I have very strong feelings for my best friend and he knows it. When I approached him about it he says he needs to feel it in his heart. Whatever that means?
Anyway just trying to set the scene. The thing is that was a few weeks ago we had this conversation about how I felt about him and wasn't too sure if I could have him hanging around esp if I needed to move on and he is now talking about us going on holiday together, we've been away a few times together and each time it brings us closer together and then after a few weeks when we get back he seems to not pull away, but more a case of settled that we only see each other at the weekends.
A big part of me wants to go away with him, but I need him to understand things can't go on the way they are and I need to try and move on but it's breaking my heart staying or leaving him.
Do you think this guy is messing with my head and using me until something better comes along? Should I be strong and not go on hol ?Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
Maybe you're too intense - be casual and mysterious go with him and have fun if you're really keen on him. Keep your options open. Good luck.Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
yes he is messing with ur head
He is messing with your head otherwise he would of already asked you out, or at least made moves to show that he wants you as a steady girl, not just a ';when we are alone'; hook-up.
At the same time, he may also care too much about ruining a friendship (especially best friends) by getting into a relationship which can complicate things. But, I think, a guy and a girl who are best friends would make a better relationship b/c they enjoy their company.
You need to say, ';Do you want to be with me or not?'; And if he gives you any answer besides a definitive ';Yes'; then you
need to consider dating other people until he knows he wants you.
You poured your heart out but he doesn't feel the same. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you do about them. It is probally best to move on, if he is not the right guy then getting yourself closer will only make things harder. On the otherhand if time and space is what he needs to work out how he really feels, give it to him. Let him chase you for a change.
May be he is as confused as you are.try being not available all the time s...let him yearn a bit.you cant make anyone fall in love it just happens SO IF IT HAS TO IT WOULD DONT FORCE THINGS THERES ALwAYS A CORRECT TIME FOR EVERYTHING%26gt;JUST CHILL
I think you should move on it's best for you since he knows your feelings and won't return them back. He might just be playing around w/ your mind.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
Let's start from the beginning. I'm a 20 year old guy living in Dubai. I was enrolled at the American University of Sharjah here, since 2006, and as it turned due to some problems, i could not achieve a certain GPA and was placed under acdemic probation. At this University, they have prob 1 and prob 2. If you fail to get out of prob 2 they dismiss you. So they made me sign this contract when i got into prob 2, which said clearly at the bottom, ';if you fail to achieve a GPA of 2.0, you will be unable to continue in the School of Business, at the American University of Sharjah';. I failed to achieve that GPA, and they sent me this letter stating that I will be unable to re-enroll at the American University of Sharjah, no matter what school i apply to. Can i still fight for my cause using the contract as a tool against them, and the reasons for my underachievement are problems that were unavoidable by me.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
I normally respond to questions asking for legal advice by suggesting some ways to contact a lawyer, since I have not yet taken the bar exam and cannot yet give legal advice. This is a tough one though. I'm not sure which law would govern the contract. It will probably say somewhere in the contract what law governs it (often local law, or US federal law, or frequently it is the law of the state of New York). You should contact a lawyer with expertise in the correct jurisdiction. Contract law is pretty basic, but there will be some interesting twists due to the fact that it is at a university and in a foreign country, but the school is american and you are of whatever nationality you are. You may want to try the American embassy. If you are not American, you may also want to try your embassy. You may want to try the State Bar Association in whatever state governs the contract, or you can try the American Bar Association. They might provide basic legal advice, but they can certainly direct you to a lawyer who can. I don't know much about the legal system in the UAE, so I don't know if there is any help for you there or if so, how to contact it. Your embassy will probably know about that though.
Good luck.
Edit: Rada's advice often works in the US. I don't know to what extent you can negotiate in Dubai or how it will effect your residential status if you aren't enrolled. Negotiation is usually a good idea, but I can't comment on how it will effect your legal status, only a lawyer with knowledge of the situation and the relevant law can do that.
Edit: Haz, basic contract law says that a contract is an enforceable promise. That is not just any old statement with a signature on it. There usually has to be something given up in return, but not always. It gets very complicated and depends on what jurisdiction's law governs. That's why nobody here can give you an answer, there are a lot of considerations on top of the basics and that requires a lawyer. Any lawyer could get in trouble with the bar association for trying to give you legal advice based just on this in Yahoo Answers because it cannot be done reliably. I'm sorry nobody here has been able to be more helpful. Good luck.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
You can apply but I wouldn't expect to be accepted. Even if the school concluded that the agreement didn't apply, your poor performane would exclude you at their discretion.
Contract law gives little ';wiggle'; room regarding GPA. what you need to do is go to a local college and only take a 1-2 classes that you feel you can do well and try and increase your GPA. Then re-apply.
I normally respond to questions asking for legal advice by suggesting some ways to contact a lawyer, since I have not yet taken the bar exam and cannot yet give legal advice. This is a tough one though. I'm not sure which law would govern the contract. It will probably say somewhere in the contract what law governs it (often local law, or US federal law, or frequently it is the law of the state of New York). You should contact a lawyer with expertise in the correct jurisdiction. Contract law is pretty basic, but there will be some interesting twists due to the fact that it is at a university and in a foreign country, but the school is american and you are of whatever nationality you are. You may want to try the American embassy. If you are not American, you may also want to try your embassy. You may want to try the State Bar Association in whatever state governs the contract, or you can try the American Bar Association. They might provide basic legal advice, but they can certainly direct you to a lawyer who can. I don't know much about the legal system in the UAE, so I don't know if there is any help for you there or if so, how to contact it. Your embassy will probably know about that though.
Good luck.
Edit: Rada's advice often works in the US. I don't know to what extent you can negotiate in Dubai or how it will effect your residential status if you aren't enrolled. Negotiation is usually a good idea, but I can't comment on how it will effect your legal status, only a lawyer with knowledge of the situation and the relevant law can do that.
Edit: Haz, basic contract law says that a contract is an enforceable promise. That is not just any old statement with a signature on it. There usually has to be something given up in return, but not always. It gets very complicated and depends on what jurisdiction's law governs. That's why nobody here can give you an answer, there are a lot of considerations on top of the basics and that requires a lawyer. Any lawyer could get in trouble with the bar association for trying to give you legal advice based just on this in Yahoo Answers because it cannot be done reliably. I'm sorry nobody here has been able to be more helpful. Good luck.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
You can apply but I wouldn't expect to be accepted. Even if the school concluded that the agreement didn't apply, your poor performane would exclude you at their discretion.
Contract law gives little ';wiggle'; room regarding GPA. what you need to do is go to a local college and only take a 1-2 classes that you feel you can do well and try and increase your GPA. Then re-apply.
Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I'm really shy.
I'll go an entire period (50 minutes) without saying anything to anyone.
I spend lunch in the restroom stall because I don't want to be in the and sit alone every day.
that's embarassing and it's hard to be in the middle of a crowd of friends/boyfriends and girlfriends while they're laughing and joking.
anyway, I confided in a teacher and asked her for advice.
she told me I could stay in her room during lunch.
she's head of drama club and two girls from her drama class came by.
I don't remember exactley what happen but basically the teacher said she'd be in her room if they needed something.
they asked her why she was staying in her room and she answered them that there was a girl who was really shy and she had been spending restroom in the restroom so the teacher let her stay in her room.
they said ';oh well she can eat lunch with us';
so I showed up and the teacher surpsied me and was like ';yeah, they're waiting for you in the cafeteria.';Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
Heyy! Well actually I exactly know how you feel. I was in my lunch table sitting with my friends and all of a sudden a teacher comes and tells us that she has a new friend. This boy who sat like a couple of tables away was being bullied by the people around him, but the teacher was just trying to be nice and help the kid out. When he went to sit at our table I noticed how the rest of my friends were trying to introduce themselves to him, but they were being pushy and the kid felt uncomfortable. I also welcomed him, but I just felt like you know he probably thinks that we kinda have to do this, but I really didnt want him to feel this way. So in my opinion is try to be more friendly and socialize with the people around you or talk to them. Im sure all they could say back is probably not a response at all. If you truly are yourself and stand up for what you believe Im sure you'll be fine. From wat you've written your not shy to me at all, your expressing your feelings and thats cool. Im a junior at my school and Im the junior president of the Drama Club and jsut because ur in it dosn't mean you can talk to other people or get to know those who are in other groups. Im in marching band and all this music stuff and you know wat I talk to ppl who are football players, cheerleaders or the people that truly stand out in the grade. So my advice for you is just be yourself and talk to some people, next time you see someone in the hallway say hi, or you know maybe in a class u can start by socializing more, and think about it, imagine if your a senior in high school and your lonely and dont have friends and is missing out on being with all the people in your grades for the past yrs. you probably wouldn't want to ask yourself what if? questions. So I really hope this advice helped or any of these words make sense, but I really tried.Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I think you have what they call social anxiety. Its treatable.
well they were probbably stuck up but he you need to let your guard down your way to shy and i thought i was shy.. you need to get mover it and start having a life.. talk to ppl somebody is bound to like you but you actually have to talk to ppl be4 that can happen
it sounds like you are afraid of being judged but you are judging people when you don't give them a chance to get to know you and assume they don't want you there. High school is hard and when your shy it's even worse. You can try to say hi in passing to a few people and smile if someone looks at you maybe if you give someone a chance they might be friends with you...good luck
There's nothing to hate about. It's all about communication, and it may be hard to accept that in order to transform from being ';stuck in the restroom'; to ';people meeting you all the time';, you may need to accept the fact that when people hate you, they may have a reason, and let them decide of what they think of you. Learn to accept that there are people who may hate you, and there is actually no reason to hate people.
If there is anything to hate, say the reason/s in a calm, reasonable manner, and let the person you hate to talk to realize what he or she can do better to improve himself or herself.
U can't expect to receive something if u don't give something back!
Every relationship, be it with friendship, family or with bf-gf thing, it goes two-ways....
LOVE .....so u will be loved.....
BE FRIENDLY .....so someone will be friendly to u.....
Be open, be true..... someone will definitely like u!
It's time to get out of ur shell!!
And about the B*I*A*T*C*H .... don't waste ur time thinking about her, it won't do u anything good .
Good luck girl!!
I know why you are in the drama club so that you can be less shy right? I advise you to look for someone with common interest with you. I have half the similar experience as you had. Being shy procrastinates the opportunity thus, your time is wasted. If you can't help it, go to a guidance counselor to help you.
Being shy is nothing to be ashamed of. A lot of people are shy. Just be yourself. Find a crowd or friends that you fit in with. Be friendly and try to over come being as shy as you are. You'll be surprised as to how quickly you find your place. Good luck.
Holy crap! I thought I was shy at that age.
Here's a Q: for you: are you miserable? I'm guessing you are, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this A: So, you're damned if you do (hide) and you're damned if you don't. The difference is hiding will get you nowhere, and trying to mingle will lead you to a better place. Do this: mingle, disregard what everybody else thinks, say whatever you think. Sure, there will be some (shallow) people who will probably hate and ridicule you, but there will be some who will think you're pretty cool. You need at least one friend, or you will go crazy. You have to be yourself and show yourself or no one will know who you are. If you try to fake who you are, any friends that you might make will not really be friends with you; they will be friends with who you aren't. Lastly, I'll leave you with this quote: '; Before I turned 20, I worried about what other people thought of me. When I reached my 40's, I didn't give a damn what other people thought of me. Finally, when I reached my 60's, I realized, nobody was thinking of me in the first place.'; You don't have to wait until you're that old to take these lessons to heart. What other people think of you has absolutely no effect on who you really are. Using their opinions is a terrible way to measure your self-worth. Bust out of your shell. Life is better out here. Start living. Take risks; it's a blast. Facing, and overcoming your fear is one of the best and most exciting feelings there is. Waste no time. Peace.
Auditorium
Do you have one
um..just go to the libraray during ur lunch
and next semester talk to some new people in your new classes and sit lunch with them.
find friends who share ur intrest(iwus the same way then i started a video game club at my new skool amd made good frends
( i am aware of all my mistakes)
You are a beautiful person, no one knows it yet.
Being in the drama club helps alot.
If you have any skill in anything (like math or english) try and talk to other people that share your interests
Are you new to that school? Most of the time new people have trouble fitting in. I bet you have at least 5 classes a day, and there are around 20 people in each class so you should know at least 100 people (by ';know'; I mean you can recognize them and they can recognize you). So during lunch just walk over to one of them that you had a conversation or two and just ask, ';Can I sit with you guys?'; I am positive they'll say yes and then talk about anything, just anything: a movie you watched last, a fashion show, book etc.
Don't worry about those 'popular'; ones, they're just gonna end up bums in the street after hight school.
Good luck.
i hear you, during my highschool life i've bounced around schools and i'm really shy. For the first month at my last school i wished so desperately there was no lunch period because i would just walk around aimlessly through the grounds alone. i know exactly how you feel about not wanting to force your presence on them or make them feel sorry for you, when in reality you don't even want to hang out with them, just don't want to be alone. I finally got up the courage to make a little small talk with a group of guys i felt had the same interests as me. I walked up to the wall where they kick it at and said whatsup, introduced myself and asked a bit about them. They didn't really have the same ideas or ethics as me but they were cool and i hung out with them for the rest of the year. If they're cheerleaders i wouldn't waste your time with them, assuming they are the normal, stereotypical cheerleaders. I can tell from your writing you're intellegent and insightful and almost everyone in highschool is caught up in being popular. Vanity is their sin. My advice is to look for a group of girls that look like they have the same interests and values as you, muster up the courage and go sit with them. If you have classes with any of them, talk with them and see what they're like before you go and sit with them. It will help enormously if you have talked with one of them before you sit at their table so the rest of the table doesn't think you're a complete nobody. Whatever happens don't let them get you down. if you have any other questions i'd be glad to help you as i have been in the situation you are in and know how alienated you are feeling.
best of luck.
You got issues!Tuffn up and be your self who cares what other people think, stuff them!
i had the same problem,but eventually outgrew it ....u wont have to deal with these people forever...and you can eat lunch where you want to...
Sometimes i feel the sam way. don't worry. Things will work out. No offence, but you will find someone like you to hang out with. Thats what happened with me. Sorry with the teacher.
Oh im so sorry!!!
Well, what you can do is maybe sit somewhere more noticeable, such as the hallway or somewhere and someone will come sit by you. Also, if you know of any youth groups you can possibly go to a couple. Youth group kids seem to be more open to outsiders. Im an outsider at school most of the time, but at youth group, i have all my best friends. Try it.
I will pray that things turn out for you Chica.
God Bless!
you just need to open up more, sit w/ other ppl. make new friends.
Sweetie I understand being shy. I was terribly shy in school too. No one who knows me today would ever guess that! Trust me, I've learned the way to make a friend is to first make a connection, to make a connection you have to, ok here is the hard part, t-a-l-k to someone. Just kind of start a light conversation. Sometimes it's easiest if you ask a person a question. Not a yes or no question, but ask them their recommendation, opinion about something. Something and then listen, comment about what they have said so that they know you were paying attention. oh and look at them when your talking to them and while they are speaking to you. Don't look at your feet. Not making eye contact is rude. While your at it shoot them a smile add a joke or a giggle. After the question, thank them and if they don't ask you a question, say well I'll see you later and be on your way. Don't just stand there. Both of you will feel awkward. You have to speak to people ... make it a habit and practice where ever you go. Talk to the clerk at the grocery store, the 7-11, make a joke with one of your teachers, always wave and say hello to your neighbors, the more you do this the easier it gets, Trust me I know exactly the pain your feeling. It will get better.
I'm sorry I really do understand what u mean, I'm shy myself. If don't want 2 be there leave. The teacher can not force u 2 stay. Well try and be friends with the girls who invited u and don't like the other girls get 2 u. Your in a club that's so cool. Just start talking 2 some girls or ask when ur going a play if they want 2 work together.
i had this problem at the beginning of my freshman year. i started the 1st semester eating lunch in my english teachers class room. i broke out of this by making friends with people in my classes, and then just started eating lunch with them everyonce in a while, gradually increasing it to every day (but i also ate with 3 or 4 different groups)
I'll go an entire period (50 minutes) without saying anything to anyone.
I spend lunch in the restroom stall because I don't want to be in the and sit alone every day.
that's embarassing and it's hard to be in the middle of a crowd of friends/boyfriends and girlfriends while they're laughing and joking.
anyway, I confided in a teacher and asked her for advice.
she told me I could stay in her room during lunch.
she's head of drama club and two girls from her drama class came by.
I don't remember exactley what happen but basically the teacher said she'd be in her room if they needed something.
they asked her why she was staying in her room and she answered them that there was a girl who was really shy and she had been spending restroom in the restroom so the teacher let her stay in her room.
they said ';oh well she can eat lunch with us';
so I showed up and the teacher surpsied me and was like ';yeah, they're waiting for you in the cafeteria.';Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
Heyy! Well actually I exactly know how you feel. I was in my lunch table sitting with my friends and all of a sudden a teacher comes and tells us that she has a new friend. This boy who sat like a couple of tables away was being bullied by the people around him, but the teacher was just trying to be nice and help the kid out. When he went to sit at our table I noticed how the rest of my friends were trying to introduce themselves to him, but they were being pushy and the kid felt uncomfortable. I also welcomed him, but I just felt like you know he probably thinks that we kinda have to do this, but I really didnt want him to feel this way. So in my opinion is try to be more friendly and socialize with the people around you or talk to them. Im sure all they could say back is probably not a response at all. If you truly are yourself and stand up for what you believe Im sure you'll be fine. From wat you've written your not shy to me at all, your expressing your feelings and thats cool. Im a junior at my school and Im the junior president of the Drama Club and jsut because ur in it dosn't mean you can talk to other people or get to know those who are in other groups. Im in marching band and all this music stuff and you know wat I talk to ppl who are football players, cheerleaders or the people that truly stand out in the grade. So my advice for you is just be yourself and talk to some people, next time you see someone in the hallway say hi, or you know maybe in a class u can start by socializing more, and think about it, imagine if your a senior in high school and your lonely and dont have friends and is missing out on being with all the people in your grades for the past yrs. you probably wouldn't want to ask yourself what if? questions. So I really hope this advice helped or any of these words make sense, but I really tried.Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I think you have what they call social anxiety. Its treatable.
well they were probbably stuck up but he you need to let your guard down your way to shy and i thought i was shy.. you need to get mover it and start having a life.. talk to ppl somebody is bound to like you but you actually have to talk to ppl be4 that can happen
it sounds like you are afraid of being judged but you are judging people when you don't give them a chance to get to know you and assume they don't want you there. High school is hard and when your shy it's even worse. You can try to say hi in passing to a few people and smile if someone looks at you maybe if you give someone a chance they might be friends with you...good luck
There's nothing to hate about. It's all about communication, and it may be hard to accept that in order to transform from being ';stuck in the restroom'; to ';people meeting you all the time';, you may need to accept the fact that when people hate you, they may have a reason, and let them decide of what they think of you. Learn to accept that there are people who may hate you, and there is actually no reason to hate people.
If there is anything to hate, say the reason/s in a calm, reasonable manner, and let the person you hate to talk to realize what he or she can do better to improve himself or herself.
U can't expect to receive something if u don't give something back!
Every relationship, be it with friendship, family or with bf-gf thing, it goes two-ways....
LOVE .....so u will be loved.....
BE FRIENDLY .....so someone will be friendly to u.....
Be open, be true..... someone will definitely like u!
It's time to get out of ur shell!!
And about the B*I*A*T*C*H .... don't waste ur time thinking about her, it won't do u anything good .
Good luck girl!!
I know why you are in the drama club so that you can be less shy right? I advise you to look for someone with common interest with you. I have half the similar experience as you had. Being shy procrastinates the opportunity thus, your time is wasted. If you can't help it, go to a guidance counselor to help you.
Being shy is nothing to be ashamed of. A lot of people are shy. Just be yourself. Find a crowd or friends that you fit in with. Be friendly and try to over come being as shy as you are. You'll be surprised as to how quickly you find your place. Good luck.
Holy crap! I thought I was shy at that age.
Here's a Q: for you: are you miserable? I'm guessing you are, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this A: So, you're damned if you do (hide) and you're damned if you don't. The difference is hiding will get you nowhere, and trying to mingle will lead you to a better place. Do this: mingle, disregard what everybody else thinks, say whatever you think. Sure, there will be some (shallow) people who will probably hate and ridicule you, but there will be some who will think you're pretty cool. You need at least one friend, or you will go crazy. You have to be yourself and show yourself or no one will know who you are. If you try to fake who you are, any friends that you might make will not really be friends with you; they will be friends with who you aren't. Lastly, I'll leave you with this quote: '; Before I turned 20, I worried about what other people thought of me. When I reached my 40's, I didn't give a damn what other people thought of me. Finally, when I reached my 60's, I realized, nobody was thinking of me in the first place.'; You don't have to wait until you're that old to take these lessons to heart. What other people think of you has absolutely no effect on who you really are. Using their opinions is a terrible way to measure your self-worth. Bust out of your shell. Life is better out here. Start living. Take risks; it's a blast. Facing, and overcoming your fear is one of the best and most exciting feelings there is. Waste no time. Peace.
Auditorium
Do you have one
um..just go to the libraray during ur lunch
and next semester talk to some new people in your new classes and sit lunch with them.
find friends who share ur intrest(iwus the same way then i started a video game club at my new skool amd made good frends
( i am aware of all my mistakes)
You are a beautiful person, no one knows it yet.
Being in the drama club helps alot.
If you have any skill in anything (like math or english) try and talk to other people that share your interests
Are you new to that school? Most of the time new people have trouble fitting in. I bet you have at least 5 classes a day, and there are around 20 people in each class so you should know at least 100 people (by ';know'; I mean you can recognize them and they can recognize you). So during lunch just walk over to one of them that you had a conversation or two and just ask, ';Can I sit with you guys?'; I am positive they'll say yes and then talk about anything, just anything: a movie you watched last, a fashion show, book etc.
Don't worry about those 'popular'; ones, they're just gonna end up bums in the street after hight school.
Good luck.
i hear you, during my highschool life i've bounced around schools and i'm really shy. For the first month at my last school i wished so desperately there was no lunch period because i would just walk around aimlessly through the grounds alone. i know exactly how you feel about not wanting to force your presence on them or make them feel sorry for you, when in reality you don't even want to hang out with them, just don't want to be alone. I finally got up the courage to make a little small talk with a group of guys i felt had the same interests as me. I walked up to the wall where they kick it at and said whatsup, introduced myself and asked a bit about them. They didn't really have the same ideas or ethics as me but they were cool and i hung out with them for the rest of the year. If they're cheerleaders i wouldn't waste your time with them, assuming they are the normal, stereotypical cheerleaders. I can tell from your writing you're intellegent and insightful and almost everyone in highschool is caught up in being popular. Vanity is their sin. My advice is to look for a group of girls that look like they have the same interests and values as you, muster up the courage and go sit with them. If you have classes with any of them, talk with them and see what they're like before you go and sit with them. It will help enormously if you have talked with one of them before you sit at their table so the rest of the table doesn't think you're a complete nobody. Whatever happens don't let them get you down. if you have any other questions i'd be glad to help you as i have been in the situation you are in and know how alienated you are feeling.
best of luck.
You got issues!Tuffn up and be your self who cares what other people think, stuff them!
i had the same problem,but eventually outgrew it ....u wont have to deal with these people forever...and you can eat lunch where you want to...
Sometimes i feel the sam way. don't worry. Things will work out. No offence, but you will find someone like you to hang out with. Thats what happened with me. Sorry with the teacher.
Oh im so sorry!!!
Well, what you can do is maybe sit somewhere more noticeable, such as the hallway or somewhere and someone will come sit by you. Also, if you know of any youth groups you can possibly go to a couple. Youth group kids seem to be more open to outsiders. Im an outsider at school most of the time, but at youth group, i have all my best friends. Try it.
I will pray that things turn out for you Chica.
God Bless!
you just need to open up more, sit w/ other ppl. make new friends.
Sweetie I understand being shy. I was terribly shy in school too. No one who knows me today would ever guess that! Trust me, I've learned the way to make a friend is to first make a connection, to make a connection you have to, ok here is the hard part, t-a-l-k to someone. Just kind of start a light conversation. Sometimes it's easiest if you ask a person a question. Not a yes or no question, but ask them their recommendation, opinion about something. Something and then listen, comment about what they have said so that they know you were paying attention. oh and look at them when your talking to them and while they are speaking to you. Don't look at your feet. Not making eye contact is rude. While your at it shoot them a smile add a joke or a giggle. After the question, thank them and if they don't ask you a question, say well I'll see you later and be on your way. Don't just stand there. Both of you will feel awkward. You have to speak to people ... make it a habit and practice where ever you go. Talk to the clerk at the grocery store, the 7-11, make a joke with one of your teachers, always wave and say hello to your neighbors, the more you do this the easier it gets, Trust me I know exactly the pain your feeling. It will get better.
I'm sorry I really do understand what u mean, I'm shy myself. If don't want 2 be there leave. The teacher can not force u 2 stay. Well try and be friends with the girls who invited u and don't like the other girls get 2 u. Your in a club that's so cool. Just start talking 2 some girls or ask when ur going a play if they want 2 work together.
i had this problem at the beginning of my freshman year. i started the 1st semester eating lunch in my english teachers class room. i broke out of this by making friends with people in my classes, and then just started eating lunch with them everyonce in a while, gradually increasing it to every day (but i also ate with 3 or 4 different groups)
Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
What do i do? am i suppose to just wait for him? HELP?
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
You listened to your little cousin for advice, oh dear. Do you really think a boy who has gone to all that trouble would have cared what you looked like. No way.
It's a bit late now, but what you should have done, is sent the all knowing lil cousin out to talk to him, while you got yourself all prettied up, or at least clean. I mean, after all his arrival was totally out of the blue. He'd have waited for you I'm sure.
But the problem now is, how do you get in touch with him. I'm sorry I'm at a loss to help you there. What you do need to do, in case he doesn't try again, is get on the phone, and ask as many people as you know, if they know Jason.
Do you even know his last name? Check the phone book if you do.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
well maybe you should make the next move? maybe tell him something like you were helping your elderly neighbor. just a little white lie so you dont have to tell him that you were all hott and sweatty. or maybe if he is really accepting then maybe just tell him what happened. but maybe you should just show up at his house, yes it's rude. but i have a saying. you never know what could of been, if you never took the risk. (:
look him up on the phone book..go through ur year book find out who he used to hang out with contact them..maybe they will know
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
You listened to your little cousin for advice, oh dear. Do you really think a boy who has gone to all that trouble would have cared what you looked like. No way.
It's a bit late now, but what you should have done, is sent the all knowing lil cousin out to talk to him, while you got yourself all prettied up, or at least clean. I mean, after all his arrival was totally out of the blue. He'd have waited for you I'm sure.
But the problem now is, how do you get in touch with him. I'm sorry I'm at a loss to help you there. What you do need to do, in case he doesn't try again, is get on the phone, and ask as many people as you know, if they know Jason.
Do you even know his last name? Check the phone book if you do.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
well maybe you should make the next move? maybe tell him something like you were helping your elderly neighbor. just a little white lie so you dont have to tell him that you were all hott and sweatty. or maybe if he is really accepting then maybe just tell him what happened. but maybe you should just show up at his house, yes it's rude. but i have a saying. you never know what could of been, if you never took the risk. (:
look him up on the phone book..go through ur year book find out who he used to hang out with contact them..maybe they will know
Girls and guys...can you give me some advice?
ok so theres this guy that i like, but my friend also likes him, and she told me that, but i haven't told her that i like him too. I'm 15 and hes 19 and the other girl that likes him is 16. but he's not like a normal guy. Hes really nice and senitive and funny and cute. He does yet doesnt act like a normal 19 year old. I've known him for a couple of months, and even in that short of time, were good friends. we talk/text every day. But the other girl that likes him told him and he said that he wanted to wait and get to know her better. Hes not the type of guy to right out say i dont like you, but i dont think hes the type that'll rush into anything either. What should i do? GUYS if you were the guy, what would you want? should i tell him i like him, leave it be, or just flirt?Girls and guys...can you give me some advice?
I would say continue the friendship and see how it goes. In the long run it'll work out better.Girls and guys...can you give me some advice?
Well im same age as you and male, if i were him i would go for the girl with the best personality and the one who doesnt flirt sure a guy likes to be flirted with but if you don't flirt he might see that GOOD feature in you and think uyour not the type of girl who just flirts all day with everyone. Just be yourself. =D
Good Luck =)
xx Hope i helped.
First let me say that NO GUY IS EVER EVER EVER EVER worth loosing a friend over, its not worth it no guy is ever worth that and i think the fact that he is 19 and is texting 15 year old girls is not cute.. i dont think he is worth it, just leave it be unless he engages you about it first
can i have both ?
if i am like 19 means i have lots of energies for u both in any way u want
well basically my suggestion would be fight for it
show some signs if u know any
keep flirting .... and other craps
'; telling him is not really a good way to go with ';acne treatment
I would say continue the friendship and see how it goes. In the long run it'll work out better.Girls and guys...can you give me some advice?
Well im same age as you and male, if i were him i would go for the girl with the best personality and the one who doesnt flirt sure a guy likes to be flirted with but if you don't flirt he might see that GOOD feature in you and think uyour not the type of girl who just flirts all day with everyone. Just be yourself. =D
Good Luck =)
xx Hope i helped.
First let me say that NO GUY IS EVER EVER EVER EVER worth loosing a friend over, its not worth it no guy is ever worth that and i think the fact that he is 19 and is texting 15 year old girls is not cute.. i dont think he is worth it, just leave it be unless he engages you about it first
can i have both ?
if i am like 19 means i have lots of energies for u both in any way u want
well basically my suggestion would be fight for it
show some signs if u know any
keep flirting .... and other craps
'; telling him is not really a good way to go with ';
Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
I found in my 39 y.o. husbands computer's that he was looking at the www.worldsexguide.com- the web site, which is as I found is web site which for hook ups all over the world and locally and also describes places you can find a hookers all over the world! He said he was just looking and never cheated on me....?! Why then even to look? We are married for 3,5 years, i am 30 y. o. and very attractive...I AM CONFUSED...i am hurt.... DO THE ALL MEN CHEAT? Should i leave him? was his act Innocent...I am lost....Pls tell ur man's point of view. thanks to all Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
all guys watch porn and go to porn sites, but that doesn't mean we cheat, this is our nature, so don't worry.
will it hurt you if you watch porn with him?...z
Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
We fantasize.
It is what we do.
We enjoy viewing sex acts.
We enjoy reading about sexual activity.
Deep down we all want to be the porn star we all wished we were when we were young and attractive.
It does NOT mean we will all stray.
It does NOT mean we will all leave our partners and have affairs.
All I have typed above is how I feel....as a 40 y/o.
I love my partner, and I will never stray......but I look at porn ';meeting'; sites. I do so in front of my partner. She knows I will never stray. She trusts me.
Can you trust your husband?
If you can't, then you are half way to divorce.
Please do not get yourself all upset. Its a minor issue.
As much as possible, marriage is for keeps. You do not leave your husband over such a minor infraction. Is your husband unkind to you? Does he beat you? Does he not support you financially and physically? If not, you are nowhere near the need to consider divorce?
You should give your trust to him unless and until you have good solid proof of his sleeping with some other woman. Focus on his good points. Enjoy his company. Be kind to him. Take care of his needs. He would have less tendency to stray from you.
Don't you ever stoll down the street and look in the shop windows.... of course you arent interested in actually buying that silly looking puppy.. but it is quite cute... just tap on the window and see if it jumps up and down.. awwwh look, it's lil tail is wagging.... oh well. Better get home I guess.
Your husband is simply day dreaming on line.
He may perform better in bed now that he can look at porn.
Unless he physically cheats, not to worry. Make sure you keep yourself attractive and not let yourself go.
almost all guys wil look at stuff like that.it doesn't mean he is cheating.
Ted B's answer is the closest....
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this
assuming he's not a complete a*s, guys will always be looking but it doesnt mean that he's doing anything.
there are some guys that for sport alone will try to get every woman they can. for the most part though, unless he's very unhappy in the marriage he probably isnt seriously seeking outside satisfaction. you know him and your situation so thats for you to determine.
dont be afraid to ask him about it and talk to him about it. if you do it in a confrontational way though he'll probably get defensive but you must let him know you are not ok with him looking at hookup sites. ask how he would react if it was you doing it.
if he was cheating and was forced to choose between you or his side dish, who would he choose? probably you, so between you and some stupid website his choice would be even more clear.
all guys watch porn and go to porn sites, but that doesn't mean we cheat, this is our nature, so don't worry.
will it hurt you if you watch porn with him?...z
Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
We fantasize.
It is what we do.
We enjoy viewing sex acts.
We enjoy reading about sexual activity.
Deep down we all want to be the porn star we all wished we were when we were young and attractive.
It does NOT mean we will all stray.
It does NOT mean we will all leave our partners and have affairs.
All I have typed above is how I feel....as a 40 y/o.
I love my partner, and I will never stray......but I look at porn ';meeting'; sites. I do so in front of my partner. She knows I will never stray. She trusts me.
Can you trust your husband?
If you can't, then you are half way to divorce.
Please do not get yourself all upset. Its a minor issue.
As much as possible, marriage is for keeps. You do not leave your husband over such a minor infraction. Is your husband unkind to you? Does he beat you? Does he not support you financially and physically? If not, you are nowhere near the need to consider divorce?
You should give your trust to him unless and until you have good solid proof of his sleeping with some other woman. Focus on his good points. Enjoy his company. Be kind to him. Take care of his needs. He would have less tendency to stray from you.
Don't you ever stoll down the street and look in the shop windows.... of course you arent interested in actually buying that silly looking puppy.. but it is quite cute... just tap on the window and see if it jumps up and down.. awwwh look, it's lil tail is wagging.... oh well. Better get home I guess.
Your husband is simply day dreaming on line.
He may perform better in bed now that he can look at porn.
Unless he physically cheats, not to worry. Make sure you keep yourself attractive and not let yourself go.
almost all guys wil look at stuff like that.it doesn't mean he is cheating.
Ted B's answer is the closest....
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this
assuming he's not a complete a*s, guys will always be looking but it doesnt mean that he's doing anything.
there are some guys that for sport alone will try to get every woman they can. for the most part though, unless he's very unhappy in the marriage he probably isnt seriously seeking outside satisfaction. you know him and your situation so thats for you to determine.
dont be afraid to ask him about it and talk to him about it. if you do it in a confrontational way though he'll probably get defensive but you must let him know you are not ok with him looking at hookup sites. ask how he would react if it was you doing it.
if he was cheating and was forced to choose between you or his side dish, who would he choose? probably you, so between you and some stupid website his choice would be even more clear.
Ok guys i really desperately need sum advice. 10 points best answer.?
ok so my bf has totally been ignoring me all summer. so today i sent him a message saying: what do you hate me or sumthing? u hve been ignoring me for like 2 months.
his reply'; sorry ive been busy
wht shuld i reply to that?? also i kno for a fact hes been messging my friend all summer and he hasnt mssged me ONCE.
so any ideas on what i can say? ur help is greatly appreciated so thanx in advanceOk guys i really desperately need sum advice. 10 points best answer.?
You should say. ';:goodbye and good luck';....he's moving on! Doesn't seem he cared too much to spend time letting you know, so don't put too much energy into letting him know.
You will find better! It's a big world out there!
his reply'; sorry ive been busy
wht shuld i reply to that?? also i kno for a fact hes been messging my friend all summer and he hasnt mssged me ONCE.
so any ideas on what i can say? ur help is greatly appreciated so thanx in advanceOk guys i really desperately need sum advice. 10 points best answer.?
You should say. ';:goodbye and good luck';....he's moving on! Doesn't seem he cared too much to spend time letting you know, so don't put too much energy into letting him know.
You will find better! It's a big world out there!
Help GUYS AND GIRLS NEED OPINOINS AND ADVICE?
I have these new cute as heck, Candies underwear, its skinnyer in the front were my trimmed hair down there does peak out, but I have tried shaving for a month with nothing but irritation and I dont wanna leave me deliccate skin to chance, and have no money for a brazilian and don't feel adequate to waxing it at home, its my delicate skin.. so even though this underwear is skinnier on the sides in the fron tif my hair is trimmed down beautifully is it ok if the hair sticks out on the sides?Help GUYS AND GIRLS NEED OPINOINS AND ADVICE?
you should get a bikini wax and its not like anyone wants to see there anywayHelp GUYS AND GIRLS NEED OPINOINS AND ADVICE?
Thats nasty. NO, DO NOT LET IT STICK OUT!
Buy a Norelco electric trimmer and get rid of that wool. Keep it trimmed. Its basic hygiene girl!
Then, go to Victoria's Secret and buy some real skibbies.
If you can't afford them...........get back to me............I'll send you a credit for some.
Yeah, you'll need to shave it. Try taking a hot shower first, and using shaving cream designed for sensitive skin.
it will be kinda weird
can u trim that part too?
but i suppose it'll b okay
ask ur bf
you should get a bikini wax and its not like anyone wants to see there anywayHelp GUYS AND GIRLS NEED OPINOINS AND ADVICE?
Thats nasty. NO, DO NOT LET IT STICK OUT!
Buy a Norelco electric trimmer and get rid of that wool. Keep it trimmed. Its basic hygiene girl!
Then, go to Victoria's Secret and buy some real skibbies.
If you can't afford them...........get back to me............I'll send you a credit for some.
Yeah, you'll need to shave it. Try taking a hot shower first, and using shaving cream designed for sensitive skin.
it will be kinda weird
can u trim that part too?
but i suppose it'll b okay
ask ur bf
I need hair advice!! im running out of hair ideas!! guys apresheatted!!
i need new hair ideas i only have a few i need sum really cool 1s b4 skool starts on wednzday!! plez help me out!!I need hair advice!! im running out of hair ideas!! guys apresheatted!!
you do a lot of a number of things:
straight
side pony tail http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/sp鈥?/a> standard pony tail
you could also scrunch it(if you know what that is)
curly
hope this helps
I need hair advice!! im running out of hair ideas!! guys apresheatted!!
alright idk if u have already tried this b4 but ......
ok if u have grown out bangs, gather som to the front and then pull them back. twist them twice and then push them up to give them a little puff. now clip them in place with a barrete or bobby pins.
if u wanna try sumthin different..after u pin it up pull ur hair into a high ponytail or into 2 side braids
hope i helped!
http://h1.ripway.com/barbiexboness/fmed.鈥?/a>
clcik on female and it'll take you to a link and then click on short medium or long. its got a lot of really awesome styles!! well i hope you find something. good luck!
You could have the bangs that sweep over one of your eyes.
You could straighten, or curl your har. Maybe even get it wavy.
You could get a bob, or a length that barley touches your shoulders.
you do a lot of a number of things:
straight
side pony tail http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/sp鈥?/a> standard pony tail
you could also scrunch it(if you know what that is)
curly
hope this helps
I need hair advice!! im running out of hair ideas!! guys apresheatted!!
alright idk if u have already tried this b4 but ......
ok if u have grown out bangs, gather som to the front and then pull them back. twist them twice and then push them up to give them a little puff. now clip them in place with a barrete or bobby pins.
if u wanna try sumthin different..after u pin it up pull ur hair into a high ponytail or into 2 side braids
hope i helped!
http://h1.ripway.com/barbiexboness/fmed.鈥?/a>
clcik on female and it'll take you to a link and then click on short medium or long. its got a lot of really awesome styles!! well i hope you find something. good luck!
You could have the bangs that sweep over one of your eyes.
You could straighten, or curl your har. Maybe even get it wavy.
You could get a bob, or a length that barley touches your shoulders.
Who has really awesome guy advice?
ok i lik this guy whos year older than me and my friends told him i liked him cuz im to nervious to even talk to him and now hes totally igoring me im sad any advise??!Who has really awesome guy advice?
i was kinda going through this before, he just feels akward now because he may not like you YET and he doesnt want it to be weird between you two now that he knows.
oh, and a blitz is a verizon phone!Who has really awesome guy advice?
well first, sending your friends was a horrible idea.
would you like him to think your not strong and confident and have the guts enough to tell him yourself.
%26amp;%26amp; yes, he might have rejected you the best way he can.
sadly, he does not like you.
Maybe he thinks that you are too imature because you didn't have the guts to tell him that you liked him yourself...
or he just doesn't want to talk to you because he's not into you.
Either he don't want u, or he feels the same way and just didn't know how to tell you. If you two were friends before then it's probably the same thing except more awkward.
If I am not worth the wooing, I am surely not worth the winning-
henry wadsworth longfellow
You should have told him...What if they told him something completely different than what you asked them to.
Friends do some strange things...
He is probably trying to reject you without hurting your feelings. Good luck.
i was kinda going through this before, he just feels akward now because he may not like you YET and he doesnt want it to be weird between you two now that he knows.
oh, and a blitz is a verizon phone!Who has really awesome guy advice?
well first, sending your friends was a horrible idea.
would you like him to think your not strong and confident and have the guts enough to tell him yourself.
%26amp;%26amp; yes, he might have rejected you the best way he can.
sadly, he does not like you.
Maybe he thinks that you are too imature because you didn't have the guts to tell him that you liked him yourself...
or he just doesn't want to talk to you because he's not into you.
Either he don't want u, or he feels the same way and just didn't know how to tell you. If you two were friends before then it's probably the same thing except more awkward.
If I am not worth the wooing, I am surely not worth the winning-
henry wadsworth longfellow
You should have told him...What if they told him something completely different than what you asked them to.
Friends do some strange things...
He is probably trying to reject you without hurting your feelings. Good luck.
Im really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
well im extremly!!! extremleyyy shy! so shy that i dont talk to anyone in school, even with my closest friends i hardly talk to them during school hours.i know its mostly cause im use to being alone and just being by myself, but there is a problem that has come up and its bothering me. well cause im so quiet i look or seem intimanading(sorry bout the spelling) and that as a very BAD negative effect on finding a boyfriend. im in no rush to find a boyfriend, i know all about focusing on grades and what not. but i get great grades, and i just want to slowly improve myself so that i can kinda tell the guys at my school and myself that im here and avablive and that outside of school im pretty talkitive. :O any advice is welcome, thank you so muchIm really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
Start off with just a simple smile (not a brightly lit grin). Anyone who talks to you or says anything to you...smile and answer. When walking through school...keep your head up, shoulders back and walk with confidence...or with a purpose. Next, join a school club. Going around by yourself is going to be a tough sell to get someone to talk to you if you haven't established that part just yet. But if you join a school club...Polynesian club, drama, or even a sport...that's a pretty good way of networking yourself. Outside of school...networking is important in getting a job so many people get to know you. In your case, it can be the same thing. Once you get to know your small group/club...others outside will hear about you as well.
Try that. If it doesn't work, try another club or sport.Im really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
well find ppl who share your interest and if ur talkative u could try to carry a conversation and u might gain confidence
good luck i was the same execpt i was looking for a gf
im exactly like u xP im pretty shy too... but i did improve xD uhmm, well, why not talk with ur friends? as if it was just u guys? tat way, ppl notice u more and mite want to talk and be friends with u xD
Wear more revealing and stylish clothing...
Okay....hmmm your kind of like me. Well I just moved here and I have no REAL friends, plus many kids and my class can't pronounce my name.
I think you should find some riddle, that even YOU don;t know the answer of, and then ask any one of the kids in your class. Your best friend, I guess. Tell her to pass it around. Soon the whole class will be buzzing, trying to find the answer. Most kids will come to you.. to ask questions. Don't be shy, smile and tell them. Decorate your locker and make sure people get glimpses of it. Show people you are reading these famous books.
What I'm saying is, show your personaliy.What are you, other then shy? Haha you can be anything!!!
I really hope I helped.
Salehaacne treatment
Start off with just a simple smile (not a brightly lit grin). Anyone who talks to you or says anything to you...smile and answer. When walking through school...keep your head up, shoulders back and walk with confidence...or with a purpose. Next, join a school club. Going around by yourself is going to be a tough sell to get someone to talk to you if you haven't established that part just yet. But if you join a school club...Polynesian club, drama, or even a sport...that's a pretty good way of networking yourself. Outside of school...networking is important in getting a job so many people get to know you. In your case, it can be the same thing. Once you get to know your small group/club...others outside will hear about you as well.
Try that. If it doesn't work, try another club or sport.Im really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
well find ppl who share your interest and if ur talkative u could try to carry a conversation and u might gain confidence
good luck i was the same execpt i was looking for a gf
im exactly like u xP im pretty shy too... but i did improve xD uhmm, well, why not talk with ur friends? as if it was just u guys? tat way, ppl notice u more and mite want to talk and be friends with u xD
Wear more revealing and stylish clothing...
Okay....hmmm your kind of like me. Well I just moved here and I have no REAL friends, plus many kids and my class can't pronounce my name.
I think you should find some riddle, that even YOU don;t know the answer of, and then ask any one of the kids in your class. Your best friend, I guess. Tell her to pass it around. Soon the whole class will be buzzing, trying to find the answer. Most kids will come to you.. to ask questions. Don't be shy, smile and tell them. Decorate your locker and make sure people get glimpses of it. Show people you are reading these famous books.
What I'm saying is, show your personaliy.What are you, other then shy? Haha you can be anything!!!
I really hope I helped.
Saleha
What's your best advice on getting a certain guy?
That's probably the most juvenile question ever, but I feel like he just doesn't see me. We hang out in the same group of people, so I see him a lot. We talk, we even flirt, but he's just a flirty guy. But not on purpose. He's actually kind of a dork. haha. I think we'd be great together, but I'm shy and he's not the type of guy you throw yourself at anyway. How do I make him see me?What's your best advice on getting a certain guy?
Go on a date. Picture text him a movie poster and say ';4 pm show - wanna go? I'll even share my popcorn!'; It's a casual gesture to go on a date with him but it's good enough for a shy girl like you to say.What's your best advice on getting a certain guy?
Try talking to him and get to know him good then ask him if he would like to hang out someday just the two of you be your self around him and show that your not the type who would be all over him.
Go on a date. Picture text him a movie poster and say ';4 pm show - wanna go? I'll even share my popcorn!'; It's a casual gesture to go on a date with him but it's good enough for a shy girl like you to say.What's your best advice on getting a certain guy?
Try talking to him and get to know him good then ask him if he would like to hang out someday just the two of you be your self around him and show that your not the type who would be all over him.
Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Schwarzer
Shawcross A.Cole O'Shea
Arshavin A.Young Taylor Malbranque
Rooney Van Persie
Subs: cheap Hull defenders
*i usually have lamps or gerrard ... i'm taking a risk with arshavin
*rooney or berbatov -- i have a feeling Berba will score more
* not sure who to pick from man city?? ade or robinho or tevez or CruzHey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Goalie: Shwarzer's a bit old, but he's still decent enough to rack up more points than most GK's...
Defence: O'shea may be a slight risk...depends on appearances
Midfield: don't wory about arshavin, he'll be very good, malbranque is a tad old, try change him for someone younger, ashley young is a good young player, and will matur even more as a footballer this year...
Strikers: van persie has to be careful with injuries, last season was his first season at arsenal when he didnt sustain a major injury, as for the man city question, choose robinho, hes guaranteed more playing time than the rest...Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
1) Either one of Lampard, Gerrard, Arsh will be great, but Lampard was the top fantasy player in premier league last season.
2) I rather have Rooney, with Ronaldo gone, this enables Valencia to play the wing and Rooney to play at his true position as a center forward, he will definitely score more goals than Berbatov.
3) Robinho
Definitely Brady, adrian peterson, larry fitzgerald...oh this is fake football
adebayor if he scores what he did last season pretty good. I have to be honest some of the names i have never heard of so i cannot honestly give advice on them. sorry xxty
Im assuming this is a gay fantasy
Lampard and you should pick Robinho for man city, just a great young player
Shawcross A.Cole O'Shea
Arshavin A.Young Taylor Malbranque
Rooney Van Persie
Subs: cheap Hull defenders
*i usually have lamps or gerrard ... i'm taking a risk with arshavin
*rooney or berbatov -- i have a feeling Berba will score more
* not sure who to pick from man city?? ade or robinho or tevez or CruzHey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Goalie: Shwarzer's a bit old, but he's still decent enough to rack up more points than most GK's...
Defence: O'shea may be a slight risk...depends on appearances
Midfield: don't wory about arshavin, he'll be very good, malbranque is a tad old, try change him for someone younger, ashley young is a good young player, and will matur even more as a footballer this year...
Strikers: van persie has to be careful with injuries, last season was his first season at arsenal when he didnt sustain a major injury, as for the man city question, choose robinho, hes guaranteed more playing time than the rest...Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
1) Either one of Lampard, Gerrard, Arsh will be great, but Lampard was the top fantasy player in premier league last season.
2) I rather have Rooney, with Ronaldo gone, this enables Valencia to play the wing and Rooney to play at his true position as a center forward, he will definitely score more goals than Berbatov.
3) Robinho
Definitely Brady, adrian peterson, larry fitzgerald...oh this is fake football
adebayor if he scores what he did last season pretty good. I have to be honest some of the names i have never heard of so i cannot honestly give advice on them. sorry xxty
Im assuming this is a gay fantasy
Lampard and you should pick Robinho for man city, just a great young player
I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
straight or wavy hair on a girlI noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
I think that would depend on the women and what is most becoming to her.I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
This isn't an advice question. Doy. I've heard it depends on the girl. But as a wavy haired girl, I gotta say curls are awesome.
STILL depends on the face and the body and the personality...
both on the same girl..i like variety
I think that would depend on the women and what is most becoming to her.I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
This isn't an advice question. Doy. I've heard it depends on the girl. But as a wavy haired girl, I gotta say curls are awesome.
STILL depends on the face and the body and the personality...
both on the same girl..i like variety
Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
Call him and say hi, start good conversation %26amp; flirt some...
Let him ask you for a date or you can't wait much longer...
than you ask him...
If you really want to that he's gonna propose you and you want marry him than first you think well about it and be closer in conversations and talk more about you both how's going, how he feels and like that and whats his plan for later and what he wants later as a future-plan...
He will think about it and when he's ready...
he will ask you I guess...
Good Luckz
PS. Girls answer this question please... :x
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
thnx...xD
Rawr~Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
I find it odd that he has proposed and yet you have not received an engagement ring. Those are two things you usually do at the same time.
let him come round.. he prolly doesnt have the money. but dnt worry..its gna tak time...just love him and everythng will b ok :)
if this guy is playing you then just leave him and find someone else/
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
Call him and say hi, start good conversation %26amp; flirt some...
Let him ask you for a date or you can't wait much longer...
than you ask him...
If you really want to that he's gonna propose you and you want marry him than first you think well about it and be closer in conversations and talk more about you both how's going, how he feels and like that and whats his plan for later and what he wants later as a future-plan...
He will think about it and when he's ready...
he will ask you I guess...
Good Luckz
PS. Girls answer this question please... :x
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
thnx...xD
Rawr~Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
I find it odd that he has proposed and yet you have not received an engagement ring. Those are two things you usually do at the same time.
let him come round.. he prolly doesnt have the money. but dnt worry..its gna tak time...just love him and everythng will b ok :)
if this guy is playing you then just leave him and find someone else/
GUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
There's this guy josh I've liked for almost 2 years. I used to think he liked me too, but I got majorly mixed signals. Sometimes he was so good to me, and other times (like when he tried to get me lost in a neighborhood at nite)...arghhhh. The final straw came Friday when invited him to this ball I had to go to (just to hang with me so I didn't be to dance), and he flat out said no. I figured if he liked me at all,he woulda gone. Instead I spent the evenig with guys who give me the creeps, holding their hands and touching my back and thinking of how he only hands I wanted touch me were josh's.
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywher. When urready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards josh.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
u sound meanGUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
He likes you as a friend, and he doesn't understand why you're angry at him. Maybe you should just resign yourself to being friends with him, and forget about dating him. Then you can stop being passive-aggressive and have fun again.
omgeee that soundz like my friend josh!!!!!!!!
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sorry dudee!!!
well judging by what I have read, youre a bad speller and your grammar is horrible for an 18 year old. Other than that, Josh is still concerned about you because you two are friends, caring for someone doesn't mean you have to be in love with them. Josh might have feelings for you, guys are just more conservative when it comes to love. Balls may just not be his thing.
Sounds to me like you guys need to have a serious sit down conversation. Tell him that you've been getting mixed signals from him about what he wants. He needs to know how you feel and why you were ignoring him. Then you can both get everything straightened out and you'll either be able to go back to the way things were or if you should go your separate ways. The best thing you can do in this situation is be honest and be calm. Don't take anything personally and don't take offense to anything.
Hope that helps.
I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywher. When urready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards josh.
Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
u sound meanGUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
He likes you as a friend, and he doesn't understand why you're angry at him. Maybe you should just resign yourself to being friends with him, and forget about dating him. Then you can stop being passive-aggressive and have fun again.
omgeee that soundz like my friend josh!!!!!!!!
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sorry dudee!!!
well judging by what I have read, youre a bad speller and your grammar is horrible for an 18 year old. Other than that, Josh is still concerned about you because you two are friends, caring for someone doesn't mean you have to be in love with them. Josh might have feelings for you, guys are just more conservative when it comes to love. Balls may just not be his thing.
Sounds to me like you guys need to have a serious sit down conversation. Tell him that you've been getting mixed signals from him about what he wants. He needs to know how you feel and why you were ignoring him. Then you can both get everything straightened out and you'll either be able to go back to the way things were or if you should go your separate ways. The best thing you can do in this situation is be honest and be calm. Don't take anything personally and don't take offense to anything.
Hope that helps.
GUYS/GIRLS! PLZZ HELP ME! I need some advice!!?!? :)?
So I like this guy...and its very new..I just realized how much im falling for him...but I can't tell what he feels about me...
He talks...and sometimes says things to impress me...Like he smokes cigs.and he randomly turned to me and was telling me he only does it sometimes..then he was playing with my hair..held my hand..stared here nd there someone also heard him over talking about me......but the problem is..I use to like someone very close to him ...and things didnt work out but the other guy likes and im over him...and I lk the new guy(who I hope likes me too)...Idk what to do next.....does he maybe like me???? help plz.GUYS/GIRLS! PLZZ HELP ME! I need some advice!!?!? :)?
It sounds like he likes you.
Why don't you guys go to the movies or something, and see where it goes, from there.
If he moves pretty fast, he could be trying to use you, and you might get played.
Be careful!GUYS/GIRLS! PLZZ HELP ME! I need some advice!!?!? :)?
tell how you feel, ask how he feels. it's hard, but simple.acne treatment
He talks...and sometimes says things to impress me...Like he smokes cigs.and he randomly turned to me and was telling me he only does it sometimes..then he was playing with my hair..held my hand..stared here nd there someone also heard him over talking about me......but the problem is..I use to like someone very close to him ...and things didnt work out but the other guy likes and im over him...and I lk the new guy(who I hope likes me too)...Idk what to do next.....does he maybe like me???? help plz.GUYS/GIRLS! PLZZ HELP ME! I need some advice!!?!? :)?
It sounds like he likes you.
Why don't you guys go to the movies or something, and see where it goes, from there.
If he moves pretty fast, he could be trying to use you, and you might get played.
Be careful!GUYS/GIRLS! PLZZ HELP ME! I need some advice!!?!? :)?
tell how you feel, ask how he feels. it's hard, but simple.
Guys!! Please I Need Urgent Helpp!! I Need Advice...?
Well i had a bruise on my scalp and i used to cover it with eyeliner
now my bruise is gone and i washed my hair i noticed that i have this kind of skin condition
when i brushed my hair some white skin came off and some hair fell out
but i put eyeliner back on where the skin came off, but never intend to do it again
my question is will my hair ever grow backk though even though theres some white stuff there and i put eyeliner back on top of it??????
Pleaseeee AnswerrrGuys!! Please I Need Urgent Helpp!! I Need Advice...?
This happen to me my hair started falling out but my hair cutter said it was just stress but im not really if its stress for because my skin never came off only my hairGuys!! Please I Need Urgent Helpp!! I Need Advice...?
Even waterproof mascara comes off in a day or two, and beauty products should not affect the skin. If the skin was broken when you applied it, I suppose it could be infected, in which you'll probably need to see a doctor. I would probably use a body wash/disinfectant in the shower and rub it to see if more comes off. Look in the mirror after wards and see if more skin came off. That sounds kind of freaky.
You need to see a dermatologist to make sure it's not skin cancer.
Really the only person qualified to answer your question would be a Dermatologist. If you're concerned about this, then have your family doctor refer you to a Dermatologist in the area. Just tell them what you did and you'll get the help you need. Good luck!
Maybe u have leukemia?
well my guess is its a skin irritation. I had that happen when I put copper tints in my hair. So your skin is flaking and it will heal. Just don't put any more eyeliner.
don't panic it it wont grew it again
Well you had a bruise on it.It depends on how you got that bruise. Maybe the way you got it made your hair fall out.You should definitely stop putting eyeliner on it and see a doctor or dermatologist if it doesn't grow back.
ok first stop putting eyeliner on it because if u do the hair will stop growing second go to a hair stylus they will probably fix it for u [ and i know it will be embarrassing but at least u will get it covered up ]
hope this helped
now my bruise is gone and i washed my hair i noticed that i have this kind of skin condition
when i brushed my hair some white skin came off and some hair fell out
but i put eyeliner back on where the skin came off, but never intend to do it again
my question is will my hair ever grow backk though even though theres some white stuff there and i put eyeliner back on top of it??????
Pleaseeee AnswerrrGuys!! Please I Need Urgent Helpp!! I Need Advice...?
This happen to me my hair started falling out but my hair cutter said it was just stress but im not really if its stress for because my skin never came off only my hairGuys!! Please I Need Urgent Helpp!! I Need Advice...?
Even waterproof mascara comes off in a day or two, and beauty products should not affect the skin. If the skin was broken when you applied it, I suppose it could be infected, in which you'll probably need to see a doctor. I would probably use a body wash/disinfectant in the shower and rub it to see if more comes off. Look in the mirror after wards and see if more skin came off. That sounds kind of freaky.
You need to see a dermatologist to make sure it's not skin cancer.
Really the only person qualified to answer your question would be a Dermatologist. If you're concerned about this, then have your family doctor refer you to a Dermatologist in the area. Just tell them what you did and you'll get the help you need. Good luck!
Maybe u have leukemia?
well my guess is its a skin irritation. I had that happen when I put copper tints in my hair. So your skin is flaking and it will heal. Just don't put any more eyeliner.
don't panic it it wont grew it again
Well you had a bruise on it.It depends on how you got that bruise. Maybe the way you got it made your hair fall out.You should definitely stop putting eyeliner on it and see a doctor or dermatologist if it doesn't grow back.
ok first stop putting eyeliner on it because if u do the hair will stop growing second go to a hair stylus they will probably fix it for u [ and i know it will be embarrassing but at least u will get it covered up ]
hope this helped
I got her soaking in some Peach Dannon Yogurt guys,seems to be doing the trick. thanks for the advice brothers
and sisters. any other advice for me???I got her soaking in some Peach Dannon Yogurt guys,seems to be doing the trick. thanks for the advice brothers
Set her on fire.
(I have no idea what you are talking about...)I got her soaking in some Peach Dannon Yogurt guys,seems to be doing the trick. thanks for the advice brothers
why?
See my last answer.
Set her on fire.
(I have no idea what you are talking about...)I got her soaking in some Peach Dannon Yogurt guys,seems to be doing the trick. thanks for the advice brothers
why?
See my last answer.
GUYS:does it mean anything??10points for your advice!!!?
This guy I am seeing left a toothbrush in my bathroom. It was his first time he slept over and he bought a toothbrush and put it next to mine. I read an article before and it said that guys would be scared if a girl put a toothbrush at his bathroom because he would think she wanted a serious relationship.
We didn't have sex though. we had more than 3 dates but we both agreed not to have sex this soon. Do you think he is expecting to have sex next time? or is there any other reasons?
I am not from this country and this doesn't happen a lot from where I come from. Please give me some advices.GUYS:does it mean anything??10points for your advice!!!?
he is trying to get his foot in the door first it's the toothbrush then his clothes ,and then his personal stuff if you don't want a serious relationship let him know now
good luckGUYS:does it mean anything??10points for your advice!!!?
he lift his toothbrush because he wants to see u again or hes just forgetful
well, it is a little strange, but If you just spend the night, and leave it over there, then I dont think it means that. Its probably just a personally belief, but I live in cincinnati and I've never heard that
sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't. it could just mean that he is a very clean guy and then again it could mean he plans on coming back more than just that one night.
It could be either of these two reasons:
1) He left it there on purpose for some reason to go back to your house or
2)He just simply forgot (boys are known to be very forgetful at times).
We didn't have sex though. we had more than 3 dates but we both agreed not to have sex this soon. Do you think he is expecting to have sex next time? or is there any other reasons?
I am not from this country and this doesn't happen a lot from where I come from. Please give me some advices.GUYS:does it mean anything??10points for your advice!!!?
he is trying to get his foot in the door first it's the toothbrush then his clothes ,and then his personal stuff if you don't want a serious relationship let him know now
good luckGUYS:does it mean anything??10points for your advice!!!?
he lift his toothbrush because he wants to see u again or hes just forgetful
well, it is a little strange, but If you just spend the night, and leave it over there, then I dont think it means that. Its probably just a personally belief, but I live in cincinnati and I've never heard that
sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't. it could just mean that he is a very clean guy and then again it could mean he plans on coming back more than just that one night.
It could be either of these two reasons:
1) He left it there on purpose for some reason to go back to your house or
2)He just simply forgot (boys are known to be very forgetful at times).
Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 monthGuys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
I'm not a guy but I found some really great advice for this topic on Wiki-How...
';Don't assume. Some men wait slightly longer than you might want before they ask. If he is really worth marrying, you should be willing to wait (within reason). But if he is uninterested (or worse, making excuses) even after a long period of time, you need to reevaluate the direction of your relationship. Remember, great romances are not built on bargaining and ultimatums - in the best marriages the man is the one initiating conversations about marriage. Sometimes allowing a man to lead the direction of a relationship is in-line with your desires. Try it, you'll like it.';
';Remember that some men are perfectly willing to date women they really like but don't see as ';marriage material.'; If, after six months to a year, you still haven't heard him refer to his future plans for marriage or family (with or without you) you may need to ask, ';What qualities do you look for in someone you see yourself committing to?'; If he mentions qualities he's complimented you on, take it as a good sign. If his compliments are largely related to sex, it probably is not.';
';If you feel the need to have a serious talk, reconsider the approach. Instead of coming at him with a serious tone (which will bring up his innate fear of pressure for commitment), be upbeat and positive. ';I really love spending time with you. I really feel happy around you. But I just want to double check and see if we're on the same page. While I know it is too soon for us to worry about it, I do want to get married in the future and want to make sure I'm dating someone who has the same values as me. As we get to know each other better and better, are you beginning to see me as someone you could possibly see that happening with?';Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
should wait it out a little longer before you say something. 9 months isn't that long. maybe at 12 months you should give him hints. I don't know, i could be wrong
If you two have made it through that much, you better believe he will marry you.
I would approach him and tell him you want a committed date because you want to gte married for sure.
I don't really think hinting at things is very productive. i like the suggestion that you just come out and ask for a date. If you don't want to be a nag then offer him an ';out';. Like ';hey babe, I know we talked about marriage a while ago. If you want an extended engagement that's fine, or if your not sure anymore - but let me know where we stand so I'm not on the edge of my seat. It won't change anything we have now.'; or something like that. Open and honest communication is the first test of compatibility. Good luck and congrats (even if you're not getting hitched you do have a good thing going) !
I know you said guys, but I'm going to answer anyway.
If the guy proposes without a ring AND without a date, then he's not serious. He wants you around for sure, but he also wants to keep his options open.
If you are having doubts about how committed he is to you, then you are probably on target. If he's chatting and texting ';certain ppl'; as you say, then he's not ready to settle down with you.
One big clue that you already know the answer here is that you didn't ask the GIRLS. You know what kinda answers you'd be getting and you are still in a bit of denial. My suggestion is to start backing off and making him work for it. If he doesn't start chasing the carrot you are holding out for him, then walk away.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 monthGuys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
I'm not a guy but I found some really great advice for this topic on Wiki-How...
';Don't assume. Some men wait slightly longer than you might want before they ask. If he is really worth marrying, you should be willing to wait (within reason). But if he is uninterested (or worse, making excuses) even after a long period of time, you need to reevaluate the direction of your relationship. Remember, great romances are not built on bargaining and ultimatums - in the best marriages the man is the one initiating conversations about marriage. Sometimes allowing a man to lead the direction of a relationship is in-line with your desires. Try it, you'll like it.';
';Remember that some men are perfectly willing to date women they really like but don't see as ';marriage material.'; If, after six months to a year, you still haven't heard him refer to his future plans for marriage or family (with or without you) you may need to ask, ';What qualities do you look for in someone you see yourself committing to?'; If he mentions qualities he's complimented you on, take it as a good sign. If his compliments are largely related to sex, it probably is not.';
';If you feel the need to have a serious talk, reconsider the approach. Instead of coming at him with a serious tone (which will bring up his innate fear of pressure for commitment), be upbeat and positive. ';I really love spending time with you. I really feel happy around you. But I just want to double check and see if we're on the same page. While I know it is too soon for us to worry about it, I do want to get married in the future and want to make sure I'm dating someone who has the same values as me. As we get to know each other better and better, are you beginning to see me as someone you could possibly see that happening with?';Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
should wait it out a little longer before you say something. 9 months isn't that long. maybe at 12 months you should give him hints. I don't know, i could be wrong
If you two have made it through that much, you better believe he will marry you.
I would approach him and tell him you want a committed date because you want to gte married for sure.
I don't really think hinting at things is very productive. i like the suggestion that you just come out and ask for a date. If you don't want to be a nag then offer him an ';out';. Like ';hey babe, I know we talked about marriage a while ago. If you want an extended engagement that's fine, or if your not sure anymore - but let me know where we stand so I'm not on the edge of my seat. It won't change anything we have now.'; or something like that. Open and honest communication is the first test of compatibility. Good luck and congrats (even if you're not getting hitched you do have a good thing going) !
I know you said guys, but I'm going to answer anyway.
If the guy proposes without a ring AND without a date, then he's not serious. He wants you around for sure, but he also wants to keep his options open.
If you are having doubts about how committed he is to you, then you are probably on target. If he's chatting and texting ';certain ppl'; as you say, then he's not ready to settle down with you.
One big clue that you already know the answer here is that you didn't ask the GIRLS. You know what kinda answers you'd be getting and you are still in a bit of denial. My suggestion is to start backing off and making him work for it. If he doesn't start chasing the carrot you are holding out for him, then walk away.
Guys and girls i need both of your advice on how to give a lapdance, and hand job. plz elp me out =)?
okay so i want to be a ble to give my bf a lap-dance, but i don't know how to!!!
he's been asking but i dont wanna give him one yet cuz idk how 2. so guys i need ur advice on wat u consider a lap-dance. and girls i need details how do u approach him to give the dance? also i wanted to learn how to give him a hand job. again guys wat do you feel wen u get one and girls how do u approach the guy and start off and finish off, also w/ the dance. plz help me. thanx i will appreciate all of ur advice. anything helps!!! =) also how much do u get turned on when u get one or if u give one?Guys and girls i need both of your advice on how to give a lapdance, and hand job. plz elp me out =)?
hahaha need to know how to give a hand job? if u dont know THAT then your too young.. or just stupid.Guys and girls i need both of your advice on how to give a lapdance, and hand job. plz elp me out =)?
Rent a porn movie.
hand job:
1st he has to be hard...then you grab ';it'; and u move your hand up and down start slow but get fast...once he explodes ur job is done...
man how old are you?
you seem young...
ok prepare to read a long explanation. 1. for the lap dance. obviously take your clothes off. all of them. then take his shirt off. have him sit in a chair or couch or whatever. basically sit on him and sway your boobs across his face and chest. let him suck them if you want. 2. the hand job. now if this is your first time giving a handie then read carefully. obviously take his pants off. he will enjoy it more if your clothes are off too(at least thats how i have my gf do it). then ask him what his preference is on how to grasp him. don't grab too tight or it will be painful for him. then just slowly go up and down with your hand and gradually go faster. use lube if you want it will help your hand slide. Your bf will be very happy. It turns me on a ton when i get a lap dance good luck.
he's been asking but i dont wanna give him one yet cuz idk how 2. so guys i need ur advice on wat u consider a lap-dance. and girls i need details how do u approach him to give the dance? also i wanted to learn how to give him a hand job. again guys wat do you feel wen u get one and girls how do u approach the guy and start off and finish off, also w/ the dance. plz help me. thanx i will appreciate all of ur advice. anything helps!!! =) also how much do u get turned on when u get one or if u give one?Guys and girls i need both of your advice on how to give a lapdance, and hand job. plz elp me out =)?
hahaha need to know how to give a hand job? if u dont know THAT then your too young.. or just stupid.Guys and girls i need both of your advice on how to give a lapdance, and hand job. plz elp me out =)?
Rent a porn movie.
hand job:
1st he has to be hard...then you grab ';it'; and u move your hand up and down start slow but get fast...once he explodes ur job is done...
man how old are you?
you seem young...
ok prepare to read a long explanation. 1. for the lap dance. obviously take your clothes off. all of them. then take his shirt off. have him sit in a chair or couch or whatever. basically sit on him and sway your boobs across his face and chest. let him suck them if you want. 2. the hand job. now if this is your first time giving a handie then read carefully. obviously take his pants off. he will enjoy it more if your clothes are off too(at least thats how i have my gf do it). then ask him what his preference is on how to grasp him. don't grab too tight or it will be painful for him. then just slowly go up and down with your hand and gradually go faster. use lube if you want it will help your hand slide. Your bf will be very happy. It turns me on a ton when i get a lap dance good luck.
GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
Okay a few days ago me and my class went on a class trip to salem massachussets and we stayed overnight in a hotel. Every single kid that night either smoked or drinked. So basicly everyone was f***** up. Including myself because i had alot of vodka. By the way where were the teachers you say? They were totally oblivious and sitting down stairs in the lobby just hanging out and they would come up and check one in a while. So all the boys and girls were going in and out of eachothers rooms and it was fun. So anyways at one point i was looking for my friend mike and i had called this one kids room looking for him and he told me he was not there. So anyways i hung out in one of my other friends rooms for a while and all of a sudden the phone rings. My friend answers and he was like missy its for you mike is across the hall looking for you. So i go across the hall thinking that my friend mike was looking for me and i go into the room and the door shuts behind me. There were 5 guys in there and they told me that mike had left. Then all of a sudden they were like take your clothes off. And i was like wtf? i was like no im leaving..So anyways this one guy who is really hot and every girl is dying for wanted to do ****. And i was like you know what its salem its whatever. So thats where it all began i went into the bathroom with him and gave him a b*** j** and then he leaves and two more guys come in and ask for one and i was like no please let me leave im so tired let me out i dont want to do this. but of course they didnt listen and they took there d**** out and didnt listen. I was like please stop let me go but they wouldnt give up so eventually i was like you know what ill just do it so i gave another guy one and by the end of that i was exhausted and felt like a disgusting pig. Afterwards i was like okay im leaving now let me out and then they of course wouldnt let me so the hot one was all like do it to our friend louis its his birthday do it for me please just him too please and i was like no absolutely not im exhausted i am leaving so then they basicly forced me back into the bathroom and i ended up giving him one too.. I felt so horrible but i didnt know what to do i was so drunk and exhausted and to scared to say anything. So then they had the audacity to leave me alone in the room with this other kid and i was like no thats it i draw the line so after that i basicly ran out and left. The whole time that this had happened they had told me not to mention it to anyone or say anything so i didnt. I kept my mouth shut cuz i didnt want people to know. I told a few friend but they kept there mouths shut as well. But then today i find out that everyone knows about everything that had happened and everyone thinks that i am a big **** and the hot guy has a girlfriend so i am also worried on top of everything about the girlfriend finding out. Plus my rep is absolutely ruined i am now known as one of the biggest sluts ever. What should i so i feel so degraded and used and outraged. Please help this is the worst thing that could of ever happened to me. I need ALOT of advice.
KK thanks.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
Honestly, you need to get out of this crowd and straighten out. Yes, you're right. What they did was absolutely and undoubtedly wrong and disgusting, and if you feel that they were a threat to you, tell someone. However, you chose to drink that vodka. You chose to let it slip and give the first guy a bj (regardless of how hot he is, that was a bad decision), and when they asked you to do it to them too, I would have suggested that you warn them you'd scream if they wouldn't let you out, and then follow through if they advanced. Or, wait them out. They couldn't sit there forever.
At the same time, though, I wasn't there myself, so I don't know if these are the kind of guys that would literally force you down and rape you if you didn't eventually give in. If you feel they were a danger, tell. Teenage guys can be absolutely merciless. Depends on which ones, but this is unfortunately not uncommon. My friend went to a party, where a girl was left passed out on a couch with five guys, who raped her and stuck the neck of a beer bottle in her. Why she didn't press charges, I don't know.
It would be much easier to help if it'd been one party's mistake, but it wasn't. They made the bigger mistake, and were the most ethically incorrect, but recognize that you did as well. Unfortunately, because of the complexity of the situation, I really can't help.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
talk to someone that you trust about it, sorry i got nothin
learn how to hold your liquor
um go to the parents,
but u made a big mistake in the first place giving the bj,
you need to tell the truth,
if you dont it cant get alot worse,
acne treatment
KK thanks.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
Honestly, you need to get out of this crowd and straighten out. Yes, you're right. What they did was absolutely and undoubtedly wrong and disgusting, and if you feel that they were a threat to you, tell someone. However, you chose to drink that vodka. You chose to let it slip and give the first guy a bj (regardless of how hot he is, that was a bad decision), and when they asked you to do it to them too, I would have suggested that you warn them you'd scream if they wouldn't let you out, and then follow through if they advanced. Or, wait them out. They couldn't sit there forever.
At the same time, though, I wasn't there myself, so I don't know if these are the kind of guys that would literally force you down and rape you if you didn't eventually give in. If you feel they were a danger, tell. Teenage guys can be absolutely merciless. Depends on which ones, but this is unfortunately not uncommon. My friend went to a party, where a girl was left passed out on a couch with five guys, who raped her and stuck the neck of a beer bottle in her. Why she didn't press charges, I don't know.
It would be much easier to help if it'd been one party's mistake, but it wasn't. They made the bigger mistake, and were the most ethically incorrect, but recognize that you did as well. Unfortunately, because of the complexity of the situation, I really can't help.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
talk to someone that you trust about it, sorry i got nothin
learn how to hold your liquor
um go to the parents,
but u made a big mistake in the first place giving the bj,
you need to tell the truth,
if you dont it cant get alot worse,
Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ok so there is this girl, we used to be in the same school but I graduated and she is gonna be a junior next year. We never talked in person before I started talking to her through myspace. I had her for a class 2 years ago and I had a crush on her and i never said anything cause she had a bf. I got her number and I called her.It went fine, I called her today and she was like '; oh Can I call you back? cause I'm at a friend's house right now';. So I'm like ';ok, it's cool'; but she didn't call back. She already knows I like her but should I just tell her how I feel and ask her out, this may mean i may get rejected, but should i take the chance?
Thank you.....
Sorry for posting this again but it'll be the last time.Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
I know your fear of rejection very well. I have been caught in your dilemma a few times of wondering whether I should say something or stay quiet. Whenever I feel like that, though, I think about what is worse: being rejected or that unknown feeling of ';does she really like me?'; I mean, the last thing you want is to find out that there could have been something and be left wondering ';what if.'; I would suggest that you ask her and get it over with, you will feel much better no matter what the outcome is. Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ask her out. I mean how will you ever get the girl if you don't take the risk?
take the chance and ask her out! dont let the fear of striking out keep u from playing the game!
Thank you.....
Sorry for posting this again but it'll be the last time.Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
I know your fear of rejection very well. I have been caught in your dilemma a few times of wondering whether I should say something or stay quiet. Whenever I feel like that, though, I think about what is worse: being rejected or that unknown feeling of ';does she really like me?'; I mean, the last thing you want is to find out that there could have been something and be left wondering ';what if.'; I would suggest that you ask her and get it over with, you will feel much better no matter what the outcome is. Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ask her out. I mean how will you ever get the girl if you don't take the risk?
take the chance and ask her out! dont let the fear of striking out keep u from playing the game!
Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
What do i do? am i suppose to just wait for him? HELP?
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
don't feel like reading that muchCan you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
awww honey! this sitch really sucks! if you hav any way to contact him at all use it, but if not then i guess your kinda in a pickle
alrite u shoodnt wait for him he mite think ur not interested nd hes doin the polite thing nd not pushing u shood go to his house or meet him somewhere nd explain to him u still have feelings for him and that ur srry bout that day. im sure he'll understand nd if he doesnt dnt worry im sure u will find someone else :D hope i helped
You could try looking in the phone book or online directories to find his house or number. If you know any of his friends names you could look them up on Face book or MySpace. Just ask them if they know how you can get in touch with him or something. Other than that I'm afraid I can't think of anything. Hope it works out though!
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
don't feel like reading that muchCan you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
awww honey! this sitch really sucks! if you hav any way to contact him at all use it, but if not then i guess your kinda in a pickle
alrite u shoodnt wait for him he mite think ur not interested nd hes doin the polite thing nd not pushing u shood go to his house or meet him somewhere nd explain to him u still have feelings for him and that ur srry bout that day. im sure he'll understand nd if he doesnt dnt worry im sure u will find someone else :D hope i helped
You could try looking in the phone book or online directories to find his house or number. If you know any of his friends names you could look them up on Face book or MySpace. Just ask them if they know how you can get in touch with him or something. Other than that I'm afraid I can't think of anything. Hope it works out though!
Ok so guys and girls...i need your advice...please!?
ok so guys: how would u like for a girl to tell u they like u more than a friend?
girls: how would u tell a guy u like them more than a friend?Ok so guys and girls...i need your advice...please!?
id like for her to say hey i think your (whatever they like about you) and i was wondering if you would like to go out with me not drawn out or nothing just a polite way to ask out =)Ok so guys and girls...i need your advice...please!?
It would depend on the girl and guy. If it was some chick I didn't want to be more than friends with, I would feel rather ackward. If it was some girl I felt mutually about and wanted to be more than friends, it would be an awesome day!
and that's where i get frustrated. if it were me i probably wouldnt say anything cuz i have no confidence whatsoever id probly just hang around them more and try to talk to them more and just...idk..othr stuff lol
i would love for the girl to come up, say in a sexy voice ';i want you'; and rip their shirt off to reveal her large bosom in some sexy lingerie. yup, that'd be grand
I'd just ask him out on a date... hopefully he gets the message :)
Ok...I'm not sure you are old enough to have this information. It is Top Secret.
girls: how would u tell a guy u like them more than a friend?Ok so guys and girls...i need your advice...please!?
id like for her to say hey i think your (whatever they like about you) and i was wondering if you would like to go out with me not drawn out or nothing just a polite way to ask out =)Ok so guys and girls...i need your advice...please!?
It would depend on the girl and guy. If it was some chick I didn't want to be more than friends with, I would feel rather ackward. If it was some girl I felt mutually about and wanted to be more than friends, it would be an awesome day!
and that's where i get frustrated. if it were me i probably wouldnt say anything cuz i have no confidence whatsoever id probly just hang around them more and try to talk to them more and just...idk..othr stuff lol
i would love for the girl to come up, say in a sexy voice ';i want you'; and rip their shirt off to reveal her large bosom in some sexy lingerie. yup, that'd be grand
I'd just ask him out on a date... hopefully he gets the message :)
Ok...I'm not sure you are old enough to have this information. It is Top Secret.
Girls!..I need your advice! Your honest opinion!!. Girls only!, guys, you are welcomed to give advice!?
m I ugly?;;how do i improve? I know I need to lose weight and I have lost alot of it, from my pics to now!;;;I just need a sixpack.
I mean, guys in my church have girls that love them, think they are hot and whatever..this recent camp i was left out because I was not as cool as them. A bunch of dumbass hypocrites..now, I am obessed with losing weight and gaining muscle so I can compete with them and get girls.
Ive seen and dates too many shallow girls..and its annoying. The girl in the yellow was a stupid backstabbing blonde that was too desperate so she chose the closest guy(Me). I found out the hardway and had to break up! -_-
AM I ugly? HOW DO I IMPROVE? Please..I NEED HELP!!
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http://s656.photobucket.com/albums/uu282鈥?/a>Girls!..I need your advice! Your honest opinion!!. Girls only!, guys, you are welcomed to give advice!?
You need to improve on your confidence. You also need to smile more. Women are probably turned off by you because you give off a negative vibe. Stop worrying about how you look and focus more in on the girl you want. Learn to take the focus off of yourself and think about others and their needs more. When you focus too much on yourself, especially negative feelings, you find it hard to succeed in life.Girls!..I need your advice! Your honest opinion!!. Girls only!, guys, you are welcomed to give advice!?
Nope, dont think you are ugly. you look like a nice guy, and that is important too. i think you should stop looking for good-looking cute girls, and should broaden your view. there might be nice cute girls, who arent breath-takingly beautiful, but do appreciate you for who you are, and are fun to hang with. Those girls will help you fic your self esteem..
When I clicked on the links I expected you to be fairly unattractive ... but you're not! Chin up, everyone deserves to be loved.
YOUR NICE LOOKING. BUT YOU WIL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON JUST DONT RUSH THINGS WHEN U DO FIND ANOTHER GIRL. MAYBE UR LOOKIN IN THE WRONG PLACES
You're not bad looking but do something different with your hair.
didnt u asked tht a few min ago!!!!!!!!!!!!
1) don't refer to women as ';shallow girls'; and ';stupid backstabbing blondes that were too desperate,'; even when they're turds and dump you or whatever. Have RESPECT for women, we LIKE it. Do some research on chivalry, because we REALLY DIG IT, no matter how hideous (which you're not imo, you're average..)
2) Look pleasant. Pleasant people are easier to approach
3) change up your wardrobe. I, personally, would suggest maybe a hat? I personally don't like the bald look..
I mean, guys in my church have girls that love them, think they are hot and whatever..this recent camp i was left out because I was not as cool as them. A bunch of dumbass hypocrites..now, I am obessed with losing weight and gaining muscle so I can compete with them and get girls.
Ive seen and dates too many shallow girls..and its annoying. The girl in the yellow was a stupid backstabbing blonde that was too desperate so she chose the closest guy(Me). I found out the hardway and had to break up! -_-
AM I ugly? HOW DO I IMPROVE? Please..I NEED HELP!!
http://s656.photobucket.com/albums/uu282鈥?/a>
http://s656.photobucket.com/albums/uu282鈥?/a>Girls!..I need your advice! Your honest opinion!!. Girls only!, guys, you are welcomed to give advice!?
You need to improve on your confidence. You also need to smile more. Women are probably turned off by you because you give off a negative vibe. Stop worrying about how you look and focus more in on the girl you want. Learn to take the focus off of yourself and think about others and their needs more. When you focus too much on yourself, especially negative feelings, you find it hard to succeed in life.Girls!..I need your advice! Your honest opinion!!. Girls only!, guys, you are welcomed to give advice!?
Nope, dont think you are ugly. you look like a nice guy, and that is important too. i think you should stop looking for good-looking cute girls, and should broaden your view. there might be nice cute girls, who arent breath-takingly beautiful, but do appreciate you for who you are, and are fun to hang with. Those girls will help you fic your self esteem..
When I clicked on the links I expected you to be fairly unattractive ... but you're not! Chin up, everyone deserves to be loved.
YOUR NICE LOOKING. BUT YOU WIL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON JUST DONT RUSH THINGS WHEN U DO FIND ANOTHER GIRL. MAYBE UR LOOKIN IN THE WRONG PLACES
You're not bad looking but do something different with your hair.
didnt u asked tht a few min ago!!!!!!!!!!!!
1) don't refer to women as ';shallow girls'; and ';stupid backstabbing blondes that were too desperate,'; even when they're turds and dump you or whatever. Have RESPECT for women, we LIKE it. Do some research on chivalry, because we REALLY DIG IT, no matter how hideous (which you're not imo, you're average..)
2) Look pleasant. Pleasant people are easier to approach
3) change up your wardrobe. I, personally, would suggest maybe a hat? I personally don't like the bald look..
Guys please help!!I need your advice about my bf!!Seriously have to get a male perspective on this!?
Ok so I'm 19 and I've been with this great guy for almost 3years.
My problem is that hes away alot for work and, as I used to work with him I know that there are alot of sexy women around him all the time.
They are constantly all over him because hes gorgous and very sexy!
The thing is I'm afraid that he is going to lose interest in me with them around.
I have a very simple plain style but I think i should change it up a bit.Please look at the pics and tell me what you think about this.
I need any tips on how to spice up my looks,keep his attention and make sure he doesen't forget about me while hes away.
He is 23 btw
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http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106鈥?/a>Guys please help!!I need your advice about my bf!!Seriously have to get a male perspective on this!?
wow you are beautiful for sure. He is 23 so you have to be careful because hes older, goes out, etc. But you just have to keep reminded him that you like/love him and that he is your man. Dont go over board but you cant control him. All you can do is hope for the best and show him how much you care and like him being your man.Guys please help!!I need your advice about my bf!!Seriously have to get a male perspective on this!?
BabyGirl,I tell you this everyday,your beautiful.He would be stupid to cheat on you.Relax.Let your hair grow longer though!On your head!Enjoy life.
My thought the first was real nice,you can do any thing you want thinking that will keep him with you.But when it's all said and done it all up to him on how much he loves you.Girl don't you know you don't get the gorgous and very sexy ones they are the hardest to keep and you spend all your time wondering what he is doing and who he is with.Girl by your picture your a knock out just the way you are.If I was him I would be worried about you.If I was him I would never work any where but where you are.I would want to come home to you at night.But that is just me,Hopefully he has a enough love for you to say no to all them girls and just wants to be with you.Is he where you can call him and so you and him can talk? That may help a little hearing his voice tell you he loves you and only you.Look you are gorgous and very sexy and if he really truly loves you they will not conpare to you. It's all up to him if he truly loves you he will only want to be with you and only you.
look hon there isnt anything that you need to change you look fabulous the point is that you are a little insecure dont take it the wrong way you have been together for three years if you feel there is something you must do then make it physical there isnt anything wrong with you wanting to make sure your man doesnt forget you lol the thing is your looks are great wouldnt change them just be loving and spicy for him when the two of you are together and dress a little sexy for him but not overdo it and the thing is if hes happy in bed hes happy everywhere so dont forget to keep him satisfied thats all you need to do and good luck
i know you wanted a guy's perspective but i think you are a beautiful girl (i am 19 too dating a 21 year old) and honey there is a reason he chose you to be his girlfriend and you have been with him for 3 years...you need to trust him. ive been with my bf for a year and a half and theres something ive learned: even if you are madly in love with someone, youre still going to look at other people sometimes...but in the end youre the woman he comes home to at night. i still look at guys that catch my eye but then i look at everything my boyfriend offers and they dont even compare to him. hes perfect for me. i guarantee you that you do the same thing. so keep your pretty head up!
Not a guy, but I saw the pics, and I think you have a pretty face. I pictured your hair with pin curls, no make up is necessary. Yeah, curl your hair, make your look different. If your personalty is up to par, and he shows you that he loves you, You should be ok. Don't go to extremes to change, because he may not like it. Find our what it is that he loves about you, and maintain it. Hope this helps. Good luck!
fix your hair, wear lipstick, and give great bj's several times a week.
My problem is that hes away alot for work and, as I used to work with him I know that there are alot of sexy women around him all the time.
They are constantly all over him because hes gorgous and very sexy!
The thing is I'm afraid that he is going to lose interest in me with them around.
I have a very simple plain style but I think i should change it up a bit.Please look at the pics and tell me what you think about this.
I need any tips on how to spice up my looks,keep his attention and make sure he doesen't forget about me while hes away.
He is 23 btw
http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106鈥?/a>
http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106鈥?/a>Guys please help!!I need your advice about my bf!!Seriously have to get a male perspective on this!?
wow you are beautiful for sure. He is 23 so you have to be careful because hes older, goes out, etc. But you just have to keep reminded him that you like/love him and that he is your man. Dont go over board but you cant control him. All you can do is hope for the best and show him how much you care and like him being your man.Guys please help!!I need your advice about my bf!!Seriously have to get a male perspective on this!?
BabyGirl,I tell you this everyday,your beautiful.He would be stupid to cheat on you.Relax.Let your hair grow longer though!On your head!Enjoy life.
My thought the first was real nice,you can do any thing you want thinking that will keep him with you.But when it's all said and done it all up to him on how much he loves you.Girl don't you know you don't get the gorgous and very sexy ones they are the hardest to keep and you spend all your time wondering what he is doing and who he is with.Girl by your picture your a knock out just the way you are.If I was him I would be worried about you.If I was him I would never work any where but where you are.I would want to come home to you at night.But that is just me,Hopefully he has a enough love for you to say no to all them girls and just wants to be with you.Is he where you can call him and so you and him can talk? That may help a little hearing his voice tell you he loves you and only you.Look you are gorgous and very sexy and if he really truly loves you they will not conpare to you. It's all up to him if he truly loves you he will only want to be with you and only you.
look hon there isnt anything that you need to change you look fabulous the point is that you are a little insecure dont take it the wrong way you have been together for three years if you feel there is something you must do then make it physical there isnt anything wrong with you wanting to make sure your man doesnt forget you lol the thing is your looks are great wouldnt change them just be loving and spicy for him when the two of you are together and dress a little sexy for him but not overdo it and the thing is if hes happy in bed hes happy everywhere so dont forget to keep him satisfied thats all you need to do and good luck
i know you wanted a guy's perspective but i think you are a beautiful girl (i am 19 too dating a 21 year old) and honey there is a reason he chose you to be his girlfriend and you have been with him for 3 years...you need to trust him. ive been with my bf for a year and a half and theres something ive learned: even if you are madly in love with someone, youre still going to look at other people sometimes...but in the end youre the woman he comes home to at night. i still look at guys that catch my eye but then i look at everything my boyfriend offers and they dont even compare to him. hes perfect for me. i guarantee you that you do the same thing. so keep your pretty head up!
Not a guy, but I saw the pics, and I think you have a pretty face. I pictured your hair with pin curls, no make up is necessary. Yeah, curl your hair, make your look different. If your personalty is up to par, and he shows you that he loves you, You should be ok. Don't go to extremes to change, because he may not like it. Find our what it is that he loves about you, and maintain it. Hope this helps. Good luck!
fix your hair, wear lipstick, and give great bj's several times a week.
Guys and girls i need ex-boyfriend advice.?
me and my ex have kept in touch ever since we broke up over three years ago, could he possibley still want a relationship with me? we never lost communication. im now older and i think he likes that things are different with me. but he has plans of his own and still wants to talk to me. what does he want from me? does he want me to just be there for when he is ready to settle down, there is something that does not let us apart we are always keeping up with each other. I tried to move on, but there is something that wont let me and he is the same way..what do you think? he made it clear that its not about sex because he told me if he didnt want to speak to me he would of stopped and could have sex with others. give me your opinon or instant message me...Guys and girls i need ex-boyfriend advice.?
well if he didnt get a gf after y guys broke up then mabe he is just waiting for u to ask him because he might not want another broken heart and he is prob talkin to u so that he can go out with uacne treatment
well if he didnt get a gf after y guys broke up then mabe he is just waiting for u to ask him because he might not want another broken heart and he is prob talkin to u so that he can go out with u
Guys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
I am moving for college in four weeks. I have a crush on a guy who lives near the college town I'm moving to, and I met him through my sister.
We have never met in person since we live far away, but we chat every single day through Facebook.
I think he is gorgeous, and I want him to be mine.
He told me that we'll have a lot of time to meet up and hang out once I move, but I want him to notice me now, and I want to flirt with him a lot before I go.
How can I do that without being pushy, annoying, or desperate?
By the way, I have his number, too. Should I send him a flirty text even though I gave him my number first? And if so, what should I say?
And one last question: is it a good sign if he asks me a lot of questions? Like, I went to Europe last week, and he said that when I got back, I should tell him all about it, and he's always asking me about music that I like and recommends some that I should listen to.
Does that show any interest, or am I just a hopeless romantic?Guys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
If you are interested just let him know because nothing will happen if you do nothingGuys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
I honestly am not sure If you could tell if he likes you from that. I mean if he talks to a lot about really random and pointless things but continuously talks to you... I would say there is a definite chance that he likes you. Make your facebook picture SUPER cute and flirty and from now on when you talk to him drop suttle flirty comments and see if he picks up on them. For sure try and talk to him and see if hes interested in anyone and go from there
Talking to each other is definately a good sign you see when he's asking you questions it seems to me that he is trying to get to know you more and hear about what you are doin and how everything is going.
I have a boyfriend that I've not met in person yet and well it was hard at first because we've been talking for almost 4 months now and just recently he and I started saying that we were boyfriend/girlfriend. He's moving down here in about a month or so and then we will be able to stay together
Really all I can tell you is talk to him ask him about himself like; fave color, what he likes to do for fun, ask him questions so that you will be able to know things he likes and doesn't like that will be better for now and once you get in person start flirting and all that stuff!!!
Key hear is communication, things will work themselves out and well also remember that trust is also a key aspect in any relationship. Like I trust my boyfriend sometimes he tells me things about his ex and really I don't wanna hear about her, but I love him and listen to what he says even though I sometimes tell him that I don't wanna hear about her. I still trust him though!!! I know that he's not doing anything with her!!!
Asking a lot of questions is a good thing, he wants to know more about you. Just keep talking to him, send him a text, it won't hurt to show him a little bit of how you feel :D When you get there, see him a lot, then ask him out, you need to get to know him in person first before you date him.
Good Luck :D
Firstly he isnt a possesion so he cannot be yours and if you do go out dont treat him like one. It will put him off completely.
Secondly, you have never met him in person, therefore you wont know the ';real him'; before you get to know him, face to face, because online its easier to lie
thats a good thing if hes asking questions it shows hes interested but if hes not going to get to know u now then whats wrong with this guy i say get over him hes not worth ur time
I thinnk he is interested in you. I wouldn't start flirting with text messages, and also, you should let him make the first move, always more fun =D
DO NOT rush this. You could just ruin it. Like he said you have a lot of time to hang with him when you move there. You might find out about his less admirable qualities when you start hanging out with him, and then you may not want him anymore.
We have never met in person since we live far away, but we chat every single day through Facebook.
I think he is gorgeous, and I want him to be mine.
He told me that we'll have a lot of time to meet up and hang out once I move, but I want him to notice me now, and I want to flirt with him a lot before I go.
How can I do that without being pushy, annoying, or desperate?
By the way, I have his number, too. Should I send him a flirty text even though I gave him my number first? And if so, what should I say?
And one last question: is it a good sign if he asks me a lot of questions? Like, I went to Europe last week, and he said that when I got back, I should tell him all about it, and he's always asking me about music that I like and recommends some that I should listen to.
Does that show any interest, or am I just a hopeless romantic?Guys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
If you are interested just let him know because nothing will happen if you do nothingGuys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
I honestly am not sure If you could tell if he likes you from that. I mean if he talks to a lot about really random and pointless things but continuously talks to you... I would say there is a definite chance that he likes you. Make your facebook picture SUPER cute and flirty and from now on when you talk to him drop suttle flirty comments and see if he picks up on them. For sure try and talk to him and see if hes interested in anyone and go from there
Talking to each other is definately a good sign you see when he's asking you questions it seems to me that he is trying to get to know you more and hear about what you are doin and how everything is going.
I have a boyfriend that I've not met in person yet and well it was hard at first because we've been talking for almost 4 months now and just recently he and I started saying that we were boyfriend/girlfriend. He's moving down here in about a month or so and then we will be able to stay together
Really all I can tell you is talk to him ask him about himself like; fave color, what he likes to do for fun, ask him questions so that you will be able to know things he likes and doesn't like that will be better for now and once you get in person start flirting and all that stuff!!!
Key hear is communication, things will work themselves out and well also remember that trust is also a key aspect in any relationship. Like I trust my boyfriend sometimes he tells me things about his ex and really I don't wanna hear about her, but I love him and listen to what he says even though I sometimes tell him that I don't wanna hear about her. I still trust him though!!! I know that he's not doing anything with her!!!
Asking a lot of questions is a good thing, he wants to know more about you. Just keep talking to him, send him a text, it won't hurt to show him a little bit of how you feel :D When you get there, see him a lot, then ask him out, you need to get to know him in person first before you date him.
Good Luck :D
Firstly he isnt a possesion so he cannot be yours and if you do go out dont treat him like one. It will put him off completely.
Secondly, you have never met him in person, therefore you wont know the ';real him'; before you get to know him, face to face, because online its easier to lie
thats a good thing if hes asking questions it shows hes interested but if hes not going to get to know u now then whats wrong with this guy i say get over him hes not worth ur time
I thinnk he is interested in you. I wouldn't start flirting with text messages, and also, you should let him make the first move, always more fun =D
DO NOT rush this. You could just ruin it. Like he said you have a lot of time to hang with him when you move there. You might find out about his less admirable qualities when you start hanging out with him, and then you may not want him anymore.
Guys and Ladies, I need your advice?
My ex and I started seeing each other in 2007 because we were both unhappy with who we were dating and just used each other for booty calls. It went on for a year, with both of us developing feelings for eac other (he was great- was always there for me, made me feel so great, etc). He broke it off last summer because his gf found out. I started going to the doctor he works for in August, 2 months after we stopped talking. I didn't speak to him or look at him till Feb. Since then we talk while he's at work, or he'll call from there to see how I am. Last week, the night before my surgery, he called to see if I was ok and to reassure me I'd be fine. I ended up going to his house and we slept with each other. I've seen him and he's called a few times the last week to see how I am and was really nice to me. What I want to know is- does he care about me still? Should I pursue him more aggressively? I'm positive that I want to be with him and I'm willing to dump my bf to be with him. He makes me feel so good about myself and makes me laugh. Was that night last week nothing to him, or should I go after this now? I've never been like this over a guy- it just feels so right! What do you guys think his thoughts may be?Guys and Ladies, I need your advice?
So you two have been cheating your partners for years ?
I think he just want to screw you once in a while and keep on cheating his gf.
You are a sex tool baby, just put it in your head.
Well, I don't feel bad for you, I actually feel bad for your bf.
I might be an asshole, but at least I don't cheat on people I get commited to.
Stupid *****.Guys and Ladies, I need your advice?
he sounds like he really likes u and u seem crazy about him so why not? i vote u should go for it.
you just developed loved for your ex, the attachment that was cut before has connected again and i guess it is more painful if he cuts it off again. try to ask him frankly if he felt the same as you so that the emotions you are investing will not hurt you badly if it doesn't work out again. love yourself first hon.
He definitely cares about you, but I wouldn't count on a relationship from him. It sounds like he's trying to get the best of both worlds, and quite frankly, you're letting him. He's enjoying the relationship he has with you because he can be emotionally involved only up to the point that he wants to be. He can call you and talk to you and then some, and he knows you're not expecting a relationship from him. Sounds like you guys are exes for a reason. Either way, you should dump your boyfriend if you're not really committed to the relationship.
This site has tips and methods for getting your ex back, saving your marriage, and stopping a divorce.
http://everythingaboutlove.org/Get_Your_鈥?/a>
go for it!
first off if you meet a guy when hes with a girl ,even if he leaves her for you what makes you think he wont leave you for someone else. sometimes i wonder how girls can be so smart but stupid at the same time. when a guy is done with the girl hes with he will dump her, not wait till something better comes along... so move on grow up and try finding someone whos not in a relationship
GO FOR HIM!
So you two have been cheating your partners for years ?
I think he just want to screw you once in a while and keep on cheating his gf.
You are a sex tool baby, just put it in your head.
Well, I don't feel bad for you, I actually feel bad for your bf.
I might be an asshole, but at least I don't cheat on people I get commited to.
Stupid *****.Guys and Ladies, I need your advice?
he sounds like he really likes u and u seem crazy about him so why not? i vote u should go for it.
you just developed loved for your ex, the attachment that was cut before has connected again and i guess it is more painful if he cuts it off again. try to ask him frankly if he felt the same as you so that the emotions you are investing will not hurt you badly if it doesn't work out again. love yourself first hon.
He definitely cares about you, but I wouldn't count on a relationship from him. It sounds like he's trying to get the best of both worlds, and quite frankly, you're letting him. He's enjoying the relationship he has with you because he can be emotionally involved only up to the point that he wants to be. He can call you and talk to you and then some, and he knows you're not expecting a relationship from him. Sounds like you guys are exes for a reason. Either way, you should dump your boyfriend if you're not really committed to the relationship.
This site has tips and methods for getting your ex back, saving your marriage, and stopping a divorce.
http://everythingaboutlove.org/Get_Your_鈥?/a>
go for it!
first off if you meet a guy when hes with a girl ,even if he leaves her for you what makes you think he wont leave you for someone else. sometimes i wonder how girls can be so smart but stupid at the same time. when a guy is done with the girl hes with he will dump her, not wait till something better comes along... so move on grow up and try finding someone whos not in a relationship
GO FOR HIM!
GUYS AND GIRLS: I NEED YOUR ADVICE!?!?!?!?!?
Okay so me and my 5 guy friends are gonna make a web show on youtube. We don't have anywhere to film so we're gonna do it in my friends attic which has low lighting, sorta cramp spaces. And we have no ideas on what our topics are gonna be about.. So we need you to help us :)
Okay; so PLEASE give us some ideas of the set-up we should do.
%26amp; places that sell cheap floor lamps or something that would help.
Also, any good ideas for absolutly anything you think would be great for the show just add,
Some topics and ideas on what we should base our show upon would be really good,
Our webshows name is gonna be Flaboogle ( yeah i know its gay but we didn't have any other good ideas ) so if you want you could leave ideas for a better name IF YOU WANT haha.
But yeah in september go to youtube.com and search flaboogle. Or just leave me your email and i'll email you all and tell you when we start filming if you want.
%26amp; yes i know i put this on singles and dating
Anyways, thank you in advance :)
ALL ADVICE IS WANTED AND NEEDED! THE BEST ADVICE GETS 10 POINTS AND MAYBE A SHOUTOUT ON OUR FIRST SHOOT.
PLEASE HELP US.
[ If your just gonna comment and say some stupid crap then don't at all . Let's not waste time from BOTH of our lives ]GUYS AND GIRLS: I NEED YOUR ADVICE!?!?!?!?!?
Haha flagboogle.
Names..
WhenPigsFly
MonkeyPlayground
^^Just ya know random **** like that..
I think you should start off by making music videos and discuss topics that people email into you.
And just email me through my yahoo email. I'm curious to see your webshow.
Good luck!GUYS AND GIRLS: I NEED YOUR ADVICE!?!?!?!?!?
Place this in the category it belongs... unless youre making porn.
Okay; so PLEASE give us some ideas of the set-up we should do.
%26amp; places that sell cheap floor lamps or something that would help.
Also, any good ideas for absolutly anything you think would be great for the show just add,
Some topics and ideas on what we should base our show upon would be really good,
Our webshows name is gonna be Flaboogle ( yeah i know its gay but we didn't have any other good ideas ) so if you want you could leave ideas for a better name IF YOU WANT haha.
But yeah in september go to youtube.com and search flaboogle. Or just leave me your email and i'll email you all and tell you when we start filming if you want.
%26amp; yes i know i put this on singles and dating
Anyways, thank you in advance :)
ALL ADVICE IS WANTED AND NEEDED! THE BEST ADVICE GETS 10 POINTS AND MAYBE A SHOUTOUT ON OUR FIRST SHOOT.
PLEASE HELP US.
[ If your just gonna comment and say some stupid crap then don't at all . Let's not waste time from BOTH of our lives ]GUYS AND GIRLS: I NEED YOUR ADVICE!?!?!?!?!?
Haha flagboogle.
Names..
WhenPigsFly
MonkeyPlayground
^^Just ya know random **** like that..
I think you should start off by making music videos and discuss topics that people email into you.
And just email me through my yahoo email. I'm curious to see your webshow.
Good luck!GUYS AND GIRLS: I NEED YOUR ADVICE!?!?!?!?!?
Place this in the category it belongs... unless youre making porn.
Guys can you give me some advice?please?
theres some guys i know who are going out with girls who arent the best choice. why do they go out with them if they know that theres other girls out there who suit them better? do they care about smarts and that stuff? or is it mainly because of looks? does confidence intimdate them?Guys can you give me some advice?please?
LOL I am glad I copy%26amp;pasted all that..... ok this is the answer to the other question you erased before I posted this:
You need to be proactive about this. I am in a very similar situation and in college. I am the smart guy, who looks quite good (not a model but I do look good and dress nice etc etc and exercise too) and who has ZERO of weird or arrogance in him (yes, I know many smart guys are either weirdos or full of themselves, I am not like that) AND guess what, I haven't gotten any........ The problem (already realized it and already working against it) is that you cannot expect the one you want to find you and come to you and tell ';oh baby I ';this and that';'; LOL!!! that will never happen, you are in the real world...... SO you are the one that needs to indentify the one YOU like and initiate conversation with them (girls might be more lucky, but the guy that doesn't do this is screwed because they never make 1st moves) and see whether he (in my case she) likes you or not, finds you interesting or not....... answer = NO means you move on today and tomorrow find someone else that fits with you YOU meet them somehow and talk to them. Sooner or later you have to find someone you like who likes you as well and who is 100% single like you.
You will have an easier time than me doing this because (according to you) you are pretty and confident so that means you already have it easier. I, as a man, know well that pretty women have it easier because that is one thing that attracts all men, good or bad ....... there really aren't too many like me who will look at BOTH liking her AND her personality, as in if she is beautiful but she doesn't click with me = find another one tomorrow LOL..... I am serious, I know what I want. I have seen progress as well after I adopted this way of thinking and acting....... most people will not come to you and talk to you just because you are OH WOW so special..... yeah whatever ,,,,,, so you are the one that has to make the move if you want earlier results......
Now, 3 warnings, be smart enough and choose well who you make ';the move'; with, make sure that it is with a single guy you like and don't go just by his looks, personality does matter....... unless you want to get laid, but I want that + a real relationship so I gotta think differently....... 2nd warning, do not stick like crazy glue to one that doesn't show interest, that's stupid, plus they don't care and/or don't like you period, move on...... and get used to it...... but in your case being the woman, I bet that won't happen much to you..... last warning: make it as casual as normal as possible, I have talked to many girls at lunch, hey I am just looking for a seat you can't blame me :p plus they don't think I sat there in purpose either........... either way I am still single, but believe me being proactive, confident, and just don't giving a crap about whether things go right or wrong (and looking for a ';new route'; if they go wrong) helps.Guys can you give me some advice?please?
I personally prefer girls with a brain as well as looks, but then I'm a boff and I think relationships should last longer than a couple of weeks xD
Confidence is a problem, a lot of boys will go out with a girl just for confidence, or to prove to themselves that they can have a gf, or just because the girl started flirting with him and he thought it was his best chance.
LOL I am glad I copy%26amp;pasted all that..... ok this is the answer to the other question you erased before I posted this:
You need to be proactive about this. I am in a very similar situation and in college. I am the smart guy, who looks quite good (not a model but I do look good and dress nice etc etc and exercise too) and who has ZERO of weird or arrogance in him (yes, I know many smart guys are either weirdos or full of themselves, I am not like that) AND guess what, I haven't gotten any........ The problem (already realized it and already working against it) is that you cannot expect the one you want to find you and come to you and tell ';oh baby I ';this and that';'; LOL!!! that will never happen, you are in the real world...... SO you are the one that needs to indentify the one YOU like and initiate conversation with them (girls might be more lucky, but the guy that doesn't do this is screwed because they never make 1st moves) and see whether he (in my case she) likes you or not, finds you interesting or not....... answer = NO means you move on today and tomorrow find someone else that fits with you YOU meet them somehow and talk to them. Sooner or later you have to find someone you like who likes you as well and who is 100% single like you.
You will have an easier time than me doing this because (according to you) you are pretty and confident so that means you already have it easier. I, as a man, know well that pretty women have it easier because that is one thing that attracts all men, good or bad ....... there really aren't too many like me who will look at BOTH liking her AND her personality, as in if she is beautiful but she doesn't click with me = find another one tomorrow LOL..... I am serious, I know what I want. I have seen progress as well after I adopted this way of thinking and acting....... most people will not come to you and talk to you just because you are OH WOW so special..... yeah whatever ,,,,,, so you are the one that has to make the move if you want earlier results......
Now, 3 warnings, be smart enough and choose well who you make ';the move'; with, make sure that it is with a single guy you like and don't go just by his looks, personality does matter....... unless you want to get laid, but I want that + a real relationship so I gotta think differently....... 2nd warning, do not stick like crazy glue to one that doesn't show interest, that's stupid, plus they don't care and/or don't like you period, move on...... and get used to it...... but in your case being the woman, I bet that won't happen much to you..... last warning: make it as casual as normal as possible, I have talked to many girls at lunch, hey I am just looking for a seat you can't blame me :p plus they don't think I sat there in purpose either........... either way I am still single, but believe me being proactive, confident, and just don't giving a crap about whether things go right or wrong (and looking for a ';new route'; if they go wrong) helps.Guys can you give me some advice?please?
I personally prefer girls with a brain as well as looks, but then I'm a boff and I think relationships should last longer than a couple of weeks xD
Confidence is a problem, a lot of boys will go out with a girl just for confidence, or to prove to themselves that they can have a gf, or just because the girl started flirting with him and he thought it was his best chance.
Guys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
Okay theres this complicated guy- moody/kind-hearted. Old school. emotional baggage from past relationships. Hides his feelings. Bit of a heartbreaker . He's older
He's a fam friend. Since last year we got really close. Ppl said he liked me alot- but since he didnt openly ask me out- i blocked it. i was scared i was falling for him ( first time) and blocked him and told someone i would never date him cos of his past and his way with women.( i was in denial) He got hurt when he heard that. I know. The gap bet us widened. Huge now we hardly ever speak besides hi and walk past. It works both ways. I pushed him into the arms of another girl ( they not dating) i think im may be losing him for good. I need to move on.but i think the ONLY way i can do this is to talk to him. Havnt spoken to him in 3 months . i think he hates me after what i said.. We never spke about it- except emailGuys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
being a mature 17, id say just speak your mind. whats on it, how you would want things to end up, how u don't want them to end up, state why you did the things you did, and be sincere. just be honest about everything you say, don't be flirty just put your meaning across and see how he takes it, also try and keep everything to a point, if you trail off and put too much info, he may pick up diff messages lol =] good luck.Guys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
Yes to all, tell him how you feel, as i reckon he'd feel the same. Dont lose this oppurtunity to lay it all on the line. Whats the worst that could happen, he turns you down, who cares you can get over that. But what if this turns out to be the person you are meant to grow old with?
CARPE DIEM!!!!!!! (latin for seize the day/moment)
good luck with this!
Tell him how you feel about him ( you can never go wrong doing that)
Sounds like you feel the same way about him that all the other girls do.
A little, but it sounds like you got some issues you need to work out.
A little. Leave it.
live ur dreams
You didnt say **** for 3 months, now you wanna talk about every single thing in a one meeting conversation? What are you hoping to accomplish? He's about to start dating another girl, his mind is totally elsewhere-- and soon as doing his own thing now all of a sudden you got something to say? What, are you trying to get him to drop his plans and start a new life on this new found affirmation from you? Like he's gonna go '; What, really!! Gee.'; C'mon now sweetheart, get real.
in my opinion i would keep being open with him thats the only way that you will find out if u putting your all into him means that he wants to put his all into you...if not you know that you dont need to put anymore of ur valuable time into him and find someone who will put equal time into you as you are them...
hope i helped a lil
20 Yr. Old Italian
He's a fam friend. Since last year we got really close. Ppl said he liked me alot- but since he didnt openly ask me out- i blocked it. i was scared i was falling for him ( first time) and blocked him and told someone i would never date him cos of his past and his way with women.( i was in denial) He got hurt when he heard that. I know. The gap bet us widened. Huge now we hardly ever speak besides hi and walk past. It works both ways. I pushed him into the arms of another girl ( they not dating) i think im may be losing him for good. I need to move on.but i think the ONLY way i can do this is to talk to him. Havnt spoken to him in 3 months . i think he hates me after what i said.. We never spke about it- except emailGuys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
being a mature 17, id say just speak your mind. whats on it, how you would want things to end up, how u don't want them to end up, state why you did the things you did, and be sincere. just be honest about everything you say, don't be flirty just put your meaning across and see how he takes it, also try and keep everything to a point, if you trail off and put too much info, he may pick up diff messages lol =] good luck.Guys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
Yes to all, tell him how you feel, as i reckon he'd feel the same. Dont lose this oppurtunity to lay it all on the line. Whats the worst that could happen, he turns you down, who cares you can get over that. But what if this turns out to be the person you are meant to grow old with?
CARPE DIEM!!!!!!! (latin for seize the day/moment)
good luck with this!
Tell him how you feel about him ( you can never go wrong doing that)
Sounds like you feel the same way about him that all the other girls do.
A little, but it sounds like you got some issues you need to work out.
A little. Leave it.
live ur dreams
You didnt say **** for 3 months, now you wanna talk about every single thing in a one meeting conversation? What are you hoping to accomplish? He's about to start dating another girl, his mind is totally elsewhere-- and soon as doing his own thing now all of a sudden you got something to say? What, are you trying to get him to drop his plans and start a new life on this new found affirmation from you? Like he's gonna go '; What, really!! Gee.'; C'mon now sweetheart, get real.
in my opinion i would keep being open with him thats the only way that you will find out if u putting your all into him means that he wants to put his all into you...if not you know that you dont need to put anymore of ur valuable time into him and find someone who will put equal time into you as you are them...
hope i helped a lil
20 Yr. Old Italian
Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
honestly the right thing to do is wait... but is that humanly possible considering the fact that we're humans?
but yea wait it out and see what happens! just keep on being u caring and supportive and all that gal fun stuff and hopefully things will turn out good for u.
also it doesnt hurt to drop a very few subtle hints too.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
let him come around unless youre not willing to wait, then let him know how you feel.
I would say do *something* for him....
you know.... Bring Love Over With Jarring Orgasmic Bliss.....
ackhem.... just look at the capital letters
You should do whatever he says in and out of bed...then make him a sandwich. Make it right!acne treatment
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
honestly the right thing to do is wait... but is that humanly possible considering the fact that we're humans?
but yea wait it out and see what happens! just keep on being u caring and supportive and all that gal fun stuff and hopefully things will turn out good for u.
also it doesnt hurt to drop a very few subtle hints too.Guys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
let him come around unless youre not willing to wait, then let him know how you feel.
I would say do *something* for him....
you know.... Bring Love Over With Jarring Orgasmic Bliss.....
ackhem.... just look at the capital letters
You should do whatever he says in and out of bed...then make him a sandwich. Make it right!
Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ok so there is this girl, we used to be in the same school but I graduated and she is gonna be a junior next year. We never talked in person before I started talking to her through myspace. I had her for a class 2 years ago and I had a crush on her and i never said anything cause she had a bf. I got her number and I called her.It went fine, I called her today and she was like '; oh Can I call you back? cause I'm at a friend's house right now';. So I'm like ';ok, it's cool'; but she didn't call back. She already knows I like her but should I just tell her how I feel and ask her out, this may mean i may get rejected, but should i take the chance?
Thank you.....
Sorry for posting this again but it'll be the last time.Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
I know your fear of rejection very well. I have been caught in your dilemma a few times of wondering whether I should say something or stay quiet. Whenever I feel like that, though, I think about what is worse: being rejected or that unknown feeling of ';does she really like me?'; I mean, the last thing you want is to find out that there could have been something and be left wondering ';what if.'; I would suggest that you ask her and get it over with, you will feel much better no matter what the outcome is. Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ask her out. I mean how will you ever get the girl if you don't take the risk?
take the chance and ask her out! dont let the fear of striking out keep u from playing the game!
Thank you.....
Sorry for posting this again but it'll be the last time.Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
I know your fear of rejection very well. I have been caught in your dilemma a few times of wondering whether I should say something or stay quiet. Whenever I feel like that, though, I think about what is worse: being rejected or that unknown feeling of ';does she really like me?'; I mean, the last thing you want is to find out that there could have been something and be left wondering ';what if.'; I would suggest that you ask her and get it over with, you will feel much better no matter what the outcome is. Guys and girls I Need your help......and advice?
Ask her out. I mean how will you ever get the girl if you don't take the risk?
take the chance and ask her out! dont let the fear of striking out keep u from playing the game!
Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Boyfriend Is Cheating???
Well last Friday I went to his house and he wanted to have sex but im still a virgin and when i told him i wasnt ready he just stayed quiet and he does know i am a virgin well i went to his house yesterday to talk things through and while i was their i went to use his bathroom and when i went in there i saw 2 used condoms in the trash i just broke out into tears but then i thought about it he has an older brother could it have been him well i just needed your advice is he cheating on me???/Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Boyfriend Is Cheating???
first of all;; maybe he respects your decision;; you have to think what type of person he is;; and if he'd ever do anything like that too you;; then if its really aqqravating you tawk to him;; dont qive the satisfaction of neqativity;;Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Boyfriend Is Cheating???
If he respected your decision not to have sex with him then what is it you needed to talk to him about? If he didn't make a big deal about it on the phone and talked to you the next day then I doubt that he is cheating. If he didn't talk to you or see you over the weekend then I'd be a little leary. Watch him for other signs like spending less time with you, making excuses for not seeing you etc.
first of all;; maybe he respects your decision;; you have to think what type of person he is;; and if he'd ever do anything like that too you;; then if its really aqqravating you tawk to him;; dont qive the satisfaction of neqativity;;Guys And Girls Can You Please Give Me Advice If My Boyfriend Is Cheating???
If he respected your decision not to have sex with him then what is it you needed to talk to him about? If he didn't make a big deal about it on the phone and talked to you the next day then I doubt that he is cheating. If he didn't talk to you or see you over the weekend then I'd be a little leary. Watch him for other signs like spending less time with you, making excuses for not seeing you etc.
Guys and girls all over the world, some advice?
Hey, I'm 15 and I want some advice from all of you who can answer.
You see I have a new neighbour. He's totally adorable, and hot... I saw him like yesterday and I was stunned (sounds really cheesy)!
So, now I really want to get to know him, and he lives in front of my door. It's an apartment, and he lives directly in front of me.
So, please, if you won't be bothered, give some advice, what should I do, to get to know him better and maybe hang around with him?
He looks lonely, he's here with his family, and I live in such place that there are not much my age people here (or his age for that matter).
So, help please!!! :):):)
Thanks, in advanceGuys and girls all over the world, some advice?
Invite him to hang out with a group of friends!
Its not creepy or weird to just knock on the door and introduce yourself (to him AND his family) Just knock, tell them your name, and say something like : ';hey, i noticed you just moved in! I live right across the hall';....and go from there. Try to make friends with the whole family (just trust me), and find out if they are new to the city, or just moving from a differnt place within the same town. If they're new to the city, you can offer to give directions or offer ideas for nice/fun places for them to check out.
He'll most likely appreciate the company, since there arent many people your age around.
Good Luck!!!Guys and girls all over the world, some advice?
If you have the guts, go for a lil walk round the apartments.. if you see him say something like ''hey I think ive seen you before.. i think i live opposite you...well my names *insert name here*'' or something along those lines.Or ''hey have you just moved in here? how are u settling in?''
Ive done this before.. exept it was with friends that had moved in in a house near by. We are still friends now.
So yeah, thats the most non-stalkerish advice i can think of...
Sorry if i didnt help
xx
just like go knock on his door and yell him your name and say i live across the hall. and tell him if he needs any help you'll do it. and be like funny and SMILE :) but just try to be a good neighbor and help him out.
If yall walk out yall's rooms the same time, just try to start up a conversation while yall walking down to where ever. Just say, ';hey'; and see how he reacts and try to say more if he seems nice.
You see I have a new neighbour. He's totally adorable, and hot... I saw him like yesterday and I was stunned (sounds really cheesy)!
So, now I really want to get to know him, and he lives in front of my door. It's an apartment, and he lives directly in front of me.
So, please, if you won't be bothered, give some advice, what should I do, to get to know him better and maybe hang around with him?
He looks lonely, he's here with his family, and I live in such place that there are not much my age people here (or his age for that matter).
So, help please!!! :):):)
Thanks, in advanceGuys and girls all over the world, some advice?
Invite him to hang out with a group of friends!
Its not creepy or weird to just knock on the door and introduce yourself (to him AND his family) Just knock, tell them your name, and say something like : ';hey, i noticed you just moved in! I live right across the hall';....and go from there. Try to make friends with the whole family (just trust me), and find out if they are new to the city, or just moving from a differnt place within the same town. If they're new to the city, you can offer to give directions or offer ideas for nice/fun places for them to check out.
He'll most likely appreciate the company, since there arent many people your age around.
Good Luck!!!Guys and girls all over the world, some advice?
If you have the guts, go for a lil walk round the apartments.. if you see him say something like ''hey I think ive seen you before.. i think i live opposite you...well my names *insert name here*'' or something along those lines.Or ''hey have you just moved in here? how are u settling in?''
Ive done this before.. exept it was with friends that had moved in in a house near by. We are still friends now.
So yeah, thats the most non-stalkerish advice i can think of...
Sorry if i didnt help
xx
just like go knock on his door and yell him your name and say i live across the hall. and tell him if he needs any help you'll do it. and be like funny and SMILE :) but just try to be a good neighbor and help him out.
If yall walk out yall's rooms the same time, just try to start up a conversation while yall walking down to where ever. Just say, ';hey'; and see how he reacts and try to say more if he seems nice.
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