Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?

I found in my 39 y.o. husbands computer's that he was looking at the www.worldsexguide.com- the web site, which is as I found is web site which for hook ups all over the world and locally and also describes places you can find a hookers all over the world! He said he was just looking and never cheated on me....?! Why then even to look? We are married for 3,5 years, i am 30 y. o. and very attractive...I AM CONFUSED...i am hurt.... DO THE ALL MEN CHEAT? Should i leave him? was his act Innocent...I am lost....Pls tell ur man's point of view. thanks to all Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
all guys watch porn and go to porn sites, but that doesn't mean we cheat, this is our nature, so don't worry.


will it hurt you if you watch porn with him?...z


Dear Guys above 35 y.o.....Please advice! I am devastated! (((?
We fantasize.





It is what we do.





We enjoy viewing sex acts.





We enjoy reading about sexual activity.





Deep down we all want to be the porn star we all wished we were when we were young and attractive.





It does NOT mean we will all stray.





It does NOT mean we will all leave our partners and have affairs.





All I have typed above is how I feel....as a 40 y/o.





I love my partner, and I will never stray......but I look at porn ';meeting'; sites. I do so in front of my partner. She knows I will never stray. She trusts me.





Can you trust your husband?





If you can't, then you are half way to divorce.
























Please do not get yourself all upset. Its a minor issue.





As much as possible, marriage is for keeps. You do not leave your husband over such a minor infraction. Is your husband unkind to you? Does he beat you? Does he not support you financially and physically? If not, you are nowhere near the need to consider divorce?





You should give your trust to him unless and until you have good solid proof of his sleeping with some other woman. Focus on his good points. Enjoy his company. Be kind to him. Take care of his needs. He would have less tendency to stray from you.
Don't you ever stoll down the street and look in the shop windows.... of course you arent interested in actually buying that silly looking puppy.. but it is quite cute... just tap on the window and see if it jumps up and down.. awwwh look, it's lil tail is wagging.... oh well. Better get home I guess.





Your husband is simply day dreaming on line.
He may perform better in bed now that he can look at porn.





Unless he physically cheats, not to worry. Make sure you keep yourself attractive and not let yourself go.
almost all guys wil look at stuff like that.it doesn't mean he is cheating.
Ted B's answer is the closest....
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this
assuming he's not a complete a*s, guys will always be looking but it doesnt mean that he's doing anything.





there are some guys that for sport alone will try to get every woman they can. for the most part though, unless he's very unhappy in the marriage he probably isnt seriously seeking outside satisfaction. you know him and your situation so thats for you to determine.





dont be afraid to ask him about it and talk to him about it. if you do it in a confrontational way though he'll probably get defensive but you must let him know you are not ok with him looking at hookup sites. ask how he would react if it was you doing it.





if he was cheating and was forced to choose between you or his side dish, who would he choose? probably you, so between you and some stupid website his choice would be even more clear.