Men..Guys...Boys..lol, I need your advice.?

So..I never ask for any help in the dating department, but everyone needs a little help and this is one of those times.


I started seeing this guy 2 weeks ago. Great guy, a little younger and he's crazy about me...which is nice. But here's the thing. I don't get attached easily, I don't jump into relationships and Ihaven't had one for about 3 years. I feel like he may be moving too quickly for me, and before we met, he had gotten out of a relationship 3 weeks prior. So I'm thinking he might be one of these people who jumps from one realtionshiop to another.


My question......should I bother going any further? I have a tendancy of cutting guys off pretty quick, and I don't want to hurt this guy. I just don't want to get tied down..and so quickly. I feel like I'm starting to pull away already...I suck at commitment and relationships in general.


So any advice would be nice...and please no rude remarks.Men..Guys...Boys..lol, I need your advice.?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds as if you are on the opposite ends of the spectrum from each other; he's ';moving too fast';, and you're ';pulling back from the relationship.





You each have your own reasons for behaving the way that you do. You want a slow relationship to feel safe and not threatened by history repeating itself (I'm guessing).





He's out of a relationship recently and may be trying to pick things up with you where they fell apart with his last relationship.





If he is the good guy that you think that he may be, then I would suggest that you both have a serious conversation about what you are expecting or need. It's a little early in a relationship for this, but it sounds as if this is what is needed. Otherwise each of your expectations will be unmet, and will reinforce to him that he needs to move fast, and that you can only expect guys to demand too much of you, too soon. Actively listen to what is said, and repeat back what you think that you heard, as well as why you think it was said. Ask for corrections of any mistakes that you both have said.





Good luck with this.Men..Guys...Boys..lol, I need your advice.?
You need to let him go because you said plainly that


you dont want to be ';tied down'; and ';in a committed relationship'; right now. If you let it go on any further. You might be leading him on. Good luck
Honesty is the best policy. If you tell him that you enjoy the company and wouldn't mind seeing him but you want him to know that at this point in your life your not looking for anything to serious. It might help you to keep from pulling away if he knows not to get clingy in the first place and let you guys enjoy going out for a good time. Either he is relationship guy and moves on or he matures a bit and you still see eachother.
Sorry, I'm not a guy but I think that you should just tell him that you don't want a romantic relationship right now, but you WOULD like to stay as close friends. It will definitely hurt him and he will either agree or give up and leave. You have to explain why you don't want one at the moment, be it that he may be on the rebound or that you have a problem with commitment at this time. Good Luck! Hope this helps!
I'd say give it a little more time and see what happens.





I'd take you! =D