Ok long story short. The first guy I met in Feb. we dated for 2 wks and then he was shipped of to Iraq. We became very very close and communicated the entire time. We even arranged for a wedding once he arrived home. While he was In Iraq I found out he had cheated on me right before he shipped out. So once I found that out we took a break from one another. While on this break I started dating another guy we have grown very close and I feel like I am falling for him. Now the old bf is in town and is wanting to patch things up. I am very torn and I know this is odd of me to ask strangers but I honestly just need some outside help. They both are great guys but I just don't wanna hurt anyone! HELP PLZ!I need some advice. I am in a dilemma with two guys. Help!?
Don't go back to the cheater no matter how nice he is or great. Go for the guy u are daiting and falling for trust me its worth it in the end.I need some advice. I am in a dilemma with two guys. Help!?
I say lose the first guy. You want someone who will be faithful to you, NO MATTER WHAT!! Give the new guy a shot and see what happens.
You moved on from the first boyfriend. Don't try to go back in time. It very rarely works. He cheated on you, you found out, and ended it. Don't start it again.
THE QUESTION IS WHY R U EVEN COSIDERING THIS IRAQ GUY AGAIN? HE CHEATED ON U!!! STICK WIT IS NEW GUY. HE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING FOR U NOT TO TRUST HER, HAS HE? BUT IN THE END ONLY U CAN FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
only time can tell with the prob... the current guy sounds like your type... give the other guy your friendship.. it will tell him that you don't hate him too much but don't love him anymore... it tells him you have moved on to better and greater things.... good luck
once a cheat always a cheat,,and why spare his feelings he hurt u didnt he?,,go with number2
Take it slow and date them both, after all he was the one who screwed up...and could repeat his actions again!!!!
You need time and space to get a better handle about who is the better partner for you, and I'm sure they both need the same to be sure about you.
The last thing you would want to do is spontaneously pick one of them to marry, only to find yourself in a divorce court within a years time. My husband had a colorful past with 4 ex-wives and a package of new girls he was dating before me, I chose to give it some time and when we were sure of each other I still chose the 5yr plan, which was to live with him for 5yrs then maybe I'd consider marriage. As it turned out we did marry 5yrs and 2 kids later which lasted for 26yrs in total.
Hope this helps you....Good Luck!!!!!
once they cheat you can never really trust them again, chances are he will cheat again, but the question is can you really trust him enough again to give him another chance? the time he did will always be in your head and you will always wonder whear he is and what he is doing if hes not with you. id give this other guy a chance. good luck tho..
hmm cheater.... ya think?
Friday, January 8, 2010
Hi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
Last week i was having some problems with my bf,he did not call or answer any of my calls,so now we are back again everything seem okay after i had a talk with him. did u think that he is doing all of this because he wants to save our relationship or he is just doing it to make me feel better. he did not take any of my calls did not even come to see me but i have complained everything is cool again.i know that u wouldn't understand what i am saying to u but that is the way it is. can i stress myself about the whole thing or must i wait and see what is going to happen between myself and him.
please don't be rude when answering this
kind regard.Hi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
hmm talk to each otherHi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
Hi I found this question a little confusing. But I will say this, Guys are not that complicated if they say they are ok then they usually are. We tend to think that they a like us and saying we are ok about something actually could mean a hundred different things.
wait and see
not sure what the problems were last week....but for him not to call or answer your calls...seems like he needed some breathing space*
with you being back together, perhaps he's giving you a second chance ....
whatever you did for him to STOP talking with you...DONT do that again*
goodluck*
you may want to give him a dose of indifference. One of two things should happen--1. he's doing something he shouldn't be doing and it gives him the excuse he's looking for to get out. 2. he will understand what he has and start paying better attention before he loses it forever.
Either way, you may want to start getting indifferent out of self preservation.
take each day as it comes and try 2 enjoy your self.try to give him a bit of space and let him make some effort with the relationship as well.
He is back, for now . . . you need to think about what it was that caused him to walk out in the first place. Take it easy on him for a while, your relationship is in a fragile state right now and he could easily walk out again at your first fight. Don't spend your time stressing, work on it.
Just the facts Don`t ad-lib, but is sounds as though he needs space. Ask him why, we really don`t know unless we know more. Sorry.
Be honest with him,ask him why he blanked you.
If you really like him take each day as it comes but don't do anything you will regret
I reckon you should try just not calling him. He should start to call you instead. Doing this will give him some space, which maybe what he wants.
please don't be rude when answering this
kind regard.Hi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
hmm talk to each otherHi guys is me again please give me your advice on this one i really need to know what is he thinking.thanks.?
Hi I found this question a little confusing. But I will say this, Guys are not that complicated if they say they are ok then they usually are. We tend to think that they a like us and saying we are ok about something actually could mean a hundred different things.
wait and see
not sure what the problems were last week....but for him not to call or answer your calls...seems like he needed some breathing space*
with you being back together, perhaps he's giving you a second chance ....
whatever you did for him to STOP talking with you...DONT do that again*
goodluck*
you may want to give him a dose of indifference. One of two things should happen--1. he's doing something he shouldn't be doing and it gives him the excuse he's looking for to get out. 2. he will understand what he has and start paying better attention before he loses it forever.
Either way, you may want to start getting indifferent out of self preservation.
take each day as it comes and try 2 enjoy your self.try to give him a bit of space and let him make some effort with the relationship as well.
He is back, for now . . . you need to think about what it was that caused him to walk out in the first place. Take it easy on him for a while, your relationship is in a fragile state right now and he could easily walk out again at your first fight. Don't spend your time stressing, work on it.
Just the facts Don`t ad-lib, but is sounds as though he needs space. Ask him why, we really don`t know unless we know more. Sorry.
Be honest with him,ask him why he blanked you.
If you really like him take each day as it comes but don't do anything you will regret
I reckon you should try just not calling him. He should start to call you instead. Doing this will give him some space, which maybe what he wants.
I need some advice on how to react to a guys saying rude comments to me...help?
Okay so Im 15 years old and i am about to go into high school and I am extremlly tall like 5foot11 and in middle school i was picked on because of it and like i was really skinny. But now lately instead of getting picked on by guys im getting hit on. I am honestly not use to it. Like I dont want to be mean but i find it disrespectful when the first thing out of a guys mouth is something like 'ur hot' and 'u got sexi' its making me mad! When they say something like that to me I tell them thats disrespectful and they call me a stuck up little virgin! What should I do?I need some advice on how to react to a guys saying rude comments to me...help?
omg ME TOO!! i'm 5'8 and going into high school and I was teased in 6th and 7th grade (not so much 8th) and now in the summer, I'm getting hit on by so many perverts and I'm not that used to it.
but anyways, what I usually do is ignore them and they usually leave me alone. Don't say anything smart or mean because you don't want to get into a fight with them.
but if they say something nice like ';you're so beautiful'; just say thank you and walk away.I need some advice on how to react to a guys saying rude comments to me...help?
I would calmly turn to them and say ';well, at I'm still a virgin and not the slut you wish you were banging when you sleep in your race car bed';
or ';just leave me alone and how dare you talk to me like that? I'm a lady and you are making me uncomfortable,''
everytime a guy says that to me or any of my friends we normally just walk away.
theres no point to even waste your time on them.
girls in highschool dont want to date immature guys. and theyre going to find that out when school starts again that theyre going to have to mature because thats what girls want.
LOL yeah well get some funny comebacks cause guys are gonna be like that.
As a reply to ';you got sexy'; say ';you didn't';
Just be a *****. Don't lecture them on being disrespectful because they're gonna make fun of you and not take you seriously.
im short and im used to get pick on because of that but them the other girls got taller then the biys so then they started hitting on me.
i gave them the finger and walked away
you can be like ';at least i dont have so much sex to populate another planet';
mines?
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don't pay attention to em just do you i know those type of things can make you mad but that's what most guys do they make stupid or sexual comments. Some take it as a compliment though...
the same thing happened to me. just say thank you and ignore their comment. dont let it get to you. they are just saying what you really are ! hope i helped.
just say you have a boyfriend. they might back off and might not. but just keep saying it they'll get it eventually. but dont say it rudely.
If they call you a stuck up virgin tell them that there male sl uts and they will get aids before theyre 20
stop complaining hold you head high and take the compliment.
tell them **** you ***** kik their asses
omg ME TOO!! i'm 5'8 and going into high school and I was teased in 6th and 7th grade (not so much 8th) and now in the summer, I'm getting hit on by so many perverts and I'm not that used to it.
but anyways, what I usually do is ignore them and they usually leave me alone. Don't say anything smart or mean because you don't want to get into a fight with them.
but if they say something nice like ';you're so beautiful'; just say thank you and walk away.I need some advice on how to react to a guys saying rude comments to me...help?
I would calmly turn to them and say ';well, at I'm still a virgin and not the slut you wish you were banging when you sleep in your race car bed';
or ';just leave me alone and how dare you talk to me like that? I'm a lady and you are making me uncomfortable,''
everytime a guy says that to me or any of my friends we normally just walk away.
theres no point to even waste your time on them.
girls in highschool dont want to date immature guys. and theyre going to find that out when school starts again that theyre going to have to mature because thats what girls want.
LOL yeah well get some funny comebacks cause guys are gonna be like that.
As a reply to ';you got sexy'; say ';you didn't';
Just be a *****. Don't lecture them on being disrespectful because they're gonna make fun of you and not take you seriously.
im short and im used to get pick on because of that but them the other girls got taller then the biys so then they started hitting on me.
i gave them the finger and walked away
you can be like ';at least i dont have so much sex to populate another planet';
mines?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
don't pay attention to em just do you i know those type of things can make you mad but that's what most guys do they make stupid or sexual comments. Some take it as a compliment though...
the same thing happened to me. just say thank you and ignore their comment. dont let it get to you. they are just saying what you really are ! hope i helped.
just say you have a boyfriend. they might back off and might not. but just keep saying it they'll get it eventually. but dont say it rudely.
If they call you a stuck up virgin tell them that there male sl uts and they will get aids before theyre 20
stop complaining hold you head high and take the compliment.
tell them **** you ***** kik their asses
So...i need advice...on this plze both girls and guys respond thanks...';future'; question?
So....I have been with this guy for almoxt 4 monthes...we were friends before we started going out...but we u know would hook up...and in that time he would tell me how he saw himself either marrying his ex or me....now we are together, he tells me that he sees us having a ';future'; and when something happens that i am thinking about breaking up, he brings up the whole future together and goes on about how he sees me and how i hold ';all the qualities that he looks for in a woman';...but tells me he is afriad to love because he has been hurt before...I just want to know is he just saying this stuff to get me to stay...or is he serious? cause im afraid to feel for him more because im not sure if he will love me backSo...i need advice...on this plze both girls and guys respond thanks...';future'; question?
honestly, i think he doesn't love you. he might just be saying those things to stay close to you. if you're really his ideal woman, he wouldn't be saying things like ';i'm afraid to love';. when you love someone, you take your chances for them, regardless of the risk of being hurt. it seems like he's not showing that kind of effort. it makes him even more suspicious because of the past things you guys have done when you weren't together. however, time changes people. give it like a few weeks or a month, set a time where you evaluate whether he loves you or not. make your decision from there. good luck :]
honestly, i think he doesn't love you. he might just be saying those things to stay close to you. if you're really his ideal woman, he wouldn't be saying things like ';i'm afraid to love';. when you love someone, you take your chances for them, regardless of the risk of being hurt. it seems like he's not showing that kind of effort. it makes him even more suspicious because of the past things you guys have done when you weren't together. however, time changes people. give it like a few weeks or a month, set a time where you evaluate whether he loves you or not. make your decision from there. good luck :]
I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
I have trust issues and I don't like the idea of relationships. I think there's so much more to life. people are more stressed in relationships then they are without them and everyone always ends up breaking up then they do it all over again. I've decided to spend my life doing other things.
there are 3 guys I've been getting to know...trying to be friends with...but they want to take it further. we never hooked up or had sex or anything. one of them even followed me into the library after I flicked him off (he laughed and said I had ';fuq you'; written all over my face). he sat across from me and had his book upside down while he stared at me. I tried going to school in baggy sweatpants with my hair messy and that didn't work.
I am not interested in a relationship. I'm not pretending to be gay to keep them away. I don't know what to do.
How should I keep them away?
Why are they still trying to get with me if I've told them I don't want a boyfriend?
thanks, I appreciate the help!I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Hang with another friend at all times.Sometimes the second woman will get the message through for you...Male intuition..acne treatment
there are 3 guys I've been getting to know...trying to be friends with...but they want to take it further. we never hooked up or had sex or anything. one of them even followed me into the library after I flicked him off (he laughed and said I had ';fuq you'; written all over my face). he sat across from me and had his book upside down while he stared at me. I tried going to school in baggy sweatpants with my hair messy and that didn't work.
I am not interested in a relationship. I'm not pretending to be gay to keep them away. I don't know what to do.
How should I keep them away?
Why are they still trying to get with me if I've told them I don't want a boyfriend?
thanks, I appreciate the help!I NEED MALE ADVICE!!I keep trying to keep these guys away but they only try harder!!?
Hang with another friend at all times.Sometimes the second woman will get the message through for you...Male intuition..
GUYS (or girls) -- i want to ask him out!......advice PLEASE!?
2day me %26amp; matt got put in the same group 4 a HUGE science project. i think that's b a good time 2 talk 2 him 'cause none of my friends are w/ me. but what should i say??? here's the story:
me %26amp; matt liked each other last yr but it didn't work out 'cause my friends were always getting in the way %26amp; insulting him %26amp; stuff.
i think he might still like me but's afraid my friends will start the drama again. (oh, %26amp; he knows i still like him)
i was gonna ask him out 2day but 1st i told 1 of my friends who i trusted and she was like ';Matt! She has something 2 ask u!!!!!!!!!!!'; so i was like ';Shh!! what r u talking about?GUYS (or girls) -- i want to ask him out!......advice PLEASE!?
love should be a decision u make for urself, not for others...u just have some annoying friends thats allGUYS (or girls) -- i want to ask him out!......advice PLEASE!?
well if their ur ';friends'; then i dont think they would insult someone you are interested in considering after a few years they probably wont be anyway. But its a matter of whats important to you the guy or your friends because you wont let go of whichever it is. :)
It is true for normal customs the guy askes the girl or there is an obvious connection he then askes, if the girl asks first the man will know she likes him, and if he likes you he will say yes, or no because you caught him off guard, or he'll say no and ask you later, to be the man.
I think your friends are jealous. If you explain the situation maybe he will be ready for your friends with answers.
The good thing is he already knows your feelings. I am sure he will be expecting something coming from your side and who knows he himself might ask you out!!
Just take it easy, see how it goes and make your move.
find him where there is nobody around and get down in front of him and let your mouth and your tongue express how u really feel
dont be peered pressured by your friends. tell them how you feel and if they dont understand just dont talk to them for about a couple of days then try again except with more attitude.
i would leave my friends out of it if i was you! instead of just asking him out i would start talking to him about last year and say you'r really sorry it didnt work out and your sorry about all of the drama! if he knows you still like him, then wait for him to make the first move. guys like to chase the girl. it might be hard, i know, but just continue to flirt with him and dont get your friends involved! dont rush anything...he will ask you out when the time is right...good luck!
me %26amp; matt liked each other last yr but it didn't work out 'cause my friends were always getting in the way %26amp; insulting him %26amp; stuff.
i think he might still like me but's afraid my friends will start the drama again. (oh, %26amp; he knows i still like him)
i was gonna ask him out 2day but 1st i told 1 of my friends who i trusted and she was like ';Matt! She has something 2 ask u!!!!!!!!!!!'; so i was like ';Shh!! what r u talking about?GUYS (or girls) -- i want to ask him out!......advice PLEASE!?
love should be a decision u make for urself, not for others...u just have some annoying friends thats allGUYS (or girls) -- i want to ask him out!......advice PLEASE!?
well if their ur ';friends'; then i dont think they would insult someone you are interested in considering after a few years they probably wont be anyway. But its a matter of whats important to you the guy or your friends because you wont let go of whichever it is. :)
It is true for normal customs the guy askes the girl or there is an obvious connection he then askes, if the girl asks first the man will know she likes him, and if he likes you he will say yes, or no because you caught him off guard, or he'll say no and ask you later, to be the man.
I think your friends are jealous. If you explain the situation maybe he will be ready for your friends with answers.
The good thing is he already knows your feelings. I am sure he will be expecting something coming from your side and who knows he himself might ask you out!!
Just take it easy, see how it goes and make your move.
find him where there is nobody around and get down in front of him and let your mouth and your tongue express how u really feel
dont be peered pressured by your friends. tell them how you feel and if they dont understand just dont talk to them for about a couple of days then try again except with more attitude.
i would leave my friends out of it if i was you! instead of just asking him out i would start talking to him about last year and say you'r really sorry it didnt work out and your sorry about all of the drama! if he knows you still like him, then wait for him to make the first move. guys like to chase the girl. it might be hard, i know, but just continue to flirt with him and dont get your friends involved! dont rush anything...he will ask you out when the time is right...good luck!
Kinda long, Need some advice, Is this a pregnancy? Thank you guys!?
December had my period from the fourth to the tenth. Fiance and I had intercourse the 11,12,13,14, and 15 and he ejaculated in me each time. We had intercourse through out December I just did not mark the days. About a week after, I have the most sore breasts, very tired and slight cramps, than on the 26 of December I started what I thought was another period. This is very unusual for me. It ended on the first of January. I took a test on the second and the fourth of January, two days before and the day of my missed period, both came out negative. My question is, I still have not recieved my monthly gift, my period. On the seventh, I went to the restroom and whenI wiped I noticed 1-2 clumps of dark red blood, but nothing afterwords. Could that have been my period? Just extra light? Last week I did start having sore boobs again, I get cramps right above my pelvic bone, very light ones, and I am so moody and emotional. I get that feeling like right before you start your period, every day and I always think I am about to start, but I dont. I also have yellowish whitish like milky discharge, I just got a yearly exame in the start of December, I did not have an std, it has no smell to it.
Could I be pregnant?
What does it sound like? Thanks so much you guys! Baby dust to you all!
As I am not sure where I should put this, I did put it in a few different sections.Kinda long, Need some advice, Is this a pregnancy? Thank you guys!?
I've never been pregnant but from what I read, it sounds like you certainly could be. Test again in a few days. The blood could have been implantation bleeding, apparently that's normal. Good luck!Kinda long, Need some advice, Is this a pregnancy? Thank you guys!?
I do not believe that you are pregnant. If your days of your period is correct, and you have had signs of blood, wheather its light or not. Its still means its a period. If you are having discharge, then you could have some bacteria inf going on, without odor. Also, you are planning conception wrg Report Abuse
If your period came on the fourth. Count from the fourth (if you are regular) 4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,鈥?Your ovulation was on the 17th. However, you're possibly fertile around the 14th. But your egg was released on the 17th. I work in OB and thats my thought on your situation. Report Abuse
yes indeed you are pregnant you have all the symptom do you eat a lot or hardly at all go to your doctor and get tested because there test are more Professionally done and you will get the result you are looking for
Its soo weird cause i had AF on Dec 3 and still nothing Go to the doctors and let us know! It sound like you are! Baby Dust to you!
hi hun sounds like you are pregnant yellow discharge could be a sign that you are pregnant good luck and loadsa bdust to you x x
Could I be pregnant?
What does it sound like? Thanks so much you guys! Baby dust to you all!
As I am not sure where I should put this, I did put it in a few different sections.Kinda long, Need some advice, Is this a pregnancy? Thank you guys!?
I've never been pregnant but from what I read, it sounds like you certainly could be. Test again in a few days. The blood could have been implantation bleeding, apparently that's normal. Good luck!Kinda long, Need some advice, Is this a pregnancy? Thank you guys!?
I do not believe that you are pregnant. If your days of your period is correct, and you have had signs of blood, wheather its light or not. Its still means its a period. If you are having discharge, then you could have some bacteria inf going on, without odor. Also, you are planning conception wrg Report Abuse
If your period came on the fourth. Count from the fourth (if you are regular) 4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,鈥?Your ovulation was on the 17th. However, you're possibly fertile around the 14th. But your egg was released on the 17th. I work in OB and thats my thought on your situation. Report Abuse
yes indeed you are pregnant you have all the symptom do you eat a lot or hardly at all go to your doctor and get tested because there test are more Professionally done and you will get the result you are looking for
Its soo weird cause i had AF on Dec 3 and still nothing Go to the doctors and let us know! It sound like you are! Baby Dust to you!
hi hun sounds like you are pregnant yellow discharge could be a sign that you are pregnant good luck and loadsa bdust to you x x
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