Ok guys and gals sals needs your advice on this one!! Please give me your experience and opinion!!?

ok,so I drunkenly joined this internet dating site.Had fun chatting that night and came back to it a week or so later and had all this mail.


I started to chat to a few guys,set my profile to looking for talk/e-mail and really enjoyed chatting the lonely nights away. Always refused to chat to guys who only wanted to get off on msn and have had some amazing conversations and met some lovely people but always refused to meet.


Then I got a mail from this guy. 27yr old (I'm 21 so age isn't an issue)into all the same music as me and activities etc so we mailed back and forth then he finally asked me for my msn a couple of weeks later. We chatted pretty much every night on msn for hours at a time. Then we facebooked each other and all his pics just confirmed how I was beggining to feel bout him! His facebook is normal with normal friends etc. Then 1 day his status changed to ';not single'; that night he text me and asked to chat on msn... sorry this is so long!!Ok guys and gals sals needs your advice on this one!! Please give me your experience and opinion!!?
What IS the question????!!!Ok guys and gals sals needs your advice on this one!! Please give me your experience and opinion!!?
could it be that he has stopped looking because he thinks this could a serious relationship and wants to send you the correct message ie that he is honest and will be faithful to you ---- if thats not the question then i had fun anyway --- best wishes
serious reply. I'd be very worried about meeting a total stranger I'd met on the Internet. you do hear occasional stories in the press where 2 people have met up and thing have gone horribly wrong eg a sexual assault.


keep him as a 'net buddy
did you change it for him?


what is your question?


you should meet him somewhere it public
First of all, i don't see the big deal in giving your msn/yahoo addy to any1. It's not as if you were sharing bank accounts or giving away your house number and Address, simply cause at anytime you could block that person from disturbing you.


Even if that guy has had it all plan you won't know until you sit down wit him and have a face to face. Facial expression gives a lot away.


For all those that you sent packing surely many of them were as genuine if not more than the one you bracing yourself for!!!!


Has it sprung to your mind that sum ppl prefer instant chattin rather than wait in hope for replies of mails they sent you a week ago....


The world we livin today!!!!! you could smile at a woman in the street but yet she will find sum weird with that!!!!!!!


I just hope you don't see his latter act as a romantic gesture or i'll off myself, truly.......


Good for you if you live forever happily married at the end of this..... the all thing is just a Joke!!!!!
Ok serious answer hear, it all sounds great and looks like you both get on really well. The only problem I can see here is distance and safety when he comes to see you for this weekend. You say you live in a house share which is good, can you make sure that people are always around for that weekend?? If you go out discretly let one of your house mates know where you are going and always have your phone on you, sorry to be a bore but you have to think of these things. OK, say the weekend goes fantastic and you both really like each other, is the distance going to be a problem ?? Its something you have to think of ...... I don't thinki the way you met is a problem at all, exactly how I met my current bf. Have a lovely weekend, take precautions and enjoy !!
drunkenly... LOL whatever!
What is the question?
... Uh...
ok his so into u!!! i think he likes u because he took it nice and slow and didn't go to all of that in 1 night. that is a sure sign he is in love withe u.
by meeting in a place away from your home, where your in the open, perhaps a cafe, as it's always best to be safe, i do think however he seems kocha, but just be careful the first time, perhaps have a friend sitting nearby to look out for you.