Guys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?

Okay theres this complicated guy- moody/kind-hearted. Old school. emotional baggage from past relationships. Hides his feelings. Bit of a heartbreaker . He's older


He's a fam friend. Since last year we got really close. Ppl said he liked me alot- but since he didnt openly ask me out- i blocked it. i was scared i was falling for him ( first time) and blocked him and told someone i would never date him cos of his past and his way with women.( i was in denial) He got hurt when he heard that. I know. The gap bet us widened. Huge now we hardly ever speak besides hi and walk past. It works both ways. I pushed him into the arms of another girl ( they not dating) i think im may be losing him for good. I need to move on.but i think the ONLY way i can do this is to talk to him. Havnt spoken to him in 3 months . i think he hates me after what i said.. We never spke about it- except emailGuys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
being a mature 17, id say just speak your mind. whats on it, how you would want things to end up, how u don't want them to end up, state why you did the things you did, and be sincere. just be honest about everything you say, don't be flirty just put your meaning across and see how he takes it, also try and keep everything to a point, if you trail off and put too much info, he may pick up diff messages lol =] good luck.Guys 20/over- need your perspective/advice on this situation- ....Please?
Yes to all, tell him how you feel, as i reckon he'd feel the same. Dont lose this oppurtunity to lay it all on the line. Whats the worst that could happen, he turns you down, who cares you can get over that. But what if this turns out to be the person you are meant to grow old with?





CARPE DIEM!!!!!!! (latin for seize the day/moment)





good luck with this!
Tell him how you feel about him ( you can never go wrong doing that)
Sounds like you feel the same way about him that all the other girls do.
A little, but it sounds like you got some issues you need to work out.
A little. Leave it.
live ur dreams
You didnt say **** for 3 months, now you wanna talk about every single thing in a one meeting conversation? What are you hoping to accomplish? He's about to start dating another girl, his mind is totally elsewhere-- and soon as doing his own thing now all of a sudden you got something to say? What, are you trying to get him to drop his plans and start a new life on this new found affirmation from you? Like he's gonna go '; What, really!! Gee.'; C'mon now sweetheart, get real.
in my opinion i would keep being open with him thats the only way that you will find out if u putting your all into him means that he wants to put his all into you...if not you know that you dont need to put anymore of ur valuable time into him and find someone who will put equal time into you as you are them...





hope i helped a lil





20 Yr. Old Italian