So it started about 3-4 years ago...i met this guy....
We became friends, but we were never really close. I had a thing for him since the day i met him, and we kept an on and off friendship for the first two years. Earlier last year we became sort of close, we had the same circle of friends so we saw each other periodically. There was a problem with a friend of his liking me, case and point... i pronounced my love for him and got shot down. Now this summer he got shot down by this girl he had liked... and we ended up meeting accidentally and getting stuck with each other for a good 2 hour talk about his feelings... and we became VERY close.. we saw each other everyday... we went to restaurants together... we took midnight bike strolls together... and i was sure he was over the girl...lets call her.. Guelph. We have been getting closer and closer by the day, until last tuesday when i inquired about our plans for saturday... he pretended that we never made plans and told me he would be spending the weekend with Guelph. I got annoyed and decided to hold back my anger and just ignore him for a while. Later this monday and tuesday he made some desperate attempts to start a conversation with me, for example... Hey did you call? Oh well some STRANGE FEMALE called....how are you? i gave him the cold shoulder.... than at work decided to forgive him...only to have him spit in my face about how he might not be able to see me ...and how he is on his way to Guelph...
Sorry about the length... case and point...i know that we are friends...but i dont know if i can handle him telling me about Guelph..she has a drinking problem and thinks she can be a doctor... and all he ever does is chase her down to make sure she hasnt started her own brothel on campus. And im pretty sure she is leading him on...still. Should i just keep ignoring him? Or is there a way i can make him see that i want something more? And i have tried to explain to him that she isnt someone he should go for... everyday... i question the stories he tells me... i tell him that she is probably missing brain cells...but he either lauphs it off...ignores me...or gets defensive. I dont know what to do anymore... and i feel like ive already played the lets be together card last year...and i cant play it again.Will guys ever change? I need some advice. Please.?
ok well first of all dont get mad at him for spending time w/ her because you said that he spent like every day with you. and giving him the cold sholder about it wasnt the best idea because know hes confused on what he did wrong and if you dont tell him straight out that you like him then he's no commited, which means that he can do whatever he wants. hate to break it to ya but you're a little obsessed, you need to move on because your relationship isnt healthy if your going to sit around and wait for something to happen, you have to do somethinglike just ask him out. I think that you're very pissed about the whole situation so your just pouring out drama to try and take your anger out, like talking about his drinking problems-thats showing that you're trying to make notice of his flaws which probably makes you feel better and thats ok but you have to know when somethings right for you. you should figure out if you really like him, if you do just ask him out, you dont then dont even be friends with him anymore. believe me on this one, if you become friends with him again your going to start like him again and getting those feelings back for him. i dont think that hes trying to hurt you, oyu guys are just misunderstanding eachother. also dont talk about that girl like that because then he'l just think that you're a *****, keep things focused on your guys relationship, not thiers....dont let jelousy get the best of you. well good luck and just apologize, guys get over that kind of stuff pretty quick.Will guys ever change? I need some advice. Please.?
Guys never change. Known fact.
Check this out....Guys get jelous just like girls do.I suggest you get another guy and have him see that guy with you.He will then be forced to choose how he really wants to be with.Sounds like he know how to push your buttons too..as soon as you mention Guelph you flip out.So get with sone random guys and lay off off this guy for awhile.Let him come too you I know he will.
yea just ignore the punk. he gives guys like me a bad name hahahaha. he sounds like one of those guys who thinks he can have every girl he wants and is just making you jealous by telling you theres someone else. there might not even be another girl. either way SCREW HIM!!! theres 1000000 guys out there and you shold'nt be worrying about this chump. i think you already made up your mind about him anyway. good luck GO PHILLIES!!
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