Thursday, December 31, 2009

Guys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?

I am moving for college in four weeks. I have a crush on a guy who lives near the college town I'm moving to, and I met him through my sister.


We have never met in person since we live far away, but we chat every single day through Facebook.


I think he is gorgeous, and I want him to be mine.


He told me that we'll have a lot of time to meet up and hang out once I move, but I want him to notice me now, and I want to flirt with him a lot before I go.


How can I do that without being pushy, annoying, or desperate?


By the way, I have his number, too. Should I send him a flirty text even though I gave him my number first? And if so, what should I say?


And one last question: is it a good sign if he asks me a lot of questions? Like, I went to Europe last week, and he said that when I got back, I should tell him all about it, and he's always asking me about music that I like and recommends some that I should listen to.


Does that show any interest, or am I just a hopeless romantic?Guys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
If you are interested just let him know because nothing will happen if you do nothingGuys and girls, I need crush advice! 10 Points for best answer!?
I honestly am not sure If you could tell if he likes you from that. I mean if he talks to a lot about really random and pointless things but continuously talks to you... I would say there is a definite chance that he likes you. Make your facebook picture SUPER cute and flirty and from now on when you talk to him drop suttle flirty comments and see if he picks up on them. For sure try and talk to him and see if hes interested in anyone and go from there
Talking to each other is definately a good sign you see when he's asking you questions it seems to me that he is trying to get to know you more and hear about what you are doin and how everything is going.





I have a boyfriend that I've not met in person yet and well it was hard at first because we've been talking for almost 4 months now and just recently he and I started saying that we were boyfriend/girlfriend. He's moving down here in about a month or so and then we will be able to stay together





Really all I can tell you is talk to him ask him about himself like; fave color, what he likes to do for fun, ask him questions so that you will be able to know things he likes and doesn't like that will be better for now and once you get in person start flirting and all that stuff!!!





Key hear is communication, things will work themselves out and well also remember that trust is also a key aspect in any relationship. Like I trust my boyfriend sometimes he tells me things about his ex and really I don't wanna hear about her, but I love him and listen to what he says even though I sometimes tell him that I don't wanna hear about her. I still trust him though!!! I know that he's not doing anything with her!!!
Asking a lot of questions is a good thing, he wants to know more about you. Just keep talking to him, send him a text, it won't hurt to show him a little bit of how you feel :D When you get there, see him a lot, then ask him out, you need to get to know him in person first before you date him.





Good Luck :D
Firstly he isnt a possesion so he cannot be yours and if you do go out dont treat him like one. It will put him off completely.


Secondly, you have never met him in person, therefore you wont know the ';real him'; before you get to know him, face to face, because online its easier to lie
thats a good thing if hes asking questions it shows hes interested but if hes not going to get to know u now then whats wrong with this guy i say get over him hes not worth ur time
I thinnk he is interested in you. I wouldn't start flirting with text messages, and also, you should let him make the first move, always more fun =D
DO NOT rush this. You could just ruin it. Like he said you have a lot of time to hang with him when you move there. You might find out about his less admirable qualities when you start hanging out with him, and then you may not want him anymore.

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