I want to tell my friend that I like him, and I'd like to know different reactions that a guy would have when told this. Please help me!I need a guy's advice...how would you react if a girl told you she liked you?
I would feel flattered, but if the girl wasnt that great looking or had a **** personality, i wouldnt give her a second look.I need a guy's advice...how would you react if a girl told you she liked you?
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if he likes you then yall will probaly i mmeadiatly get toghether.
If he doesnt depending on his maturity level he will ignore you or tell you that he does not have feeling for you.
it wouldnt change our friendship if a girl i know told me that
ooooh! fun! let's test my acting skills!
Scenario 1:
(at cafe shop...on a rainy day: dido song playing)
You: (laughing at one of my -Bobby- jokes)
Bobby: So what did you want to tell me?
You: Oh that...the dreaded...thing. Um well I ask you over here because I havea confession to make. Don't worry I'm not a shopaholic- haha... (this is my stupid attempt on one of the dumbest filmed made, in my opinion)
Bobby: So what is it? (biting a large cookie, getting crumbs on my chin...whiping away the crumbs on my chin...)
You: Bobby...Um...Okay I'll just come out with it. I like you! I really do- (starting to talk fast) and I always have and I...I just didn't know how to tell you before...I want to tell you this one time, but I had spinach in my teeth...and you lean in to tell me, I swear I was gonna die; the closeness...I mean...(mumbling in nervousness)
Bobby: Wait, wait, wait. Calm down. (chuckles) I see...the funny thing is, I like you too.
You: Seriously? (Thanks Grey's Anatomy!)
Bobby: Yeah, I wanted to say something but...there never seems to be a good time to.
You: (hugs me -Bobby-) Wow, I'm so glad I said soemthing cause, I've been worried about this for awhile...
Bobby: Me too, it's actually like de ja vu becasue I swear I had a dream about this happening..
You: (grins) It's meant to be- Hey! There's this concernt I want to go to, want to join me?
Bobby: (Finish large cookie) Sure whose playing? ...
(Scene ends)
Scenario 2:
(at the DMV- waiting room)
You: (Chewing on a pen while filing out what seems to be a massive amount of papaer work, looks up, turns) Um, Bobby. Hey...I..I know we have known each other for a long time. We've shared so much with each other...but there's one thing I haven't told you...
Bobby: (sips some coca cola in a can from the vending machine) ...What is it? Is something wrong? If it's about you last tub of chocolate ice cream in the fridge, I'm sorry I was watching the Notebook and it was midnight, you know how I get when I have the munchies-
You: No, no- That's not it... You see...Bobby...I...I like you.
Bobby: (Pause)...(longer Pause, sips more coke)...Um, I don't know what to say.
You: Say anything.
Bobby: Sweetie- I'm gay.
You: Oh...Um..awkward. (looks back down at the massive amount of paper work)Now I feel stupid....
Bobby: Oh, no don't. Baby, don't. I'm glad you told me...I think...No, no I'm glad it took guts to say something.
You: (looks back up) You think so?
Bobby: Yeah, totally. I mean just don't pull a Jennifer on me. (laughs) (a shout out to Jenny fans from The Object of My Affection)
You: (laughs) God, it's just I've been keeping these feelings inside. And it just...had to come out.
Bobby: (basketball-toss the coca can in the recycle bin from chair) that gave me the wrong image
You: Perv!
Bobby: Just remember this, keep this fearless attitude and someday when you confess your feelings, the other guy WILL return your feelings and you'll be happy. be like that..guy, with the light bulbs...he said he never failed, he just found 100 ways how to NOT turn on a light bulb. apply that way of thinking and you'll always feel like a winner- as cheesy as it sounds.
You: ...thanks dr. phil- ill remember that. (Scene fades)
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You know you love me! Now Did I just entertain you or what.
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Depends on how much and in what way he likes you. Could be excited, nervous, confused, or even angry i suppose. Just do it. You'll have plenty of chances any way. Just another experience in life, so jump in.
I know im not a guy but if hes your friend he can either
1. be happy bc he has had a secret crush on u
2. think about how uncomfortable it would be if u guys hang out again
3. not like u at all and be thinking of away to tell you nicely and still be friends
hopefully its 1 but it might be 3 if u have been firend for a long time and always hang out
After you tell him, give him a day or two so he can absorb it. Don't look for any first time reactions. Your just putting him on the spot. He will let you know what he thinks.
excited!!! if he doesnt react right away probably he tries to act cool, but he will still be laughing
shocked..and maybe cheeky..it depends
shocked, dumbfounded, ughhs.
if he is sharing these feeling of love back to you, not just to yo back, then by all means share these shared feelings
if not it'll jsut crerat another problemo for him and you dont wanna be givin him no problemos that he has to worry about how to solve!
I would be alright.
it depends on how well you know him and if he seems like a likeable person but i say go right ahead trust me ur only hurting urself holding back
I would be thrilled because if he truely is your friend then he likes to be around you, plus it will let him know that he isn't in THE FRIEND ZONE!!!
I Would Feel Good And I Would Start A Better Relationship
Well... if I was him, and I liked you back, I would be excited to hear it. If I didn't like you back though, it would cause an awkward situation. So make sure the signs are good before you let him know, just to avoid any unpleasant situation :)
ugh, girl, dont ever make the first move.
personally, i think it should be the boys responsibility.
boys have this thing called confidence. they need that built up or they'd be the wussies in the relationship.
i know what im talking about girl; i have three big brothers.
I'd most likely be happy,
And possibly surprised!
And if I liked that girl as well I'd tell her then...
well flirting/ complements would be a good way to tell him. he's not going to get mad at least i wouldn't.
ell it depends on if he like you or not and other things he might act in shock he mighte be happy i mean you nver no every one has there own way of reacting but if you really like him you will have to jump and take a risk and see what happens
if it's a girl i have a crush on, i'd say ';really! i've always liked u too!';
one of my ex girl friends started as friends and one day she told me she liked me and she just mumble the words. she walked away as soon as she said it very fast away from me. i told her to come back and repeat what she said and she told me she liked me more than a friend. so as soon as she said that i just leaned over and kissed her, without saying anything and made out a little and we where in front of a crowed.
at that time i liked her, but she did not know about it, until she told me.
if the guy likes you. than he will be with you, if he does not move on.
i would probably go out with her if i care about that person enough. but the girl usually says in a relationship like this that it feels wierd.
it differs from person to person. had i been there, i would smile, hold ur arms, look into ur eyes for any possible hoax, %26amp; when confirmed, i would embrace u %26amp; kiss u on ur lips %26amp; say ';me too';. ohhhhh sooooooo sweet.
hmm friendship is sumthing wich is very powerful ..
i would give a 2nd thought even tough i know even i like her ...
coz in friendship there is love hidden sumwhere deep ..
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well, it is a feeling mixed with shock, flattery, and joy if he likes you back....There may be a disappointed look , if he did not expect this from you, but that doesn't not mean that he does not like you.. good luck...
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