Guys and Girls please need your advice!!!?

Poll: Guys mostly but girls too What do you think?


This may be a little long if you cant bear in I will repeat what Im asking at the end so please answer. In the middle there is more details.





I met this guy online when I was younger but he lives like 3000 miles away. Across the country. Well we really fell for each other but since we lived so far apart it we decided to let each other go. Well recently (Im 22 now so is he. His bdays like 11 days before mine) I found him on myspace and we clicked once again. We found out that neither of us ever forgot the other. I finally got to go and meet him and stay with him for like a week and we love each other alot. However I had to come back home. =( It was sad I mean when he took me to the airport we were both crying and clinging to each other...


He has asked me to move in with him across the country and I said yes now we are saving up money for me to move there.


Its just really hard. He will tell me I dont call and text enough but when I do he doesnt answer back as much or he just isnt available. I know that he is a very busy active person and he always tells me he misses me and loves me and says things like, ';I cant wait til your my life'; but then he isnt available. We still talk like multiple times a day though. Except today just once. Today is his exgirlfriends bday and she doesnt have alot of friends so hes with her along with some of her friends. Shes really immature and still needs tons of help in her life so she clings to him like a freaking parasite and he feels bad for her and hangs out with her alot. Their still friends. It drives me nuts.


Do you think he really wants me to move in?





Girls what do you think?


Also I really dont show him that I get upset hes with his ex so much because I dont want to be that girl, but hes only talked to me once today I told him I'd call him on my way to work and he said that that sounded good but didnt answer. So should I text him? I havent for like 3 hours now I asked him if he was having fun and gave a little smilie. He didnt answer. Do you think hes just busy?


Guys, would you invite a girl to move across the country and move in with you if you didnt really truley love her?





I kind of like his ex gf and Im going to become friends with her because she seems like an ok person but it just ticks me off shes there and Im not right now. I also trust him. I just get sick about this all the time. =(


Guys and Girls please need your advice!!!?
I kinda went through the same thing as you..


Remember, guys need their space. It doesn't help you wanting to text him every hour. Or call him repeatedly when he doesn't reply.


Go out with some friends, keep yourself busy. Don't stop living your life and rely solely on him to make you happy.


Also, I don't think it's wise to move in with him just yet. You guys are still young and he seems to be indecidive. Visit him, get him to visit you, decide if this is really what you want. Leaving your home, friends, family is a big step and he should realise that.


In the meantime, find something to occupy you so you won't stare at your phone the entire night. :-)


Good luck, I hope things work out.


Guys and Girls please need your advice!!!?
it wont work....i know like 5 ppl who were in the same situation and a few even got married but less than a year later they all divorced and now hate each other...think about it your goin to leave everyone you know and end up having only his friends and he'll get annoyed by your always being there and youll fell like you dont have anything there nbut him...its just isnt an easy way to start a relationship...if you did move there id say get your own place and have a job or something lined up . what will you do if you break up and he just boots you out to the street and your 3000 miles from home...?



i think its not about how often you talk to each other, but the quality of your conversations. having said that, i would not myself move across the country to move in with someone unless i was absolutely sure.


you need to feel very confident before you do something like that. good luck.