Sunday, December 27, 2009

How do i do it? I am a guy in need of a little advice.?

I have known this guy, Jordan, for a few years now and we have grown really close. I now want to take our relationship to the next level, past touching which we've already gone pro on. I have heard it can be quite difficult to find the... point of entry... in a man the first few times and i don't want to embarrass myself as I've never done it with a bloke before. I really like him and i don't want to mess things up between us now they've gotten so good. Please help!How do i do it? I am a guy in need of a little advice.?
Its pretty easy. Just ask him if you can put your penis in his @ssHow do i do it? I am a guy in need of a little advice.?
Sex is not a wham-bam-thank-you-man proposition. The best sex involves COMMUNICATION between the participants. I understand you not wanting to come off as a novice, but if this is a first time for both of you, let it be a MUTUAL learning experience. Do this TOGETHER; don't put all the responsibility on yourself. After you get to know one another ';better,'; THEN you can role play with dominant/submissive or w/e.





Unless he's a ';pro bottom,'; getting him ready with fingers, dildos and other insertables will make you intimately familiar with where things are located. Sex is clumsy sometimes; it's part of the turf. Don't worry about your performance. Revel in the experience.





Happy ';hunting.'; Hope you get a bull's eye... ;-)
It can also be painful if you don't know what you are doing -- painful for your partner.





Start with oral sex if you haven't done that yet. When you get to anal, use lots of lube and go VERY, VERY slowly.





You might want to read ';The Joy of Gay Sex'; if you haven't.





Kind thoughts,





Hermes
If you talk to him about homosexuality it will probably help.


See what he does and/or what says about that.


Then, you麓ll see if you guys can or can麓t go ahead.
well if he's been gay for many years, he should be like a clowns pocket.





Sorry if that was a bit graphic.
Please don't do this





Many gays never do such things so why must you?
I say communicate with him. Sometimes when u communicate with someone before during and after sex, it eases tension and helps the couple explore new things you know. In your case since you havent dont it before, read books like Joy of Gay Sex( I prefer practical and theoretical learning) or ask him what he likes. Some folks like their stuff to be massaged first(like one finger, two fingers and so on) and then they proceed to...u know go in either by having the other guy sit on it or scissors style(Please be advised NOT to do do him on his back because then he wont have control for the first before you do). And if he feels little pain, always ask if he is alright and if you should stop or go, depending on how big you are(if you are a big guy in that area, have him sit on it and adjust himself)





This is how some folks, including me, start off, and then progress as time goes on you know.
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lube!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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