likes you he's probably just to afraid right now to make a move maybe show some signs or give him some kind of clue that your interested in him.try asking him if he wants to hang out or if he wants to go somewhere with you.
if like you he will ask you. dont force someone into a relationship. he knws hw u feel and maybe its mutual. jus come out and ask him whats up with him.
i don't think you should because he doesn't seem 100% committed to the idea of being with you, or he is really young and feels scared to express his feelings to you.





either way, act cool and sweet and distant until he figures it out.





and keep other options open.
It seems like he might be scared to take your relationship to the next level because he is having fun the way things are and he doesn't want to screw that up. If I were you I would play it cool and let him make up his mind.
Have you thought about trying to ask him out? Maybe he doesn't wanna mess up your friendship by asking you out, so maybe you should show him that you are interested in him as more than a friend.
Instead of helping him ask you out, why don't YOU ask him out? I don't quite understand why women must feel as if the man is the one who has all the control.


If you two joke around a lot, and if you're really outgoing, I think he might like it if you asked him out really 'formally', flowers and all. You'd be surprised how many guys would appreciate that kind of thing.
Help him ask you out? if you want to go out with him you gotta ask him. The actual question is why do YOU girls do that? always expecting the guy to make the first move?





On the other hand, if he actually told you he likes you then changed his mind saying he wants just to be friends. Then he's either a confused kid Or he's just playing around with you to keep all of his options on the table. But maybe I misunderstood that part.





Anyhow, this is a very common question, especially from people in college/highschool, and it's simple, just go ask them out, what's the worst that can happen? rejection? it's not that bad, and if he's an asshole about it, well, GREAT! at least you know you shouldn't be wasting any more time on him.
LEAVE IT ALONE.. THE MORE TIME YOU PUT INTO YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT HIM THE MORE YOU GET DRAWN INTO HIM.. IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL ASK YOU OUT.. IF YOU ASK HIM HE MIGHT NOT REALLY LIKE YOU BUT FEEL OBLIGATED..
the best way is probably to ask him what do u think about us and see what he says.
tell him you like him back, thats what he wants to hear, he wants to be certain before asking
You could tell him your confused on why he said that he likes you, but why he said he just wanted to be friends. Or you could just send him a naked picture of yourself.
you cannot help him ask you out.. he has to want it for himself. good luck. =)
Ask him if he want's to hang out after school or hang with him @ lunch and ask him out.