So....I have been with this guy for almoxt 4 monthes...we were friends before we started going out...but we u know would hook up...and in that time he would tell me how he saw himself either marrying his ex or me....now we are together, he tells me that he sees us having a ';future'; and when something happens that i am thinking about breaking up, he brings up the whole future together and goes on about how he sees me and how i hold ';all the qualities that he looks for in a woman';...but tells me he is afriad to love because he has been hurt before...I just want to know is he just saying this stuff to get me to stay...or is he serious? cause im afraid to feel for him more because im not sure if he will love me backSo...i need advice...on this plze both girls and guys respond thanks...';future'; question?
honestly, i think he doesn't love you. he might just be saying those things to stay close to you. if you're really his ideal woman, he wouldn't be saying things like ';i'm afraid to love';. when you love someone, you take your chances for them, regardless of the risk of being hurt. it seems like he's not showing that kind of effort. it makes him even more suspicious because of the past things you guys have done when you weren't together. however, time changes people. give it like a few weeks or a month, set a time where you evaluate whether he loves you or not. make your decision from there. good luck :]
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