Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?

What does a girl have to be like, as in her personality, for a guy to really like her?


What do guys find really attractive in a girl that makes them truly fall for her?


Would guys rather have a long relationship with a hott girl or a beautiful girl who has respect for herself?





I'm basically looking for an answer that would tell me how a girl has to be so that a guy would not only find her attractive but give her and the people that she knows respect and would do anything to be with her.





?Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
beauty is only skin deep that fades and dies out in time but it is the pure essence of a meek and subtle soul that earns respect and much precious than diamonds and gold.That's what I long to behold.Guys, plzzzz read thisss... I need your advice!?
Rule 1: Don't be a egocentric princess!





Guys like different things, but no guy wants the example above. Be a cool and content person, if people actually like to be around you (not your gossip friends) you should be good.

Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?

i have this problem where just when i think a guy is gonna ask me out he stops flirting and flirts with other girls,,im getting so sick of it,,ive never really had this problem until this year, usaully theres one guy who flirts and then he would eventually ask me out but this year ive had a couple guys that i thought liked me but then they moved on,,its making me sad cuz the guy i like right now is doing this and i like him more then ive ever liked a guy b4,usaully im really good about moving on when a guy is being dumb but i cant seem to do that with him,,any advice to what i should do about this problem =(Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
well ask urself this what are u doing thats causing him to do this. ok i like this girl but she is really mesing things up right now everytime i try to ask her out she walks away or stays near her friends and well im not losing interest cause i care about her too much to do that. but if ur doing what this girl is doing stop it. cause then this guy won't even ask u out if thats what u want.Im tired of guys making me confused and sad,guys and girls i need ur advice please?
Maybe you aren't responding to their flirting? Check yourself girl do you seem taken or angry all the time? I don't think the dudes would stop liking you if you smiled at them once in a while.
Well. From my point of View,, You shouldn't worry about all the other guys flirting with you and just focus on the guys u Really Like,, Guys can be JERKS! Trust me i know that from expirience, and all they want is ur Bod, (rolled eyes) Us girls think that the guys are sending us singals until u see them with other chicks,, So i wuldn't worry about em... Just Like i said focus on THE ONE.
WELL...JUST CAUSE YOU THINK HE IS GONNA ASK YOU OUT DONT MEEN HE IS...THATS WHAT YOU THINKK...ITS NOT LIKE HE HAS TO FLIRT WITH YOU!!:]
maybe ur making it too easy... this should give you a little harder shell, and will help you in the future, so forget the guy for now, and who knows he could c ome to you later!
omg the same thing happened to me


wat i did was i told him that i still liked him but i didnt like the way he was treating me and using every girl and changing who he likes everyday


i told him that if he keeps that up people will stop liking him
I would ignore the flirting, if you are being an attentive audience then they will lose interest because you seem so easily entertained. See how this works. Also, be confident within yourself instead of getting it from them flirting with you.
eat chocolate and icecream


always makes me feel better
try going for him and just try flirting with him and see what he does and when he flirts play it up and go along with it completely!!





good luck!
confront him, don't wait til' the guy asks you out. And also, guys are jerks like that. They want a variety of girls. If he really loved you the way you love him, then he would have stuck with you. He shouldn't go out flirting with a bunch of girls. That is one of my biggest pet peeves (I spelled that wrong).
he's not worth it. if he doesn't see you that way than maybe he's just not the one. move on just like you have before. the right guy will come. hopefully.
My suggestion is to go for it. you will be living in this world of sad if you dont do anything. If you are a shy type, drop hints and make sure other girls don't get in your way. Oh one thing dont act different from yourself that would be the worst thing that you could do.

Guys this is 2 you girls give advice please i need help!!!!<3?

how can i get a guy who is your friend to like you. he goes to my school. hes a new kid who always is nice. almost everytimes hes happy to see me. i need 2 know does he like me. if not how can i get him 2 see me as a great girlfriend not just a friend.Guys this is 2 you girls give advice please i need help!!!!%26lt;3?
tell him how u feel and he might take the bait lol

HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?

Im in college. I went to get ice cream with a girl i didnt know and we talked for almost two hours. She IMed me when I got back and said she had a good time and wanted to hang out again. I called her and asked her out to dinner and she said yes. I really like this girl and I have lost girls by moving too slow in the past. Would it be ok for me to kiss her goodnight on the lips on this second date? Girls would you be offended if that happened to you?HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
Definantly not offended. To me it sounds like she is interested. You'll be able to tell if she is into it or not at the end of the night and then just go in for the kill. If she turns you her cheek dont be offended she just may want things to go slower and not kiss on the first date ( i wouldnt count the first one but i guess you could) Good Luck!!!HELP! I NEED ADVICE! Girls would you be offended? Guys is this ok to do?
See how it feels it she is pulling away a bit then no dont, but if you arent sure then go for it you can always just adjust and go for the cheek if you need to at the last minute.
well dude..you just have to watch how she acts with you...
She's not the other girls you dated. She called you so obviously she likes you or you have a really rich uncle you don't know about that is about to leave you a massive inheritance.
First, she has to be your girlfirend before you can kiss her.
it depends on the person,the 2nd date is to soon for some,just let things happen naturally,if you want to kiss her on the 2nd date do it on the cheek and then wait and see if she makes the next move,good luck
no i wouldnt be offended
Well, it really depends of how she feels about u, but lots of girls hate it when u ask them if it's ok. U kinda have to go with ur gut on this
if her body language says she likes you, then the green light is on. if her body language says ';stay away'; or ';yikes!'; then the big red light is on. good luck and be sensitive to her cues.
sure, kiss her so long as she's OK with it.
No I wouldn't be offended. If the night went great just ask her if its ok first or if she would like to take it slower. Every relationship is different.
I think you're going the other extreme now. I would be totally creeped out by a guy who tried to kiss me on the lips on the second date. Why not a lingering kiss on the cheek? Lips is just too full on.
ummm listen to what she says and if she drops hints bring up the kiss later in the night and keep making her interested go in for the kiss then if she pulls away simply hug her and tell her goodnight and let it go from there
maybe. it depends on how the night went...
when the girl herself wants another date then she'll surely love to have the kiss. go ahead best of luck.
I would. I've kissed girls on the day I've met them. Get it Beaux!
First of all, welcome to America!





I don't know which of the ';old countries'; you're from, but kissing on the second date is not considered too forward in the States! We do many socially advanced things here now. For example, we let women drive cars and shop in the same malls as men. Sometimes, we even let our women ask us men out on dates!!!!





So, in summation, go for it! Give her a big ol' ';How Do You Do?'; on the smacker...she just might like it! But, be sure to pick the corn out of your teeth first.





Good luck!
I would certainly appreciate if the boy has done it to me. If you are in love and serious about her, please go ahead.
A true love will naturally develop. You will know when it is the right moment is. Avoid movies because that can make a uncomfortable feeling. You can't talk and silence can be very loud, if you catch my drift. You will do fine. Everyone gets the jitters, even her.
Its a must! Its like that sond by Cher.. 'the shoop-shoop song' (dont ask how I remembered the name of that song!). Anyway the best way to tell if someone loves you is in the kiss. You will know if its ok to take it further from there!
be straight up with her, tell her how much you like her and how you would like to kiss her
nah man just pull her towards you, if u feel like shes pulling away dont, but if she isnt then go for it
She obviously likes you. kiss her. I'd be ready to receive a kiss on the first date if I really like the guy.


But I suggest that throughout the date, you hold her hand.


This primary physical contact with prepare her to receive your kiss at the end of the night.
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  • Not really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)

    Ok, so.. I have a lesbian friend with benefits kinda person, and I was really down on my luck and needed some help. So, she loaned me $75.00 worth of her food stamps so that I could buy groceries to take a lunch to work until I got my first paycheck. Well, a rental assistance place was supposed to help me with my rent as well so that I didn't get evicted, but it never came. So my landlord threatened eviction. So, that's where my paycheck went..to pay part of my rent balance. The next check, the same thing to catch up on rent. So, anyway, this girl calls me at work when I'm extremely busy and starts asking where her money is. I explain the situation with the rent and tell her I don't have it right now, but I will get it to her. She wants $75.00 in CASH so that she can go to gay pride in Austin.


    I don't think this is fair, because for one, she gave me food stamps, NOT cash. and 2) the ';money'; I borrowed from her, HAD to be used on food. I dont' think I should give her cashNot really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
    I agree with Death and Goldwing...





    I never borrow money, but I have lent people money and never seen it again (it's usually been larger amounts like $300) speaking of...if anyone knows Andre, aka dre' please lt me know LOL..





    I see both sides of the situation, she wants back what she loaned, and you had to pay your rent...although she did not loan you cash which is extremely different.





    I would do like Death said...Not really GLBT related, but a ';what would you do'; kinda question..need advice (and I like you guys)
    Okay, im so sorry that i dont have any good advice about this because im awful at trying to get people to pay me back for loans i give out. I just dont like pressing them for it. But i just had to LMAO@Wickey!!! LOLLLL!!! I'll keep a lookout for Andre!!!
    Um, she didn't give you cash, there wouldn't be any cash coming back from me. years ago I used to know of people that sold their food stamps so they could buy things that weren't approved of and the illegal exchange rate was 1 dollar stamp for 50 cents. While I don't approve of it, that would be the most cash I would give up if I had it to spend, otherwise she would get a gift card for the amount of the food stamps(which still isn't equal but most cards can't be spent on alcohol or tobacco).





    You are right, keeping a roof over your head is a bit more important than giving up party money. If she can't understand that, I do believe it might be time to cut her loose altogether.





    Come on, when things get that bad I know people tend to run out of soap, toothpaste and toilet paper, none of which can be bought with food stamps. If nothing else go buy $75 dollars worth of Groceries and take it to her.
    You say you've paid her back with interest before, so how about paying her $80 in cash, and never borrowing again?





    You add in all kinds of unnecessary info, like being called at work when 'extremely busy', sounds like she really needs the money.





    Cash is a universal currency, so use that. You used the foodstamps for non-food, so it's allowing her to do what she wishes - with her own money, after all. And her kindness saved you from eviction, you don't seem so grateful for something that kept you off of the streets.





    Do the decent thing and just payup.





    Good luck! Rob
    No, you're not being a jerk at all....actually I would have suggested exactly the same thing. Purchase a gift card to her local grocery store.


    It's the same form of help that she gave you, she can't complain that you didn't pay her back...unless....she used $75.00 cash of her own money to make up for the food stamps she lent to you.





    Granted, I still think the gift card is the best way to go...but I'm not 100% on it.
    I don't care what kind of situation you are in, you repay the debt. And never borrow anything from a friend again...that is the quickest way to loose a friend I can think of. I have little pity here, for I have ';loaned'; so much money in my life to those down on their luck...and in each and every case, I have never been repaid...in fact, the persons who borrowed the money just dissappeared...never to be seen again. Now, I choose carefully who I ';loan'; money to...and I now consider it a gift, not a loan. There always seems to be reasons NOT to repay the loan...and you are being petty about this. Food stamps were used by you to buy food. If she had kept them, she may have sold them to raise money...that is NOT your affair or concern. The best I can offer is to buy 75.00 of food stamps from someone and give them to her as repayment...kind in kind.
    what she did was wrong she never should have lent u the money worth of food stamps if she wanted cash back and yes u should get her a grocery store giftcard lol or you can pay her back in cash and keep your friendship cool
    You never told her when you'd pay her back, so you really have as long as it takes to get the $75 together in my opinion. If she keeps on complaining I'd say do the spiteful thing and put it on a gift card.
    I understand your annoyance at her insistance on cash. But really, once you pay her back, does it really matter what she spends it on?





    She was good enough to help you out of a hole, and it's likely that you may not even pay her back in time to get to Austin. So really, why make an awkward situation worse, and give her a gift certificate which she doesn't want?





    Just give her the cash, when you can. And be grateful she was able and willing to help.
    im with john.


    she helped you out when you needed. so, pay her back when you can, and just give her the cash cause that seems all she really cares about.


    was there any agreement before as to how you would pay her back? im sure your intention was to give her cash since you were waiting for your pay.


    she helped you out, so, just give it back and dont act snippy about it and put it on a gift card, next time you need something from her, she wont help, or shell have strings attached.


    sometimes we have to do things we dont want to, and, if you want to not totally piss her off in return, you know.


    k? play nice.
    so lemme get this straight, she fed you when you were hungry and now you won't pay her back. ?? That about covers it??? Geez it must be great to be so sure of yourself that you let down someone who gave you some of their Food money....The lesson here seems to be don't borrow what you can't pay back. too bad she has to go without because of your self righteousness.
    75 bucks is 75 bucks, whatever the form it takes... thank her for her help and quit sleeping with her
    suck it up and give her the cash. it doesn't affect you and maintains a good frienship.
    Ask if you can move in with her so your paycheck can pay her back instead of going to the rent. That should give her a reality check. Don't actually go through with it if you're uncomfortable, though. You should also contact that rent agency.
    When you get the money, buy her the grocery store card. If she wants cash, she can try to sell it.


    She didn't give you cash, so I don't think you should have to give her cash back.


    I totally understand her wanting to go to pride, but she should, as a friend, show a bit more compassion for your crappy situation.
    Hi, i would pay her back in cash, she was kind enough to loan it to you, i know it was food stamps but it was a help when you needed it, don't ruin your friendship over $75, its not worth it, explain that at the moment you can not pay her back in one go but pay her back in installments

    Any advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?

    i just can't seem to fine a good guy anywhere or how i try to do to itAny advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
    Keep ur chin up. Being single isn't that bad. Don't try to hard or they will definately notice. Just be yourself and someone worthwhile will realize that you aren't trying to be somebody your not and they will respecti u for it.Any advice to a girl who is down in luck with guys?
    If you're as cute as your avatar, I wished you lived in the Philadelphia area.
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    ALL GUYS PLEASE HELP?I NEED UR ADVICE AN EASY 10 POINTS :)?

    Hey sorry if this is really fing long.


    I really like this guy hes so hot,hes sweet and hilarious i dont know if he likes me though cuz he hasnt made a move and he doesnt act like it.Were in the same class(I go to a tiny private school) and on Friday night me,two of my girl friends and he went to a scary movie in the movie i kinda held on to his arm during the scary parts and was a little flirty when we hungout the mall after(but no overly very slyly)and all my other friends left and our parents were lat so we were with eachother for 2 hours alone and at first it was a little awkward but he was rly sweet and we talked for a while but i still dont know if he likes me.Guys if you like a girl will you make a move or do you wait for the girl to make the move?and what are hints that a guy likes you?anyways its my bday party this week and he's coming its like a dance chill party and i really wanna kiss him but how?and how do i find out if he likes me?and guys whats a good outfit for me to wear';? something that he will be like oh shes look hot haha


    heres a pic of me if that helps lol :)


    http://i452.photobucket.com/albums/qq242/mauisara95/l_3e547b0951274f01b0a5d96f3aa0e51b-.jpgALL GUYS PLEASE HELP?I NEED UR ADVICE AN EASY 10 POINTS :)?
    just ask him and be yourself.ALL GUYS PLEASE HELP?I NEED UR ADVICE AN EASY 10 POINTS :)?
    AWW UR SOOO PRETTY :)


    I THINK YOU SHOULD GO SHOPPING TO GO AND BUY I BEAUTIFUL DRESS WITH HIGH HEELS AND SHOW A LITTLE OF UR BOOBIES AND DONT WEAR THAT MUCH MAKE UP GUYS HATE WHENEVER GIRLS WERE TOO MUCH MAKE UP


    TO ME U LOOK LIKE A NATURAL BEAUTY
    As I guy, I would say that you should first give him a sign that you like him. But be careful not to become too flirtitous. I mean is, give him the go signal.
    If he doesn't make a move, you are going to have to do it instead. At your party, get him alone and tell him how you feel. Take it from there. BTW, your looks should not present a problem.
    Give it a shot, you are really pretty and I am sure that he will like you back.





    Answer mine? Simple opinionated question. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
    Ask him what he thinks of you or you could be by yourself.
    Ask him to kiss u in private, so theres no pressure or embarrassment 4 ne1
    WOW WAT A BABE babygirl u fine as hell so do go 4 it ok at leest one guy will be a happy one an happy b-day to u mostly i hope its agreat one an if he dont kiss u fast then hes gay ok cause no way ud leeve this house without a kiss an if u need a way to get him to kiss u then say its 4 ur b-day type kiss ok an this is why god is a man ok cause only a man god can make one as fine as u ok wow lol lol wow, i hope u 18 or at leest i wisjhing, lol lol anyways have agood one ok girl an ub sweet, also thiers a song that has ur name called sarah so play that at ur b-day ok itll set the mood for shure an dance with him
    Okay, It's been a while but I remember your age fairly well. First off, I looked at your photo and quite frankly there is absolutely no guy on this planet who does not like you. Totally amazingly beautiful lass.





    Now here's the problem. At your age alot of guys are afraid and insecure around beautiful women. They see your beauty and think, ';Oh, there's no way she's interested in me.'; So just because he has not made a move DOES NOT mean that he does not like you. Often times they are afraid of being labeled a perv or something by making the first move.





    I was this way when I was younger. In the end there is only one way to find out. Next time you two have some time together alone just tell him, ';Hey, I think you are kinda kewl and would like to spend more time together.'; And then let the chips fall where they may.





    And what the other posts say about cosmetics is true too...Guys do not like a face that is greased up with make-up. Looks pretty but greasy on the lips yeach. And if your make up is smeared that leaves evidence for your parents to know what you been up to.
    Sometimes guys can really like a girl, but can be really worried about wether or not if they like him back. (I'm a 17 year old guy btw) If i like a girl, i love to make her laugh and look at her and smile. Like, alot of flirting you know, maybe tease her a bit by giving her a little push you know. (: Guys should usually make the first move, in my opinion, but you have to let him know you are interested. Laugh at his jokes, smile at him, say stuff like ';you're so funny'; lol, you know, that kind of thing. wear something that will show off the curves. gotta be rockin the body lol. If your dancing with him and you wanna kiss him, just look at him and lean towards him. If he's not a dumbass he should do the rest, seeing as your pretty cute and all. Good luck broski (: