Friday, April 30, 2010

Guys and Girls, please help me out, I need advice! best answer gets 10 points !?

Okay, so heres the problem:


I have seriously liked this guy since fourth grade, I'm now in 10th. We talk for about 2 minutes everyday, but I really really like him, its hard to describe but the feelings are real.


He has problems though, he does drugs, and don't say anything about this because i don't care if he does drugs or not.





so hes really laid back, and i'm soo afraid to start a convorsation with him, but how can i do this?. i really want to get to know him more.


and i also dont want to annoy him.


any advice would really help me out.





or how can i get him to want to hang out with me..or want my number?








and he usually doesnt do homework, so thats out for a ';convo starter';


Thanks guys!Guys and Girls, please help me out, I need advice! best answer gets 10 points !?
Do drugs with him. Want to get to know him better.


Take an interest in what he does. Take drugs with him.


Also it really depends on the type of drugs he takes.


marijuana will not hurt you...if he takes meth, coke, perscription drugs etc. There is no room for anyone else in his life, just room for ego. In turn you would have to deal with addiction.


If you do not want to try or use drugs. Take an interest in yourself, others who take care of themselves and wait till the time is right.Guys and Girls, please help me out, I need advice! best answer gets 10 points !?
Honestly why would you want to be with a guy that has no life? He does drugs, he doesn't do his HW he doesn't care about his life besides being a ';bad boy';. You don't want that. But just if you still want to be with him just start a simple conversation... ';hey what's your name, i've seen you around'; and after that just take the lead and ask for a number
If he's interested in sports or other activites, try to start a convo about that. Or if he has facebook or some type of chat (AIM,Yahoo,MSN, ect.) try to talk to him on there. It is so much easier to talk to someone on the computer!! (: hope it helped a little,%26amp; I'm sorry for your little problem. I hope it all gets better soon!(:
In my opinion you shouldn't go out with this guy. But I'll go both ways. Be confident when you're talking with him. Just go up and start a conversation. Do you have classes with him? Talk about them and and the teachers, or other gossip that's going around. You might wanna get to know the guy first before getting his number though.





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this guy is probably a little old for you since you get nervous talking to him. he's a loser and he isn't going anywhere in life with that drug problem. move on.
Music, movies, upcoming social events.


All of these are very popular conversation starters!


Good luck with your mystery man!!!
uhhh hes not good for you
hello natalie i read ur question u have a very simple problem just drag ur conversation with him at the time wen u speak with him. just talk something regarding ur homeworks or about ur interests like tat and also shower ur care on him and make him feel that u r a well wisher and u r a caring heart for him an then ask him for a date surely he'll hang out with u. then while u speak with him be bubbly and cute dont bore him speak what he likes i mean about his crush and wat gals means to him lik tat got it! enjoy babe have a nice time
first off it depends what drugs he does. if it's just weed thats nothing to worry about. if it's any powders or pills though don't even bother starting a relationship with him. What you need to do is find things you have in common with him %26amp;%26amp; attempt to get the conversation flowing a bit more. Make him laugh. Guys always fall for the girls that can make them laugh. If your self conscious just prep yourself up before hand. Look at yourself in the mirror %26amp;%26amp; focus on your good qualities. Then just start talking to him more. Eventually you'll get a lot more comfortable with talking to him =]

Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?

I need some advice on what guys think is Sexy, I don't want to be boring anymore, and I need some tips...and since all guys are different then just give me what you like, [as guys], or girls just tell me what you do and what your guy likes...


I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..


=]


Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
Put your hair down,


Take your makeup off,


Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.


Feel good about yourself,


Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)





Make sure to smile, and look happy,





In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.





What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
Hey Hailley!


Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!


A%26amp;N
One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]





Don't pretend to be something you're not...





Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!





jus b ur beautiful self!!
when the girl is in control....





a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
don't know
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  • Guys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?

    I met this guy in the club. we hit it right off and he asked for my number. i gave it to him and three days later he texted me asking if i want to grab a drink. I couldn't make it and suggested another day.


    But then he called and asked if I wanted to help him pick up some clothes at the mall. He offered to pick me up the next day.


    I was expecting him to ask me out for dinner.





    Is it normal for a guy to ask u out on first date shopping at the mall? What does he think?





    Please help.Guys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
    Well to tell the truth on my first date with my gf we went to dinner and then did hit the mall. It actully lets you talk but you are not alone so there isn't alot of pressure on either of you. It might actully work better than say dinner and a movie , because you can drag out shopping as long as you want or cut it short if you aren't haveing a good time. But it is odd forthe actual shopping request. so good luckGuys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
    Ya, that's normal n what i did...But asking you to pick up something for him like a clothe or what is weird..... But a great excuse to meet up, that's for sure............
    yeha sure go for it

    Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?

    I need some advice on what guys think is Sexy, I don't want to be boring anymore, and I need some tips...and since all guys are different then just give me what you like, [as guys], or girls just tell me what you do and what your guy likes...


    I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..


    =]


    Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
    Put your hair down,


    Take your makeup off,


    Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.


    Feel good about yourself,


    Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)





    Make sure to smile, and look happy,





    In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.





    What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
    a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
    Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
    Hey Hailley!


    Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!


    A%26amp;N
    One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]





    Don't pretend to be something you're not...





    Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
    in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!





    jus b ur beautiful self!!
    when the girl is in control....





    a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
    umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
    don't know

    GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?

    ok so this is pretty much like my other question but a little different so here it goes:


    ok so i really like this one guy but i'm not exactly sure if he knows who i am. so like sometimes i'll pass by him and wanna say hi but i'm so shy and i'm not sure how he would react to me knowing his name! so are there any guys that would give me some advice about like if i said i to him how would you react to me saying hi and then your name so please help me i don't know what to do?!?!?!?!!?!?!? so yeah and i have 2 different ways of getting his cell phone number and if i do get it should i text him or not? SO ALL U GUYS CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLEASE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
    Texting might be a bit weird if you never talk to him.





    I assume you go to school together? If so, do you share a class? Again, if so, just ask him about homework some day. This might seem lame, but then you can always say hi and strike a conversation without the whole never having talked thing getting in the way.





    Or you could just say hi. Its not a big deal, and he wont get creeped out. I mean people I dont know well know my name, and its not really weird. I mean, i usually just figure we know the same people.GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
    talk to him for a while, say hi in the hall, then eventually build it up, maybe get his number when u know him better or whatever call him one night ask if he wants to go to the movies or something, like act hell spontaneous... but don't be shy...
    Go for it, get his number, give him a text, get to know him, let him get to know you, let it go from there, what have you got to lose eh?





    Hope all goes well :)
    Say hi, he is probably as shy as you are.

    Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?

    this guy liked me for a year. he asked me out and I said ';I'm sorry but I can't go out with you. but we can just be friends';. he looked really hurt.


    I couldn't go out with him because I wasn't aloud to date untill I was 15. (I'm 15 now but I was 14 when he asked me). I should have told him but I was too embarassed.





    it's been a year since then and I get the impression he doesn't want to be friends. he's looked at me like he wants to kill me two or three times.





    his friend, Marcus, is really cool. the three of os used to hang out during class but he moved. he came back and he seems like he doesn't want to be bothered with me. sometimes he looks at me like he wants me dead too. I think the guy who asked me out told him I rejected him and he's pissed because of it.





    how would you feel if you were the guy who asked me out?


    how would you feel if you were his friend?Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
    I believe your best option is to tell him the truth. Let him know why you rejected him, and if he continues to shrug you off, than disregard his presence.Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
    i would just move on...it's a lost cause...
    Honesty is the best policy. Ask him out and tell him you reason for saying ';no'; before. He will understand and be overjoyed that you now can see him. This will also totally mend his broken ego!
    Well, the guy might still like you. And it takes a while to get over the fact that ';the girl you like just wants to be my frined.'; I think you have a good idea. Just go for it. He has to forgive you by now. If not, then he should. It is so stupid for someone to not like someone just because they won't go out with them. He probibly gave you dirty looks because you aren't hanging out with him. Well thats my advice ';from a male'; Haha. Good luck.
    tel him how you feel
    Tell him how u feel. Doesnt work out, theres other fish in the sea. In the end, try to be freinds with both!
    Ahhhhhhh, young love, I miss thoes dilemma, good luck.
    Just go up to one of them and talk to them, its all in your head, if the guy liked you a year ago, chances are that he still does, and he is just mad that he got rejected. you will find out soon enoughf, and then just tell him the truth, just realize that if you do, and he does still like you that he will try and ask you out again. good luck
    ur 15 dont worry what they think they really dont matter becasue in life people come and go but real friends(not like them) stay beside you no matter what.So u rejected him....hes being just another typical male by blowing u off and not being your friend just becasue u said no.U had a very valid reason but at his age its not sinking in so never mind him or his friend.Concentrate on your studies and remember a good education will get you alot further then worrying about what some boy might think.Listen to the song ';skater boy'; that will someday be you if u want it to be only put yourself in both spots of skater boy and the girl hes with now.If u can dream it u can acheive it.
    You are 15, don't worry about it...
    Basically I think you hurt this guys male pride, just as it was developing - that would have hurt! His friend is demonstrasting his loyalty to his friend


    Best bet is just to be honest - maybe he'll understand, maybe he wont - but you'll not know what he thinks until he knows what you know... Good luck!
    How many times is this question going to be asked? Grow some ball$ and ask the dude yourself instead of beating around the bush. You should have been honest from the start and you wouldn't be in this mess.
    The guys are being incredibly immature over being turned down. Leave them alone; you don't want to be friends with whiners like that anyway
    Talk to them it will be best if you can get know them casually first

    Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?

    I've been dating this guy for a while. I was totally shocked when he asked me out though. He's handsome, the star on all the sports teams, and extremely. I might be paranoid but I'm scared he's losing interest in me. I think I love him and he tells me that he loves me. He tells me I'm beautiful. But I'm scared I'm losing him. So I have questions for guys and girls:


    Guys: How do I turn you back on? How do I make you want me? What are some things that I might do that turn you off?





    Girls: If you have experienced this, please help me! How did you keep a hold of your guy? Please tell me anything!!








    Thank you so much!! Please help me on this. I don't think I can handle losing him.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
    Whoa, whoa, whoa. Take a deep breath, and then read the rest of this answer.





    Feeling better? Okay.





    If he's telling you he loves you and that he thinks you're beautiful--and he means it, he's not just saying it to get you into bed--then you are NOT losing him. You don't have to make him want you, because he already does, from the info you've given us. Actually, the problem sounds more like you can't believe he's with you, meaning that you may have a little bit of an inferiority complex. Have some confidence, girl! You totally deserve a guy who loves you and thinks you're beautiful. Believe it.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
    I know you don't want to hear this, but if you have to try to keep him, then he's not the right one for you. Believe me, there will be other loves and it might be time for you to move on. You might want to check out this website for a different answer. A coworker of mine uses it all the time for dating advice. It is http://www.datingtips247.com Hope this helps!
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