Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?

I have very strong feelings for my best friend and he knows it. When I approached him about it he says he needs to feel it in his heart. Whatever that means?





Anyway just trying to set the scene. The thing is that was a few weeks ago we had this conversation about how I felt about him and wasn't too sure if I could have him hanging around esp if I needed to move on and he is now talking about us going on holiday together, we've been away a few times together and each time it brings us closer together and then after a few weeks when we get back he seems to not pull away, but more a case of settled that we only see each other at the weekends.





A big part of me wants to go away with him, but I need him to understand things can't go on the way they are and I need to try and move on but it's breaking my heart staying or leaving him.





Do you think this guy is messing with my head and using me until something better comes along? Should I be strong and not go on hol ?Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
Maybe you're too intense - be casual and mysterious go with him and have fun if you're really keen on him. Keep your options open. Good luck.Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
yes he is messing with ur head
He is messing with your head otherwise he would of already asked you out, or at least made moves to show that he wants you as a steady girl, not just a ';when we are alone'; hook-up.





At the same time, he may also care too much about ruining a friendship (especially best friends) by getting into a relationship which can complicate things. But, I think, a guy and a girl who are best friends would make a better relationship b/c they enjoy their company.





You need to say, ';Do you want to be with me or not?'; And if he gives you any answer besides a definitive ';Yes'; then you


need to consider dating other people until he knows he wants you.
You poured your heart out but he doesn't feel the same. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you do about them. It is probally best to move on, if he is not the right guy then getting yourself closer will only make things harder. On the otherhand if time and space is what he needs to work out how he really feels, give it to him. Let him chase you for a change.
May be he is as confused as you are.try being not available all the time s...let him yearn a bit.you cant make anyone fall in love it just happens SO IF IT HAS TO IT WOULD DONT FORCE THINGS THERES ALwAYS A CORRECT TIME FOR EVERYTHING%26gt;JUST CHILL
I think you should move on it's best for you since he knows your feelings and won't return them back. He might just be playing around w/ your mind.