there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 monthGuys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
9 months is tough to say on. I'm not sure if it's 9 months you've been dating or since he proposed to you. Either way, it's really not that long of a period of time. I believe that if your relationship is good and you have no other complaints, you should not worry too much about it. He may be waiting to be in a little better financial position before he's ready for marriage. There are several reasons for a long engagement. If it really bothers you and you'd like a time frame, ask him. Don't tell him you're itching to get married because you don't want to pressure him. But, ask if he's thought about an approximate time frame for the 2 of you to be married. He may just be waiting for your sign that you're ready. Good LuckGuys this one is for u!!! need your advice.?
If there has been an engagement proposed to you, then there should be talk about setting a wedding date. And the engagement ring, although not always necessary, is a strong indicator that the proposal was made in good faith and marriage is at least on the horizon. Without a date or a ring, the proposal sounds pretty empty or hollow to me. I'd start pushing for both if I were you to see if this guy is really sincere.
Years ago, my wife and I had been dating for nearly two years. She sat me down and said ';I need to know where this relationship is going. I need to know if I'm investing my time in someone else's husband.'; I got the hint and made the commitment I had been putting-off, though I knew I wanted.
I personally like honesty!!! Tell him how you feel,just like you just told me!!! If he REALLY,TRULY LOVES YOU!!!! He will open up and tell you why he hasnt moved ahead on this!!! Perhaps it is a money issue,or???? If he doesnt have an answer for you??? Then perhaps he just isnt good enough for you!!! You need to have a guy treat you LIKE YOU ARE A PRINCESS TO THEM!!!!! Dont settle for less!!! You should be number one in their life%26amp;heart!!!!
Racerx2 said it. You need to sit him down and have a come to Jesus meeting with him.
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