Sunday, December 20, 2009

Guys answer please. i need your advice. please answer me. i really need help?

well,hi. i like this guy. he was like my best guy friend. and then i got this HUGE crush on him. everyone figured it out, but him. they even told him but he didnt believe them.(i am so mad they told him! well, next year, hes going to a different school. on our last day, i cried after he left. i thought we had a chance, cause we went to the last dance together. i am afraid to call him, too awkward! i probably wont ever see him again. help! i dont know if some one told him what happened after he left. i was walking around in tears saying, hes gone... over and overGuys answer please. i need your advice. please answer me. i really need help?
Just ring him and be very very BOLD about it, don't play mind games, we hate that.





If you want to say it in person then tell him to meet you alone somewhere private, and tell him then.





But don't go over the top that's just going to creep him out and make you look crazy.





So be casual about it.





Edit: ugh... your in the rebound situation.. you have to wait quite a while till he's either with someone else out of 'withdrawal syndrome' (usually a short relationship) or until he's completely forgotten about his ex.





Edit2:


Call him say hi its me, just wondering if you'd like to catch up at %26lt;place%26gt;, if not when could i catch up with you?


then go from there. possible places are movies, beach (depending where you live and the climate) etc.Guys answer please. i need your advice. please answer me. i really need help?
just relax, say hi, don't worry i been through this too, so take my words for advice.

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yep he's gone and you didn't get his email address to keep in touch call him stammer through the whole embarrassing call until you blurt out the part about loving him and tell him that the best of love can only be built upon the very best of friendships and you hate the idea of not being able to see and talk to him everyday. then shut up and see what he says. if he has similar feelings he'll tell you, if he doesn't! breathe in breathe out, move on
If you really like him. Why miss up on the opportunity of love? I'd call him and let him know. Maybe he had a crush on you too and when people told him he didn't believe them b/c it was too good to be true. I'd most def call him. He might feel the same way for you ! GET OFF OF YOUR COMPUTER AND CALL HIM NOW!!!! lol
when i was in high school my best girl friend i had a huge crush on and she on me i never did anything because i was scared i did not think she liked me like that eventhough everyone told me.


i wish she would have did something


so now i tell you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!
I think you might be watching to much O.C. or what ever show is big these days with ';high school' drama. Hes going to a different school, theres not a whole lot you can do. Just call him. What are you afraid of?


Good Luck
Here, I'll let my brother answer this one:





';he must like u. if he doesnt believe that u like him its because he thinks that ur too good for him, probably; and he's afraid to admit it. i think he'd like it if you called him. its better then nothing, what do you have to lose?';
You only live one life, so you need to live it to it's fullest! (sooo cheesy)


Even if you tell him how you feel and he completely rejects you, you'll probably never see him again anyway.
move on. its not like he's the only guy in the world. if you and him are meant to be things will work out, but until they do, you need to forget about him
its kinda dramatic.. lol... but hey if u miss him so much take the initiative to call him or text him or do u have his email . just talk to him and ask him out. theres no use crying without doing anything.
I am sorry to hear that.





Not sure if there is a question in there.





But I would just call him to see what's up. That can't hurt.
If he's your best guy friend, then it's only natural to call him. :]


Keep in touch! He could be switching phone numbers for all we know.
I would just call him if I were you , it can't hurt as much as not calling him does , he will most likely be very glad to hear from you. good luck !
Just Express yourself show your love and tell them that you love him.
trust me never ever like a good friend.
tell him you love.











what have you got to lose?





absoloutely nothing
The first thing to do is to establish some sort of shrine to him that you can go to when you are feeling down. I suggest clearing out your closet and using that. Paint a mural of you and he on the wall and tape all the pictures you have of him around it. Whenever possible have sweet smelling candles burning in there. If he wore cologne get the kind he used and spray it on your pillow so you can be sure to think about him while you sleep. You should also get a tattoo of his name in a very visible place so everyone can see just how much you love him.





The last suggestion is to convince him to send you a full plaster cast of his body. That way you can buy clothes and stuff for it and sleep with it. maybe he will send you some of his hair so you can make it really lifelike.

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