Guys and girls I need relationship advice?

So for Vday my serious bf went all out and spoiled me. He got me roses, diamond earrings, and took me out to a really nice dinner. I of course wanted to do something for him so I bought lingerie.. and you get the drift.. but then shortly after he told me about the male version of Vday which is March 14th- steak and bj day. I looked it up and sure enough it is a real day but obviously not very well known. We kind of joked about it and I just forgot about it.





Yesterday was March 14th and we had plans to hang out. I took him out for dinner and then we went back to his place and watched a movie. We were cuddling and he seemed upset so I asked him what was wrong.. he just sighs and tells me that he was kind of disappointed because he had high expectations for the day. I was confused and then he brought of up steak and bj day... I was really annoyed and hurt. The fact that he expected it really bothered me. It also bothered me that apparently me taking him out to dinner and just hanging out with me wasn't enough. Then I started to feel guilty.. like a good gf would have known to celebrate this ';fake'; holiday because he went all out on v-day.





So i'm torn between being mad at him and feeling really bad. Any input?? Sorry it's so long.Guys and girls I need relationship advice?
you may just need to explain you werent sure what he was expectating