Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?

i need to kno if i should tell my guy some things about me. i don't kno if he knos or not?





i am 17, and i have liked this one guy for about a year and a half now, and he has liked me too. he moved away tho, to another state, about a year ago. and we have sort of had a long distance relationship going on. we first started talking a year and a half ago, and back then i was goth and really depressed and was a cutter and i had been in a psych ward for cutting, and trying to/wanting kill myself a few times. i don't kno tho if he knew about my suicidal-ness, and my cutting. we didn't really talk about it. now, i am a complete prep, and people would guess that i was really happy go lucky. but underneath what everyone sees, i still get really really depressed, and i still cut. but in less obvious places. i really like this guy and i am starting to get really attached to him, to where i want to tell him things.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
It is better to be truthful in the beginning, becqause if he finds out later in the relationship, he would get really upset. just let him know u guys have to talk and go from there. tell him that u were scared to tell him because u really really like him.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
dont hide things from him or he wont trust you..


but i am more concerned about your cutting..


please talk to someone about it PLEASE..


i have seen too many people do this and end up killing themselves or having serious serious health problems.


you need to stop cutting or sooner or later he will see the real you under all that stuff you do to hide it.


you dont realize what you are doing to yourself..


i hope this helps.
Not being mean or anything but you need to seek counseling and possibly meds if needed seriously. The relationship has no chance with the mental issues your are still dealing with and it won't be fair for either of you to be involved seriously until you get help. Take care of yourself and be a friend to him for now.
if you two really care about eachother i say you should. if you trust him enough to want to tell him, then you should be able to trust that he'll still be there after you do.
ur story is too long so i cant help you