Thursday, December 31, 2009

Guys! Im a virgin and I need some advice?

Im saving myself for the right one. but are there actually even guys that will even care about this? I really want to do it sometimes... more like all the time... I am 20 yrs old. but I just cant help but think, should I even wait? I keep having this fantasy that there is a guy that will care about me the way that I always end up caring about them. and then I find out that they dont want me bc I dont have sex with them. maybe I should just do it. :/Guys! Im a virgin and I need some advice?
Do it whenever YOU are ready. (It doesn't mean wait until marriage)Guys! Im a virgin and I need some advice?
oh god yes guys care! Don't you dare give it away because when you do, that guy will probably come into your life. I'm in the same boat as you actually. I'm 27 now and still a virgin =(. I wouldn't consider anyone who wasn't one herself either. Don't you dare do something you will regret.





Feel free to contact me if you need advice.
NO, wait for that someone special that you love and you just can't imagine NOT doing it with him!





(notice I didn't say wait for marriage) BUT make sure the person is the right person and that the location is perfect BECAUSE you only have one first time!
im 24 and married i got married when i was 19 and my now wife was a virgin when i met her and i really care for her cause she was also waiting for the right guy and i came along so their are guys that care believe it or not so just stay virgin and let the guys break up with u if its all they want and for needs i dont know im not a woman but ask a lady or something good luck with ur decision
hey! i'm 20 years old and i'm a virgin too... only i'm waiting for marriage.. you've come this far girl.... why not just keep waiting!!! it will be so much better and more special if you first time is on your wedding night. it will be more fulfilling! i can't wait until my wedding night!!! lol
I am a 21 year old virgin, and I am waiting for the RIGHT guy too (not for marriage necessarily). I am just learning not to live in fantasy land about a dream guy. By fantasizing about the dream guy, you are setting yourself up for near failure. You are looking for this perfect gentlemen and wanting him to live to all of these standards and expectations that you have dreamed up. I think it is better to just feel confident in the fact that eventually you will find him. Have your standards but fantasizing makes you delusional to reality and makes it harder to find Mr. Right.





Yes waiting is a *****, but I think when the right guy comes along, he is going to appreciate it.
I know I'm not a guy, but I don't think you should do it just because of fear of a guy not wanting you because of it. if that is the case, then they are definitely the wrong guy. there are guys out there who care about that. A friend of mine saved herself for marriage, and didn't get married until she was 30! but her now husband didn't mind, and they've been together for 7 years. he waited for her, and the right one will wait for you.
dont wait for the right guy he will come along eventually, you just have to be patient....i plan on waiting for the right one too even though im a guy, trust me you will find someone who will see you for you and not just some sex object.
Honey, yes there are guys out there who are willing to wait. And when you find him imagine how much more special it will be to you. If guys don't like you because of that, then you know they only wanted you for one thing. Stick to your guns!
you shouldn't do it for them you should do it with the guy you love. Don't let them pressure you into it do it when you're ready and the time is right.

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