Friday, January 8, 2010

To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?

i meet this guy and i really like him.. ive known him for about a week or so and he says he loves me and has kinda hinted at marriage... however, im scared to death... i dont think it can work out and i dont know how to tell him... he is really sensitive and i dont want to hurt him... what should i do? How do i let him down easy? Or better yet make him dump me so i dont feel so bad about it?To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
he cannot possibly love you after one week. He doesn't know what love is. If you have had sex with him that is what he loves.





If there is sex involved he probably hasn't been laid in a long time


and thinks by telling you that he loves you he will get laid a lot.





But here is the kicker. He could be a great wonderful guy who is just desperate to be with someone. Just tell him that to speak of love and marriage at this point is nuts. That is if you like him. Otherwise dump him now before it goes much further.To all the guys out there... i really need some advice?
Just let him know how you feel and that you appreciate him as a friend if you care to have him as one. Plain and simple.
tell him to slow down. if you want to go out without pressure he may understand
be upfront about it. what kind of relationship is it when the guy is more sensitive than the girl? its a learning lesson for the guy. Just do it! just tell him you don't like clinging so he may learn from this. you must of been really good in bed in order for him to be in love with you in a week.
talkin bout marriage within a week of knowing you???


way too quick i'd say...


if that doesnt cool him down, then just get caught snoggin another bloke.....
1 week and he's talking about marriage ALREADY? What a loser. Dump him. Some people have to feel bad in order to get the message.
hard one... start doing the things he doesnt like maybe he will feel negative
You've only known him for a week and he says he loves you and is hinting at marriage??? Look out for this guy, he is rushing things way to fast. Definately talk to him, tell him you are not ready for a serious relationship and certainly not ready to even think about marriage. Maybe if you tell him this he will move on, he seems to be in a big hurry to marry. If he doesn't, then you are going to have to tell him it isn't going to work out and that you want to break it off.
its a messy way of doing it,but you could write him a letter,if you cant find the words when your with him.or you could cheat on him and let him find out,then maybe he will dump you.

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