Sunday, December 27, 2009

Guys can I please get some advice on this one...?

I've been dating this guy recently and we have great chemistry and everything blah, blah, blah.... but he seems to get angry at me over little, irrational things. I'm' not a fighter so I don't really engage in any nonsense, but I hate it when things aren't okay. Last night he got angry and I'm not ever sure over what....we haven't talked today...should I pursue him (as in calling or sending a text)? I can't tell if he's the type of guy that wants me to go after him and pursue him when things aren't right or is it best to just leave him alone and if he comes around he comes around? What's the rule of thumb on this one? I don't want to chase after him if that will cause him not to respect me or think that I'm needy.... Thanks. Guys can I please get some advice on this one...?
If you can't even tell what he was mad about and he didn't tell you and isn't talking to you, then I'd say he's too immature to be in a relationship or has really bad communication skills.


Communication skills are one of the most important thing in a relationship as resolving arguments is vital to staying together. If he 'punishes' you for little things by ignoring you, then that's a block to communication. He's pretty much treating you like a dog that misbehaved rather then someone who's opinion he values. To ignore someone pretty much means you don't respect them already as you don't care about their side of the story or their opinion..


I'd drop him despite the good chemistry, it's just not worth it when someone won't talk out the problem like an adult..

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