Im really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?

well im extremly!!! extremleyyy shy! so shy that i dont talk to anyone in school, even with my closest friends i hardly talk to them during school hours.i know its mostly cause im use to being alone and just being by myself, but there is a problem that has come up and its bothering me. well cause im so quiet i look or seem intimanading(sorry bout the spelling) and that as a very BAD negative effect on finding a boyfriend. im in no rush to find a boyfriend, i know all about focusing on grades and what not. but i get great grades, and i just want to slowly improve myself so that i can kinda tell the guys at my school and myself that im here and avablive and that outside of school im pretty talkitive. :O any advice is welcome, thank you so muchIm really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
Start off with just a simple smile (not a brightly lit grin). Anyone who talks to you or says anything to you...smile and answer. When walking through school...keep your head up, shoulders back and walk with confidence...or with a purpose. Next, join a school club. Going around by yourself is going to be a tough sell to get someone to talk to you if you haven't established that part just yet. But if you join a school club...Polynesian club, drama, or even a sport...that's a pretty good way of networking yourself. Outside of school...networking is important in getting a job so many people get to know you. In your case, it can be the same thing. Once you get to know your small group/club...others outside will hear about you as well.





Try that. If it doesn't work, try another club or sport.Im really clueless in this area, anyone have any advice they could share? (form guys and girls)?
well find ppl who share your interest and if ur talkative u could try to carry a conversation and u might gain confidence








good luck i was the same execpt i was looking for a gf
im exactly like u xP im pretty shy too... but i did improve xD uhmm, well, why not talk with ur friends? as if it was just u guys? tat way, ppl notice u more and mite want to talk and be friends with u xD
Wear more revealing and stylish clothing...
Okay....hmmm your kind of like me. Well I just moved here and I have no REAL friends, plus many kids and my class can't pronounce my name.


I think you should find some riddle, that even YOU don;t know the answer of, and then ask any one of the kids in your class. Your best friend, I guess. Tell her to pass it around. Soon the whole class will be buzzing, trying to find the answer. Most kids will come to you.. to ask questions. Don't be shy, smile and tell them. Decorate your locker and make sure people get glimpses of it. Show people you are reading these famous books.


What I'm saying is, show your personaliy.What are you, other then shy? Haha you can be anything!!!


I really hope I helped.


Saleha

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