Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Guys and Gals I need your advice, please!!!!?

There is this guy that I have been knowing since high school and we have been good friends since then but we did loose contact for awhile and went seperate ways... I just recently went out with him to the movies and I had a great time with him. I want to pursue something but I don't know how I should approach him with this... any ideas?? I think he likes me but I'm not sure.... what should I do?Guys and Gals I need your advice, please!!!!?
As a guy with old crushes from highschool, as anyone else- I think it's kind of romantic! I would honestly play the card, and I mean by that enjoy time with him because people change and he may not be the same guy and shouldn't be the same guy in highschool as he is now! But if patience isn't your virtue- be honest and out there if your expectations are simple and quick then lay it out there! But becarefull not to scare him because we (guys) are scared easy when it comes to women- most of the time we want fun and game meaning dates, moments, memories, and of course sex more than we want comitment, devotion, and marriage- that's for the most part- so overall be honest and just enjoy his company and wait for where it leads! That's my opinion I hope it helps!Guys and Gals I need your advice, please!!!!?
well, just ask him out again.. see where that goes... go have some lunch or dinner... somewhere you both can sit and chat..
Ray T you shouldnt have even commented...





Any way you need to just ask him what he thinks of you and ask him if anything can go further than just friendship...I know its harder than what is sound but give it a try.
just tell him straight up
If this is recent - let your friendship grow for now. It could develop into something later on. Be his friend for now though.
just give him a little kiss
Can I return your kind gesture you and I go out to the movies again. I'd like to catch up with you how about meeting for lunch or a coffee.
just ask him out...i know most girls dont like to ask people out but i know alot of guys who like it includin me
say something before you loose him ...... make a move
Call him, set up another date.





GO out with him some more, and reaquaint again.





Just start hanging out more, and talking to him more.





Then tell him straight up that you have feelings for him.





Wait to tell him, because after losing contact for a while you might seem clingy or desperate. . .but thats my opinion.
just go for it and tell him





u were friends, so you obviously know eachother but now that u have lost touch for a while, maybe u could bring up some new chemistry that u never saw before....
I really think you should just say i like you and would like more out of this then just a friendship. coming out and saying just how you feel . that way he knows you are a confedent person who knows what she wants.
Just tell him!!!
Why dont you say that you had fun seeing the movie with him and that you want to see another one (Bucket List great movie... I cried at the end) with him sometime soon...





27 Dresses was good too but The Bucket List was really really good. Nat. Treasure Book of Secrets (if thats still playing) was a good one but not a romance one.
Tell him straight up, or hint to him.
ease into it, go out a few more times, ask him to go to dinner, or maybe another movie, ease into it if you seem to pushy he may back off, or he may just say he loves you too, it all depends on the guy and his feelings
Say something so you dont lose a great opportunity!
Go out with him a few more times then ask him if he thinks you and him could ever be more than friends. Let him know that you enjoy his friendship and wouldn't want to do anything to ruin it. My sister was in a similar situation and after they got to know each other again she said something to him about it. He appreciated her asking after they discussed things they ended up just being Really Good Friends for the next 9 years until he passed away from a brain tumor. They had known each other throughout school.


He valued their friendship and told her he didn't want to loose it because he wasn't the type of guy that stayed with one girl long.
Go after what you want, ask him to go somewhere else. Don't wait for him to make the first move.
How did your date end? Did he seem to indicate that he might want another date? I'm old fashioned, but I think the ball is in his court. If he likes you, he'll let you know.
Ask him out. Guys love that.
Ask him to go out again, that is what my husband and I started doing, pretty soon we were with each other everyday, then one night while watching TV he leaned over and kissed me and before you know it we were moving in together and getting married.





We also knew each other in High School and reconnected later.
r u the type that waits 4 things 2 happen


well if u r then don't


go 4 it


kiss him next time u guys go out


call him on the phone n ask him out


make him know that u like him n wnat things 2 go deeper
Well.. don't play games.. if u wanna call him.. then just call.. don't be too forward or u'll scare him off.. give him the little signs.. always..i mean ALWAYS be cute when u see him.. don't go overboard but make sure he notices you.. and just be a good friend.. guys always love the person they can come to for advice
i usually spend time keepin intouch, but no obviously. ask questions and be sarcastic. after a while such moments will come and jus ask in a weird way so if he doesnt like u back u dont look like an idiot
tell him how you feel! ask him if he is interested in going forward! Good Luck!
gosh give it time before you do something he'll know you like him and things could get better but hey wait awhile and then it will maybe cme naturally.
be honest tell him
ask him out again see what evolves
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