Friday, January 8, 2010

Hi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?

Last week i was having some problems with my bf,he did not call or answer any of my calls,so now we are back again everything seem okay after i had a talk with him. did u think that he is doing all of this because he wants to save our relationship or he is just doing it to make me feel better. he did not take any of my calls did not even come to see me but i have complained everything is cool again.i know that u wouldn't understand what i am saying to u but that is the way it is. can i stress myself about the whole thing or must i wait and see what is going to happen between myself and him.





please don't be rude when answering this


kind regard.Hi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
hmm talk to each otherHi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
Hi I found this question a little confusing. But I will say this, Guys are not that complicated if they say they are ok then they usually are. We tend to think that they a like us and saying we are ok about something actually could mean a hundred different things.
wait and see
not sure what the problems were last week....but for him not to call or answer your calls...seems like he needed some breathing space*


with you being back together, perhaps he's giving you a second chance ....


whatever you did for him to STOP talking with you...DONT do that again*





goodluck*
you may want to give him a dose of indifference. One of two things should happen--1. he's doing something he shouldn't be doing and it gives him the excuse he's looking for to get out. 2. he will understand what he has and start paying better attention before he loses it forever.


Either way, you may want to start getting indifferent out of self preservation.
take each day as it comes and try 2 enjoy your self.try to give him a bit of space and let him make some effort with the relationship as well.
He is back, for now . . . you need to think about what it was that caused him to walk out in the first place. Take it easy on him for a while, your relationship is in a fragile state right now and he could easily walk out again at your first fight. Don't spend your time stressing, work on it.
Just the facts Don`t ad-lib, but is sounds as though he needs space. Ask him why, we really don`t know unless we know more. Sorry.
Be honest with him,ask him why he blanked you.
If you really like him take each day as it comes but don't do anything you will regret
I reckon you should try just not calling him. He should start to call you instead. Doing this will give him some space, which maybe what he wants.

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