Okay, so heres the problem:
I have seriously liked this guy since fourth grade, I'm now in 10th. We talk for about 2 minutes everyday, but I really really like him, its hard to describe but the feelings are real.
He has problems though, he does drugs, and don't say anything about this because i don't care if he does drugs or not.
so hes really laid back, and i'm soo afraid to start a convorsation with him, but how can i do this?. i really want to get to know him more.
and i also dont want to annoy him.
any advice would really help me out.
or how can i get him to want to hang out with me..or want my number?
and he usually doesnt do homework, so thats out for a ';convo starter';
Thanks guys!Guys and Girls, please help me out, I need advice! best answer gets 10 points !?
Do drugs with him. Want to get to know him better.
Take an interest in what he does. Take drugs with him.
Also it really depends on the type of drugs he takes.
marijuana will not hurt you...if he takes meth, coke, perscription drugs etc. There is no room for anyone else in his life, just room for ego. In turn you would have to deal with addiction.
If you do not want to try or use drugs. Take an interest in yourself, others who take care of themselves and wait till the time is right.Guys and Girls, please help me out, I need advice! best answer gets 10 points !?
Honestly why would you want to be with a guy that has no life? He does drugs, he doesn't do his HW he doesn't care about his life besides being a ';bad boy';. You don't want that. But just if you still want to be with him just start a simple conversation... ';hey what's your name, i've seen you around'; and after that just take the lead and ask for a number
If he's interested in sports or other activites, try to start a convo about that. Or if he has facebook or some type of chat (AIM,Yahoo,MSN, ect.) try to talk to him on there. It is so much easier to talk to someone on the computer!! (: hope it helped a little,%26amp; I'm sorry for your little problem. I hope it all gets better soon!(:
In my opinion you shouldn't go out with this guy. But I'll go both ways. Be confident when you're talking with him. Just go up and start a conversation. Do you have classes with him? Talk about them and and the teachers, or other gossip that's going around. You might wanna get to know the guy first before getting his number though.
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this guy is probably a little old for you since you get nervous talking to him. he's a loser and he isn't going anywhere in life with that drug problem. move on.
Music, movies, upcoming social events.
All of these are very popular conversation starters!
Good luck with your mystery man!!!
uhhh hes not good for you
hello natalie i read ur question u have a very simple problem just drag ur conversation with him at the time wen u speak with him. just talk something regarding ur homeworks or about ur interests like tat and also shower ur care on him and make him feel that u r a well wisher and u r a caring heart for him an then ask him for a date surely he'll hang out with u. then while u speak with him be bubbly and cute dont bore him speak what he likes i mean about his crush and wat gals means to him lik tat got it! enjoy babe have a nice time
first off it depends what drugs he does. if it's just weed thats nothing to worry about. if it's any powders or pills though don't even bother starting a relationship with him. What you need to do is find things you have in common with him %26amp;%26amp; attempt to get the conversation flowing a bit more. Make him laugh. Guys always fall for the girls that can make them laugh. If your self conscious just prep yourself up before hand. Look at yourself in the mirror %26amp;%26amp; focus on your good qualities. Then just start talking to him more. Eventually you'll get a lot more comfortable with talking to him =]
Friday, April 30, 2010
Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
I need some advice on what guys think is Sexy, I don't want to be boring anymore, and I need some tips...and since all guys are different then just give me what you like, [as guys], or girls just tell me what you do and what your guy likes...
I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..
=]
Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
Put your hair down,
Take your makeup off,
Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.
Feel good about yourself,
Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)
Make sure to smile, and look happy,
In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.
What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
Hey Hailley!
Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!
A%26amp;N
One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]
Don't pretend to be something you're not...
Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!
jus b ur beautiful self!!
when the girl is in control....
a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
don't knowburts bees
I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..
=]
Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
Put your hair down,
Take your makeup off,
Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.
Feel good about yourself,
Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)
Make sure to smile, and look happy,
In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.
What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
Hey Hailley!
Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!
A%26amp;N
One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]
Don't pretend to be something you're not...
Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!
jus b ur beautiful self!!
when the girl is in control....
a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
don't know
Guys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
I met this guy in the club. we hit it right off and he asked for my number. i gave it to him and three days later he texted me asking if i want to grab a drink. I couldn't make it and suggested another day.
But then he called and asked if I wanted to help him pick up some clothes at the mall. He offered to pick me up the next day.
I was expecting him to ask me out for dinner.
Is it normal for a guy to ask u out on first date shopping at the mall? What does he think?
Please help.Guys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
Well to tell the truth on my first date with my gf we went to dinner and then did hit the mall. It actully lets you talk but you are not alone so there isn't alot of pressure on either of you. It might actully work better than say dinner and a movie , because you can drag out shopping as long as you want or cut it short if you aren't haveing a good time. But it is odd forthe actual shopping request. so good luckGuys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
Ya, that's normal n what i did...But asking you to pick up something for him like a clothe or what is weird..... But a great excuse to meet up, that's for sure............
yeha sure go for it
But then he called and asked if I wanted to help him pick up some clothes at the mall. He offered to pick me up the next day.
I was expecting him to ask me out for dinner.
Is it normal for a guy to ask u out on first date shopping at the mall? What does he think?
Please help.Guys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
Well to tell the truth on my first date with my gf we went to dinner and then did hit the mall. It actully lets you talk but you are not alone so there isn't alot of pressure on either of you. It might actully work better than say dinner and a movie , because you can drag out shopping as long as you want or cut it short if you aren't haveing a good time. But it is odd forthe actual shopping request. so good luckGuys: what do u think?10 points for your advice! Thanks a lot!!!?
Ya, that's normal n what i did...But asking you to pick up something for him like a clothe or what is weird..... But a great excuse to meet up, that's for sure............
yeha sure go for it
Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
I need some advice on what guys think is Sexy, I don't want to be boring anymore, and I need some tips...and since all guys are different then just give me what you like, [as guys], or girls just tell me what you do and what your guy likes...
I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..
=]
Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
Put your hair down,
Take your makeup off,
Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.
Feel good about yourself,
Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)
Make sure to smile, and look happy,
In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.
What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
Hey Hailley!
Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!
A%26amp;N
One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]
Don't pretend to be something you're not...
Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!
jus b ur beautiful self!!
when the girl is in control....
a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
don't know
I am very openminded for any advice on the subject with guys...so If you have any advice on guys for me just give It...Even if it doesn't match what I said above..
=]
Thank you...Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
Put your hair down,
Take your makeup off,
Dress to feel comfortable, not in fancy clothes.
Feel good about yourself,
Make eye contact, slightly tilt your head, and then look down (Its a primal mating ritual)
Make sure to smile, and look happy,
In the clothes department, stay away from pull overs. Button ups are best. Jeans should not be revealing, but should be form fitting. Don't do thongs, don't be letting your underwear show.
What girls don't quite understand, is that its not about what you show, but what you don't show. A guy is much more interested in the challenge of finding out, then of already seeing the merchandise. Don't make yourself unattainable, but don't let them sample the merchandise before they buy it.Guys/Girls Please help me out! I need some advice on my Bf.?
a guy likes a girl who is flirty, honest, and fun to be around with. They also like it when they give them their own space they hate it when a girl constantly annoys them and when she keeps on calling him. Just try to be your self and don't exaggerate things take it slow and talk about the things he is interested in.
Confidence is a big thing, guys like confident girls. My BF likes when I dress up special, for like a dinner. He also likes when I feel comfortable in sweats and a t-shirt lounging on the couch for the day...basically guys care about personality, be fun, be nice, but most importantly, be confident!
Hey Hailley!
Well give it a few days. Don't just show up at school one day and be wearing fishnets and a slutty top. Every day wear something even more ';sexy'; like start off with short-shorts, I mean it is the summer now eh.. or if you have a uniform, roll your skirt more than usual. Act more open around him, but dont tell him you wanna have sex and stuff with him. Keep telling him you love him. Tell him you want your relationship to come to the next level. good luck!!!
A%26amp;N
One thing guys find attractive in a girl, is when she is who she is =]
Don't pretend to be something you're not...
Be yourself....because of course thats why you're together isn't it, cos you like the other person just the way they are =]
in my opinion, sexy is u bein ur self. afterall, if he is already ur bf then he must like you for something lol!
jus b ur beautiful self!!
when the girl is in control....
a girl who is open and confident about themselves...
umm tight lil shorts...sex in weird places at random times idk haha
don't know
GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
ok so this is pretty much like my other question but a little different so here it goes:
ok so i really like this one guy but i'm not exactly sure if he knows who i am. so like sometimes i'll pass by him and wanna say hi but i'm so shy and i'm not sure how he would react to me knowing his name! so are there any guys that would give me some advice about like if i said i to him how would you react to me saying hi and then your name so please help me i don't know what to do?!?!?!?!!?!?!? so yeah and i have 2 different ways of getting his cell phone number and if i do get it should i text him or not? SO ALL U GUYS CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLEASE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
Texting might be a bit weird if you never talk to him.
I assume you go to school together? If so, do you share a class? Again, if so, just ask him about homework some day. This might seem lame, but then you can always say hi and strike a conversation without the whole never having talked thing getting in the way.
Or you could just say hi. Its not a big deal, and he wont get creeped out. I mean people I dont know well know my name, and its not really weird. I mean, i usually just figure we know the same people.GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
talk to him for a while, say hi in the hall, then eventually build it up, maybe get his number when u know him better or whatever call him one night ask if he wants to go to the movies or something, like act hell spontaneous... but don't be shy...
Go for it, get his number, give him a text, get to know him, let him get to know you, let it go from there, what have you got to lose eh?
Hope all goes well :)
Say hi, he is probably as shy as you are.
ok so i really like this one guy but i'm not exactly sure if he knows who i am. so like sometimes i'll pass by him and wanna say hi but i'm so shy and i'm not sure how he would react to me knowing his name! so are there any guys that would give me some advice about like if i said i to him how would you react to me saying hi and then your name so please help me i don't know what to do?!?!?!?!!?!?!? so yeah and i have 2 different ways of getting his cell phone number and if i do get it should i text him or not? SO ALL U GUYS CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLEASE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
Texting might be a bit weird if you never talk to him.
I assume you go to school together? If so, do you share a class? Again, if so, just ask him about homework some day. This might seem lame, but then you can always say hi and strike a conversation without the whole never having talked thing getting in the way.
Or you could just say hi. Its not a big deal, and he wont get creeped out. I mean people I dont know well know my name, and its not really weird. I mean, i usually just figure we know the same people.GUYS: should i or not? please help i need advice!?!!?!?!?!?!?
talk to him for a while, say hi in the hall, then eventually build it up, maybe get his number when u know him better or whatever call him one night ask if he wants to go to the movies or something, like act hell spontaneous... but don't be shy...
Go for it, get his number, give him a text, get to know him, let him get to know you, let it go from there, what have you got to lose eh?
Hope all goes well :)
Say hi, he is probably as shy as you are.
Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
this guy liked me for a year. he asked me out and I said ';I'm sorry but I can't go out with you. but we can just be friends';. he looked really hurt.
I couldn't go out with him because I wasn't aloud to date untill I was 15. (I'm 15 now but I was 14 when he asked me). I should have told him but I was too embarassed.
it's been a year since then and I get the impression he doesn't want to be friends. he's looked at me like he wants to kill me two or three times.
his friend, Marcus, is really cool. the three of os used to hang out during class but he moved. he came back and he seems like he doesn't want to be bothered with me. sometimes he looks at me like he wants me dead too. I think the guy who asked me out told him I rejected him and he's pissed because of it.
how would you feel if you were the guy who asked me out?
how would you feel if you were his friend?Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
I believe your best option is to tell him the truth. Let him know why you rejected him, and if he continues to shrug you off, than disregard his presence.Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
i would just move on...it's a lost cause...
Honesty is the best policy. Ask him out and tell him you reason for saying ';no'; before. He will understand and be overjoyed that you now can see him. This will also totally mend his broken ego!
Well, the guy might still like you. And it takes a while to get over the fact that ';the girl you like just wants to be my frined.'; I think you have a good idea. Just go for it. He has to forgive you by now. If not, then he should. It is so stupid for someone to not like someone just because they won't go out with them. He probibly gave you dirty looks because you aren't hanging out with him. Well thats my advice ';from a male'; Haha. Good luck.
tel him how you feel
Tell him how u feel. Doesnt work out, theres other fish in the sea. In the end, try to be freinds with both!
Ahhhhhhh, young love, I miss thoes dilemma, good luck.
Just go up to one of them and talk to them, its all in your head, if the guy liked you a year ago, chances are that he still does, and he is just mad that he got rejected. you will find out soon enoughf, and then just tell him the truth, just realize that if you do, and he does still like you that he will try and ask you out again. good luck
ur 15 dont worry what they think they really dont matter becasue in life people come and go but real friends(not like them) stay beside you no matter what.So u rejected him....hes being just another typical male by blowing u off and not being your friend just becasue u said no.U had a very valid reason but at his age its not sinking in so never mind him or his friend.Concentrate on your studies and remember a good education will get you alot further then worrying about what some boy might think.Listen to the song ';skater boy'; that will someday be you if u want it to be only put yourself in both spots of skater boy and the girl hes with now.If u can dream it u can acheive it.
You are 15, don't worry about it...
Basically I think you hurt this guys male pride, just as it was developing - that would have hurt! His friend is demonstrasting his loyalty to his friend
Best bet is just to be honest - maybe he'll understand, maybe he wont - but you'll not know what he thinks until he knows what you know... Good luck!
How many times is this question going to be asked? Grow some ball$ and ask the dude yourself instead of beating around the bush. You should have been honest from the start and you wouldn't be in this mess.
The guys are being incredibly immature over being turned down. Leave them alone; you don't want to be friends with whiners like that anyway
Talk to them it will be best if you can get know them casually first
I couldn't go out with him because I wasn't aloud to date untill I was 15. (I'm 15 now but I was 14 when he asked me). I should have told him but I was too embarassed.
it's been a year since then and I get the impression he doesn't want to be friends. he's looked at me like he wants to kill me two or three times.
his friend, Marcus, is really cool. the three of os used to hang out during class but he moved. he came back and he seems like he doesn't want to be bothered with me. sometimes he looks at me like he wants me dead too. I think the guy who asked me out told him I rejected him and he's pissed because of it.
how would you feel if you were the guy who asked me out?
how would you feel if you were his friend?Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
I believe your best option is to tell him the truth. Let him know why you rejected him, and if he continues to shrug you off, than disregard his presence.Guys, pleassse help me out! I really nneed male advice!!?
i would just move on...it's a lost cause...
Honesty is the best policy. Ask him out and tell him you reason for saying ';no'; before. He will understand and be overjoyed that you now can see him. This will also totally mend his broken ego!
Well, the guy might still like you. And it takes a while to get over the fact that ';the girl you like just wants to be my frined.'; I think you have a good idea. Just go for it. He has to forgive you by now. If not, then he should. It is so stupid for someone to not like someone just because they won't go out with them. He probibly gave you dirty looks because you aren't hanging out with him. Well thats my advice ';from a male'; Haha. Good luck.
tel him how you feel
Tell him how u feel. Doesnt work out, theres other fish in the sea. In the end, try to be freinds with both!
Ahhhhhhh, young love, I miss thoes dilemma, good luck.
Just go up to one of them and talk to them, its all in your head, if the guy liked you a year ago, chances are that he still does, and he is just mad that he got rejected. you will find out soon enoughf, and then just tell him the truth, just realize that if you do, and he does still like you that he will try and ask you out again. good luck
ur 15 dont worry what they think they really dont matter becasue in life people come and go but real friends(not like them) stay beside you no matter what.So u rejected him....hes being just another typical male by blowing u off and not being your friend just becasue u said no.U had a very valid reason but at his age its not sinking in so never mind him or his friend.Concentrate on your studies and remember a good education will get you alot further then worrying about what some boy might think.Listen to the song ';skater boy'; that will someday be you if u want it to be only put yourself in both spots of skater boy and the girl hes with now.If u can dream it u can acheive it.
You are 15, don't worry about it...
Basically I think you hurt this guys male pride, just as it was developing - that would have hurt! His friend is demonstrasting his loyalty to his friend
Best bet is just to be honest - maybe he'll understand, maybe he wont - but you'll not know what he thinks until he knows what you know... Good luck!
How many times is this question going to be asked? Grow some ball$ and ask the dude yourself instead of beating around the bush. You should have been honest from the start and you wouldn't be in this mess.
The guys are being incredibly immature over being turned down. Leave them alone; you don't want to be friends with whiners like that anyway
Talk to them it will be best if you can get know them casually first
Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
I've been dating this guy for a while. I was totally shocked when he asked me out though. He's handsome, the star on all the sports teams, and extremely. I might be paranoid but I'm scared he's losing interest in me. I think I love him and he tells me that he loves me. He tells me I'm beautiful. But I'm scared I'm losing him. So I have questions for guys and girls:
Guys: How do I turn you back on? How do I make you want me? What are some things that I might do that turn you off?
Girls: If you have experienced this, please help me! How did you keep a hold of your guy? Please tell me anything!!
Thank you so much!! Please help me on this. I don't think I can handle losing him.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Take a deep breath, and then read the rest of this answer.
Feeling better? Okay.
If he's telling you he loves you and that he thinks you're beautiful--and he means it, he's not just saying it to get you into bed--then you are NOT losing him. You don't have to make him want you, because he already does, from the info you've given us. Actually, the problem sounds more like you can't believe he's with you, meaning that you may have a little bit of an inferiority complex. Have some confidence, girl! You totally deserve a guy who loves you and thinks you're beautiful. Believe it.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
I know you don't want to hear this, but if you have to try to keep him, then he's not the right one for you. Believe me, there will be other loves and it might be time for you to move on. You might want to check out this website for a different answer. A coworker of mine uses it all the time for dating advice. It is http://www.datingtips247.com Hope this helps!
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Guys: How do I turn you back on? How do I make you want me? What are some things that I might do that turn you off?
Girls: If you have experienced this, please help me! How did you keep a hold of your guy? Please tell me anything!!
Thank you so much!! Please help me on this. I don't think I can handle losing him.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Take a deep breath, and then read the rest of this answer.
Feeling better? Okay.
If he's telling you he loves you and that he thinks you're beautiful--and he means it, he's not just saying it to get you into bed--then you are NOT losing him. You don't have to make him want you, because he already does, from the info you've given us. Actually, the problem sounds more like you can't believe he's with you, meaning that you may have a little bit of an inferiority complex. Have some confidence, girl! You totally deserve a guy who loves you and thinks you're beautiful. Believe it.Guys and girls, i need your help on dating advice!?
I know you don't want to hear this, but if you have to try to keep him, then he's not the right one for you. Believe me, there will be other loves and it might be time for you to move on. You might want to check out this website for a different answer. A coworker of mine uses it all the time for dating advice. It is http://www.datingtips247.com Hope this helps!
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Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
oook so i like this guy
i knew him n i sorta thought we were going out but i wasnt sure
and so about after 2 weeks of knoing him he got a gf
she don't go to our school
wenever i talk to him hes tellin me he likes me
and he kisses me at school n he likes me
so what should i do??
i mean he knos i like him and i kno he likes me ....?Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
I'd ditch him. He sounds like a lead and follow kinda guy who cheats. (obvioulsy)
Tell him no kishes or naythign til ya be datin ^_^Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
The question should be what do you really want? Since he has a gf, and he kisses you is that all u want? I know the desire to have or kiss someone u like but if he really wants u he has to decide on his own without kissing u. Unless u just want a play... all the best
he has a girl and you shouldnt let him kiss you. hes a playa!!
hes trying to be a player. forget about him. hes a hoe.
ehhh, idk !
if he kisses you at school, then he must like you.
are you sure he really has a girlfriend ?
maybey he's just saying it to make you jealous, because guys can be kind of weird like that :D
make him choose you or her
first of all, not to be rude.. you should have a LOT more pride than letting a taken guy kiss you. sure you both like each other, but be responsible and mature about it! if you get together with him, chances are, he's not gonna break up with his gf for you. and if he does, what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you?
if he has a gf then stop, or your a cheater, and if you want him, tell hem he has to dump his gf!
WELL IF HE HAS A GURL AND KISSES YOU JUST THINK IF YOU WAS HIS GURL WHAT WOULD HE DO BEHIND YOUR BACK....THINK ABOUT IT YOU MAY NOT WANT OR NEED HIM
Maybe he is trying to make you jealous. Ask if he has any pictures of him and his girlfriend. Try to be discrete. Otherwise, he's just playing you. move on. Sorry
i agree with danielle
it sounds to me like he cant make up his mind and you should stay well out of his way
imagine if you were his g/f how you would feel?
i knew him n i sorta thought we were going out but i wasnt sure
and so about after 2 weeks of knoing him he got a gf
she don't go to our school
wenever i talk to him hes tellin me he likes me
and he kisses me at school n he likes me
so what should i do??
i mean he knos i like him and i kno he likes me ....?Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
I'd ditch him. He sounds like a lead and follow kinda guy who cheats. (obvioulsy)
Tell him no kishes or naythign til ya be datin ^_^Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
The question should be what do you really want? Since he has a gf, and he kisses you is that all u want? I know the desire to have or kiss someone u like but if he really wants u he has to decide on his own without kissing u. Unless u just want a play... all the best
he has a girl and you shouldnt let him kiss you. hes a playa!!
hes trying to be a player. forget about him. hes a hoe.
ehhh, idk !
if he kisses you at school, then he must like you.
are you sure he really has a girlfriend ?
maybey he's just saying it to make you jealous, because guys can be kind of weird like that :D
make him choose you or her
first of all, not to be rude.. you should have a LOT more pride than letting a taken guy kiss you. sure you both like each other, but be responsible and mature about it! if you get together with him, chances are, he's not gonna break up with his gf for you. and if he does, what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you?
if he has a gf then stop, or your a cheater, and if you want him, tell hem he has to dump his gf!
WELL IF HE HAS A GURL AND KISSES YOU JUST THINK IF YOU WAS HIS GURL WHAT WOULD HE DO BEHIND YOUR BACK....THINK ABOUT IT YOU MAY NOT WANT OR NEED HIM
Maybe he is trying to make you jealous. Ask if he has any pictures of him and his girlfriend. Try to be discrete. Otherwise, he's just playing you. move on. Sorry
i agree with danielle
it sounds to me like he cant make up his mind and you should stay well out of his way
imagine if you were his g/f how you would feel?
Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
so a few years ago i had a friend who had this boyfriend but i never really knew him they had gone out fo 3-4 years,it wasnt till august of 07 that i met him, i went over his house to hang out with his girlfriend.i was there the whole day,but didnt talk to him.then out of no where he started txtn me.w got to know each other over a few days then he started telling me that things werent the same with his girlfriend that she had changed and all of this nonsense.then he told me they broke up, so then we started txtn alot more often,we started hanging out every other day with other friends. and i guess i fell for him. i started to like him more every day.and he liked me so he asked me out and i said yes.we started going out by the end of september(07). i didnt think it would go very far with his ex being my friend and all but it did,we didnt tell her we were going out. but he still talked to her and i guess saw her every once in a while but i didnt mine because like i said i ddnt thnk it would go far.then through out the weeks i wasnt liking these occasional phone call, and i told him to stop them he agreed but turns out he was lying this went on for a while so i made him choose between me or her. he chose me he said he loved me and he didint wanna loose me.so i forgave him.
Later in 2008 around march or april i found out i was pregnant. things seemed fine no sighns of him talking to her we went out all the time and we had fun everywhere we went..later in july i moved in with him and his parents. but i never came out of his room because gis dad was always yelling at me and he's verry rude.so i would stay in his room cleaning it i would wash his clothes and organize his things.then he started acting different he would hide his phone he would go to hs email only while i was sleeping and he would go to work 2 hours early and come back 3 hours late..around june his ex called his parents and told them she was pregnant with his baby..i kept asking him about it but he denyed it.i tryed staying away from any negativity becaus i was pregnant i tryed not to stress so much..later in november,.she called and told me hat her baby was his and that hes been talking to her since he fond out and sh even let me listen to all these msges he left her,..listening to those msges broke me in a million pieces...that same night he admitt to it all. he got her pregnant a mnth before me. he said he ddnt mean to get her pregnant and that he did it because of some stupid little thing i had done....';i got drunk and kissed a guy'; he said that that night i got drunk i past out in his bed and while i was sleeping he went to his exs house........so anyways we got into it and i told him i was gonna leave him and he wasnt ever gonna meet his baby but his mom asked me to stay and work things out if we really loved eachother so i stayed it took so much to forgive him but i did it..
she had her baby on december 06 and because i was so stressed out the docter had to induce labor and i had it on the 20th of the same mnth. im still living with him and i have a beautyfull baby girl. but i dnt trust him and thngs arent the same, he acts so much different but i still love him s much. he was my first real boyfriend, he was my first everything...but i dont know whwt to do should i go and loose all contact with him or should i stay and try and get over it i dont know please help me with some verry verry good advice pple...please i would really really appreciate it thank you.
SORRY IF ITS SUPER *** LONG!
P.S PLEASE NO MEAN COMMENTS OR PUT DOWNS.Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
sounds like he played you from day one. i know it will be hard to leave him being he was your first love and with a baby but you need to put your baby first now and think of what kind of life you and him will offer her. she will be more stable if you raise her yourself. trust is a big part in a relationship. i also think you should not have hid your relationship from your friend. i think that was mistake #1. unless he makes big changes i would leave. it's not healthy for the baby to see fighting all the time and for you to be stressed out. best of wishes for you and your baby girl!!
Later in 2008 around march or april i found out i was pregnant. things seemed fine no sighns of him talking to her we went out all the time and we had fun everywhere we went..later in july i moved in with him and his parents. but i never came out of his room because gis dad was always yelling at me and he's verry rude.so i would stay in his room cleaning it i would wash his clothes and organize his things.then he started acting different he would hide his phone he would go to hs email only while i was sleeping and he would go to work 2 hours early and come back 3 hours late..around june his ex called his parents and told them she was pregnant with his baby..i kept asking him about it but he denyed it.i tryed staying away from any negativity becaus i was pregnant i tryed not to stress so much..later in november,.she called and told me hat her baby was his and that hes been talking to her since he fond out and sh even let me listen to all these msges he left her,..listening to those msges broke me in a million pieces...that same night he admitt to it all. he got her pregnant a mnth before me. he said he ddnt mean to get her pregnant and that he did it because of some stupid little thing i had done....';i got drunk and kissed a guy'; he said that that night i got drunk i past out in his bed and while i was sleeping he went to his exs house........so anyways we got into it and i told him i was gonna leave him and he wasnt ever gonna meet his baby but his mom asked me to stay and work things out if we really loved eachother so i stayed it took so much to forgive him but i did it..
she had her baby on december 06 and because i was so stressed out the docter had to induce labor and i had it on the 20th of the same mnth. im still living with him and i have a beautyfull baby girl. but i dnt trust him and thngs arent the same, he acts so much different but i still love him s much. he was my first real boyfriend, he was my first everything...but i dont know whwt to do should i go and loose all contact with him or should i stay and try and get over it i dont know please help me with some verry verry good advice pple...please i would really really appreciate it thank you.
SORRY IF ITS SUPER *** LONG!
P.S PLEASE NO MEAN COMMENTS OR PUT DOWNS.Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
sounds like he played you from day one. i know it will be hard to leave him being he was your first love and with a baby but you need to put your baby first now and think of what kind of life you and him will offer her. she will be more stable if you raise her yourself. trust is a big part in a relationship. i also think you should not have hid your relationship from your friend. i think that was mistake #1. unless he makes big changes i would leave. it's not healthy for the baby to see fighting all the time and for you to be stressed out. best of wishes for you and your baby girl!!
Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
ok there is this guy ...i sorta like him, anyways he like randomly comes and hugs me ...always teases me and yeah and my best friend told me ages ago that she told him ooo u have a mayor crush on her and he was like ...uhmm and he said like o shes hot...so when my friend told me i was like ok theres another jerk ...but his been really nice to me and i really like him now and my friend told me today that he had asked her to like help him out with me or somthing like that and that he had told her that he really likes me not just how i look but that we had alot incommon and that he really liked how i was and stuff....but then he had told her naa joking
and then in class he comes sits next to me and we are talking about how im vegetarian and stuff lol ...then he grabs my arm and goes hey liss do u want to be with me ...(and im like hahah funny )...and his like lol im joking ...and yeahhh i now like him ...but idk ...is it all just a joke to him or does he like me more than a friend???
and soz ..im from spain ..but i thought i would ask this in inglish so yeah sorry about my spelling and stuff =S
im 15 btw
thanks=DGuys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
He'd prob being serious, but pretending to joke in case you reject him. Then he can be like 'I was only joking anyway' and save his ego.Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
seems like he likes you but he's not being direct to you. he says it in a tactic way really tricky. he's risking it and asked........... and if he sees anything being wrong he says it was just a joke. you should try looking into his eyes when he talks to you.
hes just saying just joking and stuff as a back up in case you said no.
If you said yes, he would have been happy
but since you laughed him off, he decided to say JUST JOKIINNNGG as an excuse for looking dumb.
i think he does but he is just affraid to show his feelings, have your friend go up to him and me like, my friend likes you alot and she wants to go out but she doesnt know if you like her
ohhh... if he keeps saying just kidding he's a jerk!! just ask him if he likes you for REAL or just go upt o him one day and say ';hey (whatever his name is ) wanna come over today?......(wait till he answers..) then say JUST KIDDING!! and see what his reaction is...:) good luck
i think its a joke and its not worth wasting your time. hes making fun of you because he knows you like him. meeean. find a nice guy who KNOWS he likes you and isnt playing around.
I think he likes you... Tomorrow when you see him be like....
Grab his arm and go hey ';whatever his name'; do you want to be with me? I';m not joking....
yes he likes you for sure, he joked wayyyy too much that he liked you, that already gives it away, TELL HIM!!!!
he def likes you, he is just pretending it is a joke to protect himself from getting hurt.
he is asking you jokingly to see what you will say
yes of course we do. when guys get older (25+) some of them mature. some stay kids.
and then in class he comes sits next to me and we are talking about how im vegetarian and stuff lol ...then he grabs my arm and goes hey liss do u want to be with me ...(and im like hahah funny )...and his like lol im joking ...and yeahhh i now like him ...but idk ...is it all just a joke to him or does he like me more than a friend???
and soz ..im from spain ..but i thought i would ask this in inglish so yeah sorry about my spelling and stuff =S
im 15 btw
thanks=DGuys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
He'd prob being serious, but pretending to joke in case you reject him. Then he can be like 'I was only joking anyway' and save his ego.Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
seems like he likes you but he's not being direct to you. he says it in a tactic way really tricky. he's risking it and asked........... and if he sees anything being wrong he says it was just a joke. you should try looking into his eyes when he talks to you.
hes just saying just joking and stuff as a back up in case you said no.
If you said yes, he would have been happy
but since you laughed him off, he decided to say JUST JOKIINNNGG as an excuse for looking dumb.
i think he does but he is just affraid to show his feelings, have your friend go up to him and me like, my friend likes you alot and she wants to go out but she doesnt know if you like her
ohhh... if he keeps saying just kidding he's a jerk!! just ask him if he likes you for REAL or just go upt o him one day and say ';hey (whatever his name is ) wanna come over today?......(wait till he answers..) then say JUST KIDDING!! and see what his reaction is...:) good luck
i think its a joke and its not worth wasting your time. hes making fun of you because he knows you like him. meeean. find a nice guy who KNOWS he likes you and isnt playing around.
I think he likes you... Tomorrow when you see him be like....
Grab his arm and go hey ';whatever his name'; do you want to be with me? I';m not joking....
yes he likes you for sure, he joked wayyyy too much that he liked you, that already gives it away, TELL HIM!!!!
he def likes you, he is just pretending it is a joke to protect himself from getting hurt.
he is asking you jokingly to see what you will say
yes of course we do. when guys get older (25+) some of them mature. some stay kids.
Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
OK, so me %26amp; this guy are (buddies) u know what i mean. So he moved to TX at the end of Dec. So have been having phone relations, and the other night he called %26amp; he had been drinking and I was in that state of sleep where you feel like your drunk and dont really know what you are saying and i said ';I have heard stories about you.......and this person is sketchy'; and he is like what gives you the right to call anyone sketchy and I said everyone has the right to call ppl sketchy and he was like no they dont. and then I said something else that I do not remember and he got pi**ed off and said ';Find someone else to be with. We are not doing anything again';. This has happened b4, %26amp; he forgot. But he is comming into town in 2 weeks and I just want to uhh umm well you know and then he can go away. I texted him and appologized the next day %26amp; then tonight I sent a dirty text %26amp; he didnt respond either time. IS IT OVER? or what do I need to say to get him to forgive me? He is a VERY VERY complicated guy-he never lets anyone in or lets anyone hurt him that is why we dont date anymore we are just buds. thanks!!Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
He sounds like me. Exactly like me actually.
Well if he is anything like me he's a very troubled when it comes to relationships and therefore has problems staying in a committed relationships. If your just trying to get busy with him though i'm sure he'd be fine with that. (he is a guy after all)Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
talk to him. Ask him about it. Guys are confusing but If U sit down and listen they will tell you stuff. That may hurt you but its good for you to hear. Don't say anything till he's finished. Just nod or say yeah or make sounds so he knows you are listening.
Its happened to me with one of my friends. We just had like a heart to heart. if u can put it that way.
Hope I helped
talk to him about it. thats the best way instead of being confused and unguided, talk it out with him and get everything on the table and come up with a solution, i promise everything will work out for the better, take care
move on.
He sounds like me. Exactly like me actually.
Well if he is anything like me he's a very troubled when it comes to relationships and therefore has problems staying in a committed relationships. If your just trying to get busy with him though i'm sure he'd be fine with that. (he is a guy after all)Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
talk to him. Ask him about it. Guys are confusing but If U sit down and listen they will tell you stuff. That may hurt you but its good for you to hear. Don't say anything till he's finished. Just nod or say yeah or make sounds so he knows you are listening.
Its happened to me with one of my friends. We just had like a heart to heart. if u can put it that way.
Hope I helped
talk to him about it. thats the best way instead of being confused and unguided, talk it out with him and get everything on the table and come up with a solution, i promise everything will work out for the better, take care
move on.
Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
I went out with this guy for our first date on Tuesday. he hasn't called until now. do u guys prefer to wait a few days like 3 days before u call the girl?
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank u.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
well typically most guys do not want to seem TOO interested because then it makes them look desparate. If he likes you he probably wanted to call you the next day but was just unsure if you felt the same way. The only way to find out for sure is ask. If he likes you he will tell you. You can then also tell him how you feel about it all and hopefully you will be able to avoid this with him again. Good Luck
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank u.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
well typically most guys do not want to seem TOO interested because then it makes them look desparate. If he likes you he probably wanted to call you the next day but was just unsure if you felt the same way. The only way to find out for sure is ask. If he likes you he will tell you. You can then also tell him how you feel about it all and hopefully you will be able to avoid this with him again. Good Luck
Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She's asking how to get them to stop staring and hitting on her and stuff w/out being rude.
How would you react? Mad? Think she doesn't like you?Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She views you as a friend. If you get mad at her, you'll only confuse her.Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
Don't flirt back. If she comes to me like that, my best guess is that I'm on her good side and doesn't mind me talking to her.
i would think she looks at me as a friendburts bees
How would you react? Mad? Think she doesn't like you?Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She views you as a friend. If you get mad at her, you'll only confuse her.Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
Don't flirt back. If she comes to me like that, my best guess is that I'm on her good side and doesn't mind me talking to her.
i would think she looks at me as a friend
Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
I have a friend that I have really liked for a long time and one night we both got drunk and ended up in bed together. Now I dont know if he even remembers that night. I have wanted this guy for a REALLY long time and not just in the sex want either. Have I wrecked my chance because I did sleep with him? If not, where do I go from here without making it seem like Im being clingy or making the situation awkward?Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
When people are friends and you throw the sex thing it changes the relationship in many different ways. There is no longer a barrier from stopping you from going there again. Tell him your feelings and go from there. Don't send him mixed messages it only makes things difficult. I am sure he will understand.Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
Go for him...
I would be happy if that happened for me..
When people are friends and you throw the sex thing it changes the relationship in many different ways. There is no longer a barrier from stopping you from going there again. Tell him your feelings and go from there. Don't send him mixed messages it only makes things difficult. I am sure he will understand.Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
Go for him...
I would be happy if that happened for me..
How do I meet a nice,good looking guy my age?? ADVICE PLEASE?
i just got out of a long distance relationship of over a year, and its been a little bit over a month and i'm ready to date again..but no one that lives near me seems right... HELP PLEASE!!How do I meet a nice,good looking guy my age?? ADVICE PLEASE?
Try internet dating. Its very popular and you can search by age, location, beliefs and the like. Once you narrow down your search you can chat online to make sure you have things in common and have a connection before dating for real.
Try internet dating. Its very popular and you can search by age, location, beliefs and the like. Once you narrow down your search you can chat online to make sure you have things in common and have a connection before dating for real.
Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
i need to kno if i should tell my guy some things about me. i don't kno if he knos or not?
i am 17, and i have liked this one guy for about a year and a half now, and he has liked me too. he moved away tho, to another state, about a year ago. and we have sort of had a long distance relationship going on. we first started talking a year and a half ago, and back then i was goth and really depressed and was a cutter and i had been in a psych ward for cutting, and trying to/wanting kill myself a few times. i don't kno tho if he knew about my suicidal-ness, and my cutting. we didn't really talk about it. now, i am a complete prep, and people would guess that i was really happy go lucky. but underneath what everyone sees, i still get really really depressed, and i still cut. but in less obvious places. i really like this guy and i am starting to get really attached to him, to where i want to tell him things.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
It is better to be truthful in the beginning, becqause if he finds out later in the relationship, he would get really upset. just let him know u guys have to talk and go from there. tell him that u were scared to tell him because u really really like him.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
dont hide things from him or he wont trust you..
but i am more concerned about your cutting..
please talk to someone about it PLEASE..
i have seen too many people do this and end up killing themselves or having serious serious health problems.
you need to stop cutting or sooner or later he will see the real you under all that stuff you do to hide it.
you dont realize what you are doing to yourself..
i hope this helps.
Not being mean or anything but you need to seek counseling and possibly meds if needed seriously. The relationship has no chance with the mental issues your are still dealing with and it won't be fair for either of you to be involved seriously until you get help. Take care of yourself and be a friend to him for now.
if you two really care about eachother i say you should. if you trust him enough to want to tell him, then you should be able to trust that he'll still be there after you do.
ur story is too long so i cant help you
i am 17, and i have liked this one guy for about a year and a half now, and he has liked me too. he moved away tho, to another state, about a year ago. and we have sort of had a long distance relationship going on. we first started talking a year and a half ago, and back then i was goth and really depressed and was a cutter and i had been in a psych ward for cutting, and trying to/wanting kill myself a few times. i don't kno tho if he knew about my suicidal-ness, and my cutting. we didn't really talk about it. now, i am a complete prep, and people would guess that i was really happy go lucky. but underneath what everyone sees, i still get really really depressed, and i still cut. but in less obvious places. i really like this guy and i am starting to get really attached to him, to where i want to tell him things.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
It is better to be truthful in the beginning, becqause if he finds out later in the relationship, he would get really upset. just let him know u guys have to talk and go from there. tell him that u were scared to tell him because u really really like him.Guys and gals plz help i need advice about a relationship i am in!!!?
dont hide things from him or he wont trust you..
but i am more concerned about your cutting..
please talk to someone about it PLEASE..
i have seen too many people do this and end up killing themselves or having serious serious health problems.
you need to stop cutting or sooner or later he will see the real you under all that stuff you do to hide it.
you dont realize what you are doing to yourself..
i hope this helps.
Not being mean or anything but you need to seek counseling and possibly meds if needed seriously. The relationship has no chance with the mental issues your are still dealing with and it won't be fair for either of you to be involved seriously until you get help. Take care of yourself and be a friend to him for now.
if you two really care about eachother i say you should. if you trust him enough to want to tell him, then you should be able to trust that he'll still be there after you do.
ur story is too long so i cant help you
Advice wanted on best way to sweeten for pre-diabetes guy?
Tried stevia - hate the taste
Tried Xylitol, making 1 litre of icecream with 3/4 cup of it. Two scoops of it and flatulence the rest of the day. Should I give up on it?
Agave nectar doesn't seems as good as the above two but seems promising.
Perhaps I could experiment with combinations.
I've heard some recipes can hide the unpleasant bitternets of agave nectar.
Any suggestions?Advice wanted on best way to sweeten for pre-diabetes guy?
Splenda is ok for diabetics to use. I like it and it doesn't affect my blood sugar. Make sure you use Splenda packets or granular Splenda. The Splenda blends all contain sugar, which you need to avoid.
Different brands of Stevia taste different, you could try another brand.
Drink a glass of water with 1 tablespoon of cidar vinigar in it before eating your food. Everything will taste a little better, compared to the vinigar, and it can help lower your blood sugar. It works in a similar fashion to metformin.Advice wanted on best way to sweeten for pre-diabetes guy?
Sweet stuff isn't the only issue for someone with diabetes (or even pre-diabetes). It's carbohydrates in general. A bowl of rice or pasta will raise your blood sugar up higher than a sugar cube in your coffee. Bread, wheat, corn, potatoes, and peas don't have sugar in them but are high carb foods which will have an effect on your blood sugar. What about the natually occuring sugar in fruit? Even some vegetables like carrots and beets have some natural sugar in them.
There are low carb icecreams out there that taste good. You may be surprised to see that icrecream isn't that big of a deal because it's way more fat than sugar.
So what does a person do who is trying to limit carb consumption since every thing seems to have carbs in it? Follow a healthy meal plan and accurately count your carbohydrates in everything, measure your food to be accurate. Don't be too upset about sugar because it is only one of many types of carbs, just limit it to a reasonable amount. Try to keep to 30 - 45 carbs per meal (unless your doctor has given you a different number to aim for).
If you are still confused about what to eat or not, make an appt with a dietician to help you understand the relationship between carbohydrates and your body. Look up the glycemic index on line and try to eat more foods that have low GI scores because these tend to keep your sugar level from spiking too high.
Stevia is an all natural, zero calorie sweetener that is healthy for diabetic patients.
Some studies of this zero calorie sweetener have shown that it seems to stimulate the release of insulin allowing a more normal response to glucose.
It can be bought in liquid or powder form and of course there are different brands that you can try. You may have to play with it for a while to get it to your taste level.
Good luck to you.
1) Use artificial sweeteners like Splenda. No, they are NOT dangerous, IF you eat them normally, like 3-4 tablespoons a day. And that INCLUDES the sweeteners in things like Diet Coke, and other diet foods.
2) Chemicals like Xylitol and Sorbital are NATURAL laxatives. If you eat these you are going to have problems with digestion, often times a lot messier than flatulence!
The limit for xylitol and sorbitol is about two TEASPOONS a day, not 3/4 cup!! 2-3 teaspoons is about 4 hard sugar-free candies -- A DAY
3) The BIGGEST secret is to give up the sugar habit. Learn to eat WITHOUT sweeteners. Basically put, that means no desserts and no sweet snaks. Eating of sweets, especially dessert, is more of a cultural habit, and is NOT a physical necessity. You CAN learn to do without them.
Then, this problem no longer exists -- you don;t need sweets, so you don't need artificial sweeteners.
Yes, that take a LOT of self-discipline and ';Won't Power'; (I WON'T eat this and I WON'T eat that), but it is the BEST possible answer.
The brand of Stevia my cousin brought me from the Health Food store tasted good. I liked it. So I bought a box of the Sams Club brand. It is horrid tasting like bitter weeds! Read on the box that one is to use less than half packet for normal sweetening. This was a coffee mug I put it in, about twice the normal size coffee cup???
Ok, zylitol is basically a laxitive!! In any amount more than one tiny mint it will give you the problems you had and more.
I haven't tried the Agave nectar, but will next time I am out shopping at the mall where the Health food store is.
I like the Splenda best of all the different sweeteners. It has the least after taste. I don't usually put any sweetener in my coffee or tea. I just learned to do without it.
Try stevia again. I find the taste varies among brands. The Nu Naturals brand is very good. I'd stay away from stuff like Splenda, if knew knew how they made it you'd be sick. It's available at most health food stores and a lot of supermarkets these days. Worst case you can get it by mail.
Splenda is good.
With Stevia, you have to use a fraction of what is suggested. My gal uses like 1/4 of a packet to sweeten a cup of tea. More than that is bitter.
Splenda is good.
Also try fruit yogurt
I like splenda
Tried Xylitol, making 1 litre of icecream with 3/4 cup of it. Two scoops of it and flatulence the rest of the day. Should I give up on it?
Agave nectar doesn't seems as good as the above two but seems promising.
Perhaps I could experiment with combinations.
I've heard some recipes can hide the unpleasant bitternets of agave nectar.
Any suggestions?Advice wanted on best way to sweeten for pre-diabetes guy?
Splenda is ok for diabetics to use. I like it and it doesn't affect my blood sugar. Make sure you use Splenda packets or granular Splenda. The Splenda blends all contain sugar, which you need to avoid.
Different brands of Stevia taste different, you could try another brand.
Drink a glass of water with 1 tablespoon of cidar vinigar in it before eating your food. Everything will taste a little better, compared to the vinigar, and it can help lower your blood sugar. It works in a similar fashion to metformin.Advice wanted on best way to sweeten for pre-diabetes guy?
Sweet stuff isn't the only issue for someone with diabetes (or even pre-diabetes). It's carbohydrates in general. A bowl of rice or pasta will raise your blood sugar up higher than a sugar cube in your coffee. Bread, wheat, corn, potatoes, and peas don't have sugar in them but are high carb foods which will have an effect on your blood sugar. What about the natually occuring sugar in fruit? Even some vegetables like carrots and beets have some natural sugar in them.
There are low carb icecreams out there that taste good. You may be surprised to see that icrecream isn't that big of a deal because it's way more fat than sugar.
So what does a person do who is trying to limit carb consumption since every thing seems to have carbs in it? Follow a healthy meal plan and accurately count your carbohydrates in everything, measure your food to be accurate. Don't be too upset about sugar because it is only one of many types of carbs, just limit it to a reasonable amount. Try to keep to 30 - 45 carbs per meal (unless your doctor has given you a different number to aim for).
If you are still confused about what to eat or not, make an appt with a dietician to help you understand the relationship between carbohydrates and your body. Look up the glycemic index on line and try to eat more foods that have low GI scores because these tend to keep your sugar level from spiking too high.
Stevia is an all natural, zero calorie sweetener that is healthy for diabetic patients.
Some studies of this zero calorie sweetener have shown that it seems to stimulate the release of insulin allowing a more normal response to glucose.
It can be bought in liquid or powder form and of course there are different brands that you can try. You may have to play with it for a while to get it to your taste level.
Good luck to you.
1) Use artificial sweeteners like Splenda. No, they are NOT dangerous, IF you eat them normally, like 3-4 tablespoons a day. And that INCLUDES the sweeteners in things like Diet Coke, and other diet foods.
2) Chemicals like Xylitol and Sorbital are NATURAL laxatives. If you eat these you are going to have problems with digestion, often times a lot messier than flatulence!
The limit for xylitol and sorbitol is about two TEASPOONS a day, not 3/4 cup!! 2-3 teaspoons is about 4 hard sugar-free candies -- A DAY
3) The BIGGEST secret is to give up the sugar habit. Learn to eat WITHOUT sweeteners. Basically put, that means no desserts and no sweet snaks. Eating of sweets, especially dessert, is more of a cultural habit, and is NOT a physical necessity. You CAN learn to do without them.
Then, this problem no longer exists -- you don;t need sweets, so you don't need artificial sweeteners.
Yes, that take a LOT of self-discipline and ';Won't Power'; (I WON'T eat this and I WON'T eat that), but it is the BEST possible answer.
The brand of Stevia my cousin brought me from the Health Food store tasted good. I liked it. So I bought a box of the Sams Club brand. It is horrid tasting like bitter weeds! Read on the box that one is to use less than half packet for normal sweetening. This was a coffee mug I put it in, about twice the normal size coffee cup???
Ok, zylitol is basically a laxitive!! In any amount more than one tiny mint it will give you the problems you had and more.
I haven't tried the Agave nectar, but will next time I am out shopping at the mall where the Health food store is.
I like the Splenda best of all the different sweeteners. It has the least after taste. I don't usually put any sweetener in my coffee or tea. I just learned to do without it.
Try stevia again. I find the taste varies among brands. The Nu Naturals brand is very good. I'd stay away from stuff like Splenda, if knew knew how they made it you'd be sick. It's available at most health food stores and a lot of supermarkets these days. Worst case you can get it by mail.
Splenda is good.
With Stevia, you have to use a fraction of what is suggested. My gal uses like 1/4 of a packet to sweeten a cup of tea. More than that is bitter.
Splenda is good.
Also try fruit yogurt
I like splenda
Hey guys my little sis just deleted my d drive which held my recovery any advice on getting it to work again.?
use restore thing in you computer
Guys, would you like this? [please!! i need advice by tomorrow!!]?
ok so i like this guy.
i flirt with him.
and i was wondering if slapping or kicking his butt in a flirtacious way would be wierd.
guys!! please , would u like that??
please tell me wut u think.
and wut should i do to flirt with him in a way he'll like???
THANK U=]Guys, would you like this? [please!! i need advice by tomorrow!!]?
I don't like my butt hitt. You can do a lot to me but not that sorry. Guys, would you like this? [please!! i need advice by tomorrow!!]?
No. Its kinda what we would do to a girl in an advanced stage of a relationship.
Just smile, and be really interested in him.
from girl side:
only if you're already really close friends.
and i think, kick only, no slapping.
slapping more sounds like seducing than flirting
That would be kinda annoying, But if he is not the kind of Nervous guy and he is the fun 1, he would like it !!! awww
i wouldn't appreciate someone kicking or slapping me on the butt!
just i dont know! talk to him! dont slap butts!
yeah I wouldnt quite do that... I would put your arm around him just buddy buddy like I think that would work.. Good luck
I wouldn't mind that at all.
Some guys are different though. Some might get angry. Just judge based upon that person.
That would be weird and sluty! Don't do it. Flirt normal. Thank you!
he'll think its weird but he'll get the point
slap his but in a soft play ful way that is something not expected nice i think it would get my attention
that's pretty much standard
yeah go ahead
sounds weird to me... lol
not weird
so if u want something more from him
than go ahead.burts bees
i flirt with him.
and i was wondering if slapping or kicking his butt in a flirtacious way would be wierd.
guys!! please , would u like that??
please tell me wut u think.
and wut should i do to flirt with him in a way he'll like???
THANK U=]Guys, would you like this? [please!! i need advice by tomorrow!!]?
I don't like my butt hitt. You can do a lot to me but not that sorry. Guys, would you like this? [please!! i need advice by tomorrow!!]?
No. Its kinda what we would do to a girl in an advanced stage of a relationship.
Just smile, and be really interested in him.
from girl side:
only if you're already really close friends.
and i think, kick only, no slapping.
slapping more sounds like seducing than flirting
That would be kinda annoying, But if he is not the kind of Nervous guy and he is the fun 1, he would like it !!! awww
i wouldn't appreciate someone kicking or slapping me on the butt!
just i dont know! talk to him! dont slap butts!
yeah I wouldnt quite do that... I would put your arm around him just buddy buddy like I think that would work.. Good luck
I wouldn't mind that at all.
Some guys are different though. Some might get angry. Just judge based upon that person.
That would be weird and sluty! Don't do it. Flirt normal. Thank you!
he'll think its weird but he'll get the point
slap his but in a soft play ful way that is something not expected nice i think it would get my attention
that's pretty much standard
yeah go ahead
sounds weird to me... lol
not weird
so if u want something more from him
than go ahead.
Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
I went out with this guy for our first date on Tuesday. he hasn't called until now. do u guys prefer to wait a few days like 3 days before u call the girl?
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank you.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
some guys have this rule: the 3 day rule. i don't live by it though.
ANYWAY seriously, for some reason a LOT LOT LOT of guys feel that if we call too soon it seems like we're too eager to get to know you better, and you'll think that we're losers for liking you and wanting to talk to you already. i usually do wait a bit, but usually not more than a day for initial ';recontact'; anyway, it's normal.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
It is just normal. Just wait he will call.
Guys are too worried that they will come off too strong if they call the next day or two. Guys are really afraid of scaring of a girl by being too pushy. So, of course we wait to call again.
If I enjoyed the girl, I would definitely call the very next day. If I had a so-so time, I would wait a few days. If I didn't like it, or her, I would not call at all.
The 3 day rule. I always used it.
It is perfectly normal and quite common.
Honey....honestly do u like this guy...if yes call him up and let him know that you enjoyed the time with him, he will get the message and call you.
He could be wondering the sameway and not sure if he should call you.
It does not matter who calls honey the impt thing is to move on and enjoy each other.
Best of luck.
You didn't say what your ages are.... are you teens? Normally, at the end of the first date, a guy will ask you out for the second date as he's walking you to your door or just b/f leaving the car. If he has to go out of town on business, he'll tell you that he will phone when he gets back into town. He should make the date about 3 days in advance for the first date or if he hasn't dated you in awhile.
I usually have a follow up call the next day just to chat and see if she wants to get lunch.
Okay, this is like the third time you've posted the same question.....Quit posting.
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank you.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
some guys have this rule: the 3 day rule. i don't live by it though.
ANYWAY seriously, for some reason a LOT LOT LOT of guys feel that if we call too soon it seems like we're too eager to get to know you better, and you'll think that we're losers for liking you and wanting to talk to you already. i usually do wait a bit, but usually not more than a day for initial ';recontact'; anyway, it's normal.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
It is just normal. Just wait he will call.
Guys are too worried that they will come off too strong if they call the next day or two. Guys are really afraid of scaring of a girl by being too pushy. So, of course we wait to call again.
If I enjoyed the girl, I would definitely call the very next day. If I had a so-so time, I would wait a few days. If I didn't like it, or her, I would not call at all.
The 3 day rule. I always used it.
It is perfectly normal and quite common.
Honey....honestly do u like this guy...if yes call him up and let him know that you enjoyed the time with him, he will get the message and call you.
He could be wondering the sameway and not sure if he should call you.
It does not matter who calls honey the impt thing is to move on and enjoy each other.
Best of luck.
You didn't say what your ages are.... are you teens? Normally, at the end of the first date, a guy will ask you out for the second date as he's walking you to your door or just b/f leaving the car. If he has to go out of town on business, he'll tell you that he will phone when he gets back into town. He should make the date about 3 days in advance for the first date or if he hasn't dated you in awhile.
I usually have a follow up call the next day just to chat and see if she wants to get lunch.
Okay, this is like the third time you've posted the same question.....Quit posting.
Playoff game tomorrow. want to wear a guys jersey? help me with some advice!!?
i really like this guy thats pretty into me too. hes a couple years older than me and so were keeping everything on the ';down-low'; hes on varsity football and the playoff game is tomorrow. i really want to wear his jersey but im pretty nervous to ask, because im sure he wants me to but is just stressed about what everyone else will think. how should i ask him? if you even think i should . . . .Playoff game tomorrow. want to wear a guys jersey? help me with some advice!!?
well if you can actually get the jersey than do it, who cares what others think as long as your happyPlayoff game tomorrow. want to wear a guys jersey? help me with some advice!!?
You mean his practice jersey? Which will be all smelly and stuff? Because he will be wearing his jersey.
';do you want me to wear your jersey to the game';?
well if you can actually get the jersey than do it, who cares what others think as long as your happyPlayoff game tomorrow. want to wear a guys jersey? help me with some advice!!?
You mean his practice jersey? Which will be all smelly and stuff? Because he will be wearing his jersey.
';do you want me to wear your jersey to the game';?
Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
I'm not a stereotypical weirdo by any means; just a 16 year old guy that needs help with advice. I'm also a junior in high school. My grades were once doing good but I didn't do so well on exams for this quarter, so they'll suffer slightly. I basically need help w/ the normal things that teen guys face but w/ a modern and retro twist (if one can be done. haha). It would be nice if there were a older ';father figure';, or at least a big brother figure that I can talk to about anything and they could relate b/c my mom's a single mother and I don't even remember my dad b/c, as aforementioned, she's a single mother. Can any of you 20 or 30 somethings out their help me w/ advice and help me out with things and establish some kind of trust or friendship so that I can know what and what not to do with any situation?
That would be nice.Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
How about a ';big'; bro who is just a tad bit younger huh?
But at least you got a mom who loves you man. My mom is a f'kn player who don't love no one but herself.
So email me or somethin. I answer em. I ain't lyin there. You can trust me, I don't dis my friends or anyone who gives me a bit of respect man.
You wantin advice about women? Or trouble? or what?Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
Why cant girls help you out? They usually know volumes more then boys do :D
My father passed away when i was a young kid, so i know what your feeling. **** gets hard and some things will never be fair; sadly, this is life. Don't let it eat you up bud. I made that mistake and its like somethings turning the small wound i have in my heart into a blackhole.
just mail me
ashketchum_386@yahoo.com
How about a guy who is 19 (20 in Sept).
And advice can be anything, about anything....and it can be good or bad. Better is to get advice, then think on it and make YOUR choice.
And a ';modern'; and ';retro'; twist is odd. The don't go good together I think.
And ';20 or 30 SOMETHINGS';. Sounds like you are wantin a herd of ';somethings';. yeah it was a dumb joke kid.
And talkin on trust and friendship. That takes a long long time dude. And trustin someone over the internet maybe even longer. Just don't give out no personal info to anyone over the net...might be a paedophile or somethin like that.
This isn't sayin that you can't be friends though. Just be careful until you know more about em.
That would be nice.Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
How about a ';big'; bro who is just a tad bit younger huh?
But at least you got a mom who loves you man. My mom is a f'kn player who don't love no one but herself.
So email me or somethin. I answer em. I ain't lyin there. You can trust me, I don't dis my friends or anyone who gives me a bit of respect man.
You wantin advice about women? Or trouble? or what?Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
Why cant girls help you out? They usually know volumes more then boys do :D
My father passed away when i was a young kid, so i know what your feeling. **** gets hard and some things will never be fair; sadly, this is life. Don't let it eat you up bud. I made that mistake and its like somethings turning the small wound i have in my heart into a blackhole.
just mail me
ashketchum_386@yahoo.com
How about a guy who is 19 (20 in Sept).
And advice can be anything, about anything....and it can be good or bad. Better is to get advice, then think on it and make YOUR choice.
And a ';modern'; and ';retro'; twist is odd. The don't go good together I think.
And ';20 or 30 SOMETHINGS';. Sounds like you are wantin a herd of ';somethings';. yeah it was a dumb joke kid.
And talkin on trust and friendship. That takes a long long time dude. And trustin someone over the internet maybe even longer. Just don't give out no personal info to anyone over the net...might be a paedophile or somethin like that.
This isn't sayin that you can't be friends though. Just be careful until you know more about em.
Should i say something to him? guys and girls i need your advice... helppppp!?
he keeps trying to talk to me. and i try to ignore it. he broke up with me. so why does it matter to him what i'm doing or if i don't call?
the sad thing is.. i want to talk to him right now. but i'm scared and i don't want to seem desperate, but he does! anyways we decided we're still friends but i want to let him think i don't care anymore because it drives him crazy. so should i just suck it up and wait for him to blow me up some more, or just talk to him?Should i say something to him? guys and girls i need your advice... helppppp!?
He might have learned from his mistake, but if you do decide to get back with him (I'm sure you want to), then just keep a closer eye on things. You'll know how to control the situation better now because you both have had the experience before %26amp; you know what to expect.
It doesn't seem like he's the jealous type, but ask him how he truly feels the next time you see him. You can decide then.Should i say something to him? guys and girls i need your advice... helppppp!?
stop with the fighting STOP it seems you love him still just forget it and talk to him its OK. don't have a point chart that is bad i promise i been there done that i mean do not say cause he did this i AM going to do this or he never did that so I do not have to. Don't it tears you up just live and forget that causes strife and bitterness inside a relationship so just call him YOU LOVE HIM SO WHAT YOU WAITING FOR!!!
Hi haha yea ill answer urs. dont just suck it up and talk to him, make him feel the way you did so next time he would knw better. And wow yea gurls are great at doing that, haha theyre amazing at makin guys jealous. if i were u tho, dont date him again. honestly itd save u som etrouble in the long run obviously he didnt care enough about u to not hurt u. but either way guys always do wonder what their ex's are doing...they cant help it.
good luck, ps u can email me too for more advice
talk to him. tell him how you feel.
its much better than leaving him hanging.
he needs to know what your doing because he cant stop thinking about you and he needs to know that you are not with another guy. he needs you to call because he likes to hear your voice.
this guy is crazy for you.
yes play it hard, but not to hard to get. if you play too hard he'll think your a b word. but play it cool. like the relationship was nothing. and but act like you still care only as a friend. tell him about other guys. but also care for him too. good luck your gonna get the guy..
well id talk to him, if hes that desperate to talk to u, give him a chance and if he trys to be aggressive, men are gifted with a reproductive organ on the outside of their body and it happens to be their number 1 weakness as well :P
please don't spam other questions but i feel for you. i guess you should just ask him to give you some space until you get over the breakup, that seems more than reasonable to me
dont ever think that noone can love you better then what he did. chances are that you broke up because theirs some other guy out there who will treat you better. but if he really loves you and wants you back , give it a chance.
Seems to me that u love him too. Y r u acting like u don't like him. uhmm attention huh! That鈥檚 what u want right! Well some guys don't like gals who act too much. Someone might have to hurry before someone gets a gal.....
I say you give yourself some time and think about your future with him. Then give him a call back :)
play hard to get make him regret breaking up with u
but eventually talk to him
u dont want him to get over u rigtt
just talk to him he want to drive u nutz by talking to u
if u really love him don't ignore him
You like him alot ?
Why ignore Him then ?
put sesame seeds and mayo on it baby!!!!!!!!!!!
the sad thing is.. i want to talk to him right now. but i'm scared and i don't want to seem desperate, but he does! anyways we decided we're still friends but i want to let him think i don't care anymore because it drives him crazy. so should i just suck it up and wait for him to blow me up some more, or just talk to him?Should i say something to him? guys and girls i need your advice... helppppp!?
He might have learned from his mistake, but if you do decide to get back with him (I'm sure you want to), then just keep a closer eye on things. You'll know how to control the situation better now because you both have had the experience before %26amp; you know what to expect.
It doesn't seem like he's the jealous type, but ask him how he truly feels the next time you see him. You can decide then.Should i say something to him? guys and girls i need your advice... helppppp!?
stop with the fighting STOP it seems you love him still just forget it and talk to him its OK. don't have a point chart that is bad i promise i been there done that i mean do not say cause he did this i AM going to do this or he never did that so I do not have to. Don't it tears you up just live and forget that causes strife and bitterness inside a relationship so just call him YOU LOVE HIM SO WHAT YOU WAITING FOR!!!
Hi haha yea ill answer urs. dont just suck it up and talk to him, make him feel the way you did so next time he would knw better. And wow yea gurls are great at doing that, haha theyre amazing at makin guys jealous. if i were u tho, dont date him again. honestly itd save u som etrouble in the long run obviously he didnt care enough about u to not hurt u. but either way guys always do wonder what their ex's are doing...they cant help it.
good luck, ps u can email me too for more advice
talk to him. tell him how you feel.
its much better than leaving him hanging.
he needs to know what your doing because he cant stop thinking about you and he needs to know that you are not with another guy. he needs you to call because he likes to hear your voice.
this guy is crazy for you.
yes play it hard, but not to hard to get. if you play too hard he'll think your a b word. but play it cool. like the relationship was nothing. and but act like you still care only as a friend. tell him about other guys. but also care for him too. good luck your gonna get the guy..
well id talk to him, if hes that desperate to talk to u, give him a chance and if he trys to be aggressive, men are gifted with a reproductive organ on the outside of their body and it happens to be their number 1 weakness as well :P
please don't spam other questions but i feel for you. i guess you should just ask him to give you some space until you get over the breakup, that seems more than reasonable to me
dont ever think that noone can love you better then what he did. chances are that you broke up because theirs some other guy out there who will treat you better. but if he really loves you and wants you back , give it a chance.
Seems to me that u love him too. Y r u acting like u don't like him. uhmm attention huh! That鈥檚 what u want right! Well some guys don't like gals who act too much. Someone might have to hurry before someone gets a gal.....
I say you give yourself some time and think about your future with him. Then give him a call back :)
play hard to get make him regret breaking up with u
but eventually talk to him
u dont want him to get over u rigtt
just talk to him he want to drive u nutz by talking to u
if u really love him don't ignore him
You like him alot ?
Why ignore Him then ?
put sesame seeds and mayo on it baby!!!!!!!!!!!
Why do people think that flamboyant guys give the best make-up advice?
I went to Sephora the other day and I was sold a heated eylash curler and this flamboyant guy sold my this $15 peice of crap !!! I believed him because he swore by it ...And he was extremely flamboyant !
I WANT MY OLD HEATED EYELASH CURLER FROM RITE AID retail priced at $4.75 . I mean it broke after 4 months , but it worked better!
Have you ever been given hair or make-up advice that sucked from a flamboyant guy?Why do people think that flamboyant guys give the best make-up advice?
No!
But I would definitely take make up tips from Boy George.
LOLWhy do people think that flamboyant guys give the best make-up advice?
Yes they do. I like to go shopping with one of mine, only I get really pissed when he looks cuter in hip huggers than I do, that b*tch
No I don't listen to men for make-up advice. Not even flamboyant ones!
Yea..one time my flamboyant friend told me to wear tight, animal print pants.....nuff said.
Can't say that I have. I'm me and if any one doesn't like it they can just lump it. LOL
I WANT MY OLD HEATED EYELASH CURLER FROM RITE AID retail priced at $4.75 . I mean it broke after 4 months , but it worked better!
Have you ever been given hair or make-up advice that sucked from a flamboyant guy?Why do people think that flamboyant guys give the best make-up advice?
No!
But I would definitely take make up tips from Boy George.
LOLWhy do people think that flamboyant guys give the best make-up advice?
Yes they do. I like to go shopping with one of mine, only I get really pissed when he looks cuter in hip huggers than I do, that b*tch
No I don't listen to men for make-up advice. Not even flamboyant ones!
Yea..one time my flamboyant friend told me to wear tight, animal print pants.....nuff said.
Can't say that I have. I'm me and if any one doesn't like it they can just lump it. LOL
I need help on my boyfriend. Guys and girls I need youre advice and oppinions!?
my boyfriend thinks of me differently.
He says, ';i just see you differently after that';
i didn't do anything bad i guess?
i just smoked and i only inhaled once after that i stoped cus i relized what i was doing.
and i've apologized many times and he says everything is different now.
he doesn't want to call me baby/babe or tell me he loves me.
i know i dissapointed him but i relize how foolish i was.
i need his comfort but he changed i want to give him time.
and he said thats what he needs, but i want to be sure everything is going to be how it used to.
i need to know or else ';time'; isn't really going to make any difference.
i just want him back (we're still together.) I want him back how he used to be before this happened.
i miss his love dearly i need advice on what i should do, what might happen, and anything else.I need help on my boyfriend. Guys and girls I need youre advice and oppinions!?
well i can understand what your boyfriend is saying but i can also sympathize with you. I think what happend what your bf had a particular view of you and he didn't think you would do anything like that. When he found out what you did, it cought him off guard. something similar happened to me when i found somehting out about my girlfriend that she did when we weren't dating...she told me for 2 and a half years she wasn't like ';that';. then she comes out and tells me something and i couldn't look at her the same...but i've forgiven her and i realized she made a mistake. i also did something similar. i played football in college and i took some stuff to get and advantage (bad idea and i think yiou know what i'm talking about) and i came out and told her and she had some trouble...but after all that stuff i guess what i'm saying is if you two really do love eachother things will work out. if your boyfriend's like me he'll realize everyone makes mistakes and no one is going to make great decisions 100 percent of the time. I'm sure he's done some stuff he's not too proud of either. it's part of being a human. we have the desire to do things when we're cought up in the moment, and then our conscience gets the best of us. I wouldn't worry about it, i'd say he'll realize he's making a big deal out of something not worthy of the anguish.
p.s. sorry igot a little phylosophical thereI need help on my boyfriend. Guys and girls I need youre advice and oppinions!?
I just say roll another phaty, get drunk and forget about drama and tell tht fool if he be actin gay and run his mouth u will just give him a boot. Move one who cares? There is too many other better fish in a sea
im sorry but these are the consequences of your actions...i hope everything works out for you...........good luck
you need to move on
heres what ya do....................... roll up a phat dutch wit some kush........smoke that sh!t to the head........then ya wont care!!!burts bees
He says, ';i just see you differently after that';
i didn't do anything bad i guess?
i just smoked and i only inhaled once after that i stoped cus i relized what i was doing.
and i've apologized many times and he says everything is different now.
he doesn't want to call me baby/babe or tell me he loves me.
i know i dissapointed him but i relize how foolish i was.
i need his comfort but he changed i want to give him time.
and he said thats what he needs, but i want to be sure everything is going to be how it used to.
i need to know or else ';time'; isn't really going to make any difference.
i just want him back (we're still together.) I want him back how he used to be before this happened.
i miss his love dearly i need advice on what i should do, what might happen, and anything else.I need help on my boyfriend. Guys and girls I need youre advice and oppinions!?
well i can understand what your boyfriend is saying but i can also sympathize with you. I think what happend what your bf had a particular view of you and he didn't think you would do anything like that. When he found out what you did, it cought him off guard. something similar happened to me when i found somehting out about my girlfriend that she did when we weren't dating...she told me for 2 and a half years she wasn't like ';that';. then she comes out and tells me something and i couldn't look at her the same...but i've forgiven her and i realized she made a mistake. i also did something similar. i played football in college and i took some stuff to get and advantage (bad idea and i think yiou know what i'm talking about) and i came out and told her and she had some trouble...but after all that stuff i guess what i'm saying is if you two really do love eachother things will work out. if your boyfriend's like me he'll realize everyone makes mistakes and no one is going to make great decisions 100 percent of the time. I'm sure he's done some stuff he's not too proud of either. it's part of being a human. we have the desire to do things when we're cought up in the moment, and then our conscience gets the best of us. I wouldn't worry about it, i'd say he'll realize he's making a big deal out of something not worthy of the anguish.
p.s. sorry igot a little phylosophical thereI need help on my boyfriend. Guys and girls I need youre advice and oppinions!?
I just say roll another phaty, get drunk and forget about drama and tell tht fool if he be actin gay and run his mouth u will just give him a boot. Move one who cares? There is too many other better fish in a sea
im sorry but these are the consequences of your actions...i hope everything works out for you...........good luck
you need to move on
heres what ya do....................... roll up a phat dutch wit some kush........smoke that sh!t to the head........then ya wont care!!!
Can you guys help me? Anyone who has good advice...?
know this guy (who's an aquaintence) and I saw him at one of my school's football games. We said hello and he mostly talked to one of my friends, who was on a break during halftime (she's in the band). Well, when she returned to the band, he and I ended up sitting next to each other. I was complaining about how cold it was, and he starts putting his arm around me and rubbing my arms, trying to warm me. I was really freaked out because I hardly talk to him and do not like him. Now, ever since that game, he's been flirting with me and trying to get me to sit next to him or on his lap (I always manage to not by going and sitting somewhere else or shaking my head and saying ';No, thanks';). How can I get him to leave me alone for good????? I really dont have an interest in him...Can you guys help me? Anyone who has good advice...?
Try to tell him that you aren't really interested. Or even get your friend that is in the band to talk to him about why you aren't interested. If he keeps flirting with you tell him straight out ';I'm not interested in you and would appreciate it if you didn't flirt with me any more.';
I hope that I helped you. I wish you the best of luck with this situation.Can you guys help me? Anyone who has good advice...?
tell him staight up 2 his face
tell him no u don't want be with him than don't him any more he tring to give in to him just say no
NO MEANS NO and you need to make sure this guy understands that. No being nice, or cute with him. You have to make sure that he knows you're not just being shy. Tell him that the incident at the ball game was a mistake that he took advantage of. If you really do mean no, tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you'll have to tell your parents, teacher or some other person in authority.
If he doesn't stop after you've repeatedely denied him, silence and distance generally conveys the message. If this doesn't produce results, then yes, you'll have to confront him one-on-one. This is never easy and the awkwardness can't be avoided.
just tell him you don't like him and that he freaks you out and then he will leave you alone
If he tries to pull another move on you, sit him down and tell him you are not interested. It has the least chance of him thinking you are playing hard to get. If he doesn't get the message, I wouldn't say avoid him, just ignore him.
Try to tell him that you aren't really interested. Or even get your friend that is in the band to talk to him about why you aren't interested. If he keeps flirting with you tell him straight out ';I'm not interested in you and would appreciate it if you didn't flirt with me any more.';
I hope that I helped you. I wish you the best of luck with this situation.Can you guys help me? Anyone who has good advice...?
tell him staight up 2 his face
tell him no u don't want be with him than don't him any more he tring to give in to him just say no
NO MEANS NO and you need to make sure this guy understands that. No being nice, or cute with him. You have to make sure that he knows you're not just being shy. Tell him that the incident at the ball game was a mistake that he took advantage of. If you really do mean no, tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you'll have to tell your parents, teacher or some other person in authority.
If he doesn't stop after you've repeatedely denied him, silence and distance generally conveys the message. If this doesn't produce results, then yes, you'll have to confront him one-on-one. This is never easy and the awkwardness can't be avoided.
just tell him you don't like him and that he freaks you out and then he will leave you alone
If he tries to pull another move on you, sit him down and tell him you are not interested. It has the least chance of him thinking you are playing hard to get. If he doesn't get the message, I wouldn't say avoid him, just ignore him.
Guys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
he just told me yesterday that he likes me. he told me a couple days ago that we should just be friends but then he told me that he just wasn't sure. we flirt alot and hug and text all teh time. i know that he could be the perfect bf for me. how do i kinda help him ask me out?
how do i bring it upGuys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
how about you ask him out....Guys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
well it seems like he really likes you he's probably just to afraid right now to make a move maybe show some signs or give him some kind of clue that your interested in him.try asking him if he wants to hang out or if he wants to go somewhere with you.
if like you he will ask you. dont force someone into a relationship. he knws hw u feel and maybe its mutual. jus come out and ask him whats up with him.
i don't think you should because he doesn't seem 100% committed to the idea of being with you, or he is really young and feels scared to express his feelings to you.
either way, act cool and sweet and distant until he figures it out.
and keep other options open.
It seems like he might be scared to take your relationship to the next level because he is having fun the way things are and he doesn't want to screw that up. If I were you I would play it cool and let him make up his mind.
Have you thought about trying to ask him out? Maybe he doesn't wanna mess up your friendship by asking you out, so maybe you should show him that you are interested in him as more than a friend.
Instead of helping him ask you out, why don't YOU ask him out? I don't quite understand why women must feel as if the man is the one who has all the control.
If you two joke around a lot, and if you're really outgoing, I think he might like it if you asked him out really 'formally', flowers and all. You'd be surprised how many guys would appreciate that kind of thing.
Help him ask you out? if you want to go out with him you gotta ask him. The actual question is why do YOU girls do that? always expecting the guy to make the first move?
On the other hand, if he actually told you he likes you then changed his mind saying he wants just to be friends. Then he's either a confused kid Or he's just playing around with you to keep all of his options on the table. But maybe I misunderstood that part.
Anyhow, this is a very common question, especially from people in college/highschool, and it's simple, just go ask them out, what's the worst that can happen? rejection? it's not that bad, and if he's an asshole about it, well, GREAT! at least you know you shouldn't be wasting any more time on him.
LEAVE IT ALONE.. THE MORE TIME YOU PUT INTO YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT HIM THE MORE YOU GET DRAWN INTO HIM.. IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL ASK YOU OUT.. IF YOU ASK HIM HE MIGHT NOT REALLY LIKE YOU BUT FEEL OBLIGATED..
the best way is probably to ask him what do u think about us and see what he says.
tell him you like him back, thats what he wants to hear, he wants to be certain before asking
You could tell him your confused on why he said that he likes you, but why he said he just wanted to be friends. Or you could just send him a naked picture of yourself.
you cannot help him ask you out.. he has to want it for himself. good luck. =)
Ask him if he want's to hang out after school or hang with him @ lunch and ask him out.
how do i bring it upGuys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
how about you ask him out....Guys please tell me why you do this? girls advice too?
well it seems like he really likes you he's probably just to afraid right now to make a move maybe show some signs or give him some kind of clue that your interested in him.try asking him if he wants to hang out or if he wants to go somewhere with you.
if like you he will ask you. dont force someone into a relationship. he knws hw u feel and maybe its mutual. jus come out and ask him whats up with him.
i don't think you should because he doesn't seem 100% committed to the idea of being with you, or he is really young and feels scared to express his feelings to you.
either way, act cool and sweet and distant until he figures it out.
and keep other options open.
It seems like he might be scared to take your relationship to the next level because he is having fun the way things are and he doesn't want to screw that up. If I were you I would play it cool and let him make up his mind.
Have you thought about trying to ask him out? Maybe he doesn't wanna mess up your friendship by asking you out, so maybe you should show him that you are interested in him as more than a friend.
Instead of helping him ask you out, why don't YOU ask him out? I don't quite understand why women must feel as if the man is the one who has all the control.
If you two joke around a lot, and if you're really outgoing, I think he might like it if you asked him out really 'formally', flowers and all. You'd be surprised how many guys would appreciate that kind of thing.
Help him ask you out? if you want to go out with him you gotta ask him. The actual question is why do YOU girls do that? always expecting the guy to make the first move?
On the other hand, if he actually told you he likes you then changed his mind saying he wants just to be friends. Then he's either a confused kid Or he's just playing around with you to keep all of his options on the table. But maybe I misunderstood that part.
Anyhow, this is a very common question, especially from people in college/highschool, and it's simple, just go ask them out, what's the worst that can happen? rejection? it's not that bad, and if he's an asshole about it, well, GREAT! at least you know you shouldn't be wasting any more time on him.
LEAVE IT ALONE.. THE MORE TIME YOU PUT INTO YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT HIM THE MORE YOU GET DRAWN INTO HIM.. IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL ASK YOU OUT.. IF YOU ASK HIM HE MIGHT NOT REALLY LIKE YOU BUT FEEL OBLIGATED..
the best way is probably to ask him what do u think about us and see what he says.
tell him you like him back, thats what he wants to hear, he wants to be certain before asking
You could tell him your confused on why he said that he likes you, but why he said he just wanted to be friends. Or you could just send him a naked picture of yourself.
you cannot help him ask you out.. he has to want it for himself. good luck. =)
Ask him if he want's to hang out after school or hang with him @ lunch and ask him out.
Please give me advice! i have too big calves. More than a girl would want to have:) Guys would envy me,?
but i m looking for the way to decrease thier volume! help!
thanxPlease give me advice! i have too big calves. More than a girl would want to have:) Guys would envy me,?
muscley calves are usually associated with lots of movement on the toes and balls of your feet. walking more flat footed should help, not dancing tip-toed and longer strides should help to reduce the muscle. there is nother wrong with having big calves though, it is quite sexy ; )Please give me advice! i have too big calves. More than a girl would want to have:) Guys would envy me,?
its not easy but you can do it.
Listen; I know some guys who LOVE big calves on a girl... It's later ON, when they grow into ';Cows';- that they tend to lose their Attractiveness! Watch Your weight; Walk alot regularly for exercise, %26amp; eat Healthy- and you'll be fine. No kidding! :)
thanxPlease give me advice! i have too big calves. More than a girl would want to have:) Guys would envy me,?
muscley calves are usually associated with lots of movement on the toes and balls of your feet. walking more flat footed should help, not dancing tip-toed and longer strides should help to reduce the muscle. there is nother wrong with having big calves though, it is quite sexy ; )Please give me advice! i have too big calves. More than a girl would want to have:) Guys would envy me,?
its not easy but you can do it.
Listen; I know some guys who LOVE big calves on a girl... It's later ON, when they grow into ';Cows';- that they tend to lose their Attractiveness! Watch Your weight; Walk alot regularly for exercise, %26amp; eat Healthy- and you'll be fine. No kidding! :)
A problem I need help with . . . .Guys and gals I need some advice?
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We haven't had many problems. Some arguments, some fights, but we got over them quickly. We get along great. He's also my best friend. So, what's the problem?
Well, for the past 3-4 weeks, his friend from work comes with us sometimes when we go out. Infact, a lot of us get together and just hang out, go out, whatever. They all bring their girlfriends/boyfriends, etc. I do not have a problem with hanging out with friends. I'm developing a crush on a certain friend, though. We have a lot to talk about; we have a lot in common. He's cute, witty, smart . . . .
And I have a crush on him. What do I do from here? Do I tell him about it? Do I tell my boyfriend? Do I just keep it inside myself? I'm afraid to act upon my feelings, because my boyfriend and I do so well together. I just need some advice from both the guy and girl standpoint.A problem I need help with . . . .Guys and gals I need some advice?
Ask yourself, ';What is it about this new person that is so attractive?';
Is it because you may be bored in your relationship with your current boyfriend? You may be in a ';good'; relationship, and sitll be bored with him.
I wouldn't come out just yet about the crush thing. Let things fizzle out. Try not to hang out with him as often. Don't keep it inside, either. Find a third person point of view on this, someone you can trust. They would know better of your relationship with other people.
Good luck to you. I've been in your shoes before. Several times. My best advice I can give: Look before you jump.
LL
Well, in one relationship, I had dated someone for a year and had a crush on his best friend. I dated both at the same time, the best friend knew about it, but my boyfriend didnt know. Let's just say that the s**t hit the fan and I lost both of them. Also, I've had crushes on people during my first marriage. My first marriage may had been terrible, but I never cheated on him. Those crushes just fizzled after not seeing them for a long period of time. My current hubby is wonderful. I get attracted to people from time to time, and I'm not afraid to tell him, ';Hey, that guy there sure is cute! Or, Hmmm, that gal sure has a nice a**!!'; He just laughs at me. Hope this helps!A problem I need help with . . . .Guys and gals I need some advice?
Ok.
do what you want to do. its your life. Ruin your relationship or start a new one that might not go anywhere.
I hate girls that ';emotionally cheat';
Ask for a threesome is my advice ;)
From the guy's point of view, if you feel stronger for this new friend, than do your current bf a favor and break up with him before making your move on the new guy. You will be seen as disrespectful and heartless if you go for this new friend while still with your bf and more importantly you will destroy your current bf's heart. You can't help what you feel, but you you have a guy that's been by your side for 2 years and he doesn't deserve to be played on.
Good luck.
well,lets see, do you love with all your heart your boyfriend?cause, if you do,it's just an infacuation with this other guy,an it well pass,if not, you better be straight with your boyfriend.
give it some time.. it will either fizzle out or heat up then you will know what you have to do... i wouldnt do anything too quickly. good luck, what a pickle but i am sure it will work out for the best. lol
Just keep it to yourself, and keep a distance from that person who you believe you have a crush on. Too many people can get hurt here and if your relationship with your boyfriend is so good as you describe, why spoiling it, why hurting ??
Well, for the past 3-4 weeks, his friend from work comes with us sometimes when we go out. Infact, a lot of us get together and just hang out, go out, whatever. They all bring their girlfriends/boyfriends, etc. I do not have a problem with hanging out with friends. I'm developing a crush on a certain friend, though. We have a lot to talk about; we have a lot in common. He's cute, witty, smart . . . .
And I have a crush on him. What do I do from here? Do I tell him about it? Do I tell my boyfriend? Do I just keep it inside myself? I'm afraid to act upon my feelings, because my boyfriend and I do so well together. I just need some advice from both the guy and girl standpoint.A problem I need help with . . . .Guys and gals I need some advice?
Ask yourself, ';What is it about this new person that is so attractive?';
Is it because you may be bored in your relationship with your current boyfriend? You may be in a ';good'; relationship, and sitll be bored with him.
I wouldn't come out just yet about the crush thing. Let things fizzle out. Try not to hang out with him as often. Don't keep it inside, either. Find a third person point of view on this, someone you can trust. They would know better of your relationship with other people.
Good luck to you. I've been in your shoes before. Several times. My best advice I can give: Look before you jump.
LL
Well, in one relationship, I had dated someone for a year and had a crush on his best friend. I dated both at the same time, the best friend knew about it, but my boyfriend didnt know. Let's just say that the s**t hit the fan and I lost both of them. Also, I've had crushes on people during my first marriage. My first marriage may had been terrible, but I never cheated on him. Those crushes just fizzled after not seeing them for a long period of time. My current hubby is wonderful. I get attracted to people from time to time, and I'm not afraid to tell him, ';Hey, that guy there sure is cute! Or, Hmmm, that gal sure has a nice a**!!'; He just laughs at me. Hope this helps!A problem I need help with . . . .Guys and gals I need some advice?
Ok.
do what you want to do. its your life. Ruin your relationship or start a new one that might not go anywhere.
I hate girls that ';emotionally cheat';
Ask for a threesome is my advice ;)
From the guy's point of view, if you feel stronger for this new friend, than do your current bf a favor and break up with him before making your move on the new guy. You will be seen as disrespectful and heartless if you go for this new friend while still with your bf and more importantly you will destroy your current bf's heart. You can't help what you feel, but you you have a guy that's been by your side for 2 years and he doesn't deserve to be played on.
Good luck.
well,lets see, do you love with all your heart your boyfriend?cause, if you do,it's just an infacuation with this other guy,an it well pass,if not, you better be straight with your boyfriend.
give it some time.. it will either fizzle out or heat up then you will know what you have to do... i wouldnt do anything too quickly. good luck, what a pickle but i am sure it will work out for the best. lol
Just keep it to yourself, and keep a distance from that person who you believe you have a crush on. Too many people can get hurt here and if your relationship with your boyfriend is so good as you describe, why spoiling it, why hurting ??
Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
I'm not a stereotypical weirdo by any means; just a 16 year old guy that needs help with advice. My grades were once doing good but I didn't do so well on exams for this quarter, so they'll suffer slightly. I basically need help w/ the normal things that teen guys face but w/ a modern and retro twist (if one can be done. haha). It would be nice if there were a older ';father figure';, or at least a big brother figure that I can talk to about anything and they could relate b/c my mom's a single mother and I don't even remember my dad b/c, as aforementioned, she's a single mother. Can any of you 20 or 30 somethings out their help me w/ advice and help me out with things and establish some kind of trust or friendship so that I can know what and what not to do with any situation?
That would be nice.Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
I'm not too much older than you, so I'll just give you this link to the big brother program http://www.bbbs.org it would probably help if you could have someone in your life that you know in person! I wish you luck with everything, I hope you have a long and happy life!!Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
aw thats so cute :)
That would be nice.Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
I'm not too much older than you, so I'll just give you this link to the big brother program http://www.bbbs.org it would probably help if you could have someone in your life that you know in person! I wish you luck with everything, I hope you have a long and happy life!!Twenty and thirty something year old guys who are good at giving advice, can you help me out w/ some things?
aw thats so cute :)
My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
I have always run into the problem with being second best with guys. I will fall for a guy and for example he will go back with his ex or go with another girl. I never thought my best friend would be the cause of the latest stuff.
My friend is prettier than me but shy.She is easy and I am not like that. I like our guy friend and she stole him from me. Same thing with our other guy friend. I met this guy and she went off to make out with his friend then came and stole the guy i was talking to..
1. What should I do?
2. how can I meet a guy with out her being there as in where are good places to go alone and meet guys?
3. How can i not be 2nd best with guys?My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
This is something that frequently happens. It is sad to say that your friend is an asshole, and you should stop being friends with her right away. You say she is ';easy'; but being easy is not good. Because guys just want to have sex with easy girls, and no strings attached. So the question is, do you want a guy who just wants you for sex? Or a serious relationship?
I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I really think that you should stop being with your friend, if she steals guys from you. That is a very backstabbing thing to do, and she won't stop unless you try to be upfront about it. So basically, just be yourself. You don't have to be second best but I guarentee that your friend will keep on doing this so please talk to her!My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
You need to step up and take control, quit being the push over. I mean how is your SHY friend beating you to the punch? She may be ';prettier'; but that usually doesn't win it for most guys, you have to show interest. As far as those guys getting back with their exes, oh well, not your fault and it happens very often. If you like a guy, go for it before you're at the end of the line.
firstly, get a new friend
secondly, just be yourself and you'll find a guy that likes you for you, one that won't see you as '2nd best'...i know it might seem like it's taking a while, but wouldn't a real nice guy be worth the wait?
and seriously, ditch the friend, cuz she ain't really being a friend by doing what she's doing...i know, i've been there
The important thing is that you recognize how this girl is not truly being your friend. You need to break away from someone who is willing to step all over you to get who she wants.
A real friend, wouldn't even LOOK at your love interest.
They cannot be stolen unless they want to be so it's not all her fault. For whatever reason they seem to like her better. When you find someone you like and he cannot be ';stolen'; then there is your man.
When they see her for the flirt she really is, you'll be number 1.
The simple answer is......don't hang out with your friend so much. Be an individual sometimes. Let your friend do what she does and she will eventually get smutted out by so many guys that she will be branded for life. Your problem sounds like you let your ';shy'; friend dominate you. And besides, she can't ';steal'; any guy from you. If he runs to her then he was never your guy. These are guys you like but haven't actually gotten together with. So they are still free to do what they please. Just get away from this girl and continue to meet people in places you feel comfortable.
Your best friend seems to think you both are in competition for the guys. Have you tried talking to her, letting her know how you feel about this? Is she even aware she's viewing you as a rival for all the guys' affections?
I think the best thing to do to get guys interested in you, be yourself. Anyways, all the guys she ';stole'; probably weren't worth it anyways, it sounds like all they want is a piece of a$$ and she's available and easy for it.
Don't worry, one day soon you'll come across a guy that is into you only, and no amount of flirting by your best friend will make him change his mind that he wants YOU over her.wrinkle cream
My friend is prettier than me but shy.She is easy and I am not like that. I like our guy friend and she stole him from me. Same thing with our other guy friend. I met this guy and she went off to make out with his friend then came and stole the guy i was talking to..
1. What should I do?
2. how can I meet a guy with out her being there as in where are good places to go alone and meet guys?
3. How can i not be 2nd best with guys?My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
This is something that frequently happens. It is sad to say that your friend is an asshole, and you should stop being friends with her right away. You say she is ';easy'; but being easy is not good. Because guys just want to have sex with easy girls, and no strings attached. So the question is, do you want a guy who just wants you for sex? Or a serious relationship?
I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I really think that you should stop being with your friend, if she steals guys from you. That is a very backstabbing thing to do, and she won't stop unless you try to be upfront about it. So basically, just be yourself. You don't have to be second best but I guarentee that your friend will keep on doing this so please talk to her!My friend is taking all the guys i like! need some major advice?
You need to step up and take control, quit being the push over. I mean how is your SHY friend beating you to the punch? She may be ';prettier'; but that usually doesn't win it for most guys, you have to show interest. As far as those guys getting back with their exes, oh well, not your fault and it happens very often. If you like a guy, go for it before you're at the end of the line.
firstly, get a new friend
secondly, just be yourself and you'll find a guy that likes you for you, one that won't see you as '2nd best'...i know it might seem like it's taking a while, but wouldn't a real nice guy be worth the wait?
and seriously, ditch the friend, cuz she ain't really being a friend by doing what she's doing...i know, i've been there
The important thing is that you recognize how this girl is not truly being your friend. You need to break away from someone who is willing to step all over you to get who she wants.
A real friend, wouldn't even LOOK at your love interest.
They cannot be stolen unless they want to be so it's not all her fault. For whatever reason they seem to like her better. When you find someone you like and he cannot be ';stolen'; then there is your man.
When they see her for the flirt she really is, you'll be number 1.
The simple answer is......don't hang out with your friend so much. Be an individual sometimes. Let your friend do what she does and she will eventually get smutted out by so many guys that she will be branded for life. Your problem sounds like you let your ';shy'; friend dominate you. And besides, she can't ';steal'; any guy from you. If he runs to her then he was never your guy. These are guys you like but haven't actually gotten together with. So they are still free to do what they please. Just get away from this girl and continue to meet people in places you feel comfortable.
Your best friend seems to think you both are in competition for the guys. Have you tried talking to her, letting her know how you feel about this? Is she even aware she's viewing you as a rival for all the guys' affections?
I think the best thing to do to get guys interested in you, be yourself. Anyways, all the guys she ';stole'; probably weren't worth it anyways, it sounds like all they want is a piece of a$$ and she's available and easy for it.
Don't worry, one day soon you'll come across a guy that is into you only, and no amount of flirting by your best friend will make him change his mind that he wants YOU over her.
GUYS N WHAT THEY LIKE!! NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!?
WHAT DOES A GUY MOST EXPECT FROM A GIRL IN A RELATIONSHIP? WHAT THE TOP 3 THINGS A GUY LIKE IN A RELATIONSHIP?GUYS N WHAT THEY LIKE!! NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!?
Most guys want Sex sex %26amp; more sex.....and then a girlfriend .GUYS N WHAT THEY LIKE!! NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!?
If he's an upstanding man the top 3 things he would like would be in the ballpark of:
1) A girl who is confident and respects herself. She doesn't need his approval to be sure of herself.
2) A girl with dreams, goals, aspirations, %26amp; interests and who is actively doing something to achieve them.
3) A girl who is honest and kind.
Some of the things a guy likes from a girl include being respected, getting lots of compliments (real ones not just saying stuff to say stuff), a girl who is understanding of where he's coming from, who calls him out when he does something blatantly wrong and doesn't just let him get away with it, etc.
Honesty, Respect, %26amp; Sex (assuming you're mature and old enough to have it responsibly).
1. making out
2. sex
3. fun
4. lots of bjs
IDK
hmm...
sex?
mmm sex...
and uh sex.
naw, every guy is different.
you just gotta wing it.
Most guys want Sex sex %26amp; more sex.....and then a girlfriend .GUYS N WHAT THEY LIKE!! NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!?
If he's an upstanding man the top 3 things he would like would be in the ballpark of:
1) A girl who is confident and respects herself. She doesn't need his approval to be sure of herself.
2) A girl with dreams, goals, aspirations, %26amp; interests and who is actively doing something to achieve them.
3) A girl who is honest and kind.
Some of the things a guy likes from a girl include being respected, getting lots of compliments (real ones not just saying stuff to say stuff), a girl who is understanding of where he's coming from, who calls him out when he does something blatantly wrong and doesn't just let him get away with it, etc.
Honesty, Respect, %26amp; Sex (assuming you're mature and old enough to have it responsibly).
1. making out
2. sex
3. fun
4. lots of bjs
IDK
hmm...
sex?
mmm sex...
and uh sex.
naw, every guy is different.
you just gotta wing it.
TEENAGE ADVICE!!!***OK, this one is tricky guys!!!*** Help if you can....?
Im 19 years old (TURNING 20 in FEB) and live with my grand parents while I attend college out of state. I have had a B.F. for 6 months now, and they have agreed to allow us to go to a concert out of town. Now, normally my curfew is 10PM EVEN ON THE WEEKENDS!...but they have agreed to allow me to stay out until 2am to go out with him that night. I dont want to come home! I want to get a motel room and stay the night...Im OLD ENOUGH DAMNIT! How do convince them (or trick them) into letting me? this is tricky guys b/c these are the type of grandparents who would COME GET ME if vwe broke down...so that excuse is out...help!TEENAGE ADVICE!!!***OK, this one is tricky guys!!!*** Help if you can....?
Respect those that you live with. Do not try to trick them, it will show your immaturity and thus defeat the purpose. Rather, agree with them, do what they say, show your maturity and next time, they will trust you with more. Remember, they are strict because they LOVE you, and you do not want to violate that in any way.TEENAGE ADVICE!!!***OK, this one is tricky guys!!!*** Help if you can....?
given your age, and the fact your in college, you should work out a better arangment.
I would recommend you move out.
You need to tell them that you will be staying out later, and also not coming home some nights. You are a adult.
At the same time respect what they say, you are afterall living in thier home.
You have to work something out.
Apparently, the terms of living with your grandparents include your obeying their curfews. Since you have agreed to obey, either explicitly or implicitly by accepting lodging, you must do your best to obey.
Motel rooms are usually available for occupancy around 3:00 p.m., and don't have to be vacated until noon. You could copulate for hours before your 10:00 p.m. deadline and again the next day till noon.
For the long term, you will have to obey the rules, renegotiate, or move out. You can't have it both ways honestly.
If you want to be treated as an adult, you'll have to act like one. That means dealing with them honestly. If your home/school situation will be placed in jeopardy by demanding more freedom, then you must choose what's most important to you, living with your grandparents or partying.
They are kind enough to let you live with them. Don't abuse their hospitality by lying to them. When you live on your own you can do what you want.
Schneb is right. You don't want to trick them. If you want to be independent and stupid, then move out. If your grandparents didn't love you, they would care what you did and want you home by 10 pm.
There aren't too many legitimate things to do after 10 pm.
Well you're over 18 so my advice would be to just tell them what you're going to do. Be rational and tell them that you might have a beer or 6 and that you'd feel safer not driving home.
Grandparents are generally a little more understanding than parents are [im a parent of a daughter, and i probably wouldn't have a problem with it]. I mean it's the 21st century....
I know its tough but you should respect your grandparents. As long as u live under their roof u need to abide by their rules. Maybe its time for you to move out.
Oooooh... tis tricky. Tell them a girlfriend coming and your sleeping over at theirs? Will that work?
Charlie XOX
What is worst: Having to follow their rules that they place on you because they love you are concerned about your safety, or having to find a place on your own to live and paying rent, electric and gas bills, food for the table, etc.
Get home by 2 AM and don't have them worry about you. You'll feel bad for a lot longer if you lied to them than if you can't spend the night with your bf.
Well, you could just not show up ,make them worry endlessly, come home the next day to find they've lost all trust and respect for you OR you could come to the adult decision (you did say you were an adult right) and respect their wishes and be grateful that they were generous enough to allow you 3 extra hours of time with your boyfriend. If you show them once they can trust you out till that hour chances are they will allow it again. Be a grown up please....make the right decision!
I had this trouble with my parents when I was your age (I'm 26 now) Basically I just didn't even bother as I had gotten caught before. It was much better in a couple of years after I was out of college and living on my own. Hey-I got to do whatever I wanted to and finally got it out of my system. I learned in the long run that it wasn't that much fun at all and it just seemed fun because it was ';forbidden';
Respect those that you live with. Do not try to trick them, it will show your immaturity and thus defeat the purpose. Rather, agree with them, do what they say, show your maturity and next time, they will trust you with more. Remember, they are strict because they LOVE you, and you do not want to violate that in any way.TEENAGE ADVICE!!!***OK, this one is tricky guys!!!*** Help if you can....?
given your age, and the fact your in college, you should work out a better arangment.
I would recommend you move out.
You need to tell them that you will be staying out later, and also not coming home some nights. You are a adult.
At the same time respect what they say, you are afterall living in thier home.
You have to work something out.
Apparently, the terms of living with your grandparents include your obeying their curfews. Since you have agreed to obey, either explicitly or implicitly by accepting lodging, you must do your best to obey.
Motel rooms are usually available for occupancy around 3:00 p.m., and don't have to be vacated until noon. You could copulate for hours before your 10:00 p.m. deadline and again the next day till noon.
For the long term, you will have to obey the rules, renegotiate, or move out. You can't have it both ways honestly.
If you want to be treated as an adult, you'll have to act like one. That means dealing with them honestly. If your home/school situation will be placed in jeopardy by demanding more freedom, then you must choose what's most important to you, living with your grandparents or partying.
They are kind enough to let you live with them. Don't abuse their hospitality by lying to them. When you live on your own you can do what you want.
Schneb is right. You don't want to trick them. If you want to be independent and stupid, then move out. If your grandparents didn't love you, they would care what you did and want you home by 10 pm.
There aren't too many legitimate things to do after 10 pm.
Well you're over 18 so my advice would be to just tell them what you're going to do. Be rational and tell them that you might have a beer or 6 and that you'd feel safer not driving home.
Grandparents are generally a little more understanding than parents are [im a parent of a daughter, and i probably wouldn't have a problem with it]. I mean it's the 21st century....
I know its tough but you should respect your grandparents. As long as u live under their roof u need to abide by their rules. Maybe its time for you to move out.
Oooooh... tis tricky. Tell them a girlfriend coming and your sleeping over at theirs? Will that work?
Charlie XOX
What is worst: Having to follow their rules that they place on you because they love you are concerned about your safety, or having to find a place on your own to live and paying rent, electric and gas bills, food for the table, etc.
Get home by 2 AM and don't have them worry about you. You'll feel bad for a lot longer if you lied to them than if you can't spend the night with your bf.
Well, you could just not show up ,make them worry endlessly, come home the next day to find they've lost all trust and respect for you OR you could come to the adult decision (you did say you were an adult right) and respect their wishes and be grateful that they were generous enough to allow you 3 extra hours of time with your boyfriend. If you show them once they can trust you out till that hour chances are they will allow it again. Be a grown up please....make the right decision!
I had this trouble with my parents when I was your age (I'm 26 now) Basically I just didn't even bother as I had gotten caught before. It was much better in a couple of years after I was out of college and living on my own. Hey-I got to do whatever I wanted to and finally got it out of my system. I learned in the long run that it wasn't that much fun at all and it just seemed fun because it was ';forbidden';
Advice on how not to be nervous?! I'm begging you, guys help too.?
Okay so this guy who is best friends with my brother--Im 15 btw-- well he likes me and i saw him today... and he text me afterward asking if he can come by and give me something--kiss me--- and i ALWAYS get nervous and try avoiding the subject at times like this, so i told him wait till wed.-- im going to the mall with him and friends-- how can i stop being nervous and wanting to avoid it?? please!!!Advice on how not to be nervous?! I'm begging you, guys help too.?
Just pretend like you don't know what's coming. Tell yourself he's really coming to give you something, like math homework. You know it's not true, but keep telling yourself it to calm you down. :)
Just pretend like you don't know what's coming. Tell yourself he's really coming to give you something, like math homework. You know it's not true, but keep telling yourself it to calm you down. :)
GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around males?
This girl on here asked a question about having drunk sex with some guy. I want to know if guys agree with my answer from a male perspective.
Here is the link to her question and my answer (mine is near the bottom)GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around males?
yeah you did,
I'm glad it was worth reading!!!!
If you don't get Best Answer there is something wrong.GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around males?
First off, no no no no no no! Please stop that idiotic rule of ';don't call / text unless he does it first';. I get so annoyed with girls who do that to me and I loose all interest.
As for the sex before 6 dates ... I say 6 is pushing it too hard for most guys. The older you get, the lower this number becomes pressured.
Other than that, I agree with you. If you're looking for the serious relationship, don't flirt around unless you know he is commited to you back and won't abandon you out of nowhere. Don't make a booty call out of yourself in this scenario. Then again, I am the mature type willing to wait, not the typical horny guy you see outside the 7-11.
yeah
Here is the link to her question and my answer (mine is near the bottom)GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around males?
yeah you did,
I'm glad it was worth reading!!!!
If you don't get Best Answer there is something wrong.GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around males?
First off, no no no no no no! Please stop that idiotic rule of ';don't call / text unless he does it first';. I get so annoyed with girls who do that to me and I loose all interest.
As for the sex before 6 dates ... I say 6 is pushing it too hard for most guys. The older you get, the lower this number becomes pressured.
Other than that, I agree with you. If you're looking for the serious relationship, don't flirt around unless you know he is commited to you back and won't abandon you out of nowhere. Don't make a booty call out of yourself in this scenario. Then again, I am the mature type willing to wait, not the typical horny guy you see outside the 7-11.
yeah
Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
my girl friend is pregnant and she has been eating alot. she eats more than me. she's always raiding the refridgerator, and sending me out to get fast food or things she craves. Then she gets mad at me, and wants to hit me. Then when i start to yell, she starts to cry. i need serious help, i love her so much but when i don't get her what she wants to eat all hell breaks loose! like yesterday night, she woke me up and sent me to the store to buy some m%26amp;ms candy at 1:00 am. all of the stores were close i searched through town for a store that was open and i didin't find one. i was so scared to go home without the m%26amp;ms that i traveled an hour away from my house, just to get the freakin m%26amp;ms from a 24 hr walmart. when i got home, she snatched the m%26amp;ms, and yelled '; What took you so long!'; she didint even say thankyou. i just don't know what to do, i love her so i get what she wants, but i'm tired, i work all day then come home just to be her slave. did you go through this with your g/f?Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
You should have thought of this before you got her up the duff.Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
well buddy you should have thought about that in between moans..you had sex and now you get to enjoy the aftermath...sorry but your life officially revolves around her.
I'd cut her so much slack that she would move out of my life. She is rude, inconsiderate, and a user. How can you say you love that?? The way she treats you is despicable. Cut her loose.
Chow!!
I think she is taking advantage of you. I've had some pretty wild and overwhelming cravings, but I never did that. The farthest I went was to have my husband call every restaurant in town to see if they would deliver spaghetti. I'd tell her to chill out. I've never seen a woman act that crazy.... Cutting her some slack is, maybe running to a close bye store for the bag of gummi bears right before bed. But I wouldn't be driving an hour for some freaking m%26amp;m's
Seriously the cravings are true i have 6 kids and did crave things and they were not non-food things like some one else posted, if it is early in pregnancy her hormones are all out of wack but there is alimit to the whole thing being rude is not part of pregnancy crying emotional is even the yelling part but sounds like she may be using things to her advantage. Dont wait till shes in a good mood or what not just call her and tell her look we need to talk wheni get home and leave it at that then talk once you get there and tell her look i will do what i can for you but you cannot treat me like this. Healthy foods like fruits will actually kill cravings because of the sugars in them so go shopping and stock up so you can get the sleep you need. Just wait till baby arrives you will get 0 sleep hours.hope this helps
Her hormones are all in a turmoil, she is growing another person inside her body and it can be uncomfortable and cause backaches, sore breasts and upset stomach as well as food cravings. I went nuts one night, actually 2a m for a jar of olives, and had to go get them myself, as my husband wasn't as considerate as you. This phase will pass, so in the meantime, tell her how much she means to you and how beautiful she is to you. This part is very important as she probably feels dumpy and fat, and, the food cravings will disappear when her vitamins kick in. Best wishes
I didn't get my GF pregnant!!! knock on wood....have fun dude...haha sorry
shes eating alot because she eating for two (so cut her some slack!) and sorry about how frikkin cranky she is...but life is tough, i live with crabs all the time.
and im positive that shell stop being a ****** after the baby comes...but think about it, would you feal like pumpkin pie with a kid in your stomch?
hey man its gods way of saying nice job man you got her regnant no deal with the consequences
A changing in hormones always create problems and that is exactly what is happening to your gf so,I would say yes,cut her some slack,just make sure she doesn't get too fat,attend pre natal clinics with her and discuss it with the doctor or health carer.Good luck and,no,I didn't go through this with my gf,everyone is different so different people behave in different ways.
Hey just relax and breath! Okay Women during pregnacy have there hormones all out of whack its just how the body reacts to such a strange thing, i am sorry to say but women will always be difficult just pregant women are EXTRA difficult! I think you should just relax tell her to talk to her doctor and you need to relax bud to be a dad you need alot of time to think things over because you cant just yell and scream for your kid to stop. So just be really sweet to her, smile through the pain and a couple weeks after she has her baby her hormones will be okay and you too will be happy! Just give it some time! Good luck with parenthood!
Although it's not unusual to feel a little out of control when you are pregnant, this girlfriend is carrying things a little too far. The old food craving story is a myth, or at least it ought to be. True food cravings usually involve odd non-foods, stuff like clay or dirt- not M%26amp;M's at all hours, and mean there is something wrong. Otherwise, the whole pickles and ice cream thing is just a lot of hooey. I've had 6 kids, and I'm a nurse, so I have plenty of experience and knowledge on this. Your hormones can drive you slightly nutty at times, and you do think and say some irrational things, but you do not have any real need to really eat for two, unless you want to become a mother elephant.
I think you need to have a heart to heart with this girlfriend and tell her the straight skinny. Being pregnant is no excuse to act like an out of control 2 year old, and if she is old enough to be a mom then she needs to get her act together now. If you think it might help clear the air, go with her to the next prenatal appointment and bring up all this to the doctor for his/her opinion and advice. Perhaps hearing it from the expert will help, and at least then she will realize how infantile she is being, hearing about it from a disinterested third party. In the meantime, while I don't suggest an in-her-face yell fest, I do suggest you put your foot down. For one thing, what she eats has a direct effect on the health of your child, and she owes this baby a good healthy start in life. That means eating properly, in proper amounts. It does not entitle her to spending the next however many months sitting on a pillow gobbling like a hog and stuffing her face with whatever junk strikes her fancy. You are not a slave, nor should you act like one. If she throws a tantrum, leave her to do it on her own. Tell her you'll come back in an hour to see if she's ready to talk and act like a human. Might as well get used to handling tantrums now, because you will have to weather them from the baby eventually as well.
For the record- my worst episode of craziness involved a dust bunny under the couch. I was 8 months gone, in the middle of July with no air conditioning. I'd asked three kids and a husband to remove the offending dust bunny, and all three had missed it. I have no good explaination as to why it bugged me, but I ended up crying myself, stuck on the floor with a swiffer mop, surrounded by the mystified family. The dust bunny episode has become a family joke I can now laugh about- though at the time it was very upsetting to me. No cravings though, ever. And certainly no sending anyone out in search of special foods at odd hours.
her hormones are insane, why in the world didnt you wear a condom and avoid all this. you knocked her up and now you are her slave, no one should go through this with a girlfriend, dont start having sex till you are married, geeze
Hi your girlfriend needs to grow up, women do have hormone changes that will make them moody like being cranky or crying your girlfriend is acting like a 2 year old does she realise all the weight she will be carrying after she gives birth just because shes pregnant that dosnt mean you can eat everything she will end up putting on so much weight , if she is treating you like this now it wont change after she has the baby you have to stop giving into her or she will walk all over you for the rest of your life , do you seriously want to live like that , she needs to stop being selfish and be gratefull you are out working and realise you need your sleep, she needs to grow up in a big way and she is going to be a mother you will have 2 kids on your hands your baby and your girlfriend ,, good luck
at some point, when shes not emotional, when shes not craving something bizzarre, talk to her calmly and tell her that some of the things she asks of you is irrational and it's not fair to you to wake you up at one am for M%26amp;M's! she may understand... she may not. my girlfriend is 37 weeks pregnant and acts somewhat similar. it'll get better. just focus on the baby, thats the most important thing.
YOU must supply and store enough and good foods for her. OK ? Dont deprive her and the baby growing inside. I tell you again, Supply enogh food to her. She and the Baby need Good Food and more than enough.
You should have thought of this before you got her up the duff.Guys, my girl friend is pregnant? help advice?
well buddy you should have thought about that in between moans..you had sex and now you get to enjoy the aftermath...sorry but your life officially revolves around her.
I'd cut her so much slack that she would move out of my life. She is rude, inconsiderate, and a user. How can you say you love that?? The way she treats you is despicable. Cut her loose.
Chow!!
I think she is taking advantage of you. I've had some pretty wild and overwhelming cravings, but I never did that. The farthest I went was to have my husband call every restaurant in town to see if they would deliver spaghetti. I'd tell her to chill out. I've never seen a woman act that crazy.... Cutting her some slack is, maybe running to a close bye store for the bag of gummi bears right before bed. But I wouldn't be driving an hour for some freaking m%26amp;m's
Seriously the cravings are true i have 6 kids and did crave things and they were not non-food things like some one else posted, if it is early in pregnancy her hormones are all out of wack but there is alimit to the whole thing being rude is not part of pregnancy crying emotional is even the yelling part but sounds like she may be using things to her advantage. Dont wait till shes in a good mood or what not just call her and tell her look we need to talk wheni get home and leave it at that then talk once you get there and tell her look i will do what i can for you but you cannot treat me like this. Healthy foods like fruits will actually kill cravings because of the sugars in them so go shopping and stock up so you can get the sleep you need. Just wait till baby arrives you will get 0 sleep hours.hope this helps
Her hormones are all in a turmoil, she is growing another person inside her body and it can be uncomfortable and cause backaches, sore breasts and upset stomach as well as food cravings. I went nuts one night, actually 2a m for a jar of olives, and had to go get them myself, as my husband wasn't as considerate as you. This phase will pass, so in the meantime, tell her how much she means to you and how beautiful she is to you. This part is very important as she probably feels dumpy and fat, and, the food cravings will disappear when her vitamins kick in. Best wishes
I didn't get my GF pregnant!!! knock on wood....have fun dude...haha sorry
shes eating alot because she eating for two (so cut her some slack!) and sorry about how frikkin cranky she is...but life is tough, i live with crabs all the time.
and im positive that shell stop being a ****** after the baby comes...but think about it, would you feal like pumpkin pie with a kid in your stomch?
hey man its gods way of saying nice job man you got her regnant no deal with the consequences
A changing in hormones always create problems and that is exactly what is happening to your gf so,I would say yes,cut her some slack,just make sure she doesn't get too fat,attend pre natal clinics with her and discuss it with the doctor or health carer.Good luck and,no,I didn't go through this with my gf,everyone is different so different people behave in different ways.
Hey just relax and breath! Okay Women during pregnacy have there hormones all out of whack its just how the body reacts to such a strange thing, i am sorry to say but women will always be difficult just pregant women are EXTRA difficult! I think you should just relax tell her to talk to her doctor and you need to relax bud to be a dad you need alot of time to think things over because you cant just yell and scream for your kid to stop. So just be really sweet to her, smile through the pain and a couple weeks after she has her baby her hormones will be okay and you too will be happy! Just give it some time! Good luck with parenthood!
Although it's not unusual to feel a little out of control when you are pregnant, this girlfriend is carrying things a little too far. The old food craving story is a myth, or at least it ought to be. True food cravings usually involve odd non-foods, stuff like clay or dirt- not M%26amp;M's at all hours, and mean there is something wrong. Otherwise, the whole pickles and ice cream thing is just a lot of hooey. I've had 6 kids, and I'm a nurse, so I have plenty of experience and knowledge on this. Your hormones can drive you slightly nutty at times, and you do think and say some irrational things, but you do not have any real need to really eat for two, unless you want to become a mother elephant.
I think you need to have a heart to heart with this girlfriend and tell her the straight skinny. Being pregnant is no excuse to act like an out of control 2 year old, and if she is old enough to be a mom then she needs to get her act together now. If you think it might help clear the air, go with her to the next prenatal appointment and bring up all this to the doctor for his/her opinion and advice. Perhaps hearing it from the expert will help, and at least then she will realize how infantile she is being, hearing about it from a disinterested third party. In the meantime, while I don't suggest an in-her-face yell fest, I do suggest you put your foot down. For one thing, what she eats has a direct effect on the health of your child, and she owes this baby a good healthy start in life. That means eating properly, in proper amounts. It does not entitle her to spending the next however many months sitting on a pillow gobbling like a hog and stuffing her face with whatever junk strikes her fancy. You are not a slave, nor should you act like one. If she throws a tantrum, leave her to do it on her own. Tell her you'll come back in an hour to see if she's ready to talk and act like a human. Might as well get used to handling tantrums now, because you will have to weather them from the baby eventually as well.
For the record- my worst episode of craziness involved a dust bunny under the couch. I was 8 months gone, in the middle of July with no air conditioning. I'd asked three kids and a husband to remove the offending dust bunny, and all three had missed it. I have no good explaination as to why it bugged me, but I ended up crying myself, stuck on the floor with a swiffer mop, surrounded by the mystified family. The dust bunny episode has become a family joke I can now laugh about- though at the time it was very upsetting to me. No cravings though, ever. And certainly no sending anyone out in search of special foods at odd hours.
her hormones are insane, why in the world didnt you wear a condom and avoid all this. you knocked her up and now you are her slave, no one should go through this with a girlfriend, dont start having sex till you are married, geeze
Hi your girlfriend needs to grow up, women do have hormone changes that will make them moody like being cranky or crying your girlfriend is acting like a 2 year old does she realise all the weight she will be carrying after she gives birth just because shes pregnant that dosnt mean you can eat everything she will end up putting on so much weight , if she is treating you like this now it wont change after she has the baby you have to stop giving into her or she will walk all over you for the rest of your life , do you seriously want to live like that , she needs to stop being selfish and be gratefull you are out working and realise you need your sleep, she needs to grow up in a big way and she is going to be a mother you will have 2 kids on your hands your baby and your girlfriend ,, good luck
at some point, when shes not emotional, when shes not craving something bizzarre, talk to her calmly and tell her that some of the things she asks of you is irrational and it's not fair to you to wake you up at one am for M%26amp;M's! she may understand... she may not. my girlfriend is 37 weeks pregnant and acts somewhat similar. it'll get better. just focus on the baby, thats the most important thing.
YOU must supply and store enough and good foods for her. OK ? Dont deprive her and the baby growing inside. I tell you again, Supply enogh food to her. She and the Baby need Good Food and more than enough.
I really need guy advice please answer?
I like this guy and we talk alot,, and we flirt sometimes
He sometimes ask questions about my life and wanting
to know more about me,, does he like me???
And thank you for answering :)I really need guy advice please answer?
Yeah dude, i'm pretty sure he's into yew.
Just open up to him and tell him more about yew and yer life,
and maybe that could lead to telling him about yer feelings.
:)
Yer off to a great start, he's obviously wanting to know more, because maybe he wanst more ;] winkkk.
Alright, best of luckkk.I really need guy advice please answer?
sounds to me, I know he's intrested in you. but you have to think would he want to be in a relation ship, maybe when your out with him, give him a little kiss and see how he re-acts.
sounds like he does but to make sure that he likes you ask ask ask. ask him frankly and ask him to define 'like' cuz it can mean like you as a sister or just a friend.
ask him not me.wrinkle cream
He sometimes ask questions about my life and wanting
to know more about me,, does he like me???
And thank you for answering :)I really need guy advice please answer?
Yeah dude, i'm pretty sure he's into yew.
Just open up to him and tell him more about yew and yer life,
and maybe that could lead to telling him about yer feelings.
:)
Yer off to a great start, he's obviously wanting to know more, because maybe he wanst more ;] winkkk.
Alright, best of luckkk.I really need guy advice please answer?
sounds to me, I know he's intrested in you. but you have to think would he want to be in a relation ship, maybe when your out with him, give him a little kiss and see how he re-acts.
sounds like he does but to make sure that he likes you ask ask ask. ask him frankly and ask him to define 'like' cuz it can mean like you as a sister or just a friend.
ask him not me.
I need some guy advice. What should I do about him?
So Ive been exclusively dating this guy for 7 months and about a week ago we got in an arguement. We dont usually fight much but, for some reason he was being extremely rude to me and thought that I was going to be okay with that and not say anything. I told him that we should talk about his behavior and he agreed.
But, once we started talking about it we got into another arguement because he said him being in a bad mood had nothing to do with me and that I shouldnt take it personal. But, ovbiously I did because he was treating me badly.
So, 2 days ago he told me that he needed some time to think. He said he didnt want us to ';just be friends'; or to stop dating but, he just wanted to think.. and for me to be patient.
If he isnt planning on breaking things off with me then what exactly is he thinking about??? Guys, help!I need some guy advice. What should I do about him?
You are right he shouldn't of taken his bad mood out on you. but it does happen. arguing is sometimes okay to do because it's good to talk about what is bothering you. I don't think he would tell you that he wants to keep dating and then break up. I'm sure it will be okayI need some guy advice. What should I do about him?
dont wait him just tell him it is ok to do wat he want but u will do wat u want too which is knowing a better person than him
if he loves u he will be juilace if not then he wants to break up with u
hate to say it but, he probley found another girl and he wants to see if it works out with her, and if it dosent hell come back to you,cause he knows that he told you to hang on and youll probley wait for him.not knowing he was 2 timeing on you
I'm assuming we should give him the benefit of the doubt,
maybe he was just angry and lashed out?...
It sounds like your a sensitive person, which is a good thing, but it can leave you vulnerable to get hurt.. it might actually be a good thing having some distance to work through these problems... you need time to heal, I think he's giving you that, and he probably feels your over-reacting
However all that being said, if you actually feel *abused* - be honest with yourself about it, your the only that stands to be hurt if you don't, weigh it against other factors in your relationship, just don't try reading between the lines here, if you need to do that, ask them, or a friend for advice on how to resolve it - you probably don't want to stay with the guy anyway... and should seek help from family, friends, even professionals whatever you need to do to be able to cope with it...
Arguments happen between people, even those who care about eachother... I hope things work out for you both...
Personally I think he's probly just spinning out how strong your reaction was and how - what he might see as easily - hurt you were, I'm just sorry there aren't more people that see sensitivity as a strength instead of a weakness...
Good luck, hope this helps
I think you should be patient. Sometimes guys don't like it when their girlfriends get in their face. Tell him to stop bottling things up inside, if he has to say something to you, he should say it.
he's fixing to dump your a ss!!!!!!!!! so the thing to do is dump him first! then call me, as i've got great manners and never fight. p.s. can you cook, and do you like lotttsa anal sex?
You don't need this drama dump him, move on and be happy. EFIL
it is men nature. men love to be alone when upset and they r exactly different from ladies. leave him alone and let him make up his mind.
Sorry Girl,the SOB is Gone .Get yourself gone.Sorry..am.
people get into the bad mood all the time, but if they can't control it with thier loved ones;this is not an excuse..
You don't have to do anything,my friend...he has to do the thing..he has to change his behaviour..or Goodbye
Since I can't read minds I would say he is taking time to think and you should be patient. If he already knew what he was gonna do, you would know. So, maybe part of the problem is your idea of giving him time and being patient is 2 days...
But, once we started talking about it we got into another arguement because he said him being in a bad mood had nothing to do with me and that I shouldnt take it personal. But, ovbiously I did because he was treating me badly.
So, 2 days ago he told me that he needed some time to think. He said he didnt want us to ';just be friends'; or to stop dating but, he just wanted to think.. and for me to be patient.
If he isnt planning on breaking things off with me then what exactly is he thinking about??? Guys, help!I need some guy advice. What should I do about him?
You are right he shouldn't of taken his bad mood out on you. but it does happen. arguing is sometimes okay to do because it's good to talk about what is bothering you. I don't think he would tell you that he wants to keep dating and then break up. I'm sure it will be okayI need some guy advice. What should I do about him?
dont wait him just tell him it is ok to do wat he want but u will do wat u want too which is knowing a better person than him
if he loves u he will be juilace if not then he wants to break up with u
hate to say it but, he probley found another girl and he wants to see if it works out with her, and if it dosent hell come back to you,cause he knows that he told you to hang on and youll probley wait for him.not knowing he was 2 timeing on you
I'm assuming we should give him the benefit of the doubt,
maybe he was just angry and lashed out?...
It sounds like your a sensitive person, which is a good thing, but it can leave you vulnerable to get hurt.. it might actually be a good thing having some distance to work through these problems... you need time to heal, I think he's giving you that, and he probably feels your over-reacting
However all that being said, if you actually feel *abused* - be honest with yourself about it, your the only that stands to be hurt if you don't, weigh it against other factors in your relationship, just don't try reading between the lines here, if you need to do that, ask them, or a friend for advice on how to resolve it - you probably don't want to stay with the guy anyway... and should seek help from family, friends, even professionals whatever you need to do to be able to cope with it...
Arguments happen between people, even those who care about eachother... I hope things work out for you both...
Personally I think he's probly just spinning out how strong your reaction was and how - what he might see as easily - hurt you were, I'm just sorry there aren't more people that see sensitivity as a strength instead of a weakness...
Good luck, hope this helps
I think you should be patient. Sometimes guys don't like it when their girlfriends get in their face. Tell him to stop bottling things up inside, if he has to say something to you, he should say it.
he's fixing to dump your a ss!!!!!!!!! so the thing to do is dump him first! then call me, as i've got great manners and never fight. p.s. can you cook, and do you like lotttsa anal sex?
You don't need this drama dump him, move on and be happy. EFIL
it is men nature. men love to be alone when upset and they r exactly different from ladies. leave him alone and let him make up his mind.
Sorry Girl,the SOB is Gone .Get yourself gone.Sorry..am.
people get into the bad mood all the time, but if they can't control it with thier loved ones;this is not an excuse..
You don't have to do anything,my friend...he has to do the thing..he has to change his behaviour..or Goodbye
Since I can't read minds I would say he is taking time to think and you should be patient. If he already knew what he was gonna do, you would know. So, maybe part of the problem is your idea of giving him time and being patient is 2 days...
I need some guy advice can anyone help?
how do i get a guy to nice me? how do i tell if a guy likes me or not?I need some guy advice can anyone help?
notice you?
Just start talking to him more by texting, calling, etc and he will start to notice you and you can tell by how he replies, short and simple answers usually mean they aren't interested, but also could mean that they are just tired or really busy, long and more complex answers mean he's more interested ( thats for texting ) if anything just call him up, I would notice that hahaI need some guy advice can anyone help?
Ask him
notice you?
Just start talking to him more by texting, calling, etc and he will start to notice you and you can tell by how he replies, short and simple answers usually mean they aren't interested, but also could mean that they are just tired or really busy, long and more complex answers mean he's more interested ( thats for texting ) if anything just call him up, I would notice that hahaI need some guy advice can anyone help?
Ask him
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