oook so i like this guy
i knew him n i sorta thought we were going out but i wasnt sure
and so about after 2 weeks of knoing him he got a gf
she don't go to our school
wenever i talk to him hes tellin me he likes me
and he kisses me at school n he likes me
so what should i do??
i mean he knos i like him and i kno he likes me ....?Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
I'd ditch him. He sounds like a lead and follow kinda guy who cheats. (obvioulsy)
Tell him no kishes or naythign til ya be datin ^_^Guys answer? or girls hah idc i just need advice!?
The question should be what do you really want? Since he has a gf, and he kisses you is that all u want? I know the desire to have or kiss someone u like but if he really wants u he has to decide on his own without kissing u. Unless u just want a play... all the best
he has a girl and you shouldnt let him kiss you. hes a playa!!
hes trying to be a player. forget about him. hes a hoe.
ehhh, idk !
if he kisses you at school, then he must like you.
are you sure he really has a girlfriend ?
maybey he's just saying it to make you jealous, because guys can be kind of weird like that :D
make him choose you or her
first of all, not to be rude.. you should have a LOT more pride than letting a taken guy kiss you. sure you both like each other, but be responsible and mature about it! if you get together with him, chances are, he's not gonna break up with his gf for you. and if he does, what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you?
if he has a gf then stop, or your a cheater, and if you want him, tell hem he has to dump his gf!
WELL IF HE HAS A GURL AND KISSES YOU JUST THINK IF YOU WAS HIS GURL WHAT WOULD HE DO BEHIND YOUR BACK....THINK ABOUT IT YOU MAY NOT WANT OR NEED HIM
Maybe he is trying to make you jealous. Ask if he has any pictures of him and his girlfriend. Try to be discrete. Otherwise, he's just playing you. move on. Sorry
i agree with danielle
it sounds to me like he cant make up his mind and you should stay well out of his way
imagine if you were his g/f how you would feel?
Friday, April 30, 2010
Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
so a few years ago i had a friend who had this boyfriend but i never really knew him they had gone out fo 3-4 years,it wasnt till august of 07 that i met him, i went over his house to hang out with his girlfriend.i was there the whole day,but didnt talk to him.then out of no where he started txtn me.w got to know each other over a few days then he started telling me that things werent the same with his girlfriend that she had changed and all of this nonsense.then he told me they broke up, so then we started txtn alot more often,we started hanging out every other day with other friends. and i guess i fell for him. i started to like him more every day.and he liked me so he asked me out and i said yes.we started going out by the end of september(07). i didnt think it would go very far with his ex being my friend and all but it did,we didnt tell her we were going out. but he still talked to her and i guess saw her every once in a while but i didnt mine because like i said i ddnt thnk it would go far.then through out the weeks i wasnt liking these occasional phone call, and i told him to stop them he agreed but turns out he was lying this went on for a while so i made him choose between me or her. he chose me he said he loved me and he didint wanna loose me.so i forgave him.
Later in 2008 around march or april i found out i was pregnant. things seemed fine no sighns of him talking to her we went out all the time and we had fun everywhere we went..later in july i moved in with him and his parents. but i never came out of his room because gis dad was always yelling at me and he's verry rude.so i would stay in his room cleaning it i would wash his clothes and organize his things.then he started acting different he would hide his phone he would go to hs email only while i was sleeping and he would go to work 2 hours early and come back 3 hours late..around june his ex called his parents and told them she was pregnant with his baby..i kept asking him about it but he denyed it.i tryed staying away from any negativity becaus i was pregnant i tryed not to stress so much..later in november,.she called and told me hat her baby was his and that hes been talking to her since he fond out and sh even let me listen to all these msges he left her,..listening to those msges broke me in a million pieces...that same night he admitt to it all. he got her pregnant a mnth before me. he said he ddnt mean to get her pregnant and that he did it because of some stupid little thing i had done....';i got drunk and kissed a guy'; he said that that night i got drunk i past out in his bed and while i was sleeping he went to his exs house........so anyways we got into it and i told him i was gonna leave him and he wasnt ever gonna meet his baby but his mom asked me to stay and work things out if we really loved eachother so i stayed it took so much to forgive him but i did it..
she had her baby on december 06 and because i was so stressed out the docter had to induce labor and i had it on the 20th of the same mnth. im still living with him and i have a beautyfull baby girl. but i dnt trust him and thngs arent the same, he acts so much different but i still love him s much. he was my first real boyfriend, he was my first everything...but i dont know whwt to do should i go and loose all contact with him or should i stay and try and get over it i dont know please help me with some verry verry good advice pple...please i would really really appreciate it thank you.
SORRY IF ITS SUPER *** LONG!
P.S PLEASE NO MEAN COMMENTS OR PUT DOWNS.Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
sounds like he played you from day one. i know it will be hard to leave him being he was your first love and with a baby but you need to put your baby first now and think of what kind of life you and him will offer her. she will be more stable if you raise her yourself. trust is a big part in a relationship. i also think you should not have hid your relationship from your friend. i think that was mistake #1. unless he makes big changes i would leave. it's not healthy for the baby to see fighting all the time and for you to be stressed out. best of wishes for you and your baby girl!!
Later in 2008 around march or april i found out i was pregnant. things seemed fine no sighns of him talking to her we went out all the time and we had fun everywhere we went..later in july i moved in with him and his parents. but i never came out of his room because gis dad was always yelling at me and he's verry rude.so i would stay in his room cleaning it i would wash his clothes and organize his things.then he started acting different he would hide his phone he would go to hs email only while i was sleeping and he would go to work 2 hours early and come back 3 hours late..around june his ex called his parents and told them she was pregnant with his baby..i kept asking him about it but he denyed it.i tryed staying away from any negativity becaus i was pregnant i tryed not to stress so much..later in november,.she called and told me hat her baby was his and that hes been talking to her since he fond out and sh even let me listen to all these msges he left her,..listening to those msges broke me in a million pieces...that same night he admitt to it all. he got her pregnant a mnth before me. he said he ddnt mean to get her pregnant and that he did it because of some stupid little thing i had done....';i got drunk and kissed a guy'; he said that that night i got drunk i past out in his bed and while i was sleeping he went to his exs house........so anyways we got into it and i told him i was gonna leave him and he wasnt ever gonna meet his baby but his mom asked me to stay and work things out if we really loved eachother so i stayed it took so much to forgive him but i did it..
she had her baby on december 06 and because i was so stressed out the docter had to induce labor and i had it on the 20th of the same mnth. im still living with him and i have a beautyfull baby girl. but i dnt trust him and thngs arent the same, he acts so much different but i still love him s much. he was my first real boyfriend, he was my first everything...but i dont know whwt to do should i go and loose all contact with him or should i stay and try and get over it i dont know please help me with some verry verry good advice pple...please i would really really appreciate it thank you.
SORRY IF ITS SUPER *** LONG!
P.S PLEASE NO MEAN COMMENTS OR PUT DOWNS.Guys and girls please help with good and strong advice i really really need it.PLEASE.?
sounds like he played you from day one. i know it will be hard to leave him being he was your first love and with a baby but you need to put your baby first now and think of what kind of life you and him will offer her. she will be more stable if you raise her yourself. trust is a big part in a relationship. i also think you should not have hid your relationship from your friend. i think that was mistake #1. unless he makes big changes i would leave. it's not healthy for the baby to see fighting all the time and for you to be stressed out. best of wishes for you and your baby girl!!
Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
ok there is this guy ...i sorta like him, anyways he like randomly comes and hugs me ...always teases me and yeah and my best friend told me ages ago that she told him ooo u have a mayor crush on her and he was like ...uhmm and he said like o shes hot...so when my friend told me i was like ok theres another jerk ...but his been really nice to me and i really like him now and my friend told me today that he had asked her to like help him out with me or somthing like that and that he had told her that he really likes me not just how i look but that we had alot incommon and that he really liked how i was and stuff....but then he had told her naa joking
and then in class he comes sits next to me and we are talking about how im vegetarian and stuff lol ...then he grabs my arm and goes hey liss do u want to be with me ...(and im like hahah funny )...and his like lol im joking ...and yeahhh i now like him ...but idk ...is it all just a joke to him or does he like me more than a friend???
and soz ..im from spain ..but i thought i would ask this in inglish so yeah sorry about my spelling and stuff =S
im 15 btw
thanks=DGuys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
He'd prob being serious, but pretending to joke in case you reject him. Then he can be like 'I was only joking anyway' and save his ego.Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
seems like he likes you but he's not being direct to you. he says it in a tactic way really tricky. he's risking it and asked........... and if he sees anything being wrong he says it was just a joke. you should try looking into his eyes when he talks to you.
hes just saying just joking and stuff as a back up in case you said no.
If you said yes, he would have been happy
but since you laughed him off, he decided to say JUST JOKIINNNGG as an excuse for looking dumb.
i think he does but he is just affraid to show his feelings, have your friend go up to him and me like, my friend likes you alot and she wants to go out but she doesnt know if you like her
ohhh... if he keeps saying just kidding he's a jerk!! just ask him if he likes you for REAL or just go upt o him one day and say ';hey (whatever his name is ) wanna come over today?......(wait till he answers..) then say JUST KIDDING!! and see what his reaction is...:) good luck
i think its a joke and its not worth wasting your time. hes making fun of you because he knows you like him. meeean. find a nice guy who KNOWS he likes you and isnt playing around.
I think he likes you... Tomorrow when you see him be like....
Grab his arm and go hey ';whatever his name'; do you want to be with me? I';m not joking....
yes he likes you for sure, he joked wayyyy too much that he liked you, that already gives it away, TELL HIM!!!!
he def likes you, he is just pretending it is a joke to protect himself from getting hurt.
he is asking you jokingly to see what you will say
yes of course we do. when guys get older (25+) some of them mature. some stay kids.
and then in class he comes sits next to me and we are talking about how im vegetarian and stuff lol ...then he grabs my arm and goes hey liss do u want to be with me ...(and im like hahah funny )...and his like lol im joking ...and yeahhh i now like him ...but idk ...is it all just a joke to him or does he like me more than a friend???
and soz ..im from spain ..but i thought i would ask this in inglish so yeah sorry about my spelling and stuff =S
im 15 btw
thanks=DGuys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
He'd prob being serious, but pretending to joke in case you reject him. Then he can be like 'I was only joking anyway' and save his ego.Guys helpp???? do u take anything seriously?? and girls advice too?
seems like he likes you but he's not being direct to you. he says it in a tactic way really tricky. he's risking it and asked........... and if he sees anything being wrong he says it was just a joke. you should try looking into his eyes when he talks to you.
hes just saying just joking and stuff as a back up in case you said no.
If you said yes, he would have been happy
but since you laughed him off, he decided to say JUST JOKIINNNGG as an excuse for looking dumb.
i think he does but he is just affraid to show his feelings, have your friend go up to him and me like, my friend likes you alot and she wants to go out but she doesnt know if you like her
ohhh... if he keeps saying just kidding he's a jerk!! just ask him if he likes you for REAL or just go upt o him one day and say ';hey (whatever his name is ) wanna come over today?......(wait till he answers..) then say JUST KIDDING!! and see what his reaction is...:) good luck
i think its a joke and its not worth wasting your time. hes making fun of you because he knows you like him. meeean. find a nice guy who KNOWS he likes you and isnt playing around.
I think he likes you... Tomorrow when you see him be like....
Grab his arm and go hey ';whatever his name'; do you want to be with me? I';m not joking....
yes he likes you for sure, he joked wayyyy too much that he liked you, that already gives it away, TELL HIM!!!!
he def likes you, he is just pretending it is a joke to protect himself from getting hurt.
he is asking you jokingly to see what you will say
yes of course we do. when guys get older (25+) some of them mature. some stay kids.
Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
OK, so me %26amp; this guy are (buddies) u know what i mean. So he moved to TX at the end of Dec. So have been having phone relations, and the other night he called %26amp; he had been drinking and I was in that state of sleep where you feel like your drunk and dont really know what you are saying and i said ';I have heard stories about you.......and this person is sketchy'; and he is like what gives you the right to call anyone sketchy and I said everyone has the right to call ppl sketchy and he was like no they dont. and then I said something else that I do not remember and he got pi**ed off and said ';Find someone else to be with. We are not doing anything again';. This has happened b4, %26amp; he forgot. But he is comming into town in 2 weeks and I just want to uhh umm well you know and then he can go away. I texted him and appologized the next day %26amp; then tonight I sent a dirty text %26amp; he didnt respond either time. IS IT OVER? or what do I need to say to get him to forgive me? He is a VERY VERY complicated guy-he never lets anyone in or lets anyone hurt him that is why we dont date anymore we are just buds. thanks!!Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
He sounds like me. Exactly like me actually.
Well if he is anything like me he's a very troubled when it comes to relationships and therefore has problems staying in a committed relationships. If your just trying to get busy with him though i'm sure he'd be fine with that. (he is a guy after all)Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
talk to him. Ask him about it. Guys are confusing but If U sit down and listen they will tell you stuff. That may hurt you but its good for you to hear. Don't say anything till he's finished. Just nod or say yeah or make sounds so he knows you are listening.
Its happened to me with one of my friends. We just had like a heart to heart. if u can put it that way.
Hope I helped
talk to him about it. thats the best way instead of being confused and unguided, talk it out with him and get everything on the table and come up with a solution, i promise everything will work out for the better, take care
move on.
He sounds like me. Exactly like me actually.
Well if he is anything like me he's a very troubled when it comes to relationships and therefore has problems staying in a committed relationships. If your just trying to get busy with him though i'm sure he'd be fine with that. (he is a guy after all)Guys I am a woman who needs some relationship advice?
talk to him. Ask him about it. Guys are confusing but If U sit down and listen they will tell you stuff. That may hurt you but its good for you to hear. Don't say anything till he's finished. Just nod or say yeah or make sounds so he knows you are listening.
Its happened to me with one of my friends. We just had like a heart to heart. if u can put it that way.
Hope I helped
talk to him about it. thats the best way instead of being confused and unguided, talk it out with him and get everything on the table and come up with a solution, i promise everything will work out for the better, take care
move on.
Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
I went out with this guy for our first date on Tuesday. he hasn't called until now. do u guys prefer to wait a few days like 3 days before u call the girl?
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank u.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
well typically most guys do not want to seem TOO interested because then it makes them look desparate. If he likes you he probably wanted to call you the next day but was just unsure if you felt the same way. The only way to find out for sure is ask. If he likes you he will tell you. You can then also tell him how you feel about it all and hopefully you will be able to avoid this with him again. Good Luck
I need your honest opinions. Thanks.
I know I posted this before but I need more answers. Thank u.Guys: IS THIS NORMAL??10 points for ur advice! I appreciate it!!!?
well typically most guys do not want to seem TOO interested because then it makes them look desparate. If he likes you he probably wanted to call you the next day but was just unsure if you felt the same way. The only way to find out for sure is ask. If he likes you he will tell you. You can then also tell him how you feel about it all and hopefully you will be able to avoid this with him again. Good Luck
Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She's asking how to get them to stop staring and hitting on her and stuff w/out being rude.
How would you react? Mad? Think she doesn't like you?Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She views you as a friend. If you get mad at her, you'll only confuse her.Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
Don't flirt back. If she comes to me like that, my best guess is that I'm on her good side and doesn't mind me talking to her.
i would think she looks at me as a friendburts bees
How would you react? Mad? Think she doesn't like you?Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
She views you as a friend. If you get mad at her, you'll only confuse her.Guys, if a girl you like asked you for advice on how to deal with men flirting with her?
Don't flirt back. If she comes to me like that, my best guess is that I'm on her good side and doesn't mind me talking to her.
i would think she looks at me as a friend
Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
I have a friend that I have really liked for a long time and one night we both got drunk and ended up in bed together. Now I dont know if he even remembers that night. I have wanted this guy for a REALLY long time and not just in the sex want either. Have I wrecked my chance because I did sleep with him? If not, where do I go from here without making it seem like Im being clingy or making the situation awkward?Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
When people are friends and you throw the sex thing it changes the relationship in many different ways. There is no longer a barrier from stopping you from going there again. Tell him your feelings and go from there. Don't send him mixed messages it only makes things difficult. I am sure he will understand.Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
Go for him...
I would be happy if that happened for me..
When people are friends and you throw the sex thing it changes the relationship in many different ways. There is no longer a barrier from stopping you from going there again. Tell him your feelings and go from there. Don't send him mixed messages it only makes things difficult. I am sure he will understand.Guys: I slept with a friend and I dont know where to go from here. Advice?
Go for him...
I would be happy if that happened for me..
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