One time he dropped me off at my house after a party and tried to kiss me on the lips but i got shy and turned away. the next night, we were dancing at another party and having a great time, i told him i had a crush on him and he tried to kiss me but i pushed him away again.then after like 10 minutes i finally let him kiss me (it was a long soft kiss). after that, i went on a trip and he asked my sister about me and she said i didnt mean anything i said (wtf right?!?!).but he still came to my house when i got back to say happy birthday to me.i hadnt seen him for about a month since then bc after that, his frat ';brothers'; made him get really drunk and then let him drive anyway-he got a dui.he's also really dorky and probably thought i wasnt interested so i made the first move by inviting him over to watch a movie at my house and he said yes.i asked him for friday but he had to go to a retreat so he asked me out to the movies monday night (lol and he's friends with my brother and he actually asked him if it was ok to take me to the movies) but on the ';date'; he brought his brother and his gf..i think he was nervous? we had a great time and talked a lot and by the end of the night he said we should hang out again soon (he seemed kinda nervous lol during the movie his leg kept bouncing haha and when he spoke to me he got really close to my face lol). The other night he asked my brother if he could come over our house to hang out..but his mom wouldnt let him at the last minute lol =/..yesterday we were texting each other kinda flirty lol and we're planning on hanging out at my house one friday by ourselves..What should i do now? Text him again and make convo?..I'm 18, he's 20 by the way and im leaving for NYU aug 24..i've never made out before so i want to kiss him soooon! lool advice! I'm just worried that he's not interested so i dont want to seem pushy..? even tho i'm not like that at all hahaGuys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
He kissed u once already, he tried to 2x. He ttttttttttottttttttttaaaaaaallllllllllll鈥?likes u!!!!!!!!!!!!! U better make ur move B4 he moves on or B4 u go 2 NYU!!!!!!!!!!!Guys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
Well you shouldn't have pushed him away, that most likely lost his confidence. If he seems like a nervous guy, I'm sure that he was trying his hardest.
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yer, he likes you,, theres no question about that.
he seems like areally sweet guy, but he got knocked back too many times, try not to be too shy anymore!!
and when you get closer, youve got to tell him that ur going to uni, and when and stuff.
text him about 11:00 tonight, and keep texting well into the night,, thats always fun.
definitely a keeper this guy
good luck (Y)
YES. He definitely likes you. I get the same way around a girl I like, try to talk to her even during a movie, getting real close because I have to whisper,etc. First of all movies is where teenagers go to make out, although bringing his brother and brother's gf is weird, maybe he thought they would be making out and give you an idea haha I dunno. Anyways, I even get the leg bouncing, usually my right. I say go for it.
But please, if your leaving for a long time and have no intention of seeing him again don't break his heart.
You should get together with him and let him know you like him too... you shouldn't worry about him not liking you and coming off pushy... it sounds like he TOTALLY likes YOU!!
Have Fun!!
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It sounds like he is very interested in you otherwise he wouldn't have wanted to kiss you before, or go out on a date with you. The problem you might have is, you are going to have to make the first move because he will not want to get denied again, so its up to you
Friday, January 8, 2010
Should I take him too seriously, or not (need some advice from well rounded type guys :)?
So i met a guy that I had a possible interest in last weekend. We hung out a couple times since then and he told me that he likes me ALOT. And, I dont know if it's being that we met at a bar, but I liked him alot at first too. Then after hanging out with him a few times after that I'm not so sure HOW into him I am- but he is still VERY interested in me. I didn't talk to him for a day or two, and tonight he went out and got drunk at a bar. He texted me and wanted me to come see him. I didnt want to because he was already drunk and I had just gotten off work..and if I had gone and picked him up, im sure I know what would have happened. So anyway, he kept sending me text like, ';come see me'; ';i need you to come get me'; and then the bar closed and apparently he took a taxi but didnt know if he wanted to go home or see me...sent me atext asking if i wanted him to come here, i said it was not a good idea. then he sent a text saying he was passing by my place,(which is out of the way) do I want him to come or not? ..and then sent one saying he was coming over. I said, uhm. no. and he said BYE. So...i figure he is just really drunk...but i feel bad for him though.. like I hope he will get over it in the morning...Should I take him too seriously, or not (need some advice from well rounded type guys :)?
Yeah he will get over it, sounded like he just wanted to sleep with you though.Should I take him too seriously, or not (need some advice from well rounded type guys :)?
Don't worry about this guy people as I'm sure you know do weird and stupid things when they are drunk. He perobably won't even remember the conversation he had with you in the morning. But just make sure when you go to bed you lock your doors. Take care.
why you playing with him? if you dont like him then tell him so he can leave you be! we hate girls that play around with emotions.
He sounds like a stalker to me ...
How YOU doin
Yeah he will get over it, sounded like he just wanted to sleep with you though.Should I take him too seriously, or not (need some advice from well rounded type guys :)?
Don't worry about this guy people as I'm sure you know do weird and stupid things when they are drunk. He perobably won't even remember the conversation he had with you in the morning. But just make sure when you go to bed you lock your doors. Take care.
why you playing with him? if you dont like him then tell him so he can leave you be! we hate girls that play around with emotions.
He sounds like a stalker to me ...
How YOU doin
Guys only?please help in need of advice?
ok so would you tell your crushes big sister that you like her and her and her big sister are like really close.the big sister keeps on asking who he likes and she thinks that he likes the younger sister.but hes saying no im not telling youGuys only?please help in need of advice?
Tell the truth even if it hurts!wrinkle cream
Tell the truth even if it hurts!
Guys please... need your guidance on sex advice?
Wanting to try something new in the bedroom... nothing weird and fettish like just different and fun... any ideas???Guys please... need your guidance on sex advice?
I've had this problem. Start with simple changes that shake things up to the core. I'll let you in on a secret, if you take control of this for a round he will think it's unbelievably sexy.
Try this. Next time he takes a shower, surprise him by joining him. If you two use condoms, be sure to have some. Go in and give him a little taste, if you catch my drift. Then tell him you're waiting in the bedroom. Drive this big plan home by being ';ready'; for him in the bedroom, but have a blindfold on. I guarantee you this will drive him wild.Guys please... need your guidance on sex advice?
(Not a guy but meh) try a new poistion, new underwear perhaps handcuffs or blindfolds or food. (nothing hardcore just fun)
Ha try this, keep lot of candles, play light music, make it more exciting with light perfume and a bit more with a porn movie together , try this it may help both of you... have a good time,
roleplay?
the speeding motorist and the policewoman
I've had this problem. Start with simple changes that shake things up to the core. I'll let you in on a secret, if you take control of this for a round he will think it's unbelievably sexy.
Try this. Next time he takes a shower, surprise him by joining him. If you two use condoms, be sure to have some. Go in and give him a little taste, if you catch my drift. Then tell him you're waiting in the bedroom. Drive this big plan home by being ';ready'; for him in the bedroom, but have a blindfold on. I guarantee you this will drive him wild.Guys please... need your guidance on sex advice?
(Not a guy but meh) try a new poistion, new underwear perhaps handcuffs or blindfolds or food. (nothing hardcore just fun)
Ha try this, keep lot of candles, play light music, make it more exciting with light perfume and a bit more with a porn movie together , try this it may help both of you... have a good time,
roleplay?
the speeding motorist and the policewoman
!!!Need advice about a boy from a guys point of view?
Ok. I met this guy around Nov. I was into him and he was into me. we talked alot like everyday for two to three hours each day. Until his phone got cut off (finaical hardship). so we started to talk only when we see each other. I kept saying that he like me alot and i was going to be his wife ect ect. So i told him that he and i needed to approch my parents about us. (i'm a PK and that's how they want it done) But he kept saying his not ready. So i said when ever you ready let me know. In my parents eyes me and him are just friends. so, i would hold hands with him or cuddle with our church people around. 'cause i didn't want them to go back and tell thim. I went to his 21st b-day party anf he just pushed me a side.he didn't introduce me to his parents.we only talked a couple of times.a few days later he came back sayin that we should work on our friendship,and that i wasn't opening up to him.such a sudden change have me ?ing, whats really going on. is smeone talkin nhis ear!!!Need advice about a boy from a guys point of view?
No whats going on here is that he may not be ready for a committed relationship like you want with him...If he is pushing you away that means she doesn't really like you like you like him. Thats the only reason he would push ya away and didn't tell his parents from you.
I hope I could help ya.!!!Need advice about a boy from a guys point of view?
he just wishes to be ur friend.
it look like he what you to be his girlfriend but he dosen,t what to marry you if he did he would at less tell he parent why you are ask him why did you no tell your parents who i was at less, it don,t look like he loves you enght to show you off.he need to grow up and treat you right, with respect that not resptful of him,
Your moving WAY to fast. You just met in what....Nov?. It's only Jan and your talking about marriage?!! I think it just caught up to him. It's nice to have someone in your life, but to make it happen like that is way to fast. Try to not think of him as such a serious thing right now. He's asking for his space and is having a hard time with it I bet.
Moving way to fast!
No whats going on here is that he may not be ready for a committed relationship like you want with him...If he is pushing you away that means she doesn't really like you like you like him. Thats the only reason he would push ya away and didn't tell his parents from you.
I hope I could help ya.!!!Need advice about a boy from a guys point of view?
he just wishes to be ur friend.
it look like he what you to be his girlfriend but he dosen,t what to marry you if he did he would at less tell he parent why you are ask him why did you no tell your parents who i was at less, it don,t look like he loves you enght to show you off.he need to grow up and treat you right, with respect that not resptful of him,
Your moving WAY to fast. You just met in what....Nov?. It's only Jan and your talking about marriage?!! I think it just caught up to him. It's nice to have someone in your life, but to make it happen like that is way to fast. Try to not think of him as such a serious thing right now. He's asking for his space and is having a hard time with it I bet.
Moving way to fast!
Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
What does a girl have to be like, as in her personality, for a guy to really like her?
What do guys find really attractive in a girl that makes them truly fall for her?
Would guys rather have a long relationship with a hott girl or a beautiful girl who has respect for herself?
I'm basically looking for an answer that would tell me how a girl has to be so that a guy would not only find her attractive but give her and the people that she knows respect and would do anything to be with her.
?Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
beauty is only skin deep that fades and dies out in time but it is the pure essence of a meek and subtle soul that earns respect and much precious than diamonds and gold.That's what I long to behold.Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
Rule 1: Don't be a egocentric princess!
Guys like different things, but no guy wants the example above. Be a cool and content person, if people actually like to be around you (not your gossip friends) you should be good.
What do guys find really attractive in a girl that makes them truly fall for her?
Would guys rather have a long relationship with a hott girl or a beautiful girl who has respect for herself?
I'm basically looking for an answer that would tell me how a girl has to be so that a guy would not only find her attractive but give her and the people that she knows respect and would do anything to be with her.
?Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
beauty is only skin deep that fades and dies out in time but it is the pure essence of a meek and subtle soul that earns respect and much precious than diamonds and gold.That's what I long to behold.Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
Rule 1: Don't be a egocentric princess!
Guys like different things, but no guy wants the example above. Be a cool and content person, if people actually like to be around you (not your gossip friends) you should be good.
Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
i have this problem where just when i think a guy is gonna ask me out he stops flirting and flirts with other girls,,im getting so sick of it,,ive never really had this problem until this year, usaully theres one guy who flirts and then he would eventually ask me out but this year ive had a couple guys that i thought liked me but then they moved on,,its making me sad cuz the guy i like right now is doing this and i like him more then ive ever liked a guy b4,usaully im really good about moving on when a guy is being dumb but i cant seem to do that with him,,any advice to what i should do about this problem =(Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
well ask urself this what are u doing thats causing him to do this. ok i like this girl but she is really mesing things up right now everytime i try to ask her out she walks away or stays near her friends and well im not losing interest cause i care about her too much to do that. but if ur doing what this girl is doing stop it. cause then this guy won't even ask u out if thats what u want.Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
Maybe you aren't responding to their flirting? Check yourself girl do you seem taken or angry all the time? I don't think the dudes would stop liking you if you smiled at them once in a while.
Well. From my point of View,, You shouldn't worry about all the other guys flirting with you and just focus on the guys u Really Like,, Guys can be JERKS! Trust me i know that from expirience, and all they want is ur Bod, (rolled eyes) Us girls think that the guys are sending us singals until u see them with other chicks,, So i wuldn't worry about em... Just Like i said focus on THE ONE.
WELL...JUST CAUSE YOU THINK HE IS GONNA ASK YOU OUT DONT MEEN HE IS...THATS WHAT YOU THINKK...ITS NOT LIKE HE HAS TO FLIRT WITH YOU!!:]
maybe ur making it too easy... this should give you a little harder shell, and will help you in the future, so forget the guy for now, and who knows he could c ome to you later!
omg the same thing happened to me
wat i did was i told him that i still liked him but i didnt like the way he was treating me and using every girl and changing who he likes everyday
i told him that if he keeps that up people will stop liking him
I would ignore the flirting, if you are being an attentive audience then they will lose interest because you seem so easily entertained. See how this works. Also, be confident within yourself instead of getting it from them flirting with you.
eat chocolate and icecream
always makes me feel better
try going for him and just try flirting with him and see what he does and when he flirts play it up and go along with it completely!!
good luck!
confront him, don't wait til' the guy asks you out. And also, guys are jerks like that. They want a variety of girls. If he really loved you the way you love him, then he would have stuck with you. He shouldn't go out flirting with a bunch of girls. That is one of my biggest pet peeves (I spelled that wrong).
he's not worth it. if he doesn't see you that way than maybe he's just not the one. move on just like you have before. the right guy will come. hopefully.
My suggestion is to go for it. you will be living in this world of sad if you dont do anything. If you are a shy type, drop hints and make sure other girls don't get in your way. Oh one thing dont act different from yourself that would be the worst thing that you could do.
well ask urself this what are u doing thats causing him to do this. ok i like this girl but she is really mesing things up right now everytime i try to ask her out she walks away or stays near her friends and well im not losing interest cause i care about her too much to do that. but if ur doing what this girl is doing stop it. cause then this guy won't even ask u out if thats what u want.Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
Maybe you aren't responding to their flirting? Check yourself girl do you seem taken or angry all the time? I don't think the dudes would stop liking you if you smiled at them once in a while.
Well. From my point of View,, You shouldn't worry about all the other guys flirting with you and just focus on the guys u Really Like,, Guys can be JERKS! Trust me i know that from expirience, and all they want is ur Bod, (rolled eyes) Us girls think that the guys are sending us singals until u see them with other chicks,, So i wuldn't worry about em... Just Like i said focus on THE ONE.
WELL...JUST CAUSE YOU THINK HE IS GONNA ASK YOU OUT DONT MEEN HE IS...THATS WHAT YOU THINKK...ITS NOT LIKE HE HAS TO FLIRT WITH YOU!!:]
maybe ur making it too easy... this should give you a little harder shell, and will help you in the future, so forget the guy for now, and who knows he could c ome to you later!
omg the same thing happened to me
wat i did was i told him that i still liked him but i didnt like the way he was treating me and using every girl and changing who he likes everyday
i told him that if he keeps that up people will stop liking him
I would ignore the flirting, if you are being an attentive audience then they will lose interest because you seem so easily entertained. See how this works. Also, be confident within yourself instead of getting it from them flirting with you.
eat chocolate and icecream
always makes me feel better
try going for him and just try flirting with him and see what he does and when he flirts play it up and go along with it completely!!
good luck!
confront him, don't wait til' the guy asks you out. And also, guys are jerks like that. They want a variety of girls. If he really loved you the way you love him, then he would have stuck with you. He shouldn't go out flirting with a bunch of girls. That is one of my biggest pet peeves (I spelled that wrong).
he's not worth it. if he doesn't see you that way than maybe he's just not the one. move on just like you have before. the right guy will come. hopefully.
My suggestion is to go for it. you will be living in this world of sad if you dont do anything. If you are a shy type, drop hints and make sure other girls don't get in your way. Oh one thing dont act different from yourself that would be the worst thing that you could do.
Guys this is 2 you girls give advice please i need help!!!!<3?
how can i get a guy who is your friend to like you. he goes to my school. hes a new kid who always is nice. almost everytimes hes happy to see me. i need 2 know does he like me. if not how can i get him 2 see me as a great girlfriend not just a friend.Guys this is 2 you girls give advice please i need help!!!!%26lt;3?
tell him how u feel and he might take the bait lol
tell him how u feel and he might take the bait lol
HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
Im in college. I went to get ice cream with a girl i didnt know and we talked for almost two hours. She IMed me when I got back and said she had a good time and wanted to hang out again. I called her and asked her out to dinner and she said yes. I really like this girl and I have lost girls by moving too slow in the past. Would it be ok for me to kiss her goodnight on the lips on this second date? Girls would you be offended if that happened to you?HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
Definantly not offended. To me it sounds like she is interested. You'll be able to tell if she is into it or not at the end of the night and then just go in for the kill. If she turns you her cheek dont be offended she just may want things to go slower and not kiss on the first date ( i wouldnt count the first one but i guess you could) Good Luck!!!HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
See how it feels it she is pulling away a bit then no dont, but if you arent sure then go for it you can always just adjust and go for the cheek if you need to at the last minute.
well dude..you just have to watch how she acts with you...
She's not the other girls you dated. She called you so obviously she likes you or you have a really rich uncle you don't know about that is about to leave you a massive inheritance.
First, she has to be your girlfirend before you can kiss her.
it depends on the person,the 2nd date is to soon for some,just let things happen naturally,if you want to kiss her on the 2nd date do it on the cheek and then wait and see if she makes the next move,good luck
no i wouldnt be offended
Well, it really depends of how she feels about u, but lots of girls hate it when u ask them if it's ok. U kinda have to go with ur gut on this
if her body language says she likes you, then the green light is on. if her body language says ';stay away'; or ';yikes!'; then the big red light is on. good luck and be sensitive to her cues.
sure, kiss her so long as she's OK with it.
No I wouldn't be offended. If the night went great just ask her if its ok first or if she would like to take it slower. Every relationship is different.
I think you're going the other extreme now. I would be totally creeped out by a guy who tried to kiss me on the lips on the second date. Why not a lingering kiss on the cheek? Lips is just too full on.
ummm listen to what she says and if she drops hints bring up the kiss later in the night and keep making her interested go in for the kiss then if she pulls away simply hug her and tell her goodnight and let it go from there
maybe. it depends on how the night went...
when the girl herself wants another date then she'll surely love to have the kiss. go ahead best of luck.
I would. I've kissed girls on the day I've met them. Get it Beaux!
First of all, welcome to America!
I don't know which of the ';old countries'; you're from, but kissing on the second date is not considered too forward in the States! We do many socially advanced things here now. For example, we let women drive cars and shop in the same malls as men. Sometimes, we even let our women ask us men out on dates!!!!
So, in summation, go for it! Give her a big ol' ';How Do You Do?'; on the smacker...she just might like it! But, be sure to pick the corn out of your teeth first.
Good luck!
I would certainly appreciate if the boy has done it to me. If you are in love and serious about her, please go ahead.
A true love will naturally develop. You will know when it is the right moment is. Avoid movies because that can make a uncomfortable feeling. You can't talk and silence can be very loud, if you catch my drift. You will do fine. Everyone gets the jitters, even her.
Its a must! Its like that sond by Cher.. 'the shoop-shoop song' (dont ask how I remembered the name of that song!). Anyway the best way to tell if someone loves you is in the kiss. You will know if its ok to take it further from there!
be straight up with her, tell her how much you like her and how you would like to kiss her
nah man just pull her towards you, if u feel like shes pulling away dont, but if she isnt then go for it
She obviously likes you. kiss her. I'd be ready to receive a kiss on the first date if I really like the guy.
But I suggest that throughout the date, you hold her hand.
This primary physical contact with prepare her to receive your kiss at the end of the night.wrinkle cream
Definantly not offended. To me it sounds like she is interested. You'll be able to tell if she is into it or not at the end of the night and then just go in for the kill. If she turns you her cheek dont be offended she just may want things to go slower and not kiss on the first date ( i wouldnt count the first one but i guess you could) Good Luck!!!HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
See how it feels it she is pulling away a bit then no dont, but if you arent sure then go for it you can always just adjust and go for the cheek if you need to at the last minute.
well dude..you just have to watch how she acts with you...
She's not the other girls you dated. She called you so obviously she likes you or you have a really rich uncle you don't know about that is about to leave you a massive inheritance.
First, she has to be your girlfirend before you can kiss her.
it depends on the person,the 2nd date is to soon for some,just let things happen naturally,if you want to kiss her on the 2nd date do it on the cheek and then wait and see if she makes the next move,good luck
no i wouldnt be offended
Well, it really depends of how she feels about u, but lots of girls hate it when u ask them if it's ok. U kinda have to go with ur gut on this
if her body language says she likes you, then the green light is on. if her body language says ';stay away'; or ';yikes!'; then the big red light is on. good luck and be sensitive to her cues.
sure, kiss her so long as she's OK with it.
No I wouldn't be offended. If the night went great just ask her if its ok first or if she would like to take it slower. Every relationship is different.
I think you're going the other extreme now. I would be totally creeped out by a guy who tried to kiss me on the lips on the second date. Why not a lingering kiss on the cheek? Lips is just too full on.
ummm listen to what she says and if she drops hints bring up the kiss later in the night and keep making her interested go in for the kiss then if she pulls away simply hug her and tell her goodnight and let it go from there
maybe. it depends on how the night went...
when the girl herself wants another date then she'll surely love to have the kiss. go ahead best of luck.
I would. I've kissed girls on the day I've met them. Get it Beaux!
First of all, welcome to America!
I don't know which of the ';old countries'; you're from, but kissing on the second date is not considered too forward in the States! We do many socially advanced things here now. For example, we let women drive cars and shop in the same malls as men. Sometimes, we even let our women ask us men out on dates!!!!
So, in summation, go for it! Give her a big ol' ';How Do You Do?'; on the smacker...she just might like it! But, be sure to pick the corn out of your teeth first.
Good luck!
I would certainly appreciate if the boy has done it to me. If you are in love and serious about her, please go ahead.
A true love will naturally develop. You will know when it is the right moment is. Avoid movies because that can make a uncomfortable feeling. You can't talk and silence can be very loud, if you catch my drift. You will do fine. Everyone gets the jitters, even her.
Its a must! Its like that sond by Cher.. 'the shoop-shoop song' (dont ask how I remembered the name of that song!). Anyway the best way to tell if someone loves you is in the kiss. You will know if its ok to take it further from there!
be straight up with her, tell her how much you like her and how you would like to kiss her
nah man just pull her towards you, if u feel like shes pulling away dont, but if she isnt then go for it
She obviously likes you. kiss her. I'd be ready to receive a kiss on the first date if I really like the guy.
But I suggest that throughout the date, you hold her hand.
This primary physical contact with prepare her to receive your kiss at the end of the night.
Not really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
Ok, so.. I have a lesbian friend with benefits kinda person, and I was really down on my luck and needed some help. So, she loaned me $75.00 worth of her food stamps so that I could buy groceries to take a lunch to work until I got my first paycheck. Well, a rental assistance place was supposed to help me with my rent as well so that I didn't get evicted, but it never came. So my landlord threatened eviction. So, that's where my paycheck went..to pay part of my rent balance. The next check, the same thing to catch up on rent. So, anyway, this girl calls me at work when I'm extremely busy and starts asking where her money is. I explain the situation with the rent and tell her I don't have it right now, but I will get it to her. She wants $75.00 in CASH so that she can go to gay pride in Austin.
I don't think this is fair, because for one, she gave me food stamps, NOT cash. and 2) the ';money'; I borrowed from her, HAD to be used on food. I dont' think I should give her cashNot really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
I agree with Death and Goldwing...
I never borrow money, but I have lent people money and never seen it again (it's usually been larger amounts like $300) speaking of...if anyone knows Andre, aka dre' please lt me know LOL..
I see both sides of the situation, she wants back what she loaned, and you had to pay your rent...although she did not loan you cash which is extremely different.
I would do like Death said...Not really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
Okay, im so sorry that i dont have any good advice about this because im awful at trying to get people to pay me back for loans i give out. I just dont like pressing them for it. But i just had to LMAO@Wickey!!! LOLLLL!!! I'll keep a lookout for Andre!!!
Um, she didn't give you cash, there wouldn't be any cash coming back from me. years ago I used to know of people that sold their food stamps so they could buy things that weren't approved of and the illegal exchange rate was 1 dollar stamp for 50 cents. While I don't approve of it, that would be the most cash I would give up if I had it to spend, otherwise she would get a gift card for the amount of the food stamps(which still isn't equal but most cards can't be spent on alcohol or tobacco).
You are right, keeping a roof over your head is a bit more important than giving up party money. If she can't understand that, I do believe it might be time to cut her loose altogether.
Come on, when things get that bad I know people tend to run out of soap, toothpaste and toilet paper, none of which can be bought with food stamps. If nothing else go buy $75 dollars worth of Groceries and take it to her.
You say you've paid her back with interest before, so how about paying her $80 in cash, and never borrowing again?
You add in all kinds of unnecessary info, like being called at work when 'extremely busy', sounds like she really needs the money.
Cash is a universal currency, so use that. You used the foodstamps for non-food, so it's allowing her to do what she wishes - with her own money, after all. And her kindness saved you from eviction, you don't seem so grateful for something that kept you off of the streets.
Do the decent thing and just payup.
Good luck! Rob
No, you're not being a jerk at all....actually I would have suggested exactly the same thing. Purchase a gift card to her local grocery store.
It's the same form of help that she gave you, she can't complain that you didn't pay her back...unless....she used $75.00 cash of her own money to make up for the food stamps she lent to you.
Granted, I still think the gift card is the best way to go...but I'm not 100% on it.
I don't care what kind of situation you are in, you repay the debt. And never borrow anything from a friend again...that is the quickest way to loose a friend I can think of. I have little pity here, for I have ';loaned'; so much money in my life to those down on their luck...and in each and every case, I have never been repaid...in fact, the persons who borrowed the money just dissappeared...never to be seen again. Now, I choose carefully who I ';loan'; money to...and I now consider it a gift, not a loan. There always seems to be reasons NOT to repay the loan...and you are being petty about this. Food stamps were used by you to buy food. If she had kept them, she may have sold them to raise money...that is NOT your affair or concern. The best I can offer is to buy 75.00 of food stamps from someone and give them to her as repayment...kind in kind.
what she did was wrong she never should have lent u the money worth of food stamps if she wanted cash back and yes u should get her a grocery store giftcard lol or you can pay her back in cash and keep your friendship cool
You never told her when you'd pay her back, so you really have as long as it takes to get the $75 together in my opinion. If she keeps on complaining I'd say do the spiteful thing and put it on a gift card.
I understand your annoyance at her insistance on cash. But really, once you pay her back, does it really matter what she spends it on?
She was good enough to help you out of a hole, and it's likely that you may not even pay her back in time to get to Austin. So really, why make an awkward situation worse, and give her a gift certificate which she doesn't want?
Just give her the cash, when you can. And be grateful she was able and willing to help.
im with john.
she helped you out when you needed. so, pay her back when you can, and just give her the cash cause that seems all she really cares about.
was there any agreement before as to how you would pay her back? im sure your intention was to give her cash since you were waiting for your pay.
she helped you out, so, just give it back and dont act snippy about it and put it on a gift card, next time you need something from her, she wont help, or shell have strings attached.
sometimes we have to do things we dont want to, and, if you want to not totally piss her off in return, you know.
k? play nice.
so lemme get this straight, she fed you when you were hungry and now you won't pay her back. ?? That about covers it??? Geez it must be great to be so sure of yourself that you let down someone who gave you some of their Food money....The lesson here seems to be don't borrow what you can't pay back. too bad she has to go without because of your self righteousness.
75 bucks is 75 bucks, whatever the form it takes... thank her for her help and quit sleeping with her
suck it up and give her the cash. it doesn't affect you and maintains a good frienship.
Ask if you can move in with her so your paycheck can pay her back instead of going to the rent. That should give her a reality check. Don't actually go through with it if you're uncomfortable, though. You should also contact that rent agency.
When you get the money, buy her the grocery store card. If she wants cash, she can try to sell it.
She didn't give you cash, so I don't think you should have to give her cash back.
I totally understand her wanting to go to pride, but she should, as a friend, show a bit more compassion for your crappy situation.
Hi, i would pay her back in cash, she was kind enough to loan it to you, i know it was food stamps but it was a help when you needed it, don't ruin your friendship over $75, its not worth it, explain that at the moment you can not pay her back in one go but pay her back in installments
I don't think this is fair, because for one, she gave me food stamps, NOT cash. and 2) the ';money'; I borrowed from her, HAD to be used on food. I dont' think I should give her cashNot really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
I agree with Death and Goldwing...
I never borrow money, but I have lent people money and never seen it again (it's usually been larger amounts like $300) speaking of...if anyone knows Andre, aka dre' please lt me know LOL..
I see both sides of the situation, she wants back what she loaned, and you had to pay your rent...although she did not loan you cash which is extremely different.
I would do like Death said...Not really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
Okay, im so sorry that i dont have any good advice about this because im awful at trying to get people to pay me back for loans i give out. I just dont like pressing them for it. But i just had to LMAO@Wickey!!! LOLLLL!!! I'll keep a lookout for Andre!!!
Um, she didn't give you cash, there wouldn't be any cash coming back from me. years ago I used to know of people that sold their food stamps so they could buy things that weren't approved of and the illegal exchange rate was 1 dollar stamp for 50 cents. While I don't approve of it, that would be the most cash I would give up if I had it to spend, otherwise she would get a gift card for the amount of the food stamps(which still isn't equal but most cards can't be spent on alcohol or tobacco).
You are right, keeping a roof over your head is a bit more important than giving up party money. If she can't understand that, I do believe it might be time to cut her loose altogether.
Come on, when things get that bad I know people tend to run out of soap, toothpaste and toilet paper, none of which can be bought with food stamps. If nothing else go buy $75 dollars worth of Groceries and take it to her.
You say you've paid her back with interest before, so how about paying her $80 in cash, and never borrowing again?
You add in all kinds of unnecessary info, like being called at work when 'extremely busy', sounds like she really needs the money.
Cash is a universal currency, so use that. You used the foodstamps for non-food, so it's allowing her to do what she wishes - with her own money, after all. And her kindness saved you from eviction, you don't seem so grateful for something that kept you off of the streets.
Do the decent thing and just payup.
Good luck! Rob
No, you're not being a jerk at all....actually I would have suggested exactly the same thing. Purchase a gift card to her local grocery store.
It's the same form of help that she gave you, she can't complain that you didn't pay her back...unless....she used $75.00 cash of her own money to make up for the food stamps she lent to you.
Granted, I still think the gift card is the best way to go...but I'm not 100% on it.
I don't care what kind of situation you are in, you repay the debt. And never borrow anything from a friend again...that is the quickest way to loose a friend I can think of. I have little pity here, for I have ';loaned'; so much money in my life to those down on their luck...and in each and every case, I have never been repaid...in fact, the persons who borrowed the money just dissappeared...never to be seen again. Now, I choose carefully who I ';loan'; money to...and I now consider it a gift, not a loan. There always seems to be reasons NOT to repay the loan...and you are being petty about this. Food stamps were used by you to buy food. If she had kept them, she may have sold them to raise money...that is NOT your affair or concern. The best I can offer is to buy 75.00 of food stamps from someone and give them to her as repayment...kind in kind.
what she did was wrong she never should have lent u the money worth of food stamps if she wanted cash back and yes u should get her a grocery store giftcard lol or you can pay her back in cash and keep your friendship cool
You never told her when you'd pay her back, so you really have as long as it takes to get the $75 together in my opinion. If she keeps on complaining I'd say do the spiteful thing and put it on a gift card.
I understand your annoyance at her insistance on cash. But really, once you pay her back, does it really matter what she spends it on?
She was good enough to help you out of a hole, and it's likely that you may not even pay her back in time to get to Austin. So really, why make an awkward situation worse, and give her a gift certificate which she doesn't want?
Just give her the cash, when you can. And be grateful she was able and willing to help.
im with john.
she helped you out when you needed. so, pay her back when you can, and just give her the cash cause that seems all she really cares about.
was there any agreement before as to how you would pay her back? im sure your intention was to give her cash since you were waiting for your pay.
she helped you out, so, just give it back and dont act snippy about it and put it on a gift card, next time you need something from her, she wont help, or shell have strings attached.
sometimes we have to do things we dont want to, and, if you want to not totally piss her off in return, you know.
k? play nice.
so lemme get this straight, she fed you when you were hungry and now you won't pay her back. ?? That about covers it??? Geez it must be great to be so sure of yourself that you let down someone who gave you some of their Food money....The lesson here seems to be don't borrow what you can't pay back. too bad she has to go without because of your self righteousness.
75 bucks is 75 bucks, whatever the form it takes... thank her for her help and quit sleeping with her
suck it up and give her the cash. it doesn't affect you and maintains a good frienship.
Ask if you can move in with her so your paycheck can pay her back instead of going to the rent. That should give her a reality check. Don't actually go through with it if you're uncomfortable, though. You should also contact that rent agency.
When you get the money, buy her the grocery store card. If she wants cash, she can try to sell it.
She didn't give you cash, so I don't think you should have to give her cash back.
I totally understand her wanting to go to pride, but she should, as a friend, show a bit more compassion for your crappy situation.
Hi, i would pay her back in cash, she was kind enough to loan it to you, i know it was food stamps but it was a help when you needed it, don't ruin your friendship over $75, its not worth it, explain that at the moment you can not pay her back in one go but pay her back in installments
Any advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
i just can't seem to fine a good guy anywhere or how i try to do to itAny advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
Keep ur chin up. Being single isn't that bad. Don't try to hard or they will definately notice. Just be yourself and someone worthwhile will realize that you aren't trying to be somebody your not and they will respecti u for it.Any advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
If you're as cute as your avatar, I wished you lived in the Philadelphia area.
turn to girls?
Keep ur chin up. Being single isn't that bad. Don't try to hard or they will definately notice. Just be yourself and someone worthwhile will realize that you aren't trying to be somebody your not and they will respecti u for it.Any advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
If you're as cute as your avatar, I wished you lived in the Philadelphia area.
turn to girls?
Guys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
One time he dropped me off at my house after a party and tried to kiss me on the lips but i got shy and turned away. the next night, we were dancing at another party and having a great time, i told him i had a crush on him and he tried to kiss me but i pushed him away again.then after like 10 minutes i finally let him kiss me (it was a long soft kiss). after that, i went on a trip and he asked my sister about me and she said i didnt mean anything i said (wtf right?!?!).but he still came to my house when i got back to say happy birthday to me.i hadnt seen him for about a month since then bc after that, his frat ';brothers'; made him get really drunk and then let him drive anyway-he got a dui.he's also really dorky and probably thought i wasnt interested so i made the first move by inviting him over to watch a movie at my house and he said yes.i asked him for friday but he had to go to a retreat so he asked me out to the movies monday night (lol and he's friends with my brother and he actually asked him if it was ok to take me to the movies) but on the ';date'; he brought his brother and his gf..i think he was nervous? we had a great time and talked a lot and by the end of the night he said we should hang out again soon (he seemed kinda nervous lol during the movie his leg kept bouncing haha and when he spoke to me he got really close to my face lol). The other night he asked my brother if he could come over our house to hang out..but his mom wouldnt let him at the last minute lol =/..yesterday we were texting each other kinda flirty lol and we're planning on hanging out at my house one friday by ourselves..What should i do now? Text him again and make convo?..I'm 18, he's 20 by the way and im leaving for NYU aug 24..i've never made out before so i want to kiss him soooon! lool advice! I'm just worried that he's not interested so i dont want to seem pushy..? even tho i'm not like that at all hahaGuys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
He kissed u once already, he tried to 2x. He ttttttttttottttttttttaaaaaaallllllllllll鈥?likes u!!!!!!!!!!!!! U better make ur move B4 he moves on or B4 u go 2 NYU!!!!!!!!!!!Guys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
Well you shouldn't have pushed him away, that most likely lost his confidence. If he seems like a nervous guy, I'm sure that he was trying his hardest.
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yer, he likes you,, theres no question about that.
he seems like areally sweet guy, but he got knocked back too many times, try not to be too shy anymore!!
and when you get closer, youve got to tell him that ur going to uni, and when and stuff.
text him about 11:00 tonight, and keep texting well into the night,, thats always fun.
definitely a keeper this guy
good luck (Y)
YES. He definitely likes you. I get the same way around a girl I like, try to talk to her even during a movie, getting real close because I have to whisper,etc. First of all movies is where teenagers go to make out, although bringing his brother and brother's gf is weird, maybe he thought they would be making out and give you an idea haha I dunno. Anyways, I even get the leg bouncing, usually my right. I say go for it.
But please, if your leaving for a long time and have no intention of seeing him again don't break his heart.
You should get together with him and let him know you like him too... you shouldn't worry about him not liking you and coming off pushy... it sounds like he TOTALLY likes YOU!!
Have Fun!!
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It sounds like he is very interested in you otherwise he wouldn't have wanted to kiss you before, or go out on a date with you. The problem you might have is, you are going to have to make the first move because he will not want to get denied again, so its up to you
He kissed u once already, he tried to 2x. He ttttttttttottttttttttaaaaaaallllllllllll鈥?likes u!!!!!!!!!!!!! U better make ur move B4 he moves on or B4 u go 2 NYU!!!!!!!!!!!Guys' opinions welcome! Do you think my crush likes me and wants to kiss me? What should I do?! Advice please!
Well you shouldn't have pushed him away, that most likely lost his confidence. If he seems like a nervous guy, I'm sure that he was trying his hardest.
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yer, he likes you,, theres no question about that.
he seems like areally sweet guy, but he got knocked back too many times, try not to be too shy anymore!!
and when you get closer, youve got to tell him that ur going to uni, and when and stuff.
text him about 11:00 tonight, and keep texting well into the night,, thats always fun.
definitely a keeper this guy
good luck (Y)
YES. He definitely likes you. I get the same way around a girl I like, try to talk to her even during a movie, getting real close because I have to whisper,etc. First of all movies is where teenagers go to make out, although bringing his brother and brother's gf is weird, maybe he thought they would be making out and give you an idea haha I dunno. Anyways, I even get the leg bouncing, usually my right. I say go for it.
But please, if your leaving for a long time and have no intention of seeing him again don't break his heart.
You should get together with him and let him know you like him too... you shouldn't worry about him not liking you and coming off pushy... it sounds like he TOTALLY likes YOU!!
Have Fun!!
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It sounds like he is very interested in you otherwise he wouldn't have wanted to kiss you before, or go out on a date with you. The problem you might have is, you are going to have to make the first move because he will not want to get denied again, so its up to you
Hey guys and girls, i need girl advice..?
Im currently a first year college student.
I see a lot of girls around me everyday and talk to some in my classes.
But my problem is that i can't meet girls randomly, im not as much scared as much as i am clueles about what i should say if i was to go up to a girl.. also how can i have a good time and come on to women in the club.. i'm not a bot dancer, just dont know the moves to dancing with girls..
Anyone who reads this please leave some advice if you have expirience in this area..
Thanks to everyone who bothered to help me :)Hey guys and girls, i need girl advice..?
always remember that they are just as nervous as you are they just hide it better try watching the pick up artist on vh1 its pretty helpful. Hey guys and girls, i need girl advice..?
Instead of depending on 'clubs'--try the laundromat, Grocery store or something like that. groceries and laundry have kind of 'automatic' conversation starters. Like do you think this melon is ripe? Or, should I use bleach?
get the idea?
Oh and by the way 'coming on to a woman' will make them run-and maybe even snicker! do not be in such a big hurry!
Simply go up to a girl and start talking to her as if she was a mate, the usual, hello, how are you, and keep seeing her from there if it goes well. I normally get boys Msn's i find it easier to talk on there, plus, i go to an all girls school!! Dance to the music ;P, every girl acts different with boys so go with what shes doing :D
Grinding. ;P
I see a lot of girls around me everyday and talk to some in my classes.
But my problem is that i can't meet girls randomly, im not as much scared as much as i am clueles about what i should say if i was to go up to a girl.. also how can i have a good time and come on to women in the club.. i'm not a bot dancer, just dont know the moves to dancing with girls..
Anyone who reads this please leave some advice if you have expirience in this area..
Thanks to everyone who bothered to help me :)Hey guys and girls, i need girl advice..?
always remember that they are just as nervous as you are they just hide it better try watching the pick up artist on vh1 its pretty helpful. Hey guys and girls, i need girl advice..?
Instead of depending on 'clubs'--try the laundromat, Grocery store or something like that. groceries and laundry have kind of 'automatic' conversation starters. Like do you think this melon is ripe? Or, should I use bleach?
get the idea?
Oh and by the way 'coming on to a woman' will make them run-and maybe even snicker! do not be in such a big hurry!
Simply go up to a girl and start talking to her as if she was a mate, the usual, hello, how are you, and keep seeing her from there if it goes well. I normally get boys Msn's i find it easier to talk on there, plus, i go to an all girls school!! Dance to the music ;P, every girl acts different with boys so go with what shes doing :D
Grinding. ;P
FOR GUYS ONLY and girls if you want to give good advice:)?
i'm 14 years old and a cheerleader and i'm 5'2'; blonde and i weigh 88 pounds... am i too small and/or would you be attracted to me
no guys ever like me!!!!!!!!!!!! whats wrong??????
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yea sry. nothing wrong with the height but its def. a turn off if you are toooo skinny. (88 is way too small) i would say for a 5'2'; girl you should weigh about 100. in my opinion 105 is perfect. just eat a cheeseburger or two and you should be alright.FOR GUYS ONLY and girls if you want to give good advice:)?
You sound attractive, because I flurt wit alot of cheerleaders, most of them are hot and have the same problem as you, even I have this problem....
Sometimes when you are very attractive, you intimidate others. They think you are way out of their league and they are too scared to ask you out.
When one guy finally gets the balls to do it, more guys will probably catch on. ;)
GoOd LuCk!
~Brandonbest5~ Disturber of the peace
you sound cool like someone i deff deate hits me up if u wanna talk richhrdlicka13@verizon.net and im not some old dude
i was the same way, ive always been so tiny.
im now a junior, still tiny but (not to be conceided)
guys think im cute and have a cute body. lol idk i was always so upset with how small i was, now im kinda happy!
you're weight is fine, because you're really short.
I'm a cheerleader too, but I'm 5'7 lol.
No your not I'm 5' 9'; and I maybe attracted to you (or not I have no idea what you really look like). Maybe guys just don't want to tell you. If you are really pretty then guys are too scared to ask you out because they might get embarassed some how. So ask the guys out.
Maybe you come too strong, and focus on one certain group of people, when I tried to be too overzealous and too hyperactive to be attracted to. I would probably be attracted to you, but I focus more on personality not looks.
wow. i though i was like the only one out there like that, guess not, well except i have brown hair and i run not cheer but anyways
everyone thinks i have an eating disorder, which i DONT at all trust me i eat wayyyyyy to much its crazyy, and it barely healthy food so idk why im not like 8587553758 pounds
%26amp; thats what i always think too, oh guys wont like me because im too small. :
|88 pounds is really light
i dont know what you look like but it might be too small
theres nothing wrong with the height
and it doesnt have to just be about the looks!
talk to some guys! im sure theyll like you!
i hope this helps!
just because your blonde, short, good weight, and a cheerleader doesnt mean your pretty. also you may have a terrible personality.
no guys ever like me!!!!!!!!!!!! whats wrong??????
DETAILS PLEASE***************FOR GUYS ONLY and girls if you want to give good advice:)?
yea sry. nothing wrong with the height but its def. a turn off if you are toooo skinny. (88 is way too small) i would say for a 5'2'; girl you should weigh about 100. in my opinion 105 is perfect. just eat a cheeseburger or two and you should be alright.FOR GUYS ONLY and girls if you want to give good advice:)?
You sound attractive, because I flurt wit alot of cheerleaders, most of them are hot and have the same problem as you, even I have this problem....
Sometimes when you are very attractive, you intimidate others. They think you are way out of their league and they are too scared to ask you out.
When one guy finally gets the balls to do it, more guys will probably catch on. ;)
GoOd LuCk!
~Brandonbest5~ Disturber of the peace
you sound cool like someone i deff deate hits me up if u wanna talk richhrdlicka13@verizon.net and im not some old dude
i was the same way, ive always been so tiny.
im now a junior, still tiny but (not to be conceided)
guys think im cute and have a cute body. lol idk i was always so upset with how small i was, now im kinda happy!
you're weight is fine, because you're really short.
I'm a cheerleader too, but I'm 5'7 lol.
No your not I'm 5' 9'; and I maybe attracted to you (or not I have no idea what you really look like). Maybe guys just don't want to tell you. If you are really pretty then guys are too scared to ask you out because they might get embarassed some how. So ask the guys out.
Maybe you come too strong, and focus on one certain group of people, when I tried to be too overzealous and too hyperactive to be attracted to. I would probably be attracted to you, but I focus more on personality not looks.
wow. i though i was like the only one out there like that, guess not, well except i have brown hair and i run not cheer but anyways
everyone thinks i have an eating disorder, which i DONT at all trust me i eat wayyyyyy to much its crazyy, and it barely healthy food so idk why im not like 8587553758 pounds
%26amp; thats what i always think too, oh guys wont like me because im too small. :
|88 pounds is really light
i dont know what you look like but it might be too small
theres nothing wrong with the height
and it doesnt have to just be about the looks!
talk to some guys! im sure theyll like you!
i hope this helps!
just because your blonde, short, good weight, and a cheerleader doesnt mean your pretty. also you may have a terrible personality.
ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! mom will kill me if u guys dont help me :(?
i died a little section of my hair at the top of my head and i dont want my mom to see it because she will totally go psycho on me. help with covering it up?
or a lie i could tell her? AHHH! p.s: my hair is light brown and the streak i died is blonde. its really noticeble by the way ... HELP! :(ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! mom will kill me if u guys dont help me :(?
put your hair up in a pony tail and tuck the blonde in the middle, if it is too high up then put your hair up and cover that section with another piece or chunk of hair. Also you could buy a brown colored hairspray or gel.ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! mom will kill me if u guys dont help me :(?
where on your head is it? if its towards the middle of the top, you might get away with brushing and pinning your front section of hair OVER the blonde streak... like this. http://www.thehairstyler.com/images/Worl鈥?/a>
if its near the front, wear a big headband that will either a. take the notice away from the streak or b. pull back the streak all together. http://www.getprice.com.au/images/upload鈥?/a>
if its near the back, tie your hair back in some intricate way that will pull the section under everything else.http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/2/20鈥?/a>
hair extensions work too. you know, like those little fake buns that you put on your real hair. hide the streak under that
hope i helped!
shes going to find out sometime...its not like you can go through your whole life without her finding out. i suggest you tell her now! the sooner, the better because if she finds out in a couple of days i think you would be in more trouble then coming clean and saying you did it.
but if your fine with the consequences, future trouble, and consently lying you can always wear a hat or bandana at home and be really sneaky. like dont sit around with her nearby all the time or she will find out. also, dont be ovbious .
goodluck
I guess you shouldn't have dyed it then. Sorry to say, but she's going to notice you hiding it at one point. However, what you could do is get an emergency hair appointment somewhere and have them dye it back to your natural color. They did this for my sister when she accidentally turned her hair green lol.
Confess. But smooth it out with her. Tell her you can make your own decisions with your hair. Or you could die it back to it's original color. Or just come clean! It'll take the stress off your shoulders. Just tell her that you thought having this new highlight would be cool. You could say that you really like it, etc., etc. Gosh. This problem sure is hard to deal with isn't it?! I wish you the BEST of luck!
all you can do is cover your head while you go out to the store (with a hat, scarf..anything) and then buy more hair dye which is like your colour.
unless it is not permanent, in which case just wash it out.
but i am sure your mum wouldn't kill you if she found out. she would probably laugh at you for being so silly to dye only a tiny bit of hair.
ok first put ur hair in a ponytail and put the blond under it. then ask ur mom if u can get blond in ur hair. say a ur friends older sister could do it for free. then if she says no so mom plz every one has it and '; ur freinds name'; is doing it to. if she sayes no still look and say its not going to be in my hair long it will fade away. then if she says yes die ur hair.
If I were you I would just be honest and tell her. I always try to hide things from my mom but she always finds out. It would be easier and a whole bunch less stressful if you just told her what happened. She still might be mad, but the whole thing about being sneaky won't be a factor. Also tell the truth. Parents get really angry about lying.
Good Luck!
tell your mom you put bleach on it and you didnt belive that it would change the color of your hair , bc one of your friends said it would, so you did it not believing that it would change color and it did.
(:
hope it helped
or wear a beanie
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Odgr2z10T鈥?/a>
ok this is a far fetched but you could say that you had bleach on you hands somehow and you forgot and absent-mindedly ran your fingers through your hair, accidentely bleaching it?! it could work, or you could go secretly to the hairdressers and ask them if they could help. good luck!
You can die it back? Or somehow go to a hair salon and get them to neutralize your hair and say it's sun bleached.
Oh better yet say you put sun highlight stuff in your hair in one spot and it went horrible after a day in the sun.
Do you perhaps swim or have you been swimming a lot, You can tell her that you swam in a pool with a lot of chlorine in it and it messed up your hair. Just be glad you didnt do something stupid like me and dye your hair blue and get a lip piercing. lol
I would wear a hat or possibly try to die it back. Or you can make sure you wear a hat for a while and then you can go out in the sun and say it lightened your hair. Hope it helps, good luck : )
-put your hair in a ponytail and see if yu can still see it
-part it the opposite way and try to hide it
-clip your bangs up to cover it
-wear a hat
-wear a hooded sweatshirt with the hood up
Try ';re-dying'; it brown. Or buy some halloween hair spray and wear a hat with it, until you can think up something else. You know what else is good? A bandana!!! Say you're trying out a new style.
just tell her the truth she will understand what happen and you will no worry about it anymore, just call her and tell her what happen and when you see her the surprise wont be that huge.
Wear a hat
Comb it over
Wear it in a different style.
If you can't do that, then your screwed. I think you should have listened to her in the first place, I think she will get over it though.
well go to the store and get a cheap color that is closest to your natural hair color and die just that blone streake. untill then hide it under the rest of your hair.
Why did you dye it? LOL!
1) Wear a hat
2) Cut it off
3) Tell her that you put bleach on it, and you didn't think it would work.
I don't know.
put on one of those fat headbands or something or tell her you were cleaning the bathroom and you accidentally put your hand on your head when you hand was covered in bleach.... jk
just tell her that your hair is temporary dye or u did the blonde hair Spray or u can tell her the truth instead lie it will make a big problem but hey your decision not mine
die it back,wear a hat,get a piece of fake hair and clip it over the blonde streak.
wear sth with a capichon, a hat, or a bandana...
but eventually u wil have to tell her u cant keep hiding it
Find a type of hair dye that closely matches your original hair color. and use that hair dye to cover it up.
why did you dye it?! either dye it back again, or wear hair acessories over it.
Tell her it's temporary and tell her it comes off in like 3 weeks or so.
say you died your friends hair and then she touched your hair and so you had to.
dye it back to the original color....I'm sure your MOM has dyed her hair...most girls do at some point in time.
Why would anyone go psycho over your hair color... even just a lil bit? Shoulda went balls out and dyed the whole thing.
wear a bandana.
how about you dye it the same color as your natural hairwrinkle cream
or a lie i could tell her? AHHH! p.s: my hair is light brown and the streak i died is blonde. its really noticeble by the way ... HELP! :(ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! mom will kill me if u guys dont help me :(?
put your hair up in a pony tail and tuck the blonde in the middle, if it is too high up then put your hair up and cover that section with another piece or chunk of hair. Also you could buy a brown colored hairspray or gel.ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! mom will kill me if u guys dont help me :(?
where on your head is it? if its towards the middle of the top, you might get away with brushing and pinning your front section of hair OVER the blonde streak... like this. http://www.thehairstyler.com/images/Worl鈥?/a>
if its near the front, wear a big headband that will either a. take the notice away from the streak or b. pull back the streak all together. http://www.getprice.com.au/images/upload鈥?/a>
if its near the back, tie your hair back in some intricate way that will pull the section under everything else.http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl2/2/20鈥?/a>
hair extensions work too. you know, like those little fake buns that you put on your real hair. hide the streak under that
hope i helped!
shes going to find out sometime...its not like you can go through your whole life without her finding out. i suggest you tell her now! the sooner, the better because if she finds out in a couple of days i think you would be in more trouble then coming clean and saying you did it.
but if your fine with the consequences, future trouble, and consently lying you can always wear a hat or bandana at home and be really sneaky. like dont sit around with her nearby all the time or she will find out. also, dont be ovbious .
goodluck
I guess you shouldn't have dyed it then. Sorry to say, but she's going to notice you hiding it at one point. However, what you could do is get an emergency hair appointment somewhere and have them dye it back to your natural color. They did this for my sister when she accidentally turned her hair green lol.
Confess. But smooth it out with her. Tell her you can make your own decisions with your hair. Or you could die it back to it's original color. Or just come clean! It'll take the stress off your shoulders. Just tell her that you thought having this new highlight would be cool. You could say that you really like it, etc., etc. Gosh. This problem sure is hard to deal with isn't it?! I wish you the BEST of luck!
all you can do is cover your head while you go out to the store (with a hat, scarf..anything) and then buy more hair dye which is like your colour.
unless it is not permanent, in which case just wash it out.
but i am sure your mum wouldn't kill you if she found out. she would probably laugh at you for being so silly to dye only a tiny bit of hair.
ok first put ur hair in a ponytail and put the blond under it. then ask ur mom if u can get blond in ur hair. say a ur friends older sister could do it for free. then if she says no so mom plz every one has it and '; ur freinds name'; is doing it to. if she sayes no still look and say its not going to be in my hair long it will fade away. then if she says yes die ur hair.
If I were you I would just be honest and tell her. I always try to hide things from my mom but she always finds out. It would be easier and a whole bunch less stressful if you just told her what happened. She still might be mad, but the whole thing about being sneaky won't be a factor. Also tell the truth. Parents get really angry about lying.
Good Luck!
tell your mom you put bleach on it and you didnt belive that it would change the color of your hair , bc one of your friends said it would, so you did it not believing that it would change color and it did.
(:
hope it helped
or wear a beanie
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Odgr2z10T鈥?/a>
ok this is a far fetched but you could say that you had bleach on you hands somehow and you forgot and absent-mindedly ran your fingers through your hair, accidentely bleaching it?! it could work, or you could go secretly to the hairdressers and ask them if they could help. good luck!
You can die it back? Or somehow go to a hair salon and get them to neutralize your hair and say it's sun bleached.
Oh better yet say you put sun highlight stuff in your hair in one spot and it went horrible after a day in the sun.
Do you perhaps swim or have you been swimming a lot, You can tell her that you swam in a pool with a lot of chlorine in it and it messed up your hair. Just be glad you didnt do something stupid like me and dye your hair blue and get a lip piercing. lol
I would wear a hat or possibly try to die it back. Or you can make sure you wear a hat for a while and then you can go out in the sun and say it lightened your hair. Hope it helps, good luck : )
-put your hair in a ponytail and see if yu can still see it
-part it the opposite way and try to hide it
-clip your bangs up to cover it
-wear a hat
-wear a hooded sweatshirt with the hood up
Try ';re-dying'; it brown. Or buy some halloween hair spray and wear a hat with it, until you can think up something else. You know what else is good? A bandana!!! Say you're trying out a new style.
just tell her the truth she will understand what happen and you will no worry about it anymore, just call her and tell her what happen and when you see her the surprise wont be that huge.
Wear a hat
Comb it over
Wear it in a different style.
If you can't do that, then your screwed. I think you should have listened to her in the first place, I think she will get over it though.
well go to the store and get a cheap color that is closest to your natural hair color and die just that blone streake. untill then hide it under the rest of your hair.
Why did you dye it? LOL!
1) Wear a hat
2) Cut it off
3) Tell her that you put bleach on it, and you didn't think it would work.
I don't know.
put on one of those fat headbands or something or tell her you were cleaning the bathroom and you accidentally put your hand on your head when you hand was covered in bleach.... jk
just tell her that your hair is temporary dye or u did the blonde hair Spray or u can tell her the truth instead lie it will make a big problem but hey your decision not mine
die it back,wear a hat,get a piece of fake hair and clip it over the blonde streak.
wear sth with a capichon, a hat, or a bandana...
but eventually u wil have to tell her u cant keep hiding it
Find a type of hair dye that closely matches your original hair color. and use that hair dye to cover it up.
why did you dye it?! either dye it back again, or wear hair acessories over it.
Tell her it's temporary and tell her it comes off in like 3 weeks or so.
say you died your friends hair and then she touched your hair and so you had to.
dye it back to the original color....I'm sure your MOM has dyed her hair...most girls do at some point in time.
Why would anyone go psycho over your hair color... even just a lil bit? Shoulda went balls out and dyed the whole thing.
wear a bandana.
how about you dye it the same color as your natural hair
What do you guys think of this girl? need advice please?
so i met the foreign exchange student a couple of weeks already(4weeks). according to her were going out. shes 18 years old..im 16 turning 17 this july..the 1st time i talked to her she straight out told me how handsome i was and she been wanting to talk to me since the longest..but she said isnt that type of girl that when she likes someone shes straight out forward and straight up talks to him. but anyway since then (1st week) we been talking..at 1st she will tell me what do i want with her..i would tell her anything she wants..she will tell me she would want that ';thing'; (sex) but then she would really ask me again..and i would tell her something serious..and she would say ';ok me too but dont hurt me..'; she has alot of guy friends too..but anyway the second week she came to my house we started talking for like an hour..watch a movie at the same time..but then she kissed me right then..she got on top of me..i started grabbing her ***..i sucked her ****..but yea anyway..we didnt ';do it'; because she told me she was ';sick'; (on her period) so we couldnt do it. but then later days at school..we would just talk amd give each other hugs when we would see each other in the morning..and for a second we didnt talk like for a week..but now..she tells me that she wants something serious with me..this passed wednesday she came to my house again and we started making out again..but then she told me she didnt want to do it..she told me she thinks im going to use her for a one time thing..(also she saw this girl hold my hand) (crazy girl too) ( i dont like her) but yea we didnt do it..but she tells me not to mess up on her and i tell her the same..but i dont know what to think about her..need help please.. and sorry its kind long..thanksWhat do you guys think of this girl? need advice please?
I SAY YOU BANG HER BRAINS OUT TILL SHE GETS BOLEGGED AND THEN SOME OTHER DUDES GONNA WANNA PICK HER UP .. CUZ BOLLEGGED CHICKS ARE HOT .. BUT YEAH AND IF SHE GOES WITH HIM THAN U MUSTVE NOT DONE SOMETHING RIGHT ... AND IF SHE STAYS WITH YOU THAT MEANS SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS TO HAVE YOUR BABY .. MOVE TO PORT ARTHUR TEXAS AND BUY A ROTTWEILLER AND NAME HIM DALLAS ... I HOPE THIS ANSWERS YOUR QUESTION ... OH AND NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER .. MAKE YOUR DADDY PROUD MAN ... GOOD LUCK
I SAY YOU BANG HER BRAINS OUT TILL SHE GETS BOLEGGED AND THEN SOME OTHER DUDES GONNA WANNA PICK HER UP .. CUZ BOLLEGGED CHICKS ARE HOT .. BUT YEAH AND IF SHE GOES WITH HIM THAN U MUSTVE NOT DONE SOMETHING RIGHT ... AND IF SHE STAYS WITH YOU THAT MEANS SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS TO HAVE YOUR BABY .. MOVE TO PORT ARTHUR TEXAS AND BUY A ROTTWEILLER AND NAME HIM DALLAS ... I HOPE THIS ANSWERS YOUR QUESTION ... OH AND NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER .. MAKE YOUR DADDY PROUD MAN ... GOOD LUCK
To all the guys who online now..need you advice plz. Ladies can answer too :)?
I have a taruas guy friend who i met 2 years ago when i started highschool. We had a connection, and at times he would say hurtful things that may have seems funny to him, but were offensive to me. I let it side most of the time, but one day i just could'nt take it any more, and i exploled with tears, that my mother, and his mother found out, and also i wote a hateful letter to him, saying all the things i dilike about him, and how he makes me feels bad.
We stopped talk for about 3-4 months. But then we started talking again, but it weridnow b/w me a him. Am scorpio by the way. and both of us are the same age. But it seems like he wants to talk about what happen but, he a little afriad of what might happen next...i just want to know what he thinks, or if i hurted him or not..but he also knows that i kind of develped ';feelings'; for him, and i wrote that in the letter, but i just want to know where me, and him stand right now. Am going to have to see him, in 2 weeks in summer schooTo all the guys who online now..need you advice plz. Ladies can answer too :)?
Hummm.... sounds to me like you need to talk to him to find out where you stand. And I mean talk to him if you want this that bad. Dont write a letter. Come to him with the most sincere of your feelings. Dont put him on the limelight though just come to him and ask him ''can I talk to you for a minute''.
Pull him away from the croud. Be true to your feelings with him, dont hide anything. He will be real with you also watch. This is when you will find out how much he really feels about you, and how much of a real person he is. If he said things that offend you, He likes you. No doubt. But I dont know how much... Boys dont say anything to a girl if we dont like them. So there you are ,have fun.To all the guys who online now..need you advice plz. Ladies can answer too :)?
you obviously like him and are going to take the chance you wan't someone to tell you to so you can feel like you have backup when you make do. So go for it and if he hurts you you knew it was comming.
i would have ltold him as soon as he started saying hurtful things to you to stop or its over cuz i wouldnt put up with it! and if kept going just to say its over! but i would play it cool and not worry about it!
tell him how he used to be hateful even tho he was joking. Be sure to mention that girls are very sensitive. tell him ur sorry about the letter too
you should talk to him about the problem. the sooner you get it resolved the better
evil...
im sorry for what he has done to you butmaybe he was having a hard time or somthing you might want to ask him plus if you have to take a chance
good luck!=[)
2 points
Take a chance.
good luck with all that but im not gonna read it all sorry
i would say what you said on this and let him talk to you.. Don't be afraid.
you ramble too much! I lost track of the question.
give a chance to him
We stopped talk for about 3-4 months. But then we started talking again, but it weridnow b/w me a him. Am scorpio by the way. and both of us are the same age. But it seems like he wants to talk about what happen but, he a little afriad of what might happen next...i just want to know what he thinks, or if i hurted him or not..but he also knows that i kind of develped ';feelings'; for him, and i wrote that in the letter, but i just want to know where me, and him stand right now. Am going to have to see him, in 2 weeks in summer schooTo all the guys who online now..need you advice plz. Ladies can answer too :)?
Hummm.... sounds to me like you need to talk to him to find out where you stand. And I mean talk to him if you want this that bad. Dont write a letter. Come to him with the most sincere of your feelings. Dont put him on the limelight though just come to him and ask him ''can I talk to you for a minute''.
Pull him away from the croud. Be true to your feelings with him, dont hide anything. He will be real with you also watch. This is when you will find out how much he really feels about you, and how much of a real person he is. If he said things that offend you, He likes you. No doubt. But I dont know how much... Boys dont say anything to a girl if we dont like them. So there you are ,have fun.To all the guys who online now..need you advice plz. Ladies can answer too :)?
you obviously like him and are going to take the chance you wan't someone to tell you to so you can feel like you have backup when you make do. So go for it and if he hurts you you knew it was comming.
i would have ltold him as soon as he started saying hurtful things to you to stop or its over cuz i wouldnt put up with it! and if kept going just to say its over! but i would play it cool and not worry about it!
tell him how he used to be hateful even tho he was joking. Be sure to mention that girls are very sensitive. tell him ur sorry about the letter too
you should talk to him about the problem. the sooner you get it resolved the better
evil...
im sorry for what he has done to you butmaybe he was having a hard time or somthing you might want to ask him plus if you have to take a chance
good luck!=[)
2 points
Take a chance.
good luck with all that but im not gonna read it all sorry
i would say what you said on this and let him talk to you.. Don't be afraid.
you ramble too much! I lost track of the question.
give a chance to him
To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
i meet this guy and i really like him.. ive known him for about a week or so and he says he loves me and has kinda hinted at marriage... however, im scared to death... i dont think it can work out and i dont know how to tell him... he is really sensitive and i dont want to hurt him... what should i do? How do i let him down easy? Or better yet make him dump me so i dont feel so bad about it?To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
he cannot possibly love you after one week. He doesn't know what love is. If you have had sex with him that is what he loves.
If there is sex involved he probably hasn't been laid in a long time
and thinks by telling you that he loves you he will get laid a lot.
But here is the kicker. He could be a great wonderful guy who is just desperate to be with someone. Just tell him that to speak of love and marriage at this point is nuts. That is if you like him. Otherwise dump him now before it goes much further.To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
Just let him know how you feel and that you appreciate him as a friend if you care to have him as one. Plain and simple.
tell him to slow down. if you want to go out without pressure he may understand
be upfront about it. what kind of relationship is it when the guy is more sensitive than the girl? its a learning lesson for the guy. Just do it! just tell him you don't like clinging so he may learn from this. you must of been really good in bed in order for him to be in love with you in a week.
talkin bout marriage within a week of knowing you???
way too quick i'd say...
if that doesnt cool him down, then just get caught snoggin another bloke.....
1 week and he's talking about marriage ALREADY? What a loser. Dump him. Some people have to feel bad in order to get the message.
hard one... start doing the things he doesnt like maybe he will feel negative
You've only known him for a week and he says he loves you and is hinting at marriage??? Look out for this guy, he is rushing things way to fast. Definately talk to him, tell him you are not ready for a serious relationship and certainly not ready to even think about marriage. Maybe if you tell him this he will move on, he seems to be in a big hurry to marry. If he doesn't, then you are going to have to tell him it isn't going to work out and that you want to break it off.
its a messy way of doing it,but you could write him a letter,if you cant find the words when your with him.or you could cheat on him and let him find out,then maybe he will dump you.
he cannot possibly love you after one week. He doesn't know what love is. If you have had sex with him that is what he loves.
If there is sex involved he probably hasn't been laid in a long time
and thinks by telling you that he loves you he will get laid a lot.
But here is the kicker. He could be a great wonderful guy who is just desperate to be with someone. Just tell him that to speak of love and marriage at this point is nuts. That is if you like him. Otherwise dump him now before it goes much further.To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
Just let him know how you feel and that you appreciate him as a friend if you care to have him as one. Plain and simple.
tell him to slow down. if you want to go out without pressure he may understand
be upfront about it. what kind of relationship is it when the guy is more sensitive than the girl? its a learning lesson for the guy. Just do it! just tell him you don't like clinging so he may learn from this. you must of been really good in bed in order for him to be in love with you in a week.
talkin bout marriage within a week of knowing you???
way too quick i'd say...
if that doesnt cool him down, then just get caught snoggin another bloke.....
1 week and he's talking about marriage ALREADY? What a loser. Dump him. Some people have to feel bad in order to get the message.
hard one... start doing the things he doesnt like maybe he will feel negative
You've only known him for a week and he says he loves you and is hinting at marriage??? Look out for this guy, he is rushing things way to fast. Definately talk to him, tell him you are not ready for a serious relationship and certainly not ready to even think about marriage. Maybe if you tell him this he will move on, he seems to be in a big hurry to marry. If he doesn't, then you are going to have to tell him it isn't going to work out and that you want to break it off.
its a messy way of doing it,but you could write him a letter,if you cant find the words when your with him.or you could cheat on him and let him find out,then maybe he will dump you.
Do guys get sick of girls easily? ADVICE PLZ!?
Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 13 months and in the beginning we never used to see each other..just at school and sometimes we used to hang out..we talk on the phone every day..we fall asleep on the phone..he calls me in the morning to wake me up..and now that he has his license we see each other more often but not everyday but more than before..i mean i just dont want to him to get sick of me even if we talk on the phone every night and usually all day when we dont see each other..i know guys get sick of girls easily but i dont want him to get sick of me..i just need someones input and what i should do..he hasnt given me any signs that hes sick of me but i just dont want him to think it!! please and thank yoU!!Do guys get sick of girls easily? ADVICE PLZ!?
Yes, guys get sick of girls.
Perhaps I should say that better: guys need their space from girls in order to function as normal guys. By space, I mean a day off or night off. If he says he has ';stuff to do';, let him do his stuff without insisting you know what it precisely is or insisting you do this ';stuff'; with him.
When you spend time together, ask yourself this. Do not ask it to him verbally as it is intrusive for guys to hear thoughts of yours that question the stability of the relationship.
';Are we both enjoying being together now?';
If answer is yes, stop asking yourself this question and enjoy every minute of it.
If you feel your answer is no, then you may need to reduce frequency of your together time. Do not feel that you are taking steps backwards as a couple just because you see/talk to each other less often. Sometimes, it takes separation to remember the feelings you have for each other. And the amount of separation should be enough for both of you.
Yes, guys get sick of girls.
Perhaps I should say that better: guys need their space from girls in order to function as normal guys. By space, I mean a day off or night off. If he says he has ';stuff to do';, let him do his stuff without insisting you know what it precisely is or insisting you do this ';stuff'; with him.
When you spend time together, ask yourself this. Do not ask it to him verbally as it is intrusive for guys to hear thoughts of yours that question the stability of the relationship.
';Are we both enjoying being together now?';
If answer is yes, stop asking yourself this question and enjoy every minute of it.
If you feel your answer is no, then you may need to reduce frequency of your together time. Do not feel that you are taking steps backwards as a couple just because you see/talk to each other less often. Sometimes, it takes separation to remember the feelings you have for each other. And the amount of separation should be enough for both of you.
Guys or girls. I just need someone's advice!!!?
I'm 5'10'; 170 lbs. I don't have much experience lifting so I need some help. I want a defined body and a nice 6 pack without losing the weight and want to gain muscle mass. Where do I begin with this goal as in routines and how many days i work out? Is there a routine out there that is for beginners? Or is this even possible?!?!? HELPGuys or girls. I just need someone's advice!!!?
The internet can help. Look up bodybuilding programs. You will want to split your work outs into different body parts, Chest, shoulders, legs, back, arms. And work a combination of different ones on different days. Sets and reps vary. Educate yourself. The internet is a great resource, and there are many books on the subject. All you really need is the desire. With that any program will be successful.Guys or girls. I just need someone's advice!!!?
You do not need a trainer. I am not sure if your male or female, i am going to assume male since you want a six pack and that is predominatley a male desire.
I would suggest you focus on weights , but do not neglect cardio .
Do your research online.. read reviews of difrent videos and books that provide exercise routines for you. Invest in a good pair of dumbells, bar, a bench..... it doesnt have to be a sport bench .. a wooden bench or anything similar will do . I assume with your age you cant spend lots of money on weights either so you might want to use things like gallons of water or water weights, or if you can invest in dumbells get the Bowflex adjustable dumbells that will grow with you.
One of the best books i recommend for detailed pictures of weight lifting and that tells you how many reps and sets to do is Body For Life.
review www.bodyforlife.com You can obtain all the infromation on diffrent routines for begginers on there, and they have spreadshetes you can download to keep track of what you are doing, very detailed animation videos that will help guide you in correct positioning and a detailed workout routine.
I would say to start BFL (body for life) will have everything you need, after you feel comfortable with that, or once you want to explore something new, you will know what to look for.
Also, i hear great things about Power 90 Beachbody or that new PX90 , but the new one can be a bit pricey.
Good Luck.
so ya want to be a unit ay. well eat lots of protein and low carb. when it comes to lifting you really need to have some one to teach you so you don't hurt yourself. Push ups, Chin ups, Sit ups and squats is your best bet. you should ask your school P.E teacher he/she should be able to lead you in the rite direction. never over train if you want size. good recovery is definitely necessary. good luck!
take up running.
The basic principles :
- Work a muscle once every 5-7 days
- Keep the workouts to around an hour
- Use a 4-6 rep range for maximum strength and growth
A three-day split workout:
Day One - Chest, Shoulders, and Triceps
Day Two - Back, Biceps, and Forearms
Day Three - Legs and Abs
For ab workout: (James Cipriani Newsletter)
A 6-Pack in Time for Summer
During my 12+ years of training people from all walks of life, I know I’ve answered more questions on abdominal training than any other body part. Everybody wants either a tight waistline or those washboard abs, especially in the summer months of shorts and bikini weather.
I want to start off by clearing up a common misconception about ab training. Just performing sit-ups or crunches all day long will not so much to change your midsection. It is very important to combine the proper nutritional program and aerobic exercise with your ab exercises to get that “6-pack” look.
The ab routine that I am going to present is intense and challenging. But I promise the end result will be pure satisfaction. This routine is basically the same one I use when I am getting ready for competition. The only changes are in the off-season, I only train my abs 1-2 times a weeks and go up to 3 ab sessions per week about 12 weeks out. For those who are used to doing their abs last in their workout, I recommend switching things up and doing this ab routine before your regular workout. You will find that not only is this routine a great warm-up, but you will be able to put out 100% effort. If you wait until the end of the workout, that’s fine. Just be prepared to be too tired to put in an all out effort.
Here’s how the program looks…
Exercise #1 - Hanging Leg Raises with knees slightly bent.
8-10 reps twist lift, 8-10 reps forward, 8-10 reps twist right.
Exercise #2 - Floor Crunches with feet elevated on bench.
8-15 reps twist left, 8-15 reps forward, 8-15 reps twist right.
Exercise #3 - Standing Straight Arm Pulldowns (for the serratus).
15 reps with a light weight.
Exercise #4 - Kneeling Rope Crunches.
20 reps with a medium weight.
This ab routine consists of a total of three rounds, each round consisting of four exercises. You are to do each exercise back-to-back with no rest in-between. This workout is super-intense and works great for everyone from top level bodybuilders to beginners.
Start by just doing one round without resting between exercises. Then go up to two rounds the next week, taking a two minute rest between rounds. On week three, try adding an additional round! This killer workout only takes about 10 minutes 3 times a week. Combine this routine with the proper diet and exercise program, and you’ll be stunned at how fast your waistline changes. You’ll develop the type of midsection that will give your physique that polished look - - a look that will garner the respect on the bodybuilding stage as well as the beach! Now go for it!!!
Nothing is impossible. Hire a personal trainer.
The internet can help. Look up bodybuilding programs. You will want to split your work outs into different body parts, Chest, shoulders, legs, back, arms. And work a combination of different ones on different days. Sets and reps vary. Educate yourself. The internet is a great resource, and there are many books on the subject. All you really need is the desire. With that any program will be successful.Guys or girls. I just need someone's advice!!!?
You do not need a trainer. I am not sure if your male or female, i am going to assume male since you want a six pack and that is predominatley a male desire.
I would suggest you focus on weights , but do not neglect cardio .
Do your research online.. read reviews of difrent videos and books that provide exercise routines for you. Invest in a good pair of dumbells, bar, a bench..... it doesnt have to be a sport bench .. a wooden bench or anything similar will do . I assume with your age you cant spend lots of money on weights either so you might want to use things like gallons of water or water weights, or if you can invest in dumbells get the Bowflex adjustable dumbells that will grow with you.
One of the best books i recommend for detailed pictures of weight lifting and that tells you how many reps and sets to do is Body For Life.
review www.bodyforlife.com You can obtain all the infromation on diffrent routines for begginers on there, and they have spreadshetes you can download to keep track of what you are doing, very detailed animation videos that will help guide you in correct positioning and a detailed workout routine.
I would say to start BFL (body for life) will have everything you need, after you feel comfortable with that, or once you want to explore something new, you will know what to look for.
Also, i hear great things about Power 90 Beachbody or that new PX90 , but the new one can be a bit pricey.
Good Luck.
so ya want to be a unit ay. well eat lots of protein and low carb. when it comes to lifting you really need to have some one to teach you so you don't hurt yourself. Push ups, Chin ups, Sit ups and squats is your best bet. you should ask your school P.E teacher he/she should be able to lead you in the rite direction. never over train if you want size. good recovery is definitely necessary. good luck!
take up running.
The basic principles :
- Work a muscle once every 5-7 days
- Keep the workouts to around an hour
- Use a 4-6 rep range for maximum strength and growth
A three-day split workout:
Day One - Chest, Shoulders, and Triceps
Day Two - Back, Biceps, and Forearms
Day Three - Legs and Abs
For ab workout: (James Cipriani Newsletter)
A 6-Pack in Time for Summer
During my 12+ years of training people from all walks of life, I know I’ve answered more questions on abdominal training than any other body part. Everybody wants either a tight waistline or those washboard abs, especially in the summer months of shorts and bikini weather.
I want to start off by clearing up a common misconception about ab training. Just performing sit-ups or crunches all day long will not so much to change your midsection. It is very important to combine the proper nutritional program and aerobic exercise with your ab exercises to get that “6-pack” look.
The ab routine that I am going to present is intense and challenging. But I promise the end result will be pure satisfaction. This routine is basically the same one I use when I am getting ready for competition. The only changes are in the off-season, I only train my abs 1-2 times a weeks and go up to 3 ab sessions per week about 12 weeks out. For those who are used to doing their abs last in their workout, I recommend switching things up and doing this ab routine before your regular workout. You will find that not only is this routine a great warm-up, but you will be able to put out 100% effort. If you wait until the end of the workout, that’s fine. Just be prepared to be too tired to put in an all out effort.
Here’s how the program looks…
Exercise #1 - Hanging Leg Raises with knees slightly bent.
8-10 reps twist lift, 8-10 reps forward, 8-10 reps twist right.
Exercise #2 - Floor Crunches with feet elevated on bench.
8-15 reps twist left, 8-15 reps forward, 8-15 reps twist right.
Exercise #3 - Standing Straight Arm Pulldowns (for the serratus).
15 reps with a light weight.
Exercise #4 - Kneeling Rope Crunches.
20 reps with a medium weight.
This ab routine consists of a total of three rounds, each round consisting of four exercises. You are to do each exercise back-to-back with no rest in-between. This workout is super-intense and works great for everyone from top level bodybuilders to beginners.
Start by just doing one round without resting between exercises. Then go up to two rounds the next week, taking a two minute rest between rounds. On week three, try adding an additional round! This killer workout only takes about 10 minutes 3 times a week. Combine this routine with the proper diet and exercise program, and you’ll be stunned at how fast your waistline changes. You’ll develop the type of midsection that will give your physique that polished look - - a look that will garner the respect on the bodybuilding stage as well as the beach! Now go for it!!!
Nothing is impossible. Hire a personal trainer.
Hey guys... im a soccer player but i gain wieght easly can someone give me advice on what i should be eating..?
like in the morrning for lunch and dinner.Hey guys... im a soccer player but i gain wieght easly can someone give me advice on what i should be eating..?
Are you trying to lose weight?
Lean meat, veggies, drink plenty of water.Hey guys... im a soccer player but i gain wieght easly can someone give me advice on what i should be eating..?
stay active but you might get a better answer in a fitness forumwrinkle cream
Are you trying to lose weight?
Lean meat, veggies, drink plenty of water.Hey guys... im a soccer player but i gain wieght easly can someone give me advice on what i should be eating..?
stay active but you might get a better answer in a fitness forum
Hey i am a 18 years old guy. I need advice on how to get girls to hang out?
Because it seems like girls never want to hangout wit me :(Hey i am a 18 years old guy. I need advice on how to get girls to hang out?
well, if you mean you want to know how to get laid, I'm not going to help you.
If you mean you want to hang out with a friend and maby start a relationship with her in due time, thats somthing else.
The only real way to be friends with a girl, is to do just that, be her friend. Ask her whats up, how her day is going, things like that. Try to get involved in her life. If she's sad, ask her whats wrong. If she's laughing laugh with her and ask ';hahaha, why are we laughing?';.
Things like that.
And eventually she'll start to see the nice guy in you and then you'll have a good enough friendship to go to the movies with her and a few other friends.
But either way dude, I hope everything works out fine.
God bless.
:)
well, if you mean you want to know how to get laid, I'm not going to help you.
If you mean you want to hang out with a friend and maby start a relationship with her in due time, thats somthing else.
The only real way to be friends with a girl, is to do just that, be her friend. Ask her whats up, how her day is going, things like that. Try to get involved in her life. If she's sad, ask her whats wrong. If she's laughing laugh with her and ask ';hahaha, why are we laughing?';.
Things like that.
And eventually she'll start to see the nice guy in you and then you'll have a good enough friendship to go to the movies with her and a few other friends.
But either way dude, I hope everything works out fine.
God bless.
:)
Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Schwarzer
Shawcross A.Cole O'Shea
Arshavin A.Young Taylor Malbranque
Rooney Van Persie
Subs: cheap Hull defenders
*i usually have lamps or gerrard ... i'm taking a risk with arshavin
*rooney or berbatov -- i have a feeling Berba will score more
* not sure who to pick from man city?? ade or robinho or tevez or CruzHey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Goalie: Shwarzer's a bit old, but he's still decent enough to rack up more points than most GK's...
Defence: O'shea may be a slight risk...depends on appearances
Midfield: don't wory about arshavin, he'll be very good, malbranque is a tad old, try change him for someone younger, ashley young is a good young player, and will matur even more as a footballer this year...
Strikers: van persie has to be careful with injuries, last season was his first season at arsenal when he didnt sustain a major injury, as for the man city question, choose robinho, hes guaranteed more playing time than the rest...Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
1) Either one of Lampard, Gerrard, Arsh will be great, but Lampard was the top fantasy player in premier league last season.
2) I rather have Rooney, with Ronaldo gone, this enables Valencia to play the wing and Rooney to play at his true position as a center forward, he will definitely score more goals than Berbatov.
3) Robinho
Definitely Brady, adrian peterson, larry fitzgerald...oh this is fake football
adebayor if he scores what he did last season pretty good. I have to be honest some of the names i have never heard of so i cannot honestly give advice on them. sorry xxty
Im assuming this is a gay fantasy
Lampard and you should pick Robinho for man city, just a great young player
Shawcross A.Cole O'Shea
Arshavin A.Young Taylor Malbranque
Rooney Van Persie
Subs: cheap Hull defenders
*i usually have lamps or gerrard ... i'm taking a risk with arshavin
*rooney or berbatov -- i have a feeling Berba will score more
* not sure who to pick from man city?? ade or robinho or tevez or CruzHey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
Goalie: Shwarzer's a bit old, but he's still decent enough to rack up more points than most GK's...
Defence: O'shea may be a slight risk...depends on appearances
Midfield: don't wory about arshavin, he'll be very good, malbranque is a tad old, try change him for someone younger, ashley young is a good young player, and will matur even more as a footballer this year...
Strikers: van persie has to be careful with injuries, last season was his first season at arsenal when he didnt sustain a major injury, as for the man city question, choose robinho, hes guaranteed more playing time than the rest...Hey guys i'm setting up my fantasy team: i would like your advice on my players.?
1) Either one of Lampard, Gerrard, Arsh will be great, but Lampard was the top fantasy player in premier league last season.
2) I rather have Rooney, with Ronaldo gone, this enables Valencia to play the wing and Rooney to play at his true position as a center forward, he will definitely score more goals than Berbatov.
3) Robinho
Definitely Brady, adrian peterson, larry fitzgerald...oh this is fake football
adebayor if he scores what he did last season pretty good. I have to be honest some of the names i have never heard of so i cannot honestly give advice on them. sorry xxty
Im assuming this is a gay fantasy
Lampard and you should pick Robinho for man city, just a great young player
I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
straight or wavy hair on a girlI noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
This isn't an advice question. Doy. I've heard it depends on the girl. But as a wavy haired girl, I gotta say curls are awesome.I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
STILL depends on the face and the body and the personality...
both on the same girl..i like variety
I think that would depend on the women and what is most becoming to her.
This isn't an advice question. Doy. I've heard it depends on the girl. But as a wavy haired girl, I gotta say curls are awesome.I noe this isnt an advice column, but i was just wondering whether guys like straight hair or wavy hair more?
STILL depends on the face and the body and the personality...
both on the same girl..i like variety
I think that would depend on the women and what is most becoming to her.
Advice: Flirting tips on how to get the guy , guys and girls plz anawer?
Just let the guy know you are interested. Why play games? He might not catch the hint.Advice: Flirting tips on how to get the guy , guys and girls plz anawer?
try to be funny, try to be simple. Complex relationship is scary most of times for first-timers.
As much attractive is your target more bold and funny must be. Start practicing on normal guys on libraries, arcade galleries or sites you use to visit. This will give some advice to chat.
After 5 minutes if not positive reaction on yuor start-conversation program, go home to create a new strategy. Get one that you feel confortable and natural with yourself. Not cheat on your personality with your new prospect. Sooner or later will catch you were lied to him/her
Mastering Flirting strategy is no nervous manners because of TOO MUCH PRACTICE. Over and over.
Wish you good luck and get a good looking, it helps a lot.
Write me your results
LeonardoAdvice: Flirting tips on how to get the guy , guys and girls plz anawer?
be whitty, do something smart and creative that'll leave him thinking about you after you leave
to flirt successfully you have to be yourself! not use what suits someone else
if you are a touchy person then a hand on his arm will always be a powerful signal or standing or sitting just a little close
if you are a smiling person holding his gaze and smiling
flirting is about paying a little more attention to him than the people around him - keep it simple and keep it real
Make sure you are always sweet and fun to be around when your in public.Guy's always talk with each other about girl's.If you are nasty talking,are stupid when your out..they will talk.Flirting is easy.It's in the way you look at them.Make your movement's smooth,and flowing.Smile and make your mouth,kinda pouty.Talk sweet and mellow.Never loud are stupid.Keep your hair clean and shinny.Men Love a little sweet thing.Become one.
cook him some lasagna and offer him a hot oil massage for sure works every time
try to be funny, try to be simple. Complex relationship is scary most of times for first-timers.
As much attractive is your target more bold and funny must be. Start practicing on normal guys on libraries, arcade galleries or sites you use to visit. This will give some advice to chat.
After 5 minutes if not positive reaction on yuor start-conversation program, go home to create a new strategy. Get one that you feel confortable and natural with yourself. Not cheat on your personality with your new prospect. Sooner or later will catch you were lied to him/her
Mastering Flirting strategy is no nervous manners because of TOO MUCH PRACTICE. Over and over.
Wish you good luck and get a good looking, it helps a lot.
Write me your results
LeonardoAdvice: Flirting tips on how to get the guy , guys and girls plz anawer?
be whitty, do something smart and creative that'll leave him thinking about you after you leave
to flirt successfully you have to be yourself! not use what suits someone else
if you are a touchy person then a hand on his arm will always be a powerful signal or standing or sitting just a little close
if you are a smiling person holding his gaze and smiling
flirting is about paying a little more attention to him than the people around him - keep it simple and keep it real
Make sure you are always sweet and fun to be around when your in public.Guy's always talk with each other about girl's.If you are nasty talking,are stupid when your out..they will talk.Flirting is easy.It's in the way you look at them.Make your movement's smooth,and flowing.Smile and make your mouth,kinda pouty.Talk sweet and mellow.Never loud are stupid.Keep your hair clean and shinny.Men Love a little sweet thing.Become one.
cook him some lasagna and offer him a hot oil massage for sure works every time
I need guy advice!! Help! What should i do?
Okay guys so i really like this guy and hes really good looking and seems to like me.
So then i told my friend that i liked him and she said that he used to like her and was a total perv!
He seems really nice and good looking and im almost positive he likes me!
Also i learned from my other friend that he was a total player!
I didn't see him last year so i don't know if this is true or not but why would they make something like that up?
So my question is....
What would you do if you were me?
Thanks =DI need guy advice!! Help! What should i do?
you've already gotten your answer from ppl who know him.
Just stay away unless you want to become another ';notch'; in his belt-buckleI need guy advice!! Help! What should i do?
I have a friend the exact same way, shes actually dating a guy who is a total player and perv. Honestly, all of her friends hate him, so you really gotta put friends first, cause no one likes my friends boyfriend and we really don't talk to her anymore. So if you wanna go for the bad boy, just see what your friend think.
So then i told my friend that i liked him and she said that he used to like her and was a total perv!
He seems really nice and good looking and im almost positive he likes me!
Also i learned from my other friend that he was a total player!
I didn't see him last year so i don't know if this is true or not but why would they make something like that up?
So my question is....
What would you do if you were me?
Thanks =DI need guy advice!! Help! What should i do?
you've already gotten your answer from ppl who know him.
Just stay away unless you want to become another ';notch'; in his belt-buckleI need guy advice!! Help! What should i do?
I have a friend the exact same way, shes actually dating a guy who is a total player and perv. Honestly, all of her friends hate him, so you really gotta put friends first, cause no one likes my friends boyfriend and we really don't talk to her anymore. So if you wanna go for the bad boy, just see what your friend think.
Can you guys fill me in some helpful advice to get annoying school kids to stop bothering me?
Almost every day i put up with idiots. Not because of my hobbies or my likes or dislikes. I like the f-22 stealth jet and i hate going to school. I have to put up with kids thrwing **** at me almost everyday i feel so bitter and will start to whiplash people who do that with harsh insults. I have slight issues with my mind thanks to them. Ignoring them doesnt help because it only bottles up anger. Then more mind issues. Im so antisocial i almost had dreams of suicide or terrible flashbacks. Telling the teacher doesnt seem to help much once you reach the tenth grade . I feel like my dignity was born to be crushed. Can you guys or girls help me out a little with advice before i lose it and resort to violence. ThanksCan you guys fill me in some helpful advice to get annoying school kids to stop bothering me?
look up anything that will relieve stress, such as a ball or plushie to squeez and take it to school,i know how you feel, i have alot of dumb *** kids at my school toCan you guys fill me in some helpful advice to get annoying school kids to stop bothering me?
Okay, whatever you do, don't kill yourself. You'll thank me later if you listen. Heaps of teenagers think about suicide, but don't end up killing themselves and are glad they didn't later.
Try not to think about now. Think about your future: think of an interesting job, a wife who loves you, kids who admire you; think of how you'll look back on now and look at your courage for fighting on through for just that: a future.
Try speaking to a counselor, most schools have one.
thats bad that ur thinking/dreaming of suicide or other violence. while it may be awkward to tell someone, try to tell an older trusted adult about your issue. it doesnt have to be a teacherwrinkle cream
look up anything that will relieve stress, such as a ball or plushie to squeez and take it to school,i know how you feel, i have alot of dumb *** kids at my school toCan you guys fill me in some helpful advice to get annoying school kids to stop bothering me?
Okay, whatever you do, don't kill yourself. You'll thank me later if you listen. Heaps of teenagers think about suicide, but don't end up killing themselves and are glad they didn't later.
Try not to think about now. Think about your future: think of an interesting job, a wife who loves you, kids who admire you; think of how you'll look back on now and look at your courage for fighting on through for just that: a future.
Try speaking to a counselor, most schools have one.
thats bad that ur thinking/dreaming of suicide or other violence. while it may be awkward to tell someone, try to tell an older trusted adult about your issue. it doesnt have to be a teacher
Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
I have very strong feelings for my best friend and he knows it. When I approached him about it he says he needs to feel it in his heart. Whatever that means?
Anyway just trying to set the scene. The thing is that was a few weeks ago we had this conversation about how I felt about him and wasn't too sure if I could have him hanging around esp if I needed to move on and he is now talking about us going on holiday together, we've been away a few times together and each time it brings us closer together and then after a few weeks when we get back he seems to not pull away, but more a case of settled that we only see each other at the weekends.
A big part of me wants to go away with him, but I need him to understand things can't go on the way they are and I need to try and move on but it's breaking my heart staying or leaving him.
Do you think this guy is messing with my head and using me until something better comes along? Should I be strong and not go on hol ?Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
I think you should move on it's best for you since he knows your feelings and won't return them back. He might just be playing around w/ your mind.Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
yes he is messing with ur head
May be he is as confused as you are.try being not available all the time s...let him yearn a bit.you cant make anyone fall in love it just happens SO IF IT HAS TO IT WOULD DONT FORCE THINGS THERES ALwAYS A CORRECT TIME FOR EVERYTHING%26gt;JUST CHILL
He is messing with your head otherwise he would of already asked you out, or at least made moves to show that he wants you as a steady girl, not just a ';when we are alone'; hook-up.
At the same time, he may also care too much about ruining a friendship (especially best friends) by getting into a relationship which can complicate things. But, I think, a guy and a girl who are best friends would make a better relationship b/c they enjoy their company.
You need to say, ';Do you want to be with me or not?'; And if he gives you any answer besides a definitive ';Yes'; then you
need to consider dating other people until he knows he wants you.
You poured your heart out but he doesn't feel the same. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you do about them. It is probally best to move on, if he is not the right guy then getting yourself closer will only make things harder. On the otherhand if time and space is what he needs to work out how he really feels, give it to him. Let him chase you for a change.
Maybe you're too intense - be casual and mysterious go with him and have fun if you're really keen on him. Keep your options open. Good luck.
Anyway just trying to set the scene. The thing is that was a few weeks ago we had this conversation about how I felt about him and wasn't too sure if I could have him hanging around esp if I needed to move on and he is now talking about us going on holiday together, we've been away a few times together and each time it brings us closer together and then after a few weeks when we get back he seems to not pull away, but more a case of settled that we only see each other at the weekends.
A big part of me wants to go away with him, but I need him to understand things can't go on the way they are and I need to try and move on but it's breaking my heart staying or leaving him.
Do you think this guy is messing with my head and using me until something better comes along? Should I be strong and not go on hol ?Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
I think you should move on it's best for you since he knows your feelings and won't return them back. He might just be playing around w/ your mind.Guys and girls please I need advice please I'm at my wits end :-(?
yes he is messing with ur head
May be he is as confused as you are.try being not available all the time s...let him yearn a bit.you cant make anyone fall in love it just happens SO IF IT HAS TO IT WOULD DONT FORCE THINGS THERES ALwAYS A CORRECT TIME FOR EVERYTHING%26gt;JUST CHILL
He is messing with your head otherwise he would of already asked you out, or at least made moves to show that he wants you as a steady girl, not just a ';when we are alone'; hook-up.
At the same time, he may also care too much about ruining a friendship (especially best friends) by getting into a relationship which can complicate things. But, I think, a guy and a girl who are best friends would make a better relationship b/c they enjoy their company.
You need to say, ';Do you want to be with me or not?'; And if he gives you any answer besides a definitive ';Yes'; then you
need to consider dating other people until he knows he wants you.
You poured your heart out but he doesn't feel the same. You deserve someone who cares about you as much as you do about them. It is probally best to move on, if he is not the right guy then getting yourself closer will only make things harder. On the otherhand if time and space is what he needs to work out how he really feels, give it to him. Let him chase you for a change.
Maybe you're too intense - be casual and mysterious go with him and have fun if you're really keen on him. Keep your options open. Good luck.
O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
Let's start from the beginning. I'm a 20 year old guy living in Dubai. I was enrolled at the American University of Sharjah here, since 2006, and as it turned due to some problems, i could not achieve a certain GPA and was placed under acdemic probation. At this University, they have prob 1 and prob 2. If you fail to get out of prob 2 they dismiss you. So they made me sign this contract when i got into prob 2, which said clearly at the bottom, ';if you fail to achieve a GPA of 2.0, you will be unable to continue in the School of Business, at the American University of Sharjah';. I failed to achieve that GPA, and they sent me this letter stating that I will be unable to re-enroll at the American University of Sharjah, no matter what school i apply to. Can i still fight for my cause using the contract as a tool against them, and the reasons for my underachievement are problems that were unavoidable by me.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
I normally respond to questions asking for legal advice by suggesting some ways to contact a lawyer, since I have not yet taken the bar exam and cannot yet give legal advice. This is a tough one though. I'm not sure which law would govern the contract. It will probably say somewhere in the contract what law governs it (often local law, or US federal law, or frequently it is the law of the state of New York). You should contact a lawyer with expertise in the correct jurisdiction. Contract law is pretty basic, but there will be some interesting twists due to the fact that it is at a university and in a foreign country, but the school is american and you are of whatever nationality you are. You may want to try the American embassy. If you are not American, you may also want to try your embassy. You may want to try the State Bar Association in whatever state governs the contract, or you can try the American Bar Association. They might provide basic legal advice, but they can certainly direct you to a lawyer who can. I don't know much about the legal system in the UAE, so I don't know if there is any help for you there or if so, how to contact it. Your embassy will probably know about that though.
Good luck.
Edit: Rada's advice often works in the US. I don't know to what extent you can negotiate in Dubai or how it will effect your residential status if you aren't enrolled. Negotiation is usually a good idea, but I can't comment on how it will effect your legal status, only a lawyer with knowledge of the situation and the relevant law can do that.
Edit: Haz, basic contract law says that a contract is an enforceable promise. That is not just any old statement with a signature on it. There usually has to be something given up in return, but not always. It gets very complicated and depends on what jurisdiction's law governs. That's why nobody here can give you an answer, there are a lot of considerations on top of the basics and that requires a lawyer. Any lawyer could get in trouble with the bar association for trying to give you legal advice based just on this in Yahoo Answers because it cannot be done reliably. I'm sorry nobody here has been able to be more helpful. Good luck.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
You can apply but I wouldn't expect to be accepted. Even if the school concluded that the agreement didn't apply, your poor performane would exclude you at their discretion.
Contract law gives little ';wiggle'; room regarding GPA. what you need to do is go to a local college and only take a 1-2 classes that you feel you can do well and try and increase your GPA. Then re-apply.
I normally respond to questions asking for legal advice by suggesting some ways to contact a lawyer, since I have not yet taken the bar exam and cannot yet give legal advice. This is a tough one though. I'm not sure which law would govern the contract. It will probably say somewhere in the contract what law governs it (often local law, or US federal law, or frequently it is the law of the state of New York). You should contact a lawyer with expertise in the correct jurisdiction. Contract law is pretty basic, but there will be some interesting twists due to the fact that it is at a university and in a foreign country, but the school is american and you are of whatever nationality you are. You may want to try the American embassy. If you are not American, you may also want to try your embassy. You may want to try the State Bar Association in whatever state governs the contract, or you can try the American Bar Association. They might provide basic legal advice, but they can certainly direct you to a lawyer who can. I don't know much about the legal system in the UAE, so I don't know if there is any help for you there or if so, how to contact it. Your embassy will probably know about that though.
Good luck.
Edit: Rada's advice often works in the US. I don't know to what extent you can negotiate in Dubai or how it will effect your residential status if you aren't enrolled. Negotiation is usually a good idea, but I can't comment on how it will effect your legal status, only a lawyer with knowledge of the situation and the relevant law can do that.
Edit: Haz, basic contract law says that a contract is an enforceable promise. That is not just any old statement with a signature on it. There usually has to be something given up in return, but not always. It gets very complicated and depends on what jurisdiction's law governs. That's why nobody here can give you an answer, there are a lot of considerations on top of the basics and that requires a lawyer. Any lawyer could get in trouble with the bar association for trying to give you legal advice based just on this in Yahoo Answers because it cannot be done reliably. I'm sorry nobody here has been able to be more helpful. Good luck.O.k guys, i need some serious legal advice regarding my University?
You can apply but I wouldn't expect to be accepted. Even if the school concluded that the agreement didn't apply, your poor performane would exclude you at their discretion.
Contract law gives little ';wiggle'; room regarding GPA. what you need to do is go to a local college and only take a 1-2 classes that you feel you can do well and try and increase your GPA. Then re-apply.
Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I'm really shy.
I'll go an entire period (50 minutes) without saying anything to anyone.
I spend lunch in the restroom stall because I don't want to be in the and sit alone every day.
that's embarassing and it's hard to be in the middle of a crowd of friends/boyfriends and girlfriends while they're laughing and joking.
anyway, I confided in a teacher and asked her for advice.
she told me I could stay in her room during lunch.
she's head of drama club and two girls from her drama class came by.
I don't remember exactley what happen but basically the teacher said she'd be in her room if they needed something.
they asked her why she was staying in her room and she answered them that there was a girl who was really shy and she had been spending restroom in the restroom so the teacher let her stay in her room.
they said ';oh well she can eat lunch with us';
so I showed up and the teacher surpsied me and was like ';yeah, they're waiting for you in the cafeteria.';Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
Heyy! Well actually I exactly know how you feel. I was in my lunch table sitting with my friends and all of a sudden a teacher comes and tells us that she has a new friend. This boy who sat like a couple of tables away was being bullied by the people around him, but the teacher was just trying to be nice and help the kid out. When he went to sit at our table I noticed how the rest of my friends were trying to introduce themselves to him, but they were being pushy and the kid felt uncomfortable. I also welcomed him, but I just felt like you know he probably thinks that we kinda have to do this, but I really didnt want him to feel this way. So in my opinion is try to be more friendly and socialize with the people around you or talk to them. Im sure all they could say back is probably not a response at all. If you truly are yourself and stand up for what you believe Im sure you'll be fine. From wat you've written your not shy to me at all, your expressing your feelings and thats cool. Im a junior at my school and Im the junior president of the Drama Club and jsut because ur in it dosn't mean you can talk to other people or get to know those who are in other groups. Im in marching band and all this music stuff and you know wat I talk to ppl who are football players, cheerleaders or the people that truly stand out in the grade. So my advice for you is just be yourself and talk to some people, next time you see someone in the hallway say hi, or you know maybe in a class u can start by socializing more, and think about it, imagine if your a senior in high school and your lonely and dont have friends and is missing out on being with all the people in your grades for the past yrs. you probably wouldn't want to ask yourself what if? questions. So I really hope this advice helped or any of these words make sense, but I really tried.Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I think you have what they call social anxiety. Its treatable.
well they were probbably stuck up but he you need to let your guard down your way to shy and i thought i was shy.. you need to get mover it and start having a life.. talk to ppl somebody is bound to like you but you actually have to talk to ppl be4 that can happen
it sounds like you are afraid of being judged but you are judging people when you don't give them a chance to get to know you and assume they don't want you there. High school is hard and when your shy it's even worse. You can try to say hi in passing to a few people and smile if someone looks at you maybe if you give someone a chance they might be friends with you...good luck
There's nothing to hate about. It's all about communication, and it may be hard to accept that in order to transform from being ';stuck in the restroom'; to ';people meeting you all the time';, you may need to accept the fact that when people hate you, they may have a reason, and let them decide of what they think of you. Learn to accept that there are people who may hate you, and there is actually no reason to hate people.
If there is anything to hate, say the reason/s in a calm, reasonable manner, and let the person you hate to talk to realize what he or she can do better to improve himself or herself.
U can't expect to receive something if u don't give something back!
Every relationship, be it with friendship, family or with bf-gf thing, it goes two-ways....
LOVE .....so u will be loved.....
BE FRIENDLY .....so someone will be friendly to u.....
Be open, be true..... someone will definitely like u!
It's time to get out of ur shell!!
And about the B*I*A*T*C*H .... don't waste ur time thinking about her, it won't do u anything good .
Good luck girl!!
I know why you are in the drama club so that you can be less shy right? I advise you to look for someone with common interest with you. I have half the similar experience as you had. Being shy procrastinates the opportunity thus, your time is wasted. If you can't help it, go to a guidance counselor to help you.
Being shy is nothing to be ashamed of. A lot of people are shy. Just be yourself. Find a crowd or friends that you fit in with. Be friendly and try to over come being as shy as you are. You'll be surprised as to how quickly you find your place. Good luck.
Holy crap! I thought I was shy at that age.
Here's a Q: for you: are you miserable? I'm guessing you are, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this A: So, you're damned if you do (hide) and you're damned if you don't. The difference is hiding will get you nowhere, and trying to mingle will lead you to a better place. Do this: mingle, disregard what everybody else thinks, say whatever you think. Sure, there will be some (shallow) people who will probably hate and ridicule you, but there will be some who will think you're pretty cool. You need at least one friend, or you will go crazy. You have to be yourself and show yourself or no one will know who you are. If you try to fake who you are, any friends that you might make will not really be friends with you; they will be friends with who you aren't. Lastly, I'll leave you with this quote: '; Before I turned 20, I worried about what other people thought of me. When I reached my 40's, I didn't give a damn what other people thought of me. Finally, when I reached my 60's, I realized, nobody was thinking of me in the first place.'; You don't have to wait until you're that old to take these lessons to heart. What other people think of you has absolutely no effect on who you really are. Using their opinions is a terrible way to measure your self-worth. Bust out of your shell. Life is better out here. Start living. Take risks; it's a blast. Facing, and overcoming your fear is one of the best and most exciting feelings there is. Waste no time. Peace.
Auditorium
Do you have one
um..just go to the libraray during ur lunch
and next semester talk to some new people in your new classes and sit lunch with them.
find friends who share ur intrest(iwus the same way then i started a video game club at my new skool amd made good frends
( i am aware of all my mistakes)
You are a beautiful person, no one knows it yet.
Being in the drama club helps alot.
If you have any skill in anything (like math or english) try and talk to other people that share your interests
Are you new to that school? Most of the time new people have trouble fitting in. I bet you have at least 5 classes a day, and there are around 20 people in each class so you should know at least 100 people (by ';know'; I mean you can recognize them and they can recognize you). So during lunch just walk over to one of them that you had a conversation or two and just ask, ';Can I sit with you guys?'; I am positive they'll say yes and then talk about anything, just anything: a movie you watched last, a fashion show, book etc.
Don't worry about those 'popular'; ones, they're just gonna end up bums in the street after hight school.
Good luck.
i hear you, during my highschool life i've bounced around schools and i'm really shy. For the first month at my last school i wished so desperately there was no lunch period because i would just walk around aimlessly through the grounds alone. i know exactly how you feel about not wanting to force your presence on them or make them feel sorry for you, when in reality you don't even want to hang out with them, just don't want to be alone. I finally got up the courage to make a little small talk with a group of guys i felt had the same interests as me. I walked up to the wall where they kick it at and said whatsup, introduced myself and asked a bit about them. They didn't really have the same ideas or ethics as me but they were cool and i hung out with them for the rest of the year. If they're cheerleaders i wouldn't waste your time with them, assuming they are the normal, stereotypical cheerleaders. I can tell from your writing you're intellegent and insightful and almost everyone in highschool is caught up in being popular. Vanity is their sin. My advice is to look for a group of girls that look like they have the same interests and values as you, muster up the courage and go sit with them. If you have classes with any of them, talk with them and see what they're like before you go and sit with them. It will help enormously if you have talked with one of them before you sit at their table so the rest of the table doesn't think you're a complete nobody. Whatever happens don't let them get you down. if you have any other questions i'd be glad to help you as i have been in the situation you are in and know how alienated you are feeling.
best of luck.
You got issues!Tuffn up and be your self who cares what other people think, stuff them!
i had the same problem,but eventually outgrew it ....u wont have to deal with these people forever...and you can eat lunch where you want to...
Sometimes i feel the sam way. don't worry. Things will work out. No offence, but you will find someone like you to hang out with. Thats what happened with me. Sorry with the teacher.
Oh im so sorry!!!
Well, what you can do is maybe sit somewhere more noticeable, such as the hallway or somewhere and someone will come sit by you. Also, if you know of any youth groups you can possibly go to a couple. Youth group kids seem to be more open to outsiders. Im an outsider at school most of the time, but at youth group, i have all my best friends. Try it.
I will pray that things turn out for you Chica.
God Bless!
you just need to open up more, sit w/ other ppl. make new friends.
Sweetie I understand being shy. I was terribly shy in school too. No one who knows me today would ever guess that! Trust me, I've learned the way to make a friend is to first make a connection, to make a connection you have to, ok here is the hard part, t-a-l-k to someone. Just kind of start a light conversation. Sometimes it's easiest if you ask a person a question. Not a yes or no question, but ask them their recommendation, opinion about something. Something and then listen, comment about what they have said so that they know you were paying attention. oh and look at them when your talking to them and while they are speaking to you. Don't look at your feet. Not making eye contact is rude. While your at it shoot them a smile add a joke or a giggle. After the question, thank them and if they don't ask you a question, say well I'll see you later and be on your way. Don't just stand there. Both of you will feel awkward. You have to speak to people ... make it a habit and practice where ever you go. Talk to the clerk at the grocery store, the 7-11, make a joke with one of your teachers, always wave and say hello to your neighbors, the more you do this the easier it gets, Trust me I know exactly the pain your feeling. It will get better.
I'm sorry I really do understand what u mean, I'm shy myself. If don't want 2 be there leave. The teacher can not force u 2 stay. Well try and be friends with the girls who invited u and don't like the other girls get 2 u. Your in a club that's so cool. Just start talking 2 some girls or ask when ur going a play if they want 2 work together.
i had this problem at the beginning of my freshman year. i started the 1st semester eating lunch in my english teachers class room. i broke out of this by making friends with people in my classes, and then just started eating lunch with them everyonce in a while, gradually increasing it to every day (but i also ate with 3 or 4 different groups)
I'll go an entire period (50 minutes) without saying anything to anyone.
I spend lunch in the restroom stall because I don't want to be in the and sit alone every day.
that's embarassing and it's hard to be in the middle of a crowd of friends/boyfriends and girlfriends while they're laughing and joking.
anyway, I confided in a teacher and asked her for advice.
she told me I could stay in her room during lunch.
she's head of drama club and two girls from her drama class came by.
I don't remember exactley what happen but basically the teacher said she'd be in her room if they needed something.
they asked her why she was staying in her room and she answered them that there was a girl who was really shy and she had been spending restroom in the restroom so the teacher let her stay in her room.
they said ';oh well she can eat lunch with us';
so I showed up and the teacher surpsied me and was like ';yeah, they're waiting for you in the cafeteria.';Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
Heyy! Well actually I exactly know how you feel. I was in my lunch table sitting with my friends and all of a sudden a teacher comes and tells us that she has a new friend. This boy who sat like a couple of tables away was being bullied by the people around him, but the teacher was just trying to be nice and help the kid out. When he went to sit at our table I noticed how the rest of my friends were trying to introduce themselves to him, but they were being pushy and the kid felt uncomfortable. I also welcomed him, but I just felt like you know he probably thinks that we kinda have to do this, but I really didnt want him to feel this way. So in my opinion is try to be more friendly and socialize with the people around you or talk to them. Im sure all they could say back is probably not a response at all. If you truly are yourself and stand up for what you believe Im sure you'll be fine. From wat you've written your not shy to me at all, your expressing your feelings and thats cool. Im a junior at my school and Im the junior president of the Drama Club and jsut because ur in it dosn't mean you can talk to other people or get to know those who are in other groups. Im in marching band and all this music stuff and you know wat I talk to ppl who are football players, cheerleaders or the people that truly stand out in the grade. So my advice for you is just be yourself and talk to some people, next time you see someone in the hallway say hi, or you know maybe in a class u can start by socializing more, and think about it, imagine if your a senior in high school and your lonely and dont have friends and is missing out on being with all the people in your grades for the past yrs. you probably wouldn't want to ask yourself what if? questions. So I really hope this advice helped or any of these words make sense, but I really tried.Question for guys and girls! I really need advice pleasse help!!!?
I think you have what they call social anxiety. Its treatable.
well they were probbably stuck up but he you need to let your guard down your way to shy and i thought i was shy.. you need to get mover it and start having a life.. talk to ppl somebody is bound to like you but you actually have to talk to ppl be4 that can happen
it sounds like you are afraid of being judged but you are judging people when you don't give them a chance to get to know you and assume they don't want you there. High school is hard and when your shy it's even worse. You can try to say hi in passing to a few people and smile if someone looks at you maybe if you give someone a chance they might be friends with you...good luck
There's nothing to hate about. It's all about communication, and it may be hard to accept that in order to transform from being ';stuck in the restroom'; to ';people meeting you all the time';, you may need to accept the fact that when people hate you, they may have a reason, and let them decide of what they think of you. Learn to accept that there are people who may hate you, and there is actually no reason to hate people.
If there is anything to hate, say the reason/s in a calm, reasonable manner, and let the person you hate to talk to realize what he or she can do better to improve himself or herself.
U can't expect to receive something if u don't give something back!
Every relationship, be it with friendship, family or with bf-gf thing, it goes two-ways....
LOVE .....so u will be loved.....
BE FRIENDLY .....so someone will be friendly to u.....
Be open, be true..... someone will definitely like u!
It's time to get out of ur shell!!
And about the B*I*A*T*C*H .... don't waste ur time thinking about her, it won't do u anything good .
Good luck girl!!
I know why you are in the drama club so that you can be less shy right? I advise you to look for someone with common interest with you. I have half the similar experience as you had. Being shy procrastinates the opportunity thus, your time is wasted. If you can't help it, go to a guidance counselor to help you.
Being shy is nothing to be ashamed of. A lot of people are shy. Just be yourself. Find a crowd or friends that you fit in with. Be friendly and try to over come being as shy as you are. You'll be surprised as to how quickly you find your place. Good luck.
Holy crap! I thought I was shy at that age.
Here's a Q: for you: are you miserable? I'm guessing you are, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this A: So, you're damned if you do (hide) and you're damned if you don't. The difference is hiding will get you nowhere, and trying to mingle will lead you to a better place. Do this: mingle, disregard what everybody else thinks, say whatever you think. Sure, there will be some (shallow) people who will probably hate and ridicule you, but there will be some who will think you're pretty cool. You need at least one friend, or you will go crazy. You have to be yourself and show yourself or no one will know who you are. If you try to fake who you are, any friends that you might make will not really be friends with you; they will be friends with who you aren't. Lastly, I'll leave you with this quote: '; Before I turned 20, I worried about what other people thought of me. When I reached my 40's, I didn't give a damn what other people thought of me. Finally, when I reached my 60's, I realized, nobody was thinking of me in the first place.'; You don't have to wait until you're that old to take these lessons to heart. What other people think of you has absolutely no effect on who you really are. Using their opinions is a terrible way to measure your self-worth. Bust out of your shell. Life is better out here. Start living. Take risks; it's a blast. Facing, and overcoming your fear is one of the best and most exciting feelings there is. Waste no time. Peace.
Auditorium
Do you have one
um..just go to the libraray during ur lunch
and next semester talk to some new people in your new classes and sit lunch with them.
find friends who share ur intrest(iwus the same way then i started a video game club at my new skool amd made good frends
( i am aware of all my mistakes)
You are a beautiful person, no one knows it yet.
Being in the drama club helps alot.
If you have any skill in anything (like math or english) try and talk to other people that share your interests
Are you new to that school? Most of the time new people have trouble fitting in. I bet you have at least 5 classes a day, and there are around 20 people in each class so you should know at least 100 people (by ';know'; I mean you can recognize them and they can recognize you). So during lunch just walk over to one of them that you had a conversation or two and just ask, ';Can I sit with you guys?'; I am positive they'll say yes and then talk about anything, just anything: a movie you watched last, a fashion show, book etc.
Don't worry about those 'popular'; ones, they're just gonna end up bums in the street after hight school.
Good luck.
i hear you, during my highschool life i've bounced around schools and i'm really shy. For the first month at my last school i wished so desperately there was no lunch period because i would just walk around aimlessly through the grounds alone. i know exactly how you feel about not wanting to force your presence on them or make them feel sorry for you, when in reality you don't even want to hang out with them, just don't want to be alone. I finally got up the courage to make a little small talk with a group of guys i felt had the same interests as me. I walked up to the wall where they kick it at and said whatsup, introduced myself and asked a bit about them. They didn't really have the same ideas or ethics as me but they were cool and i hung out with them for the rest of the year. If they're cheerleaders i wouldn't waste your time with them, assuming they are the normal, stereotypical cheerleaders. I can tell from your writing you're intellegent and insightful and almost everyone in highschool is caught up in being popular. Vanity is their sin. My advice is to look for a group of girls that look like they have the same interests and values as you, muster up the courage and go sit with them. If you have classes with any of them, talk with them and see what they're like before you go and sit with them. It will help enormously if you have talked with one of them before you sit at their table so the rest of the table doesn't think you're a complete nobody. Whatever happens don't let them get you down. if you have any other questions i'd be glad to help you as i have been in the situation you are in and know how alienated you are feeling.
best of luck.
You got issues!Tuffn up and be your self who cares what other people think, stuff them!
i had the same problem,but eventually outgrew it ....u wont have to deal with these people forever...and you can eat lunch where you want to...
Sometimes i feel the sam way. don't worry. Things will work out. No offence, but you will find someone like you to hang out with. Thats what happened with me. Sorry with the teacher.
Oh im so sorry!!!
Well, what you can do is maybe sit somewhere more noticeable, such as the hallway or somewhere and someone will come sit by you. Also, if you know of any youth groups you can possibly go to a couple. Youth group kids seem to be more open to outsiders. Im an outsider at school most of the time, but at youth group, i have all my best friends. Try it.
I will pray that things turn out for you Chica.
God Bless!
you just need to open up more, sit w/ other ppl. make new friends.
Sweetie I understand being shy. I was terribly shy in school too. No one who knows me today would ever guess that! Trust me, I've learned the way to make a friend is to first make a connection, to make a connection you have to, ok here is the hard part, t-a-l-k to someone. Just kind of start a light conversation. Sometimes it's easiest if you ask a person a question. Not a yes or no question, but ask them their recommendation, opinion about something. Something and then listen, comment about what they have said so that they know you were paying attention. oh and look at them when your talking to them and while they are speaking to you. Don't look at your feet. Not making eye contact is rude. While your at it shoot them a smile add a joke or a giggle. After the question, thank them and if they don't ask you a question, say well I'll see you later and be on your way. Don't just stand there. Both of you will feel awkward. You have to speak to people ... make it a habit and practice where ever you go. Talk to the clerk at the grocery store, the 7-11, make a joke with one of your teachers, always wave and say hello to your neighbors, the more you do this the easier it gets, Trust me I know exactly the pain your feeling. It will get better.
I'm sorry I really do understand what u mean, I'm shy myself. If don't want 2 be there leave. The teacher can not force u 2 stay. Well try and be friends with the girls who invited u and don't like the other girls get 2 u. Your in a club that's so cool. Just start talking 2 some girls or ask when ur going a play if they want 2 work together.
i had this problem at the beginning of my freshman year. i started the 1st semester eating lunch in my english teachers class room. i broke out of this by making friends with people in my classes, and then just started eating lunch with them everyonce in a while, gradually increasing it to every day (but i also ate with 3 or 4 different groups)
Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
What do i do? am i suppose to just wait for him? HELP?
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
look him up on the phone book..go through ur year book find out who he used to hang out with contact them..maybe they will knowCan you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
well maybe you should make the next move? maybe tell him something like you were helping your elderly neighbor. just a little white lie so you dont have to tell him that you were all hott and sweatty. or maybe if he is really accepting then maybe just tell him what happened. but maybe you should just show up at his house, yes it's rude. but i have a saying. you never know what could of been, if you never took the risk. (:
You listened to your little cousin for advice, oh dear. Do you really think a boy who has gone to all that trouble would have cared what you looked like. No way.
It's a bit late now, but what you should have done, is sent the all knowing lil cousin out to talk to him, while you got yourself all prettied up, or at least clean. I mean, after all his arrival was totally out of the blue. He'd have waited for you I'm sure.
But the problem now is, how do you get in touch with him. I'm sorry I'm at a loss to help you there. What you do need to do, in case he doesn't try again, is get on the phone, and ask as many people as you know, if they know Jason.
Do you even know his last name? Check the phone book if you do.
So ive liked Jason since forever and he liked me but nothing became of us we graduated highschool about a year ago.. i seen him around alot this summer by my house and finally he built up the courage to come to my house. Unfortonatly he came at a bad timing as i was in the middle of something.. I felt bad cause I could see he was not sure if he came to the right house cause he also went next door then he backed up his car and went to see if anyone was at the door at my house.. he basically looked ';confused'; between my house and the house next door. He also honked the car horn a few times.. so i know he was desperate to talk to me.. I was going to go outside and wave.. but then my little cousin was laughing at me saying ';you will turn the guy off cause u look a mess'; which was true.. and plus i was sweaty and smelly as well cause we dont have air conditioner in the house. (we just got it put in now though). So i did not go outside.
My question is do you think he will make another attempt? He came by last week Wendsday.. and its now Thurday of this week..
I know this will be the last time i will ever have a real chance of telling him how i feel. Im worried that he might of gone away for college.. but to me it does not make sence cause why would he talk to me only to tell me he was going away for college right?
We dont have any mutal friends and he does not even have a facebook. I dont know where he lives or have his phone number. I dont even know how he figured out where i live.. but he did and plus i guess since he has a car its easier.. I dont have a car.Can you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
look him up on the phone book..go through ur year book find out who he used to hang out with contact them..maybe they will knowCan you guys PLEASE help me i need ADVICE?
well maybe you should make the next move? maybe tell him something like you were helping your elderly neighbor. just a little white lie so you dont have to tell him that you were all hott and sweatty. or maybe if he is really accepting then maybe just tell him what happened. but maybe you should just show up at his house, yes it's rude. but i have a saying. you never know what could of been, if you never took the risk. (:
You listened to your little cousin for advice, oh dear. Do you really think a boy who has gone to all that trouble would have cared what you looked like. No way.
It's a bit late now, but what you should have done, is sent the all knowing lil cousin out to talk to him, while you got yourself all prettied up, or at least clean. I mean, after all his arrival was totally out of the blue. He'd have waited for you I'm sure.
But the problem now is, how do you get in touch with him. I'm sorry I'm at a loss to help you there. What you do need to do, in case he doesn't try again, is get on the phone, and ask as many people as you know, if they know Jason.
Do you even know his last name? Check the phone book if you do.
I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
I have trust issues and I don't like the idea of relationships. I think there's so much more to life. people are more stressed in relationships then they are without them and everyone always ends up breaking up then they do it all over again. I've decided to spend my life doing other things.
there are 3 guys I've been getting to know...trying to be friends with...but they want to take it further. we never hooked up or had sex or anything. one of them even followed me into the library after I flicked him off (he laughed and said I had ';fuq you'; written all over my face). he sat across from me and had his book upside down while he stared at me. I tried going to school in baggy sweatpants with my hair messy and that didn't work.
I am not interested in a relationship. I'm not pretending to be gay to keep them away. I don't know what to do.
How should I keep them away?
Why are they still trying to get with me if I've told them I don't want a boyfriend?
thanks, I appreciate the help!I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Well if you take this advise from a fellow guy... It really doesnt matter what you say to us (Guys) if someone really likes you they will only try harder to get you. Now when you tell guys your not interested... what goes through a guys mind is ';Now i have a chalenge... let me fix that'; so pretty much what im saying is. The more you try to confine yourself away from guys and a relationship (esspecially if they really like you) the harder they will try to get you. So try to go along with it than break his heart and he wont want to talk to you. Or if your not heart-less than try sitting down with them and telling them everything how you feel.I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Go look for a girl instead!!!
You must be a lesbian.
Give them a nice big slap on the face the next time they follow. They should get the message.
Sounds like your just attractive and its natural for guys to try. You also sound a bit young, because as you grow you will learn to appreciate relationships and all the beauty thats involved. Falling in love and heartbreak is apart of life, you cant avoid it forever...but if you want to stay single for now, thats just fine. Just tell the guys exactly how you feel and they will have no choice but to leave you alone eventually.
p.s...Men will ALWAYS try to get something they want. Im 25 and they've been trying HARD since I was 15, it never stops, men are animals that like to chase..lol. Just ignore them sweetie.
I don't know about the other two, but that other guy just sounds like a complete tool. Drop him as a friend all together. He clearly doesn't care about you as a person at all. Don't take that kind of crap from anyone. Even though you say you gave him the finger your attitude sounds like your too passive. Actually changing your look to deter people. Forget that all together. Truly stand up to yourself.
If it seems like someone truly likes you. Try to let them down lightly, but firmly. As for guys like the one you mentioned. Let em have it and if that doesn't work get some friends to deliver the message.
Most importantly at the beginning you state an obvious problem. You have trust issues. This is something you should really deal with.
Not all guys are just out to score. If your not interested in anyone, it's fine to be happy and content, but to down right dislike the idea of having any relationship shows some emotional distress signs.
If you find yourself liking a guy go for it, but let him no right off that you don't come easy and that the romance has to happen slow. If he understands you'll eventually be able to battle with whatever problems you have with intimacy. Also you may just not be a sexual person, but my guess is on the first one because of your hostility.
If the guy doesn't get it... well then you know right away he's an ***.
I must say, it sounds like the guys are taking your stonewalling the mas playing hard to get. If I were you I would sit them down and have a talk, just say that you dont want to lose your friendship with them and you just arent ready to take it to the next level. And i can persoanlly vouch for the fact that good guys do exist, my bf is the best person I have ever met.
Good luck
there are 3 guys I've been getting to know...trying to be friends with...but they want to take it further. we never hooked up or had sex or anything. one of them even followed me into the library after I flicked him off (he laughed and said I had ';fuq you'; written all over my face). he sat across from me and had his book upside down while he stared at me. I tried going to school in baggy sweatpants with my hair messy and that didn't work.
I am not interested in a relationship. I'm not pretending to be gay to keep them away. I don't know what to do.
How should I keep them away?
Why are they still trying to get with me if I've told them I don't want a boyfriend?
thanks, I appreciate the help!I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Well if you take this advise from a fellow guy... It really doesnt matter what you say to us (Guys) if someone really likes you they will only try harder to get you. Now when you tell guys your not interested... what goes through a guys mind is ';Now i have a chalenge... let me fix that'; so pretty much what im saying is. The more you try to confine yourself away from guys and a relationship (esspecially if they really like you) the harder they will try to get you. So try to go along with it than break his heart and he wont want to talk to you. Or if your not heart-less than try sitting down with them and telling them everything how you feel.I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Go look for a girl instead!!!
You must be a lesbian.
Give them a nice big slap on the face the next time they follow. They should get the message.
Sounds like your just attractive and its natural for guys to try. You also sound a bit young, because as you grow you will learn to appreciate relationships and all the beauty thats involved. Falling in love and heartbreak is apart of life, you cant avoid it forever...but if you want to stay single for now, thats just fine. Just tell the guys exactly how you feel and they will have no choice but to leave you alone eventually.
p.s...Men will ALWAYS try to get something they want. Im 25 and they've been trying HARD since I was 15, it never stops, men are animals that like to chase..lol. Just ignore them sweetie.
I don't know about the other two, but that other guy just sounds like a complete tool. Drop him as a friend all together. He clearly doesn't care about you as a person at all. Don't take that kind of crap from anyone. Even though you say you gave him the finger your attitude sounds like your too passive. Actually changing your look to deter people. Forget that all together. Truly stand up to yourself.
If it seems like someone truly likes you. Try to let them down lightly, but firmly. As for guys like the one you mentioned. Let em have it and if that doesn't work get some friends to deliver the message.
Most importantly at the beginning you state an obvious problem. You have trust issues. This is something you should really deal with.
Not all guys are just out to score. If your not interested in anyone, it's fine to be happy and content, but to down right dislike the idea of having any relationship shows some emotional distress signs.
If you find yourself liking a guy go for it, but let him no right off that you don't come easy and that the romance has to happen slow. If he understands you'll eventually be able to battle with whatever problems you have with intimacy. Also you may just not be a sexual person, but my guess is on the first one because of your hostility.
If the guy doesn't get it... well then you know right away he's an ***.
I must say, it sounds like the guys are taking your stonewalling the mas playing hard to get. If I were you I would sit them down and have a talk, just say that you dont want to lose your friendship with them and you just arent ready to take it to the next level. And i can persoanlly vouch for the fact that good guys do exist, my bf is the best person I have ever met.
Good luck
Hey guys i need a little ';New'; friendship help/advice..10 points TBA :)?
okay so me and a girl in one of my classes have been talking and stuff
like just being friends but finally we made plans to hang out out side of school today and i went to where we were suppose to meet up at 4 pm and she didn't show but i saw her at her just getting home from subway at her house at 4:45
and i called her 3 times but and txtd once and she didn't answer
we had that plans made and figured out all day..
what do you think happened? :/Hey guys i need a little ';New'; friendship help/advice..10 points TBA :)?
Probably she just forgot lol and um not answering your calls she probably feels bad for blowing you off and will explain in school. That or either a incident happen to her on the subway or getting home and she was shaking up about it.wrinkle cream
like just being friends but finally we made plans to hang out out side of school today and i went to where we were suppose to meet up at 4 pm and she didn't show but i saw her at her just getting home from subway at her house at 4:45
and i called her 3 times but and txtd once and she didn't answer
we had that plans made and figured out all day..
what do you think happened? :/Hey guys i need a little ';New'; friendship help/advice..10 points TBA :)?
Probably she just forgot lol and um not answering your calls she probably feels bad for blowing you off and will explain in school. That or either a incident happen to her on the subway or getting home and she was shaking up about it.
My guy friend always comes to me first to ask my advice instead of his girlfriend.?
I am a good friend to this guy friend. He always is coming to me for personal advice instead of going to his girl that he has been dating for a year. Why does he do this? Does he wish to be with me and he is afraid to say so? They are personal questions regarding his personal matters, banking, work, other friends, etc......I asked him once about it and he answered, I respect your opinion. But shouldn't he ask his girl? My guy friend always comes to me first to ask my advice instead of his girlfriend.?
Maybe he simply feels more comfortable talking to you about it?
Or maybe he feels as though his girlfriend will think less of him if he goes to her asking for advice. It could be a weird reason as to why he does this but I'm sure its logical.
Try asking him again in a subtle way and see what he says.My guy friend always comes to me first to ask my advice instead of his girlfriend.?
He sees you as a friend. Not a girlfriend. There's a huge difference.
Maybe he simply feels more comfortable talking to you about it?
Or maybe he feels as though his girlfriend will think less of him if he goes to her asking for advice. It could be a weird reason as to why he does this but I'm sure its logical.
Try asking him again in a subtle way and see what he says.My guy friend always comes to me first to ask my advice instead of his girlfriend.?
He sees you as a friend. Not a girlfriend. There's a huge difference.
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