Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 13 months and in the beginning we never used to see each other..just at school and sometimes we used to hang out..we talk on the phone every day..we fall asleep on the phone..he calls me in the morning to wake me up..and now that he has his license we see each other more often but not everyday but more than before..i mean i just dont want to him to get sick of me even if we talk on the phone every night and usually all day when we dont see each other..i know guys get sick of girls easily but i dont want him to get sick of me..i just need someones input and what i should do..he hasnt given me any signs that hes sick of me but i just dont want him to think it!! please and thank yoU!!Do guys get sick of girls easily? ADVICE PLZ!?
Yes, guys get sick of girls.
Perhaps I should say that better: guys need their space from girls in order to function as normal guys. By space, I mean a day off or night off. If he says he has ';stuff to do';, let him do his stuff without insisting you know what it precisely is or insisting you do this ';stuff'; with him.
When you spend time together, ask yourself this. Do not ask it to him verbally as it is intrusive for guys to hear thoughts of yours that question the stability of the relationship.
';Are we both enjoying being together now?';
If answer is yes, stop asking yourself this question and enjoy every minute of it.
If you feel your answer is no, then you may need to reduce frequency of your together time. Do not feel that you are taking steps backwards as a couple just because you see/talk to each other less often. Sometimes, it takes separation to remember the feelings you have for each other. And the amount of separation should be enough for both of you.
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