Guys can you give me some advice?please?

theres some guys i know who are going out with girls who arent the best choice. why do they go out with them if they know that theres other girls out there who suit them better? do they care about smarts and that stuff? or is it mainly because of looks? does confidence intimdate them?Guys can you give me some advice?please?
LOL I am glad I copy%26amp;pasted all that..... ok this is the answer to the other question you erased before I posted this:








You need to be proactive about this. I am in a very similar situation and in college. I am the smart guy, who looks quite good (not a model but I do look good and dress nice etc etc and exercise too) and who has ZERO of weird or arrogance in him (yes, I know many smart guys are either weirdos or full of themselves, I am not like that) AND guess what, I haven't gotten any........ The problem (already realized it and already working against it) is that you cannot expect the one you want to find you and come to you and tell ';oh baby I ';this and that';'; LOL!!! that will never happen, you are in the real world...... SO you are the one that needs to indentify the one YOU like and initiate conversation with them (girls might be more lucky, but the guy that doesn't do this is screwed because they never make 1st moves) and see whether he (in my case she) likes you or not, finds you interesting or not....... answer = NO means you move on today and tomorrow find someone else that fits with you YOU meet them somehow and talk to them. Sooner or later you have to find someone you like who likes you as well and who is 100% single like you.


You will have an easier time than me doing this because (according to you) you are pretty and confident so that means you already have it easier. I, as a man, know well that pretty women have it easier because that is one thing that attracts all men, good or bad ....... there really aren't too many like me who will look at BOTH liking her AND her personality, as in if she is beautiful but she doesn't click with me = find another one tomorrow LOL..... I am serious, I know what I want. I have seen progress as well after I adopted this way of thinking and acting....... most people will not come to you and talk to you just because you are OH WOW so special..... yeah whatever ,,,,,, so you are the one that has to make the move if you want earlier results......





Now, 3 warnings, be smart enough and choose well who you make ';the move'; with, make sure that it is with a single guy you like and don't go just by his looks, personality does matter....... unless you want to get laid, but I want that + a real relationship so I gotta think differently....... 2nd warning, do not stick like crazy glue to one that doesn't show interest, that's stupid, plus they don't care and/or don't like you period, move on...... and get used to it...... but in your case being the woman, I bet that won't happen much to you..... last warning: make it as casual as normal as possible, I have talked to many girls at lunch, hey I am just looking for a seat you can't blame me :p plus they don't think I sat there in purpose either........... either way I am still single, but believe me being proactive, confident, and just don't giving a crap about whether things go right or wrong (and looking for a ';new route'; if they go wrong) helps.Guys can you give me some advice?please?
I personally prefer girls with a brain as well as looks, but then I'm a boff and I think relationships should last longer than a couple of weeks xD





Confidence is a problem, a lot of boys will go out with a girl just for confidence, or to prove to themselves that they can have a gf, or just because the girl started flirting with him and he thought it was his best chance.