Okay a few days ago me and my class went on a class trip to salem massachussets and we stayed overnight in a hotel. Every single kid that night either smoked or drinked. So basicly everyone was f***** up. Including myself because i had alot of vodka. By the way where were the teachers you say? They were totally oblivious and sitting down stairs in the lobby just hanging out and they would come up and check one in a while. So all the boys and girls were going in and out of eachothers rooms and it was fun. So anyways at one point i was looking for my friend mike and i had called this one kids room looking for him and he told me he was not there. So anyways i hung out in one of my other friends rooms for a while and all of a sudden the phone rings. My friend answers and he was like missy its for you mike is across the hall looking for you. So i go across the hall thinking that my friend mike was looking for me and i go into the room and the door shuts behind me. There were 5 guys in there and they told me that mike had left. Then all of a sudden they were like take your clothes off. And i was like wtf? i was like no im leaving..So anyways this one guy who is really hot and every girl is dying for wanted to do ****. And i was like you know what its salem its whatever. So thats where it all began i went into the bathroom with him and gave him a b*** j** and then he leaves and two more guys come in and ask for one and i was like no please let me leave im so tired let me out i dont want to do this. but of course they didnt listen and they took there d**** out and didnt listen. I was like please stop let me go but they wouldnt give up so eventually i was like you know what ill just do it so i gave another guy one and by the end of that i was exhausted and felt like a disgusting pig. Afterwards i was like okay im leaving now let me out and then they of course wouldnt let me so the hot one was all like do it to our friend louis its his birthday do it for me please just him too please and i was like no absolutely not im exhausted i am leaving so then they basicly forced me back into the bathroom and i ended up giving him one too.. I felt so horrible but i didnt know what to do i was so drunk and exhausted and to scared to say anything. So then they had the audacity to leave me alone in the room with this other kid and i was like no thats it i draw the line so after that i basicly ran out and left. The whole time that this had happened they had told me not to mention it to anyone or say anything so i didnt. I kept my mouth shut cuz i didnt want people to know. I told a few friend but they kept there mouths shut as well. But then today i find out that everyone knows about everything that had happened and everyone thinks that i am a big **** and the hot guy has a girlfriend so i am also worried on top of everything about the girlfriend finding out. Plus my rep is absolutely ruined i am now known as one of the biggest sluts ever. What should i so i feel so degraded and used and outraged. Please help this is the worst thing that could of ever happened to me. I need ALOT of advice.
KK thanks.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
Honestly, you need to get out of this crowd and straighten out. Yes, you're right. What they did was absolutely and undoubtedly wrong and disgusting, and if you feel that they were a threat to you, tell someone. However, you chose to drink that vodka. You chose to let it slip and give the first guy a bj (regardless of how hot he is, that was a bad decision), and when they asked you to do it to them too, I would have suggested that you warn them you'd scream if they wouldn't let you out, and then follow through if they advanced. Or, wait them out. They couldn't sit there forever.
At the same time, though, I wasn't there myself, so I don't know if these are the kind of guys that would literally force you down and rape you if you didn't eventually give in. If you feel they were a danger, tell. Teenage guys can be absolutely merciless. Depends on which ones, but this is unfortunately not uncommon. My friend went to a party, where a girl was left passed out on a couch with five guys, who raped her and stuck the neck of a beer bottle in her. Why she didn't press charges, I don't know.
It would be much easier to help if it'd been one party's mistake, but it wasn't. They made the bigger mistake, and were the most ethically incorrect, but recognize that you did as well. Unfortunately, because of the complexity of the situation, I really can't help.GUYS TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE!?
talk to someone that you trust about it, sorry i got nothin
learn how to hold your liquor
um go to the parents,
but u made a big mistake in the first place giving the bj,
you need to tell the truth,
if you dont it cant get alot worse,
acne treatment
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